The key to the motivation lies in whether the result feels like deprivation and loss. When we are listening to our inner guide, respecting our best interests and taking care of ourselves, we are happy with the outcome.
What are you telling yourself you're too old to do? Ride a motorcycle? Go dancing? Join a singing group? A bicycle club? Learn a language? Play the ukulele? Climb a mountain? Wear shorts in public? Or a bikini? Or get a tattoo?
When you pursue your joy, you're living the fullest expression of self-care, what you need to take care of not only your time, attention, and energy -- but also your happiness. Think about how much more productive, impactful, and powerful you are when you're operating from that place?
Maybe we know where we want to go but don't know how to get there. Together, let's build a plan that will help us grow as women, as business owners, moms, wives, daughters, sisters, and friends. Let's start with being happy.
This makes sense. I mean how many times have you made plans in advance only to blow them off because, well, you just weren't in the mood or, let's be honest, you felt like it was a more of a chore to get yourself up, dressed, and out the door to said meeting place.
For relationships to be joyful and flourish we must understand what makes us tick. The more we cherish our daily existence the greater happiness and satisfaction we'll bring to all aspects of our lives.
I believe working on yourself and maintaining a sense of balance can be more enjoyable and I am here to present a new way of dealing with your daily life so that you manage to experience a better sense of balance in everything that you do.
Surviving differs a bit from thriving, doesn't it? To survive is the least one can do. It's just getting by, simply existing. No one wants that. It's so minimal, so basic, without meaning; lacking substance.
Travel is inherently riddled with setbacks, disappointments, and annoyances so how you react to these will determine the outcome of a trip. You have to train yourself to think and react differently. By doing so, you'll enjoy yourself and your trip more (as will everyone around you).
In my work with hundreds of smart, successful, single women over the years, their initial question to me is usually the same: "Why am I still single?" Underneath that question is pain. Start to see the reasons you have created in your mind to keep you stuck.
While I may not get as many years as I was hoping for in this life, I feel my very soul has lived a thousand years. This old soul, enlightened well beyond my 23 years, finally understands the true beauty in life.
I fall in love with all different types of people, places and things; but the greatest thing to feel in life is love, for whatever, or whoever it is. So start falling in love with the little things, because it's the little things that eventually end up becoming your life.
Something unexpected is always bound to happen at some point or another because that is the nature of living. We simply just can't avoid it. So if you catch yourself thinking things like "Everyone else has it all figured out except me," then know that it is totally a false belief.