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Child Loss

A Day in the Heart of a Grieving Mom

Dee Incollingo | Posted 01.28.2016 | Healthy Living
Dee Incollingo

he world will never realize what it takes to get through a day in the heart of a grieving mother. Self pity? Spend a day in Suzy-Q's heart before you decide.

After I Buried My Son, I Learned to Grieve With Hope

Melanie DeSimone | Posted 01.20.2016 | Healthy Living
Melanie DeSimone

Have you grieved the too-soon, unexpected, violent end of your hopes and dreams without a chance to say, "good-bye"? Do you stand over the patch of dirt that now covers the buried body of your son and wonder how this happened?

How Did He Die?

Kathleen B. Duncan | Posted 01.19.2016 | Healthy Living
Kathleen B. Duncan

What matters is that the parents are hurting. They loved their son. They thought he was wonderful! They loved every bit of him! They had dreams! They loved hearing him play music and laugh! Oh, how they loved his laugh!

Loving the Grieving Heart

Melanie DeSimone | Posted 01.04.2016 | Religion
Melanie DeSimone

If you love someone who has lost a child, perhaps these thoughts might help you understand a bit of their pain and how completely it changes the way we who have encounter the world.

A Plea From Those Mourning A Child During The Holidays

Seleni Institute | Posted 12.23.2015 | Parents
Seleni Institute

I want friends and family to remember Hudson. It's the wish of all parents who have lost children. To bring them into the present the only way we can, in our memory and in our actions. So I ask friends that no matter how many Christmases pass, please acknowledge our loss each year.

To The Mother Of A Rainbow Baby

Heather Spohr | Posted 10.27.2015 | Parents
Heather Spohr

Every day, you'll love your babies -- all of them -- just a little bit more, until one day, that love overtakes the pain.

To the One Whose Arms are Aching

Lexi Behrndt | Posted 10.14.2015 | Parents
Lexi Behrndt

Sweet friend. have to tell you. You're doing an incredible job. I know it doesn't feel like it. I know you feel like you can barely function and I know you think that you are failing at life, but listen. You're still standing. You're still breathing, and from someone who knows the pain, I know how hard even that is to do some days.

If There Were Greeting Cards For Grief

Heather Spohr | Posted 07.15.2015 | Parents
Heather Spohr

It might sound crazy, but I think there is definitely room for realistic and humorous cards for parents who've lost children. In a situation where no one really knows what to say, it's nice to let a card do the talking.

This Is Me Trying To Take On Motherhood

Andi Wickman | Posted 06.12.2015 | Parents
Andi Wickman

Before I was a mother, I was teaching English in Taipei, driving through Slovenia, taking sake bombs in Japan, sipping absinthe in Paris, dancing on bars in Austin and in bomb shelters in Jerusalem. I even swam with fish in Croatia. Sitting still has never been my thing.

One Year After My Daughter's Death

Jeremy Krashin | Posted 06.08.2015 | Parents
Jeremy Krashin

She's in the playroom when Goldie plays. She's by my side while I'm working at my office. She's on Julie's shoulder while her and Goldie play at the playground.

What You Can't Tell From Looking At My Pregnant Belly

Ravishly | Posted 06.05.2015 | Parents

I don't feel the ultimate rush of happiness when someone wants to know all about this baby I hold my breath for. I often just feel like crying. I don't know how to tell them our story without having to face their fears, too. You are my worst nightmare, their eyes tell me. I know.

How I'm Remembering Joe Biden's Kindness -- And Returning It

Mandy Hitchcock | Posted 06.08.2015 | Parents
Mandy Hitchcock

Joe Biden sent us a note five years ago when he heard about my daughter's death, even though he certainly had an infinite number of other things to do. As a bereaved parent and spouse, he understood that he could help change the sensation of the pain simply by bearing witness to it.

Biden's Burden: Loss Pays Another Visit

Barry David Kluger | Posted 05.31.2015 | Politics
Barry David Kluger

The country is saddened, and party doesn't matter. We all share the family's loss because it can happen to any one of us. It did to me, and while I know some friends and FB acquaintances are tired of my efforts to bring child loss to the national discussion, the loss of Beau Biden compels us to talk about it.

