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The Dating Reminder Middle-Aged Women Still Need To Hear

Joe Seldner | Posted 06.24.2015 | Fifty
Joe Seldner

A few months ago, I was on a 'dating over 50' panel intended to offer male perspectives to an entirely female audience. I tend to be pretty direct, and believe if women want the male perspective, I should offer it warts and all. Foolishly, I figured that's what they wanted.

Love Is Found in the Simple Moments

Neely Steinberg | Posted 05.31.2015 | Women
Neely Steinberg

If you're coupled, recognize and appreciate the seemingly insignificant moments between you and your partner, because that is where love truly lives.

Single? 5 Questions You Need To Ask Before Your Next Date

Linnea Molander | Posted 04.28.2015 | Women
Linnea Molander

One half of all of your relationships will always consist of you, and you are the only person that you know for sure will be a part of your love life for ever. Making sure that you know and like yourself is the foundation of your love life, and will make everything else a lot easier.

The Perfect Lives of Style Bloggers

Neely Steinberg | Posted 02.08.2015 | Style
Neely Steinberg

What I've learned and what I'm sure I will continue to learn is that I'll probably never be that perfect domestic Goddess. I'll never be able to keep up with a constant schedule of hair salons and nail salons and spinning classes. And, you know what, that's OK.

6 Reasons Boomers Are Just Not Good At Online Dating

The Huffington Post | Ann Brenoff | Posted 11.21.2014 | Fifty

What's with boomers and online dating? The generation that toppled a president, ended a war and preached free love seems to be floundering when it com...

The 80% Approach To Dating

Francesca Hogi | Posted 01.17.2015 | Women
Francesca Hogi

As it turns out, there are lots of good guys out there, hiding in plain sight. Here's how to spot them.

When To Tell Your Date You're A Virgin

HuffPost Live | Kira Brekke | Posted 10.14.2014 | HuffPost Live 321

Dating is never easy, and the pressure feels especially high when you're a 20-something virgin. But fear not, because HuffPost Live has a few tips for...

Why Isn't Online Dating Working For YOU?

David Wygant | Posted 11.03.2014 | Women
David Wygant

What you put on your profile is going to attract the exact type of person you're going to meet. If you're angry and frustrated when writing your Internet profile, you're going to attract angry and frustrated men.

5 Overlooked Reasons to Give Online Dating a Try

Francesca Hogi | Posted 10.06.2014 | Women
Francesca Hogi

The biggest benefits of online dating are the ability to deliberately craft a great first impression (that can't be messed up by nerves) and to stretch yourself to date differently than you have in the past.

Do You Believe in Love?

David Wygant | Posted 09.21.2014 | Women
David Wygant

Love is an open door my friend, but you can only open the door when you open your mind, and your heart. So many of us are on the treadmill of dating, and we continually date the same people over and over again. Why? Because we're not clear on what we really want.

Hyperconnected, But Mindfully So

Francesca Hogi | Posted 09.10.2014 | Healthy Living
Francesca Hogi

Since making these small changes, my jaw is better, I sleep better and I am more relaxed and focused throughout the day. All because I made the choice to start my day in a deliberate, mindful way.

You're Not Married Because You Date Like a Toddler!

David Wygant | Posted 09.09.2014 | Women
David Wygant

The reason most of you aren't married is because you date like toddlers, and you suffer from the whole princess fantasy. Right now, I want you to close your eyes and imagine the kind of man you'd like to date. Close your eyes and allow your mind to drift to picture of your ideal man.

Snooping, Secrets, and Other Trust Killers

David Wygant | Posted 08.30.2014 | Women
David Wygant

I believe relationships should be built on trust, honesty and respect for each other's personal space. What I'm going to give you is a blueprint for building a trusting, loving relationship.

Are You Really Just an Ugly Troll?

David Wygant | Posted 07.04.2014 | Style
David Wygant

I had an email from a woman who hates the way she looks. I want to share the advice I gave with you.

Pew Survey: Why Men Fail at Online Dating

Damona Hoffman | Posted 12.22.2013 | Technology
Damona Hoffman

"Hey Giiiirllll, you look good," may work in the club, but in the land of online dating such mindless messages fall upon deaf ears, making their way right to the trash folder.

7 Reasons You're Always The Bridesmaid, Never The Bride

Damona Hoffman | Posted 11.20.2013 | Weddings
Damona Hoffman

Sign up for, not one, but TWO online dating sites. It's the equivalent of being in two bars at once without the hangover.

5 Hot Summer Dating Questions Answered

Jill Di Donato | Posted 10.07.2013 | Women
Jill Di Donato

If you feel the heat, it's hot. And I'm not talking temperature, people. Whether you're looking for a summer fling or something more, here are some dating and sex tips to get you through the season.

5 Reasons You Should Ask Your Ex For Dating Advice (Seriously!)

Susan Campos | Posted 10.06.2013 | Divorce
Susan Campos

If you remain on good terms, your former partner could probably match you up better than anyone else. After all, few people are more familiar with your personal foibles, desires and needs -- the good, the bad and the ugly -- than the person who's shared your life for many years.

Is This the Most Entrepreneurial Dater Online?

Neely Steinberg | Posted 09.09.2013 | Women
Neely Steinberg

Adversity is not a burden to an entrepreneur; it's an opportunity for growth and discovery. So, instead of being passive observers in their dating lives, burdened by their "bad luck" in love, I encourage women to roll up their sleeves and start problem-solving.

Why You Haven't Met Your Match

Damona Hoffman | Posted 06.16.2013 | Healthy Living
Damona Hoffman

They are keeping you from loving yourself unconditionally. They are a crutch that keeps you hobbling through your dating life. They are the thick, wool coat that insulates you from being left out in the cold.

The Bizarre Dating Rituals of the Nacirema

Neely Steinberg | Posted 03.18.2013 | Women
Neely Steinberg

You may chuckle at these tribeswomen,, but haven't you been known to obsess in similar ways over certain men, waiting anxiously for them to call or email you, picking apart endlessly a simple "Hey, what's up?' text message, to the point where you start to feel sick or depressed?

Why You Shouldn't Believe in Love at First Sight

Neely Steinberg | Posted 11.11.2012 | Women
Neely Steinberg

In today's world of smartphones and texting and tweeting, we might very well fool ourselves into believing that instant gratification can also apply to matters of the heart. If I can send and receive communication immediately, why can't I be in love with or love someone immediately?

The Art of Dating

Neely Steinberg | Posted 10.24.2012 | Women
Neely Steinberg

I encourage clients and women in general to date a lot, and to rarely say no to new suitors and new opportunities. By going on a lot of dates, you are actively practicing your dating skills.

The Top Nine Ways to Lose a Guy's Interest

E. Jean Carroll | Posted 06.13.2011 | Style
E. Jean Carroll

When you take him to your college reunion and you bump into an old beau, throw your arms around the beau's neck, hold your pelvis against his, and squeal, "Oh, God! Oh, God!"

Bibbidi-Bobbidi-Boo!

Gena Grish | Posted 05.25.2011 | Chicago
Gena Grish

I may or may not have signed my friend up for a Match.com profile without her knowledge to see the type of bites she would receive.