Is it Risky to Be Honest?
More often than not, we know how we are supposed to act. There is a difference between thinking something and saying what's on our minds. But sometimes, it pays to tell the truth.
More often than not, we know how we are supposed to act. There is a difference between thinking something and saying what's on our minds. But sometimes, it pays to tell the truth.
Ree Varcoe | Posted 05.28.2012
A good many people here still have an intrinsic trust in others in this age when we are quick to doubt, find fault or simply don't trust as easily as did our ancestors. Why is it so hard for us to believe that people will do the right thing when given the opportunity?
The Huffington Post | Susan Stiffelman | Posted 05.24.2012
Dear Susan, My 12-year old used to tell me everything, but recently I found out that she lied to my face. She said she was at the home of a friend wh...
Gillian Clark | Posted 05.16.2012
I admit to entering a dark room to take a tooth and leave a dollar under the pillow. Perhaps because no adult in my life lied to me, I raised my kids with a tempered version of my mother's honesty. Will it hurt? Yes, only for a minute.
Ree Varcoe | Posted 05.13.2012
As I approach this Mother's Day, I am going to be fearless while I loosen up the reins and let my children go about making their own choices whenever possible.
Malik Yusef | Posted 05.06.2012
How do you define a hater? List qualities of a friend. Look at that list. Haters won't possess the qualities you seek out in people. Sometimes we have friends that are constantly tearing us apart -- no constructive criticism, just negativity.
Jeff Schweitzer | Posted 04.30.2012
The great crime in the Vatican's sex abuse scandal is not the existence of pedophiles within its ranks of priests, although that is bad enough, but the fact that the Church as a matter of policy transferred known pedophiles to unsuspecting parishes.
Lisa Guest | Posted 04.27.2012
"If you examine sexy heroines in literature you will see they either lose their lives or their children for expressing their sexuality." I can see now why I was so hesitant. I wasn't willing to die just yet.
Julie Ross | Posted 04.23.2012
Eight months ago, my 9-year-old son tearfully shared with me that his whole life, he had wanted to be a girl.
Kathy Kaehler | Posted 04.12.2012
Accountability is not just a mindset but a skill set that everyone can learn and should master. Choose accountability and own it. You will always come out on top.
Stuart Muszynski | Posted 04.06.2012
For all people, not just Jewish people, Passover is meant to break through the current-day "narrow straights" that restrict us from achieving the potential that can bring us happiness and help the world. But that potential rests on becoming a Dult.
Nancy Colier | Posted 05.15.2012
True friendship is about meeting in the place of truth, and loving and supporting each other there. Anything else is just a paler shade of polite.
Anne Phillips | Posted 05.01.2012
Last month started a new year for the Chinese lunar calendar. In the Chinese Zodiac this will start the year of the Water Dragon which is a year fill...
Tamara Shayne Kagel | Posted 03.21.2012
Do we expect our significant others to literally never be turned on by anyone but us? And if we accept that this is not physiologically possible, how much do we want to hear about it?
Donna Flagg | Posted 03.21.2012
If you think about it, at its core, communication is an exercise in understanding one another better. That's all. This is positive, not negative, despite the industry's tendency to want to turn "difficult conversations," into big, bad, dreaded events. But they don't have to be.
Brent Budowsky | Posted 03.21.2012
This is a story about three great women and two historic waves that embody the political, social, cultural, economic and consumer waves that are transforming America and the world in real time.
Kathryn Budig | Posted 03.18.2012
The controversy surrounding a recent yoga video serves as a gentle reminder that we are quick to judge when we have no idea where someone else is coming from. People often overcome mountains of adversary to be in a place where they can shine.
Rhiana Maidenberg | Posted 03.13.2012
As parents we lie for various reasons. Many of them are for the benefit of our children, but in the spirit of "truthiness" the majority of these deceptions are for our own sake. Here are just a few of the reasons we so readily bend the truth with our little ones.
Dr. Irene S. Levine | Posted 03.05.2012
"My experience is that people don't really want authenticity but think they do --- until it gets hard and difficult scenarios come up."
Dr. G | Posted 02.06.2012
The Tooth Fairy is a game and you owe it to your kid to say, "This is a game." I know that some parents feel that would crush the beautiful, innocent soul of their believer. I say two things.
HuffingtonPost.com | Claire Gordon | Posted 12.07.2011
The Long Island SAT cheating ring uncovered last month captured, for many pundits, several dark truths of our times: the crushing competitiveness of c...
Dr. Cheryl Pappas | Posted 01.29.2012
What does it mean to practice acceptance in our closest relationships? Acceptance, like its blood relative, forgiveness, is a matter for serious stud...
Robert Koehler | Posted 01.23.2012
When sex is hidden in the shadows -- when it's something you can't talk about (but you can brag about) -- it easily becomes one more tool of domination, wrapped in an unspeakable shame that preserves its secrecy.
Lisa Earle McLeod | Posted 01.22.2012
Wouldn't it be great if people announced their dysfunctions and hidden agendas at the start of a relationship rather than you having to discover it later? Think about how much time you would save.
Mark Matousek | Posted 01.16.2012
Online dating has become institutionalized lying. Even in casual socializing, the devil of deception has too free reign in the all-too-anonymous details. This is bad for self-confidence, bad for love and worst for our need for human connection without avatars, screen names or clicking mouses.
Felice Shapiro | Posted 05.30.2012