Why I Talk About My Stillbirth

Alana Rosenstein | Posted 05.27.2015 | Women
Alana Rosenstein

When I was pregnant or trying to conceive, I hated hearing stories about pregnancy loss and stillbirth. It wasn't just because I felt sad for the families involved (though I certainly did); I wanted to pretend that such losses didn't happen to women like me.

5 Ways to Support a Family Expecting a Rainbow Baby

Jennifer Canvasser | Posted 05.11.2015 | Parents
Jennifer Canvasser

If you know a mama expecting a rainbow baby, one of the most beautiful things you can do is sensitively validate her feelings, and empathetically follow her lead. I am so grateful to my family and friends who've done just this, and in doing so, have allowed me to celebrate the rainbow in my belly, honor the angel in my heart, and cherish the sweet child in my arms.

Trying to Celebrate Mother's Day When The Mothering Is Rough

Carrie Goldman | Posted 05.08.2015 | Parents
Carrie Goldman

I don't feel like the World's Best Mother. I feel like a mother who is filled with doubts right now. A mother who is asking questions for which there may not be clear answers.

Mother's Day After Losing a Child

Phyllis Sudman | Posted 05.05.2015 | Parents
Phyllis Sudman

I never got to celebrate a Mother's Day with Simon. He arrived just before Thanksgiving and left right after the New Year. However, the legacy he left for our family and others will forever be celebrated and cherished on days like Sunday.

7 Ways to Remember the Hurting Mothers This Mother's Day

Lexi Behrndt | Posted 06.30.2015 | Parents
Lexi Behrndt

This life can be unkind, but together, we can make it a little safer place for the hurting mothers on this Mother's Day. If you have a hurting mother in your life -- whether they be a friend or family, make this day a little easier to bear for them. Remember them. Acknowledge them.

Wes the Extra Ordinary

Ashbey Riley | Posted 06.07.2015 | Parents
Ashbey Riley

During his last moments, when it looked as though he had taken his last breath and his parents crumpled with grief, he rallied and breathed again to give them more time. This was the kind of wonderful boy Wes was.

Happy Birthday, Jack! Anna Whiston-Donaldson On Losing a Child

Melanie Bishop | Posted 05.18.2015 | Books
Melanie Bishop

Today Jack would've turned 16. Had he not been swept up by a flooding creek in a friend's backyard in September of 2011, Jack would be with his mom and dad, sister and cousins and friends tonight, celebrating his sweet 16.

Our Silence Only Strengthens Our Suffering

Justine Brooks Froelker | Posted 05.16.2015 | Parents
Justine Brooks Froelker

If you stay silent, I can pretty much guarantee it will be difficult to find the support and love you will so need in this lifelong journey of loss and recovery.

Things to Know When Your Friend Loses a Baby

Tara Shafer | Posted 03.28.2015 | Parents
Tara Shafer

Mourning loss is healthy. It promotes integration of normal and understandable grief. When women are unable to access helpful social networks, however, complicated grief may present.

How We're Celebrating Our Twins' Third Birthday When One of Our Birthday Boys Is No Longer Here

Jennifer Canvasser | Posted 03.16.2015 | Parents
Jennifer Canvasser

I own the heartache of Micah. I celebrate Micah, speak his name, and share his story in ways that bring me peace. I love that I can now confidently and calmly say: It is Micah and Zachary's birthday.

Learning to Live Again After Losing a Child

Dr. Gail Gross | Posted 02.28.2015 | Parents
Dr. Gail Gross

No parent ever completely recovers from the loss of a child. After all, this child was part of you and when your child dies, it forever alters the way in which you define your past, your present and your future.

The Miracle On 34th Street- 1 Year Later

Patrice Bendig | Posted 02.05.2015 | Good News
Patrice Bendig

The most appropriate thing I can do to commemorate Weston's transplant anniversary is to urge others to be part of a miracle for a family waiting for the life-saving gift of organ and tissue donation.