THE ARMOR OF HEALING If you have been in a love relationship with a narcissist, you will likely find that you will need a period of healing and traum...
It isn't always about what was planned. Sometimes it's about what becomes. And that's beautiful. I could not give my kids a nuclear family. But every day I work on giving them the safety of my love, and offer them a love for life, and for now that's the greatest gift I can imagine.
I find it beautiful and exciting that my wife is attracted to other genders, and I'm fortunate that she feels the same way about me. For us, this is an integral part of who we are.
Being nice is an essential quality necessary for success. It is a quality that sustains relationships and makes you someone others want to be around. However, there is a fine line between being nice and being a pushover.
Recently, the internet erupted a bit over the scientific "discovery" that women are "bisexual or gay, but never straight."
Conduct an in-depth probe of your personality, attitude, and behavior. There may be ways you need to change. For most, an honest self-evaluation will reveal the problem, but some people will struggle to recognize how they sabotage their success with potential dates.
Not knowing any better, I'd tried to make their holiday favorites "just the way I used to" when their dad and I were married. But as we sat, looking at a turkey so large it threatened to collapse the table, it occurred to me that what I was holding on to was hurting all of us.
3. Wake up when you wake up. Be it with the alarm or at 2 a.m. Don't fight it.
During the last 14 years, we had everything but a leader. To secure the achievements and overcome the massive challenges, it's the right time to review quickly the unprecedented achievements of the last fourteen years as well as the challenges that remain and lie ahead.
I have a confession to make. I have a fetish for men in soldier uniforms. It all started rather innocently. I was watching a movie on SBS when a consenting woman was ravaged by a group of soldiers. As I sat there with my eyes glued to the screen, I could feel my inner thighs becoming increasingly damp.
A great way to coping with divorce is to ask yourself, "Would I rather be the ex-wife or the new wife?" If you are really honest with yourself, you'll pick you.
Guilt doesn't care whether you twisted over the decision to divorce for weeks, months or even years. Guilt doesn't take into account the amount of courage it may have taken you to finally decide to divorce yourself from a marriage that had been already been dead for years. But guilt is not the truth.
Don't talk about your ex-girlfriends or your ex-wife unless asked. Man to man, I think its great you used to date a Victoria's Secret model who went on to become a political correspondent for Fox News. But I promise you, women don't want to know about it.
My husband was my family for many years, and now that is gone too. So, my friends are my family.
Take it from someone who knows. Like Joni Mitchell, I've looked at love from both sides now. And I can honestly say that, 17 years later, more than ever -- I'm deeply in love with my husband and deeply proud of the life we co-create every day.
Recovering from something as big as a divorce can be a challenge, but staying positive can give you the opportunity to start fresh.