Once you're writing things like, "By rocking this dildo up and down against my G-spot, I unlocked some seriously powerful orgasms," it becomes a lot easier to get specific when you're between the sheets with a partner.
I think that most women today own a sex toy and a vibrator of some kind. Most women know that it's really okay to touch ourselves 'down there' and that touching ourselves will not cause us to go blind or meet the devil. So why aren't we doing it more? Like every single day?