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Coping With Death

Thanks Bode, for Letting Us See a Grieving Brother Cry

Linda K. Wertheimer | Posted 04.26.2014 | Healthy Living
Linda K. Wertheimer

Maybe NBC should have pulled the camera away sooner, but I don't regret that the world got to see how much Bode Miller loved and missed his little brother. His show of grief likely will help other grieving brothers and sisters with sorrow much more raw than mine.

The Words That Helped Iyanla Vanzant Cope With Tragic Loss

OWN | Posted 02.06.2014 | OWN

On Christmas Day 2003, Iyanla Vanzant lost her 30-year-old daughter Gemmia to a rare form of colon cancer. A few months later, she sat down and read t...

How Many People Does it Take to Fill the Hole in My Heart After My Husband Dies?

Jamie Greenebaum | Posted 03.04.2014 | Fifty
Jamie Greenebaum

Looking back over what I have done and with whom, I am staggered to realize it has taken 18 people to keep me on an even keel for two weeks.

Mourning a Friend I Never Met

Sherman Yellen | Posted 02.26.2014 | Good News
Sherman Yellen

She didn't email or have a computer, but she had something better than that for communicating: a generous heart.

Reflecting Back On a Year With Gratitude

Kaitlin Roig-DeBellis | Posted 02.26.2014 | Education
Kaitlin Roig-DeBellis

What we each must come to realize is that it's not what happens to us in life that defines us, but in how we choose to respond to it that defines us.

Merry? Happy? Perhaps Not for Those Who Are Grieving

Fredda Wasserman | Posted 02.17.2014 | Impact
Fredda Wasserman

As we move through the holiday season and head into the New Year, our society sends the message loud and clear: this is a time to rejoice, spread good...

Farewell, Tata

Diann Rust-Tierney | Posted 02.10.2014 | World
Diann Rust-Tierney

When I think of a world without our beloved Mandela, I imagine how empty it will feel without his great intellect and incredible gift.

I Waged A War Against Depression

Tanner Snider | Posted 01.23.2014 | Teen
Tanner Snider

Everything seemed out of control. My family had always felt safe, now it felt chaotic, random, uncontrolled. Looking back now, I see how that dark July day, a day so final, marked my beginning.

8 Ways to Survive a Loved One's Suicide

Debbie Gisonni | Posted 01.23.2014 | Healthy Living
Debbie Gisonni

Time will help you to heal, even though it seems to get worse before it gets better. Know that as each day, month or year passes, the hurt will lesson. Life will go on, and so will you.

Embracing the Full Weight of Loss

Andrew Morgan | Posted 10.20.2013 | Good News
Andrew Morgan

I held him in my arms on the side of the road, sat with him in the ambulance, and heard those unforgettable words in a small hospital waiting room. "We did everything we could." And just like that he was gone. He was 52 years old.

Grief Intelligence: A Primer

Ashley Davis Bush, LCSW | Posted 10.09.2013 | Healthy Living
Ashley Davis Bush, LCSW

Those who expect grievers to eventually get back to their old selves, will be quite disappointed. Grief, like all major life experiences, changes a person irrevocably.

Saying Goodbye To The Love Of My Life

Joan Price | Posted 10.02.2013 | Fifty
Joan Price

August 2, 2008: I crawled into Robert's bed and wrapped my body around his. If I could only get close enough to make the last hour, the last months, disappear. I hugged him tightly, desperately. I wailed his name and listened to his silence, remembering his murmurs, his words of love.

The Top 5 Things to Do When a Loved One Is Dying

Judith Johnson | Posted 09.28.2013 | Healthy Living
Judith Johnson

Needless to say, we are not taught how to face our own death or that of a loved one, and are likely to panic in death's presence. So start by recognizing this state of affairs, and don't pressure yourself to "do it right."

