I'll always have respect for people going through the major heartbreak you experience at the end of a long-term relationship or marriage, but I also have so much sympathy for those of us who are out there dating and are willing to invest a little bit of ourselves over and over again, knowing that we might get hurt.
There is no perfect man. And in case you didn't get the memo, you aren't perfect either. The issue is that most of us don't understand relationship maintenance at all or how to care for each other past the first blush of heat. Do you really know how to love a man or are you living in constant conflict?