Death: The Final Word?
In spite of decades working with the dying and bereaved families, my familiarity with end-of-life choices, death and grief was now staring me in the face, reflecting the image of the woman who gave birth to me.
In spite of decades working with the dying and bereaved families, my familiarity with end-of-life choices, death and grief was now staring me in the face, reflecting the image of the woman who gave birth to me.
Rev. Dr. Martha R. Jacobs | Posted 04.27.2012
Do you think that there is such a thing as "suffering from life"? Do you think that people should be able to make their own decision as to whether or not to end their life?
Lori Hogan | Posted 04.27.2012
Many baby boomers, often unexpectedly and for long periods, will likely be called to provide care for a loved one, and it is my hope that anyone could gain strength, encouragement and inspiration through the real-life caregiving stories.
Rev. Amy Ziettlow | Posted 04.23.2012
When I think of mercy, I think of receiving undeserved or unmerited kindness or treatment. A merciful act is one that reconnects us to humankind -- reminds us that we belong.
Anne Peterson | Posted 04.19.2012
More than just the celestial signs we seek solace in, death offers a profound internal experience. While I have physically lost of my father, I am emotionally closer to him.
Marguerite Manteau-Rao | Posted 04.13.2012
Food is one of the last few pleasures left when illness leaves one laying in bed in a small room with little else available in terms of sensory gratification. Food is also an important part of caregiving.
Carolyn Anderson | Posted 04.05.2012
It is about living a life so rich, so meaningful, so moment to moment that if we were to die today we could do so knowing that we had sucked the marrow out of life and really maximized every moment.
Maria Rodale | Posted 04.04.2012
Every once in a while you meet someone who changes your life. That's what happened to me one day when I turned into a driveway that had a sign out fro...
Rev. Dr. Martha R. Jacobs | Posted 04.02.2012
For Christians, this is one of the most important weeks of our liturgical calendar. This is the week that we should be contemplating what we never want to contemplate: death.
HuffingtonPost.com | Cara Santa Maria | Posted 05.23.2012
Rev. Amy Ziettlow | Posted 03.24.2012
As I neared the last pages, I found myself fatigued; exhausted by her story of loss and death. I struggled with how to make sense of it all.
Bridget Whearty | Posted 03.19.2012
The phrase "no man is an island" gets tossed around pretty lightly these days, but at its core, it's about the same thing. When the funeral bells toll, don't ask who they are for. We're all in this together.
Rev. Dr. Martha R. Jacobs | Posted 03.18.2012
Just before New Years, I found myself helping a family whose loved one was dying. As a chaplain in a hospital, I never know whether a family will allow me "in" at the time that is most painful for them.
Posted 03.07.2012
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Diana M. Raab | Posted 02.15.2012
My father adored me. I was his sunshine, and when he died a large chunk of me died. I cannot say that the pain has dissipated, but it has softened over the years.
Kathy Chang-Lipsenthal | Posted 01.30.2012
When my husband was diagnosed with esophageal cancer, I told him "You're going to beat this." He replied, "I don't feel the need to fight cancer. Fight comes out of fear of dying. And I don't have that fear."
Hillary St. Pierre | Posted 01.23.2012
When I found out I was terminally ill, the idea of leaving behind a legacy weighed on me, but not as heavily as the idea that I could leave behind a child with little or no memories of me.
Rev. Dr. Martha R. Jacobs | Posted 01.19.2012
n reality, Susan can't control what is happening in her body, so she needs to control what she can, and so she is trying to control how others handle her disease ... at least as far as it concerns how they will deal with her.
Stephanie Bennett Vogt | Posted 01.02.2012
I can only imagine what the final ride will be like to the other side when our time comes. But if Steve Jobs' final words are any indication, I'd like to think that it will be an exquisite homecoming.
Rev. Dr. Martha R. Jacobs | Posted 12.26.2011
How about you? When you are nearing the end of your life, what would you hope that you would not regret not doing? Perhaps Steve Jobs can influence our lives more than technologically.
Rev. Dr. Martha R. Jacobs | Posted 11.05.2011
Believe it or not, being with families of people who are dying can also provide opportunities for humor. Very funny situations happen to people in their lives and recounting them when someone is dying is healthy.
Rev. Dr. Martha R. Jacobs | Posted 10.15.2011
Thinking about the prospect of only having several months to live, I wonder how many of us could do what Dudley is doing while he is dying -- living one day at a time?
Rev. Amy Ziettlow | Posted 10.12.2011
I recently commented on Facebook that in 20 years I will be in my late 50s, caring for my elderly baby boomer parents, and trying to pay for the young...
Allison Gilbert | Posted 10.02.2011
If you have a child later in life, like I did, it only increases the likelihood that you will be parenting without your parents. I never had that maternal advice, and my son doesn't have my mom as a grandmother.
Brienne Walsh | Posted 10.01.2011
My sister and I sat with my grandmother while she lay dying a few months ago. Against her pale skin, freckled and dotted with beauty marks, I laid my arm.
Robert V. Taylor | Posted 05.24.2012