Self Acceptance

Crying Saved My Life

Erin Joy Henry | Posted 05.28.2012

Erin Joy Henry

Crying was for the weak girls who couldn't be alone and needed boys to carry their bags for them. Crying was for the girls who sat out from P.E. because they had their periods and were too scared to participate in the game of life. Or so I thought.

Getting A Buzz Cut Made Me Feel Braver About Everything

Kate Fridkis | Posted 05.22.2012

Kate Fridkis

My hair won't let me not be bold. It won't let me not be brave. It won't let me hide. And so with it, or, I guess, without it, I am my bravest self.

Lessons From Tenderness

Ellen Davis | Posted 05.17.2012

Ellen Davis

Tenderness is a great teacher -- coming to it in our culture is grace and wisdom. The tenderness of allowance and the allowance of tenderness starts with the way one is with oneself.

Making Mistakes

Tim Freke | Posted 05.10.2012

Tim Freke

On my spiritual journey I once believed that I could one day perfect "Tim" into some sort of enlightened being who was always at his best. Now it feels to me that the journey is about embracing all that I am.

Consistency From Hypocrisy

Troy Roness | Posted 05.09.2012

Troy Roness

Although many individuals and organizations across the spectrum step forward in speaking out about their fight to improve self-acceptance, tons of mixed signals from those same outlets often scream insecurity.

Meanness Isn't Motivation

Kate Fridkis | Posted 04.30.2012

Kate Fridkis

We need to stop believing that meanness is motivation.

From One Mother to Another -- Am I Normal?!?

Jodi Ciampa | Posted 04.16.2012

Jodi Ciampa

Don't sit back and suffer thinking you are wrong in the way you feel.

6 Reasons Meditation Appears So Difficult

Ed and Deb Shapiro | Posted 05.20.2012

Ed and Deb Shapiro

After years of hearing a plethora of reasons why people find it hard to meditate, we have whittled it down to just a few.

Keys To Self-Acceptance

Ocean Robbins | Posted 04.30.2012

Ocean Robbins

Self-criticism is pretty common. After all, we are usually the world's number one experts on our own shortcomings. If finding fault with ourselves was a virtue, most of us would be saints.

It's Brutal Honesty Time

Rita Schiano | Posted 04.29.2012

Rita Schiano

For years I've written, spoke, taught and trained about the importance of understanding one's self-worth. I even coined the phrase that self-worth is one element of the equation that makes for self-esteem: Self-confidence plus self-worth equals self-esteem.

The Long Kiss Goodbye

Randi Miller | Posted 04.28.2012

Randi Miller

Finding out that Lisa loved me that long ago somehow validated me in a strange and wonderful way, and I feel like my emotional passport finally got stamped. I am now free to move about the universe.

The Life Out Loud: Be Your Own Valentine

MeiMei Fox | Posted 04.15.2012

MeiMei Fox

Happy Valentine's Day! Do those words make you shudder? Whether or not you belong to the 50 percent of the American population that is unmarried, it very well may. Like me, you may get turned off by the gluttonous commercialism of the occasion.

PHOTOS: Beautiful Scars

Posted 02.13.2012

We live in a society where looks are very important. No matter what we believe makes someone beautiful, first impressions are often made on our outwar...

Self-Acceptance: Are You an 'Alchemist' or a 'Leopard'?

Gretchen Rubin | Posted 03.31.2012

Gretchen Rubin

As a student of human nature, one of my favorite exercises is to try to divide people into two camps.

Living In 'Peaceful Coexistence' With Our Neuroses

Robert Levithan | Posted 03.07.2012

Robert Levithan

Ambition can pin me to the wall, or it can fuel my work and my desire to be useful. Equally, I long for quiet and ease, but if can lead me to stasis and paralysis. I need to be in constant dialogue with these parts of my psyche.

Learning To Love The Lines On Your Face

goodmenproject.com | Posted 12.21.2011

I’m sure you’ve heard it when you’ve wished someone happy birthday. Maybe you’ve even said it yourself. “Oh, please, don’t remind me; I fe...

Come Home to Yourself for the Holidays

John-Manuel Andriote | Posted 02.20.2012

John-Manuel Andriote

Home has taken on new meaning for me since I gave up my "big-city" life. It means not just a special place or people I love who also love me. Now it means embracing the life that has been given to me, and the man I was made to be.

Byron Katie: Who Would You Be Without Your Story?

BJ Gallagher | Posted 12.18.2011

BJ Gallagher

Stories. We all have them: "My father was a critical perfectionist and I was never good enough to please him." "My mother was jealous and competed wit...

Womanhood is a Work in Progress

Erin Joy Henry | Posted 12.13.2011

Erin Joy Henry

The feminine part of me laid dormant for so many years because it was a side I associated with weakness.

Six Quick Tips to Raise a Sizeist Child

Penny Love Hoff | Posted 12.05.2011

Penny Love Hoff

How many times have we heard the embarrassing story of a child in a store pointing and blurting out "Mommy, why's that lady so fat?"

Celebrating, Not Lamenting, My Birthday

Daylle Deanna Schwartz | Posted 11.19.2011

Daylle Deanna Schwartz

While many people spend their birthdays looking wistfully back on the youth they believe they've left behind, I revert to the feelings I had as kid and enjoy myself completely.

How Summer Can Teach Us To Accept Our Mistakes

Roger Fransecky | Posted 10.06.2011

Roger Fransecky

Our challenge: To stop constant multitasking and begin listening and paying attention. We can, if we try, become a person on whom nothing is lost. We can choose to enter our own life again.

The Value Of Mistakes And Imperfections

Janice Taylor | Posted 11.17.2011

Janice Taylor

Perfection is a fruitless endeavor. It causes much suffering. More precisely, it causes optional suffering, the kind you inflict upon yourself when you really, really do not have to.

The Power Of Self-Compassion

Rabbi Geoffrey A. Mitelman | Posted 11.17.2011

Rabbi Geoffrey A. Mitelman

We always walk a fine line when we try to create our self-image and examine our own actions. Is there a more effective way to help us accept our human failings and be motivated to improve?

Are You Too Stingy With Your Love?

Dr. Cara Barker | Posted 11.17.2011

Dr. Cara Barker

No matter how many items you may have checked off your "to do" list in the name of love, if you are not more loving in your heart, then nothing really clicks.