What I Hope My Girls Remember About Me

Liz Gumbinner | Posted 09.19.2013 | Parents
Liz Gumbinner

Mostly we all parent by the seat of our pants, don't we? I know I sure do. We're so busy catching up, just checking off the to-do list (or more likely, not checking off the to-do list and just stealthily bumping the task to the next day then the next then the next...), there's not always time to reflect.

When Critical Illness or Death Catches You By Surprise

Judith Johnson | Posted 09.16.2013 | Healthy Living
Judith Johnson

Bear witness to what is happening inside yourself. Are you shocked? Angry? Unable to listen? In denial? Wanting to believe this is a lab error? These are all perfectly normal responses, but they do not serve as a solid foundation from which to respond to the situation.

Real Support in a Virtual World

Carolyn Ziel | Posted 08.06.2013 | Healthy Living
Carolyn Ziel

We all know that Facebook reunites friends who haven't seen each other for years. But what some may not realize is, that it has literally changed the face of illness, death and grief, and offers a new kind of real support in a virtual world.

Creative Ways Of Letting Go

Cheryl Kain | Posted 08.01.2013 | Healthy Living
Cheryl Kain

This type of "echo writing," as I call it, works for all kinds of losses. Whether you are grieving a person, beloved pet, health, job or even a cherished dream, writing to whom or what you have let go of, and hearing back from "them" hits a sweet spot in the heart.

Left Behind: Families Struggle To Navigate Life After Suicide

Posted 05.13.2013 | Religion

By Lisa Schencker Salt Lake Tribune DRAPER, Utah (RNS) As young brothers, Kris and Kourt McGuire often spent hours chasing the shimmering dragonf...

A Buddhist Meditation Practice For The Boston Marathon Tragedy

Lodro Rinzler | Posted 06.16.2013 | Religion
Lodro Rinzler

When something like this happens, we often say, "There are no words." Perhaps we should not yet go to words. For those of us located outside of the Boston area, we may not yet be able to go to deeds either. For now, maybe it is OK to go to our vast broken heart.

A Beautiful Death

Lauren Cahn | Posted 06.01.2013 | Healthy Living
Lauren Cahn

I can't say that my father was ready for death or that any of us was ready for him to go. But I believe that thanks to hospice care, and some miracle of timing and life force and will that I will never quite understand, my dad's death was as beautiful as a death can be.

The Cosmic Easter Bunny's Biggest Trick

Steve McSwain | Posted 05.28.2013 | Religion
Steve McSwain

Easter's greatest trick is not that a body was resuscitated. Heck, any old medicine man can perform that trick, and they do in hospitals every day around the world. No, the trick at Easter is that this Jesus was so special that, even after all these years, we still remember him.

7 Smart Ways To Cope When Times Are Tough

Debbie Gisonni | Posted 05.07.2013 | Healthy Living
Debbie Gisonni

It's easy to feel defeated and sorry for yourself when challenges in life arise, however, you can take another approach. While you may not be able to always control what happens in life, you can always choose how to react to it.

Your Death Is Your Headline

Anushka Fernandopulle | Posted 05.06.2013 | Religion
Anushka Fernandopulle

We can connect with the poignancy and beauty of our lives, spend our precious limited time wisely, and treat people in ways that we will not later regret. So make death your headline, in order to spend your life living fully with integrity and presence.

Meditation And Mourning: 3 Obstacles To Successful Grieving

Lodro Rinzler | Posted 05.04.2013 | Religion
Lodro Rinzler

For anyone who has suffered a loss, you know that no amount of nice words can heal the sense of grief you experience every day. As I began to grieve, I noticed something very familiar arise in how I related to this process: My grieving patterns mimicked patterns often perceived as obstacles to meditation.

Honest Questions About Grief From A Pagan

Wes Isley | Posted 04.09.2013 | Religion
Wes Isley

My partner of 18 years died last year, and in addition to grieving the loss of his tender presence and our precious time together, I've watched helplessly as my spiritual foundations have crumbled around me. I wasn't prepared for this, and I'm having a crisis of faith.