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The Worst Piece Of Divorce Advice I've Ever Heard

Jackie Pilossoph | Posted 09.02.2015 | Divorce
Jackie Pilossoph

There is no good breakup. Everyone is walking away hurt, angry, scared and though I hate to say it, maybe a little bitter.

Parenting Only Children After Divorce

Samantha Rodman PhD | Posted 08.25.2015 | Divorce
Samantha Rodman PhD

Divorce may be particularly difficult for only children. This is true for children without any siblings as well as virtual only children, those who are separated by seven or more years from their closest sibling. Children with special-needs siblings can also feel like only children, particularly if the sibling is unable to engage interpersonally.

Goodnight Moon, Goodnight Parenting, Goodnight Guilt: How To Be A Better Parent Than You Have Ever Been

Margaret Hession | Posted 08.13.2015 | Parents
Margaret Hession

To somehow yoke the term parenting with the concept of an obstacle course of terrors seems somewhat frightening, and honestly an unlikely partnership of sorts. And yet, ironically, this description actually comes close to describing the profound mystery of parenting Americans are faced almost every day.

Summer, Back to School and Divorce

Dr. Kate Roberts | Posted 08.10.2015 | Divorce
Dr. Kate Roberts

The fact that the boys are completely camp sick today doesn't bother me, but it makes returning to the mundane world of simple etiquette -- gas is for the bathroom and car only, chores, and back to school feel like a mild form of torture, on both sides -- mine and theirs.

5 Things Dads Can Do to Help After a Divorce

Michelle Matthews | Posted 08.04.2015 | Divorce
Michelle Matthews

Divorce brings with it many challenges but none is more challenging than trying to negotiate/navigate the world of co-parenting with your ex-spouse.

How Far Will You Go "For the Best Interest of the Child"?

Jessica Denis | Posted 07.24.2015 | Divorce
Jessica Denis

Is it odd and unconventional and hard to explain to new people who enter MY life, yes it is. However; I wouldn't change any of it. To see my daughter smile, to see my friend happy and to see my ex find the love he deserves makes me happy.

The 4 Times I've Missed Having a Parenting Partner

Lindsey Light | Posted 07.15.2015 | Divorce
Lindsey Light

While there is often a lot of discussion about how difficult single parenthood can be, it seems we often focus on the logistics--how to take care of everyone and still have a social life, how to be a good parent and develop a career at the same time, how to budget as a single parent. But there is an emotional burden that is often overlooked.

Want to Make Sure Your Kids Get Over the Divorce? First, Let Them Go Through It

Anastasia Higginbotham | Posted 06.25.2015 | Divorce
Anastasia Higginbotham

Just as sex education doesn't "give" young people the idea to have sex, acknowledging that divorce is disruptive, life-changing and often hard isn't what makes it so.

Divorce Is Final But Kids Tie You Together Forever

MiddleSexy | Posted 06.17.2015 | Divorce
MiddleSexy

So here's the thing about divorce, if you have children together: Your marriage may be over but your interactions will never end. There will be birthday parties and graduations. Weddings and grandchildren.

What Being A Stepmom Taught Me About Co-Parenting

Lindsey Light | Posted 06.01.2015 | Divorce
Lindsey Light

Before I was divorced, before I became a mother biologically, I was a stepmom. This was not an easy role to tackle. Here are some ways that my role as a stepmom prepared me for my role as the ex-wife.

The Parenting Relay Race

Ashlee Gadd | Posted 05.29.2015 | Parents
Ashlee Gadd

We're learning the ins and outs of our own exhaustion, our own debilitating frustration, our own shortcomings as parents. We're learning to read each other better, to understand the different types of tired, to notice the I-can't-do-this-anymore looks on each other's faces.

But Mommy, You'll Be Alone

Laura Lifshitz | Posted 05.12.2015 | Divorce
Laura Lifshitz

On Mother's Day, I said goodbye to my dog. She didn't die. No, she's still alive and perky at almost eleven years old, but I gave her to my ex-husband.

