Waiting until you're "in the mood" can lead to one very long dry spell. As Kerner says, "sex begets sex." So grab your partner -- and your planner -- and find some time not just on Valentine's Day, but every week.
I'm a 26-year-old woman who has never been street-harassed. I don't know the fear, embarrassment and/or anger that comes with unwanted sexual attention. A not insignificant part of me wishes I did, though.
Are you secretly turned on by the idea of being spanked? Have you ever considered turning things up a notch with your partner? Some people get weak in the knees at the thought of their underwear being taken down and having a firm hand applied to their buttocks.
According to an article, these are the things men find unattractive about us women, written by a woman. But if you want me to love my man just the way he is, then he can sure as f*ck love me the way I am.
A few months ago, a college friend of mine who's an avid online dater, received a note in her dating site inbox. It's a love letter of sorts, in that the guy who wrote it was genuinely interested in her. But as you'll see, the love didn't last long.
A first love is innocent. You go in blind, with no understanding and no standards. Second love, now that's the real stuff.
Maybe my marriage didn't end on my terms, but it was an opportunity to better myself. And I've found peace, love and success as I've changed the things that may have helped create cracks in the foundation the first time around.
My client, Karen, is a powerhouse at work and she knows how to get the job done quickly and efficiently. At the office, she's a true Alpha Female. An inability to flip the switch to her softer side after work meant her Alpha characteristics were showing up in her dating life, sending men running.
I won't make you read until the end to figure out my answer. I believe that the answer is actually an important starting point. So, drum roll please, I am a realist. I am not a romantic. I get that this may come as a surprise considering my professional field is human sexuality and relationships.
It seems so unreasonable when you put it that way: My wife left me because sometimes I leave dishes by the sink. But when you choose to love someone, it becomes your pleasure to do things that enhance their lives and bring you closer together, rather than a chore.
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Let's let our spouses know how important they are to us.
In a committed relationship, it's easy to feel so comfortable that we begin taking each other for granted. Instead of being excited and engaged by our partner like we were at the beginning of the relationship, later on we tend to focus on the things we worry about instead, letting the romance and our fascination with our partner take a backseat to the stresses of daily life
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So as Sheryl Sandberg was busy creating Lean In Circles to encourage women to step outside their comfort zones at work, I began to create my own group to encourage women to step outside their comfort zones in the bedroom and in their relationships.
So don't run out the door searching for oxytocin on the street. Just surround yourself with people who care about you, have some fun, and stay positive (and know that you'll never find long-term happiness at the bottom of a cookie jar). A happy dude is a healthy dude.