Communication

The 4 Most Important Conversations To Have Before Marriage

Lamar Tyler | Posted 05.30.2012

Lamar Tyler

Before your heart takes you away you need to sit down and have a discussion to make sure the plans that you both have are the same or at least similar.

What Fifty Shades Of Grey Can Teach Us About Divorce

Laura Campbell | Posted 05.29.2012

Laura Campbell

Fifty Shades Of Grey, which many say is simply erotica for the middle aged, is really a love story, and one that touches upon the very core of what effortless, extraordinary love is all about."

Ultimatums and the Irrational Economics of Relationships

Cristen Conger | Posted 05.18.2012

Cristen Conger

To puzzle out whether this kind of romantic bargaining is worth the risk, it might be wiser to consult an economist than a relationship expert.

What It's Like To Be A Sex Worker In Love

Kitty Stryker | Posted 05.17.2012

Kitty Stryker

The media says that if you are a person in the sex industry, even one who consensually entered sex work, you will always have to make a choice between love and work. Sex workers, you see, cannot afford to love. I say that's crap.

What To Do When Someone Asks For A Favor

Daniel Gulati | Posted 05.14.2012

Daniel Gulati

By qualifying those who ask for favors, you've designed a system that is both effective and efficient: You're quickly identifying those who most want your help, you're not ignoring or denying anyone, and importantly, you're preserving your own valuable time.

Is the Media's ADD Hurting Our Country?

Abby Huntsman | Posted 05.13.2012

Abby Huntsman

So, here we are: a world of commentators, Tweeters, bloggers, and citizens with one of the most powerful tools developed in the history of mankind (the Internet) at our fingertips, literally, but how do we plan to use it? And, what is our collective responsibility?

Making Connections: Being Kind To Strangers

Eli Davidson | Posted 05.12.2012

Eli Davidson

How often have we each been so embroiled in our own petty dramas that we breeze past someone in trouble? My hand is raised. How about yours?

A New Survey Sheds Light on 'The Seven Year Itch'

Vivian Diller, Ph.D. | Posted 05.14.2012

Vivian Diller, Ph.D.

Caring for our looks is important not only in prolonging our physical and emotional health as we age, but in maintaining mutual attraction in our relationships.

Everything We Know About Gender Communication Is Wrong

Ekaterina Walter | Posted 05.08.2012

Ekaterina Walter

Lots of women like to chat about their feelings. Lots of men don't. But the minute we start insisting that men are this way and women are that way, we actually understand each other less.

How To Regain Intimacy In A World Of Technology

Stephanie Sarkis, Ph.D. | Posted 05.04.2012

Stephanie Sarkis, Ph.D.

Being able to communicate at the speed of light is great -- but there is little intimacy in that communication. True intimacy comes from face-to-face time.

When It Rains, You Get Wet

Deborah Schoeberlein | Posted 05.03.2012

Deborah Schoeberlein

When it rains, we get wet. But we don't have to linger in the downpour, and there's no reason to drown. So what to do in the rainy season of spring or the tearful times of life? A few simple strategies can help.

Bullying at Work

Tom Fox | Posted 05.01.2012

Tom Fox

Bullying in the workplace can come in the form of veiled threats or derogatory statements meant to intimidate or coerce an employee.

When Worms Fail Me

Melinda Wentzel | Posted 04.30.2012

Melinda Wentzel

I've made a solemn pledge to engage my daughters in conversation each day -- to stop whatever it is I happen to be doing and tune into their respective worlds.

Five Communication Literacies You Need to Know

Karl Gude | Posted 04.28.2012

Karl Gude

Nowadays, to successfully capture and hold people's attention to sell them something, get them to donate for a cause or just entertain them you need to have a command of five critical communication illiteracies.

A New Form Of Communication Where You Don't Have To Talk

The Huffington Post | Gazelle Emami | Posted 04.19.2012

Introverts, rejoice! A new app is pioneering a form of communication that doesn't require you to speak at all. The MotionPhone app, just released for ...

Campus Community Needs Fewer Walls in Order to Succeed

The Crimson White | Posted 04.18.2012

The Crimson White

Many of us have lost a sense of community. We have willingly given it up. But whether we know it or not, we still need it.

How To Spring Clean Your Relationships

HelloGiggles | Posted 04.10.2012

Spring Cleaning, loved by some and dreaded by others, is the annual major cleaning of your home that happens - wait for it - in the Spring. Since we'r...

Trayvon Martin And The Muted Voice of the Mainline Church

Rev. Larry Hollon | Posted 04.05.2012

Rev. Larry Hollon

My friend was troubled by the apparent silence of the churches. In fact, this was a misperception born of the lack of visibility of the leaders in the mainline tradition who had spoken out.

Technology Killed Neighbors, Kindness

The Daily Collegian | Posted 04.03.2012

The Daily Collegian

Technology is at our fingertips every moment of the day, and we're losing sight of our old ways. We can connect more with someone who is halfway across the world than someone who goes to the same school.

The Key To Making Long-Distance Relationships Work

Posted 04.03.2012

Minneapolis: First, you best be certain, but don't over-think that. I don't mean a lifetime commitment. I'm not saying you've found "the one." Simply,...

Don't Believe Everything You Hear

Darina Kagan | Posted 05.29.2012

Darina Kagan

America: the land of slogans, phrases, "You know what they say"s, and jingles, where a person can spew off a verse to a jingle and immediately associa...

If You're not Smooching, You're Loosing... A Beleaguered Male's Perspective

David Wilson | Posted 05.28.2012

David Wilson

Smooching, when meshed with the intimacy of sex, has the dynamic propensity to keep your relationship strong.

Drop Tart Tone

Rick Hanson, Ph.D. | Posted 05.28.2012

Rick Hanson, Ph.D.

People are more sensitive to tone than to the explicit content of spoken or written language. To paraphrase the poet Maya Angelou, people will forget what you said, but they'll remember how you made them feel.

How To Cock-Up A Cocktail Conversation

Evan Bailyn | Posted 05.26.2012

Evan Bailyn

Completely ruining your own conversational aims takes surprisingly little time. All you have to do is master one foolproof tactic: never, ever allow people a glimpse of who you really are.

His Selective Communication, Explained

Yashar Ali | Posted 05.26.2012

Yashar Ali

Just like when you go to a cafeteria and walk around, picking and choosing what you want to eat, men are only selecting and responding to the messages and responses that appeal to them most.