Who Are We Without Our Titles?
Too often, we define ourselves by our jobs in this world: "I work at X," "I'm so and so's mother, ____'s wife." But when those relationships have expired, matured or evaporated, what's left?
Too often, we define ourselves by our jobs in this world: "I work at X," "I'm so and so's mother, ____'s wife." But when those relationships have expired, matured or evaporated, what's left?
Gangaji | Posted 05.17.2012
As I began to grow up, I attempted to define myself -- this presence of "I" -- through endlessly collecting information. In this natural process of mental awareness inhabiting a body, I discovered a symphonic mandala of sometimes competing, sometimes complementing explanations.
Patrice Bendig | Posted 04.23.2012
Each time I log into my Facebook account, another high school or college friend is getting engaged or having babies.
Ed and Deb Shapiro | Posted 05.13.2012
Meditation is both an experience of being who we really are, as well as the practice that invites us to be in this state. No one practice is more effective or important than another.
Randi Miller | Posted 04.10.2012
Finding my voice has been the best experience I could have hoped for, even with all the heartache that came with it.
Stephanie Bennett Vogt | Posted 04.10.2012
Have you ever stopped what you were doing to simply watch what's going on in your head? Yes, to do nothing more than observe your thoughts without doing anything to fix or manage them?
Akoshia Yoba | Posted 01.15.2012
Living in a society that shuns blatant acts of self-praise, I learned that when we admire people we are often projecting the best and beautiful parts of ourselves onto them.
Stephanie Bennett Vogt | Posted 01.02.2012
I can only imagine what the final ride will be like to the other side when our time comes. But if Steve Jobs' final words are any indication, I'd like to think that it will be an exquisite homecoming.
John Tsilimparis | Posted 12.22.2011
When we rediscover our core values and make a conscious decision to live by them as best we can, we gradually begin to see changes in our lives.
Stephanie Bennett Vogt | Posted 12.19.2011
I will send out this silent blessing to everybody out there that could use a lift and a nudge: Do what makes your heart sing. And if you don't know what it is yet, keep going until you find it.
Roya R. Rad, MA, PsyD | Posted 12.12.2011
All of us as humans are worthy, but some of us detach from that truth and start judging ourselves and denying our own right, the right to have a positive place in this world.
Roya R. Rad, MA, PsyD | Posted 12.11.2011
Why is it that sometimes I feel like my religion is giving me junk food for the soul? Why does my religion confuse me about God and encourage me to deny my truth about how I really feel?
Gangaji | Posted 12.10.2011
By inquiring into your life story, you can recognize the layers of ephemeral distraction that keep your attention busy with entanglements. When you recognize this, you can reclaim your attention.
Stephanie Bennett Vogt | Posted 11.29.2011
Whether it is a lighter load, a quieter mind, a better mood, a solution to a problem that you're chewing on, less attachment to outcomes, finding your soulmate or your mojo... here's my all-purpose recipe for reinvention.
Laura Harvey | Posted 07.20.2011
While I cannot relate to life as a royal, I can certainly relate to Sarah's personal struggle of not knowing her true value, making destructive choices and self-sabotage.
Lisa Arie | Posted 11.17.2011
The point is that many of us are operating in default mode on a daily basis. We're on automatic pilot. We are so overwhelmed with information and requests for information we shut down and go on cruise control.
Simona Rabinovitch | Posted 05.25.2011
After donating part of his liver to his (now ex-) boyfriend, breaking up and feeling lost, David Jedeikin wrote about it all in his book, Wander the Rainbow.
Craig K. Comstock | Posted 05.25.2011
Take a man trained in natural science, expose him to eastern religions and to West Coast therapy and the result was Hakomi.
Rabbi Mordecai Finley | Posted 05.25.2011
Every divorce is uniquely unhappy, to paraphrase Tolstoy.
Jeff Wise | Posted 05.25.2011
While the risks are greater without a buffer of companions, so are the rewards. You enjoy perfect freedom of thought and movement, a steeling of self-reliance, and an ability to connect more intensely.
Posted 05.25.2011
Hyperion has canceled "Displaced," the rebuttal memoir by the "Eat Pray Love" author's ex-husband Michael Cooper. Elizabeth Gilbert broke with Cooper ...
Jessica Keener | Posted 11.17.2011
Recently, I spent a week in a two-bedroom cottage in southwestern Vermont. I'd rented this cottage once in the winter and was eager to return to the ...
Marshall Goldsmith | Posted 11.17.2011
When you have to adapt yourself to fit a role, you may not be miserable, but it will likely be hard work. For this reason, it's best to choose roles that match your personality and behavioral styles.
Natasha Dern | Posted 11.17.2011
When you perceive yourself, your life, your world in a new and meaningful way, be assured, that something within you will bring forth illumination, an ocean of possibilities pour into your life.
Natasha Dern | Posted 11.17.2011
Sub-personalities are like children - they need and demand a lot and often insist on getting their way. They keep nagging at you, screaming or throwing a tantrum when things do not materialize
Natalie Thomas | Posted 05.20.2012