Think about something you're great at -- whether it's a hobby, passion or a job. Did you start out rocking it? Or did you make a few stumbles and hit a few rough patches before reaching stride?
Think about what you learned from each mistake. Each downfail. Each god-awful yet lesson-rich failure.
Many divorced people can remember a moment when a little voice in their head told them loudly and emphatically, "This marriage is over!" It's a moment when a line is crossed and there is no looking back.
Most of us marry with the best of intentions. Sometimes that just doesn't work out. We shouldn't slap a #fail label on people who divorce. Let's have faith that they'll do things better the next time -- or maybe the time after that.