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Praying Away the Pounds

Posted: 07/28/11 09:16 AM ET

Yes, it is possible to lose weight, get fit and healthier through prayer. I know prayer works with weight loss and health challenges: I've lost 150 pounds and maintained it almost 20 years only by the grace of God, eating more healthfully and through "re-creation." Without God's help, I would have been dead long ago.

There are so many weight loss diets, pills, diet "food" products, exercise equipment, clubs, gyms, surgical interventions, books, videos -- it's impossible to keep up with them all. I know about those, too. I tried a bunch of them and spent a lot of time and money, but they didn't ultimately work because they're mostly one-dimensional. A lot of them are outright bogus and only exist to get your money. What I learned through years of dieting and nutritional interventions, failing a lot, losing weight and gaining it back, was that I had to also put my mind and spiritual beliefs into practice. I couldn't just focus on my body. I had to deal with my emotions, mental beliefs and improve my spiritual life as well.

Being someone who was addicted to overeating, I discovered nothing in this material world could ever satisfy me. Stuffing myself with excess food, stuffing my emotions down and avoiding moving at all costs just never satisfied. Being with God through prayer and being guided by Him is far more satisfying than any food, emotion or material thing. These days, my prayer consists of only seeking the will of God, through the Jesus Prayer, asking for His help in everything I am and do.

Twenty years ago, when I was desperate to lose weight, there was nothing available that combined body, mind and spiritual solutions. I had to discover my own methods, and after exhausting every diet imaginable, including diet pills and dangerous fasting, and lots of therapy and counseling, all that was left was to ask God for help. So I did, and miracles happened. I was able to focus my mind, resolve a traumatic, emotional past, and finally learn proper nutrition and enjoy moving my body on a regular basis. I reached out for God, and He answered my prayers.

Everything I needed came into place, and I began to slowly, consistently lose weight, enjoy recreation, express myself, and train and educate my mind. Because there wasn't anything that combined spiritual weight loss with emotional work, logic and exercise, I wrote a book ("" target="_hplink">The Joy of Weight Loss: a Spiritual Guide to Easy Fitness") and produced two DVDs on the subject ("Spiritual Guide to Weight Loss" and "Big Body Yoga"). I speak publicly about the power of prayer, to groups and in workshops, because so many people ask me how I lost so much weight and keep it off. I've also been a spiritual weight loss coach for many years. I want to help people as others helped me when I weighed 400 pounds.

It's not enough to just pray away the pounds, though -- we need to become healthier on all levels: in body, mind and spirit, together. Sound familiar? Not just the YMCA's motto, or the Trinity, but Plato in his "Timaeus," around B.C.E 363., taught us that human beings are a composite of not just physical matter, but of mind and spirit as well. The world is seeking balance, and so are we. Plato wrote that humans are like a chariot being pulled by two horses, with mind (intellect) as the charioteer in charge. One horse, the physical body that craves food and drink and pleasure, is unruly. The other horse, representing our higher aspects, is more manageable and calm. Most importantly, Plato reasoned that it was our spiritual self, connecting with our Creator through logic and prayer, that keeps us in balance. We need to nurture and manage all our parts, always moving toward union with God as the highest realm.

So, what to do if you're struggling with overweight or obesity? Give up! Say a prayer right now, and put whatever faith you have into gear. Pray to God, saying out loud, "I need help, I cannot do this alone, please help me." If you're Christian, as I am, pray to Jesus Christ and put your weight problem in His mighty care. If you're a believer or a member of another religion or tradition, ask your Creator as you know him (or her). If you're atheist or non-religious, no problem! Put your problems into the care of your Higher Power, Higher Self or to Nature. You might also want to go to the next Twelve Step group, such as Overeater's Anonymous. There you'll find others who you can speak confidentially with, and share in prayer. Or your church, synagogue, temple or shrine.

By praying and giving up your weight and health problems and asking for help, you're accomplishing many things: you are saying to God and the world that you believe, you're admitting that you cannot do everything alone, you're surrendering the burden and literally lifting the weight off your shoulders. As you're praying, try to be in a peaceful, or even silent place. Enjoy the feeling of being with God in silence, connecting with prayer. Know that God or your Higher Power is not only with you, He's inside you, hearing the prayer. Do this as often as possible, when waking up in the morning, during your daily work and before going to sleep.

Prayer is the first step in a program that's balanced with nutritional education, eating well so that you're satisfied and getting all the right nutrients in smaller quantities, feeling and expressing your emotions, and sharpening your mind and intellect.

With God, all things are possible -- especially getting healthier, losing weight and becoming a whole, happy person.

For more on the Jesus Prayer, visit JesusPrayerMovie.com.

 
 
 

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Yes, it is possible to lose weight, get fit and healthier through prayer. I know prayer works with weight loss and health challenges: I've lost 150 pounds and maintained it almost 20 years only by the...
Yes, it is possible to lose weight, get fit and healthier through prayer. I know prayer works with weight loss and health challenges: I've lost 150 pounds and maintained it almost 20 years only by the...
 
