When a baby arrives, the newborn provides something special to both parents which, if this were a venn diagram, would overlap with different areas of what each gender tends to get from sex: a sense of boundary-less intimacy.
While I cannot account for the undoubtedly poetic and beautiful thoughts men have while doing what we were technically put on earth to do, here are some thoughts that I, an Experienced Sex Person™ have had during sex, or as I like to call it, "Sure, I guess."
I first started working at the strip club as a waitress. My "interview" was me walking into a cluttered manager's office, on the top floor of a downtown club. The manager took one look at me and then called a different manager of another club to tell him "I have a beautiful girl for you that will be dancing in no time."
When it's with the right person at the right time, sex can be the most amazing thing in the world. It can also be a giant, sweaty pile of anxiety. We've all been on each end of the equation so don't feel bad. Here are 13 things every guy has thought about during sex.
I have waited for sensual love my entire life. It was worth the wait and it didn't come from where I thought it would. It came from here, from me. I choose when and with whom I share it...
The concept of mothers doing something for themselves is revolutionary in North America. In other countries around the world, there is much more communal living, where the child has other adults to depend on.
"If you weren't married," I said, "I would be all over you." Our chemistry was undeniable, and gone were the days that I kept my feelings bottled up. Whatever was between us had to be acknowledged because the butterflies in my stomach refused to settle down.
You're not "wasting your time" if you don't know whether or not you want to end up with the person you're dating.
When opportunity knocks, you open the door and grab it. And for me, that knock was as unconventional as it could get.
Algeria's queer scene is certainly alive, but is muted and suppressed. There are no civil rights or legal protections and little-to-no safe private space for meeting. Therefore, gay men occupy the only place where they can find other like-minded men: the street.
You protected him growing up, and talking about PrEP helps you protect him once he's out of the nest and discovering who he is.
If you have never been in an adult toy store you should go. My advice would be to drive about an hour from where you live, to avoid running into local perverts. Spend some time checking out the merchandise and shop until you drop. Here is what a first time customer might say as they are perusing the aisles.
Couples who describe their relationships as happy, healthy or successful don't just get lucky. Partners in happy relationships share an intent to have a strong relationship and they follow through that intention with their words and actions.
For most people, the risk of being ignored online is less painful than risking someone saying to your face "I'm not interested." And so technology becomes a digital crutch that works as substitute for the face-to-face courtship humans have engaged in since the beginning of time.
Before we leave this exuberant sign on Dec 21, I wanted to share the Sag. quiz. This is taken from my book the Everything Sex Signs Book.