Why I Chose My Ex's New Wife Over My Friends

Shelley Wetton | Posted 05.11.2015 | Divorce
Shelley Wetton

I realized I needed a positive relationship with my ex and his fiancé, if not for my own sanity, for my child's future.

6 Steps To A Peaceful Divorce

Laura Lifshitz | Posted 05.06.2015 | Divorce
Laura Lifshitz

That statement in itself seems contradictory. A divorce is a total dissolution of a relationship and maybe even a family. Destruction. A collapse. How could something initially so sad--yet sometimes so happy--be considered peaceful? Here's how.

How Should I Talk About My Ex's New Partner To My Kids?

Samantha Rodman PhD | Posted 06.30.2015 | Divorce
Samantha Rodman PhD

There are plenty of ways to ensure that your kids have the best transition possible, and one of them is letting go of what you cannot and should not control.

A Thank You To The Ex-Mother-In-Law Who Didn't Like Me

Laura Lifshitz | Posted 06.29.2015 | Divorce
Laura Lifshitz

I figured there would be comments left and right about me, the terrible mother and person. "My daughter would end up not liking me," I thought, letting the worst thoughts run through my head. How could this go well? Guess what... It did.

To Resolve or Manage Conflict, You Must Address the Actual Cause of the Problem

Mark Baer | Posted 06.21.2015 | Divorce
Mark Baer

I recently had the most fascinating consultation with a gentleman who was interested in the possibility of my representing him as his lawyer.

The Hardest Thing I Had To Say During The Divorce Process

Kasey Ferris | Posted 06.20.2015 | Divorce
Kasey Ferris

In the middle of a divorce, you never really know what's coming.

How to Celebrate Your Kid's Birthday As Co-Parents

Laura Lifshitz | Posted 05.29.2015 | Divorce
Laura Lifshitz

As we near the end of the divorce process, my ex and I have celebrated every single holiday or anniversary apart at this point besides our daughter's birthday ... until this past week.

The Parenting Club, Daddy Privilege and Mommy Martyrdom

Theresa Sirles | Posted 05.16.2015 | Parents
Theresa Sirles

As a divorced mother who shares custody, I've had to examine my own assumptions about parenting gender roles and expectations. I continue to own my self-imposed guilt and attempt to dismantle it like a boss.

My Co-Parent Won't See Our 4-Year-Old Because He Hates My New Boyfriend

Samantha Rodman PhD | Posted 05.02.2015 | Divorce
Samantha Rodman PhD

Children of any age may be very angry at a parent that they can't see, even if it is because the parent is sick or imprisoned.  Make sure to use your empathy skills to tell your child that these feelings are completely normal and okay.

Check Your Ego at the Door (Beyond Mom and Stepmom Hate)

Shelley Wetton | Posted 04.26.2015 | Divorce
Shelley Wetton

My little boy's well being stopped my insecurity in its tracks. I didn't want Connor to suffer and refused to confuse him by encouraging hatred for a woman who loved him. I refused to be selfish, cruel and bitter because it's just not how I'm wired.

The Divorce Games: Finding Your Inner Adult

Theresa Sirles | Posted 04.25.2015 | Divorce
Theresa Sirles

When it comes to relationships, I've finally learned to say: I am not your child. I am not your parent. I'm an adult willing to consider a relationship with another adult -- game free.

14 Questions My Son Asked About My Divorce And What I Answered

Divorced Moms | Posted 04.19.2015 | Divorce
Divorced Moms

I am simply a mom who, like so many other moms, wants the best for her kids.

7 Steps To Redesigning Your Family Blueprint After Divorce

Theresa Sirles | Posted 04.14.2015 | Divorce
Theresa Sirles

A close friend listened compassionately as I explained my plan to "do the right thing" and stick it out no matter how I felt. She then asked a question that would change my life: "Do you truly think an unhappy mother can raise happy children?" No. I didn't. And I don't.