Did my friend actually believe that the dating coach on HuffPost Live was the same man who had been inadvertently late for our date? Short term memory loss does come into play with older people who are interested in you online.
The first thing to do is accept the fact that time is not something you "find." This is not a search and rescue mission. The time is there and in equal proportion for all of us. It's what we choose to do with our allotments.