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Better Sex Through Fighting With Your Partner?

Douglas LaBier | Posted 08.26.2014 | Weddings
Douglas LaBier

Couples often assume that fighting and conflict are inevitable -- "normal," even, to be tolerated and managed, at best. They may not recognize that their diminished sexual and romantic life is interwoven with how and why they conflict as they do in their relationship overall.

100-Year-Old Sex Therapist On Having Good Sex At Any Age

The Huffington Post | William Goodman | Posted 08.26.2014 | Fifty

Dr. Shirley Zussman is a practicing sex therapist in New York City. She also just turned 100 years old. And she's applied decades of experience in ord...

Sex in your 50s?

Fiona Werle-Schupp | Posted 08.25.2014 | Fifty
Fiona Werle-Schupp

Do couples in their 50s really still have sex? Well hell yes! It's not just the realm of the young and beautiful, as the media and advertising would have us believe.

5 Ways to Rekindle Your Marriage

Doug and Leslie Gustafson | Posted 08.25.2014 | Weddings
Doug and Leslie Gustafson

The stresses and strains of life such as career, raising kids and growing older, can deplete us -- or at the very least, distract us from the goal of sustaining an intimate, dynamic connection with our life partner.

My Wife Used To Go Down On Me a Lot, and Now, Nothing

Samantha Rodman PhD | Posted 08.25.2014 | Women
Samantha Rodman PhD

If you do not want to be in the relationship without either oral sex or more sex or better sex or whatever, be direct. Do not be passive aggressive, stay in the relationship and be bitter and resentful, or, worst, be unfaithful.

Can We Enjoy the Rest of Our Lives Loving the Same Person?

John McElhenney | Posted 08.25.2014 | Divorce
John McElhenney

Could I have loved my wife forever? In this moment, thinking of the time just before she told me she'd already consulted with a divorce attorney, I have an unequivocal yes. I was still madly, somewhat painfully, in love with my wife of 11 years, and single partner for 13 years.

Bullies on the Playground of Recreational Sex

Sienna Jae Fein | Posted 08.22.2014 | Fifty
Sienna Jae Fein

he ubiquitous and unabashed ED message, that real men have rock-hard erections, is delivered by rugged, denim-clad actors who promise that the man who pharmaceutically re-ignites his "readiness" will return unparalleled pleasure to his female partner (the women in these ads are beside themselves with grateful anticipation).

Sex, Intimacy, and Being Gay

J Nelson Aviance | Posted 08.21.2014 | Gay Voices
J Nelson Aviance

Sex seems central to intimate and romantic relationships. If it is a means of intimate communication, and communication is the secret to a lasting and healthy relationship, why don't we gay men talk about it that way more often?

10 Surprising Facts About The Sex Lives Of Single Men

The Huffington Post | Avery Stone | Posted 08.20.2014 | College

Single men: you know them, and maybe you even love them. But you may not know these ten facts about their sexy-time habits! This video from BuzzFe...

Women Should Have Sex When They Don't Want To. No, That Wasn't a Typo

Samantha Rodman PhD | Posted 08.19.2014 | Women
Samantha Rodman PhD

Go, have sex with your spouse, and even try to enjoy it. And tell me if your marriage doesn't get just a bit closer and more connected, in spite of yourself.

3 Relationship Secrets From Fifty Shades of Grey

Taylor Marsh | Posted 08.20.2014 | Women
Taylor Marsh

As I learned in the trenches, the only thing keeping each of us back from satisfaction is our unwillingness to say yes to adventure that scares us and shakes our comfortable status quo.

What Women Think About Sex vs. The Reality

Samantha Rodman PhD | Posted 08.19.2014 | Women
Samantha Rodman PhD

You would be surprised how painful sexual rejection is for men. Often, I see couples in which the man still remembers and is hurt by a sexual rejection occurring even years ago, at the start of the relationship.

Helping Your Teens Deal With 'Text Break-Ups'

Barbara Greenberg | Posted 08.15.2014 | Parents
Barbara Greenberg

During this age of social media and communicating electronically it is not unusual to get break-up messages electronically. It's a shame but it is not at all unusual.

Happiness Dating and Joyful Coupling Post-Split

John McElhenney | Posted 08.15.2014 | Divorce
John McElhenney

Joy has got to be the biggest turn on there is. You can feel it when someone enters a room and they are glowing with their own inner happiness. If you've got the joy to reflect it back to them, then perhaps you are both on your way to joy in life and joy in the bedroom.

Why Sex May Be Better For A Headache Than Painkillers

OWN | Posted 08.15.2014 | OWN

"Honey, I have a headache," might have just become the sexiest excuse in the book. Instead of reaching for a bottle of ibuprofen, having a romp in ...

Why These Women Say 'Masturbation Is A No-No'

HuffPost Live | Chris Branch | Posted 08.16.2014 | HuffPost Live 321

For many folks, remaining a virgin until marriage is a choice based in religious values, and as these women described to HuffPost Live on Tuesday, tho...

Online Foreplay and Bringing Sexy Back

Brandon Andrew Robinson | Posted 08.12.2014 | Gay Voices
Brandon Andrew Robinson

Online foreplay is a conversation that allows individuals to mutually share their fantasies and sexual wants. Users can erotically turn each other on while trying to express their desires and sexual practices. This online foreplay becomes a way to negotiate one's sex life.

This Is What Condom Will Look Like In The Future

www.upworthy.com | Posted 08.12.2014 | Weird News
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Even though they do so much good, sometimes condoms get a bad rap. ...

11 Things Men Think About Sex -- And The Reality

Samantha Rodman PhD | Posted 08.09.2014 | Women
Samantha Rodman PhD

If I had a nickel for every time I heard a man say that "unlike most guys," he "really likes" to go down on women, I would have enough nickels to build a life size statue of a man going down on a woman. And then I would auction it off on eBay, because I have children, for God's sake.

Does Penis Size Matter?

The Huffington Post | Cate Matthews | Posted 08.08.2014 | Science

Does penis size really matter? As a new AsapScience YouTube video explains, there's a fascinating evolutionary history behind the human penis -- ho...

My Secret: I Was One of Those Girls Who Had Sex With Older Men on the Internet

Erin McKelle | Posted 08.07.2014 | Women
Erin McKelle

Yes, there was something wrong, but it wasn't with me, and my cyber sex was nothing more than a symptom of something bigger. It was my way of showing that I felt out of control and helpless.

5 Reasons Your Wife Won't Have Sex With You

Meg Conley | Posted 08.08.2014 | Weddings
Meg Conley

You need to say thank you. It can be a tiring place, this happily ever after. Yes, there is love and there are kitchen dances and sweet cream baby cheeks. But there are also sleepless nights and mortgages and post baby stretch marks.

V-Day (It's Not The Day You're Thinking Of)

Marco Gonzalez | Posted 08.07.2014 | Parents
Marco Gonzalez

Did I think I'd go from being a reporter for KTLA to blogging about my recent vasectomy? Um, no. But if I'm able to help guys out there be more comfortable with having this procedure, then it's worth it.

These Parents Got Candid About Sex After Kids. What They Divulged May Shock You.

The Huffington Post | Mandy Velez | Posted 08.07.2014 | Parents

They say that everything changes after having kids. But what exactly is everything? Your sleep schedule? Yes. Your bank account? Most likely. Your sex...

3 Ways Your Fear of Being Alone Sabotages Your Relationships

Sherrie Campbell, PhD | Posted 08.06.2014 | Women
Sherrie Campbell, PhD

If you continue to end up in dead-end relationships, your fear of being alone is probably keeping you with the wrong partners.