Stepmother

The Title of Mom

Kristen Houghton | Posted 05.10.2012

Kristen Houghton

Like the title of "Queen," mother is a name you have for life.

Why Single Moms Aren’t 'Heroes'

Vicki Larson | Posted 05.10.2012

Vicki Larson

As we slide into Mother's Day, it's clear that we're somewhat murky on what we're celebrating. Somehow, we moms are revered and problematic at the same time, and some are more problematic than others.

I Want Breakfast in Bed! When is Stepmother's Day?

Raina Wallens | Posted 05.08.2012

Raina Wallens

It's stepparents -- the very people who don't actually have an official day -- who could, well, kind of use one.

Natasha Burton

Why Stepmoms Get Shafted On Mother's Day

HuffingtonPost.com | Natasha Burton | Posted 05.05.2012

To stepmother Judy Osborne, Mother’s Day is “the hardest day of the year.” Osborne, a Brookline, Mass.-based marriage and family therapist, ...

What it Means to be a 'Mature Mom'

Ann Blumenthal Jacobs | Posted 05.21.2012

Ann Blumenthal Jacobs

Mom was in her late 30s when I was born. In the suburbs of the 50s, that could have gone down in Ripley's Believe it or Not, but, it was dealt with directly -- she lied about her age.

The Case Against "Stepmother"

Joel Schwartzberg | Posted 11.29.2011

Joel Schwartzberg

What message does the word "stepmother" convey more clearly than "You're NOT a mother"? And why does a father's new wife need to be contextualized in relation to the mother at all? It declares a winner... as if society doesn't already halo moms over non-moms enough.

Confessions Of A Wicked Step-Mother

Nina Lorez Collins | Posted 09.20.2011

Nina Lorez Collins

When I got married, at twenty-three, I became a stepmother to a seven-year-old-boy. I'd known Jonah since he was four, and his parents had divorced wh...

Cops: Son Couldn't Conceal Parents' Murders With Car Crash Cover-Up

AP | JOE MANDAK | Posted 09.13.2011

SLIPPERY ROCK, Pa. — A man killed his father and stepmother in western Pennsylvania, then tried to cover up the slayings with a story claiming t...

Do Stepmoms Get Short Shrift On Mother's Day?

cnn.com | Posted 07.04.2011

Mother's Day is a sad occasion for many, but not all of the 15 million U.S. stepmothers who have stepchildren under the age of 18. As it approaches...

Are Divorced Parents Doomed To Die Alone?

Vicki Larson | Posted 06.12.2011

Vicki Larson

I wouldn't say that I'd been cocky about my aging parents -- I knew at some point they would pass. But for a long time, as I watched my friends strugg...

How To Make Your Second Wife Feel Special On Valentine's Day

Joel Schwartzberg | Posted 05.25.2011

Joel Schwartzberg

Old habits die hard, but when it comes to Valentine's Day traditions you had with a former spouse, die they must. When you're in a subsequent marriag...

Being A 'Step' Still Carries A Stigma

washingtonpost.com | Carol Morello | Posted 05.25.2011

Call them blended families, bonus families or para-kin. Just don't call them stepfamilies. The term -- seared into our consciousness through fairy tal...

Honor Thy Stepmother: 6 Things Remarried Dads Owe Their New Wives

Joel Schwartzberg | Posted 05.25.2011

Joel Schwartzberg

The stepmother is probably the least-defined role in the contemporary family structure: She is a parent, yet not the parent. A caregiver but not alway...

The Holidays: How Stepfamilies Can Be Happier

Wednesday Martin | Posted 11.17.2011

Wednesday Martin

Stepfamilies often experience extraordinary stress as the holidays--with their pressure cooker of "family" expectations--get underway. So, let go of the Three Big Myths of Stepfamily life.

10 Parenting Tips Every Stepmom Must Know

Rachelle Katz | Posted 11.17.2011

Rachelle Katz

Being a stepmother can be one of the most challenging roles in society, and one that often receives little support, understanding, and appreciation from others.

Let's Stop Expecting Sandra Bullock to Be a Stepmartyr

Wednesday Martin | Posted 05.25.2011

Wednesday Martin

Many women suffer from what I call Stepmartyr Syndrome--embracing the notion that they are going to make it all better for everyone, whatever the cost to them personally.

Stepmother Sisterhood: The Pros and Cons of Online Support

Rachelle Katz | Posted 11.17.2011

Rachelle Katz

As a psychotherapist and stepmother, I know from both personal and professional experience the difficulties faced by many stepmothers. Have you considered joining a support group?

2010: Year of the New American Family

Wednesday Martin | Posted 11.17.2011

Wednesday Martin

Until there is better support, public education, and understanding, here are ten research-based resolutions stepfamilies can make to usher in a new decade of stepfamily satisfaction.

When And Why You Shouldn't Put The Kids First

Wednesday Martin | Posted 11.17.2011

Wednesday Martin

Shunting the husband/wife relationship to the back burner whenever the stepchildren are around is, it turns out, a recipe for marital and step-family disaster.

Stepfamilies To Uncle Sam: Learn To Count!

Wednesday Martin | Posted 11.17.2011

Wednesday Martin

We're hearing a lot about the new U.S. Census these days and many might wonder what, precisely, is at stake. For stepfamilies, the answer is: quite a bit.