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5 Overlooked Reasons to Give Online Dating a Try

Francesca Hogi | Posted 08.06.2014 | Women
Francesca Hogi

The biggest benefits of online dating are the ability to deliberately craft a great first impression (that can't be messed up by nerves) and to stretch yourself to date differently than you have in the past.

Do You Believe in Love?

David Wygant | Posted 07.22.2014 | Women
David Wygant

Love is an open door my friend, but you can only open the door when you open your mind, and your heart. So many of us are on the treadmill of dating, and we continually date the same people over and over again. Why? Because we're not clear on what we really want.

Hyperconnected, But Mindfully So

Francesca Hogi | Posted 07.11.2014 | Healthy Living
Francesca Hogi

Since making these small changes, my jaw is better, I sleep better and I am more relaxed and focused throughout the day. All because I made the choice to start my day in a deliberate, mindful way.

You're Not Married Because You Date Like a Toddler!

David Wygant | Posted 07.10.2014 | Women
David Wygant

The reason most of you aren't married is because you date like toddlers, and you suffer from the whole princess fantasy. Right now, I want you to close your eyes and imagine the kind of man you'd like to date. Close your eyes and allow your mind to drift to picture of your ideal man.

Snooping, Secrets, and Other Trust Killers

David Wygant | Posted 06.30.2014 | Women
David Wygant

I believe relationships should be built on trust, honesty and respect for each other's personal space. What I'm going to give you is a blueprint for building a trusting, loving relationship.

Are You Really Just an Ugly Troll?

David Wygant | Posted 07.04.2014 | Style
David Wygant

I had an email from a woman who hates the way she looks. I want to share the advice I gave with you.

Pew Survey: Why Men Fail at Online Dating

Damona Hoffman | Posted 12.22.2013 | Technology
Damona Hoffman

"Hey Giiiirllll, you look good," may work in the club, but in the land of online dating such mindless messages fall upon deaf ears, making their way right to the trash folder.

7 Reasons You're Always The Bridesmaid, Never The Bride

Damona Hoffman | Posted 11.20.2013 | Weddings
Damona Hoffman

Sign up for, not one, but TWO online dating sites. It's the equivalent of being in two bars at once without the hangover.

5 Hot Summer Dating Questions Answered

Jill Di Donato | Posted 10.07.2013 | Women
Jill Di Donato

If you feel the heat, it's hot. And I'm not talking temperature, people. Whether you're looking for a summer fling or something more, here are some dating and sex tips to get you through the season.

5 Reasons You Should Ask Your Ex For Dating Advice (Seriously!)

Susan Campos | Posted 10.06.2013 | Divorce
Susan Campos

If you remain on good terms, your former partner could probably match you up better than anyone else. After all, few people are more familiar with your personal foibles, desires and needs -- the good, the bad and the ugly -- than the person who's shared your life for many years.

Is This the Most Entrepreneurial Dater Online?

Neely Steinberg | Posted 09.09.2013 | Women
Neely Steinberg

Adversity is not a burden to an entrepreneur; it's an opportunity for growth and discovery. So, instead of being passive observers in their dating lives, burdened by their "bad luck" in love, I encourage women to roll up their sleeves and start problem-solving.

Why You Haven't Met Your Match

Damona Hoffman | Posted 06.16.2013 | Healthy Living
Damona Hoffman

They are keeping you from loving yourself unconditionally. They are a crutch that keeps you hobbling through your dating life. They are the thick, wool coat that insulates you from being left out in the cold.

The Bizarre Dating Rituals of the Nacirema

Neely Steinberg | Posted 03.18.2013 | Women
Neely Steinberg

You may chuckle at these tribeswomen,, but haven't you been known to obsess in similar ways over certain men, waiting anxiously for them to call or email you, picking apart endlessly a simple "Hey, what's up?' text message, to the point where you start to feel sick or depressed?

Why You Shouldn't Believe in Love at First Sight

Neely Steinberg | Posted 11.11.2012 | Women
Neely Steinberg

In today's world of smartphones and texting and tweeting, we might very well fool ourselves into believing that instant gratification can also apply to matters of the heart. If I can send and receive communication immediately, why can't I be in love with or love someone immediately?

The Art of Dating

Neely Steinberg | Posted 10.24.2012 | Women
Neely Steinberg

I encourage clients and women in general to date a lot, and to rarely say no to new suitors and new opportunities. By going on a lot of dates, you are actively practicing your dating skills.

The Top Nine Ways to Lose a Guy's Interest

E. Jean Carroll | Posted 06.13.2011 | Style
E. Jean Carroll

When you take him to your college reunion and you bump into an old beau, throw your arms around the beau's neck, hold your pelvis against his, and squeal, "Oh, God! Oh, God!"


Gena Grish | Posted 05.25.2011 | Chicago
Gena Grish

I may or may not have signed my friend up for a profile without her knowledge to see the type of bites she would receive.

Three Hunks: Do the Rules!

Jag Carrao | Posted 05.25.2011 | Style
Jag Carrao

It's one thing to hear dating coaches tell you how to behave to land the man of your dreams -- it's even more compelling when such wisdom comes from the mouths of dreamy men themselves.

And the Survey Says...

Gena Grish | Posted 05.25.2011 | Chicago
Gena Grish

As some of you have picked up on, either from my Twitter updates, or the quick mentions in my comments sections of past stories, I met someone a few months ago, and I want to see where it could go.

Stuck Between a Rock and a (Not So Hard) Place

Gena Grish | Posted 05.25.2011 | Chicago
Gena Grish

Why is it that men always think that women want more than they do? Women are very capable of having friends with benefits and nothing more.

Carrie Underwood, Rules Success Story?

Jag Carrao | Posted 05.25.2011 | Style
Jag Carrao

Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider sent Carrie Underwood a copy of their book, The Rules. Practically overnight, it seemed like someone flipped a switch.

Bossy Bethenny, But Rulesy Bride

Jag Carrao | Posted 05.25.2011 | Style
Jag Carrao

Bethenny Getting Married? star Bethenny Frankel knows how to pursue her dreams. But when this high-powered entrepreneur met Jason Hoppy, she let HIM pursue HER.

Don't Be Like Kate! He Forgets You? Forget Him!

Jag Carrao | Posted 05.25.2011 | Style
Jag Carrao

No one could be more unforgettably gorgeous and stylish than starlet Kate Hudson -- so why do her boyfriends keep forgetting about her?

Trips Make Men Go Backwards

Jag Carrao | Posted 05.25.2011 | Style
Jag Carrao

I know it's tempting -- summer's around the corner and what could possibly sound better than a vacation with the man you love? How about: A destination wedding - and honeymoon.

5 Topics You Must Never Discuss on a First Date

Julie Spira | Posted 11.17.2011 | Healthy Living
Julie Spira

Dating is a numbers game and you always need to put your best foot forward when making a first impression. It's important to prepare for your date em...