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Healing After Divorce

The Best Thing You Can Do During Your Divorce

Jackie Pilossoph | Posted 10.13.2016 | Divorce
Jackie Pilossoph

Yom Kippur, the holiest day of the year for Jewish people has just ended. Known as the day of atonement, it is the day to ask God for forgiveness for ...

Refuse to Be the "Ashes" in Your Divorce

Mary Holloway | Posted 04.26.2016 | Divorce
Mary Holloway

Navigating a divorce is hard. It takes time to get over the initial anger, pain, and hurt, but then you have a big decision to make. Are you going to stay in the world of anger and hurt or are you going to try to move through the change with honesty and grace?

Broken Hearted and Bitter? How To Move On After A Painful Divorce

Chelli Pumphrey, LPC | Posted 03.15.2017 | Divorce
Chelli Pumphrey, LPC

Divorce sucks. There's no easy way to say it. If you've been there, you know that it can be one of the most stressful life experiences, even if it's something that you know is right for a relationship. It can harden you and make you believe that you won't be able to trust another person again.

The Sap Is Running

Karin Schott | Posted 03.01.2017 | Divorce
Karin Schott

Plink, plink is the sound of sap running in the metal buckets that hang from the maple trees in the wooded area of my property. This yearly ritual is ...

Love So Deeply, Hurt Too Much

Shauna Hoffman | Posted 01.26.2017 | Divorce
Shauna Hoffman

There is no denying that we yearn for a life to share with another. We are humans who do feel complete when in the arms of a soulmate. Note, I say, "feel complete." The truth is we are complete with or without a partner in our life.

Emotional Bermuda Triangle -- the Things You Lose in a Divorce

Michela Montgomery | Posted 10.23.2016 | Divorce
Michela Montgomery

We make the best plans we can, but then we must do what feels horrible and unnatural to us; we must let go of that control. If you can let go of that intense need to control every little thing that's happening, you might gain something that was there waiting for us; peace.

6 Ways To Move On After A Difficult Divorce

Mark Banschick, MD | Posted 04.10.2013 | Divorce
Mark Banschick, MD

Divorce can traumatize. Whereas physical trauma happens to your body, psychological trauma affects your brain and your mind.

The Single Most Important Thing To Do After Divorce

Alison Patton | Posted 11.27.2012 | Divorce
Alison Patton

How do you forgive the unforgivable?

Why My Divorce Was Like A Tsunami

Lisa Arends | Posted 08.15.2012 | Divorce
Lisa Arends

My divorce was a tsunami. The wave of precursors was hidden deep beneath the surface of the marital waters and were not visible to the naked eye.

The Big Lie About Forgiving Your Ex

Janis Abrahms Spring, Ph.D | Posted 06.17.2012 | Divorce
Janis Abrahms Spring, Ph.D

Why are we preaching only to the hurt party? Why not turn to offenders and ask them to earn forgiveness?