 
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09:48 AM on 08/04/2011
An amoeba lives and thrives for its appointed time without a brain and without consciousness. It's behaviors are very complex, and must all arise from the evolved form itself. Every cell in our bodies comes from the same tree of life. There is no way that the conscious self is running our show. We are an amoeba with the added evolved mechanism called consciousness. We are not animated simplistically by our thoughts, even if our thoughts think so.

So it is hard for me to understand the skepticism regarding prayer and God belief in a case like this. The writer is not saying that some God person swooped down from the sky and fixed his fat. For me he is only saying that his conscious rational self couldn't fix it until he let that go and let his irrational amoeba take over. Rational consciousness is a tool of the organism, but it is not motivation and it does not have access to motivation. We don't decide what we want. But, though it is a mystery to me, a non-praying atheist, we do seem to be able to tap into our life intentionality by clearing our mind of the conscious reason making long enough for something else to happen. You can call it "God's will" if you like, and I won't object although I most certainly don't think that God exists as an agent in the sky.
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Hillbilly49
Don't tell me you are a Christian; let me guess.
02:29 PM on 08/02/2011
If talking to imaginary friends helps you lose weight; I say go for it.
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archspoiler
my micro-bio is empty
08:01 AM on 08/02/2011
Correlation is not causation (see Down inFL's brilliant post about taping cotton balls to cats).

And there is no god to pray to, so the entire exercise is a "spiritual" form of placebo.
09:48 PM on 08/01/2011
This very much reminds me of those weight loss pill commercials--"Taking this expensive pill, along with modifications in your diet and a rigorous exercise, is guaranteed to make you lose weight."

Or, you could skip the prayer--uh, pill--and just do the other two and get the exact same results.
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Down in FL
It's all about the density of states
08:08 PM on 08/01/2011
I lost weight by dieting, exercising, and taping cotton balls to cats. I can only conclude that the latter helps people lose weight.
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01:12 PM on 08/03/2011
F&F you literally made me spit out my coffee laughing. thanks!
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Zilo
Independent/Republicans love big government
10:07 PM on 08/03/2011
Lol. Brilliant. Faved.
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Avery Owen
FIDO!
08:48 AM on 08/01/2011
Ok, I see how this works..... while in prayer, your health friends snatches all of the bad food out of your house and then make you run down the street to retrieve it.
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StevenM
Chess Coach
11:35 PM on 07/30/2011
If Christians were on average thinner than the rest of the population, then perhaps you would have some sort of argument in your favor. But all you have is anecdotal evidence. Perhaps you should consider taking a few statistic courses; they would be able to explain the difference to you.
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YourNewNeighbor
Dancing with the Stones
09:41 PM on 08/01/2011
What's your chess rating?

My highest was 2204........had a bullet rating on ICC of 2350.
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StevenM
Chess Coach
08:15 AM on 08/02/2011
My peak was 2149, but now I'm a "life A-player."
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chaapai
just an earthbound misfit, I
02:21 PM on 07/30/2011
I find this notion completelyDisgusting. I just finished watching a report on the starvation&despair in Africa and here you are claiming that thru prayer, you lost weight?! Some how God heard your prayers for weight loss and yet is ignoring the humanitarian crisis in Africa and around the world?

Do you hear yourself? Do you see the absurdityofyourclaim?

Millions are dyingfromstarvation; sicknessanddisease… never having done anything to harm anyone. Their only crime is being born in Africa or some otherdesperate place and yet because you prayed for weight loss…. God answered your prayer over theirs?!

AbsolutelyDisgusting! If I live a million years I will never understand the religious and their belief in prayer!

This is another story that reaffirms my belief that thereisnoGod.
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Craig 212
Tide goes in, tide goes out.
10:50 PM on 07/29/2011
That kind of weight loss is a major achievement and something to be proud of. Saying God is responsible kinda diminishes that.
08:11 PM on 07/29/2011
You mean we can get into better physical shape through diet, exercise, and prayer!?.. Wait! What does payer have to do with it!? And does it matter which god we pray to?
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01:15 PM on 08/03/2011
no no you got it all wrong, you lose weight through diet, exercise and swinging a lemur around by its tail a half dozen times a day.
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07:19 PM on 07/29/2011
sounds like watered down 12 step program. glad it works for some people.
06:48 PM on 07/29/2011
Congratulations, Dr. Chumley, on your weight loss. I think that prayer obviously worked for you. I wonder why prayer does not work for so many people who are suffering, but it worked for you? Do you think that God has favorites?
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01:16 PM on 08/03/2011
his "Ph.D" must make him special.
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taoistpunk
because the monks wouldn't have me..
03:05 PM on 07/29/2011
i'm glad that you found the will power to take care of yourself, regardless of where it came from.

but if you really want to impress me, pray that hair back on to the top of your head..
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08:03 AM on 08/02/2011
god may be partial to those who invented him.
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carllafong
Don't tell me I don't love ya.
09:28 AM on 07/29/2011
I'm praying that someone comes up with a better tasting cat food.
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08:39 PM on 08/02/2011
Cats all taste the same.
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carllafong
Don't tell me I don't love ya.
12:52 AM on 08/03/2011
Not if they're properly cooked.
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01:17 PM on 08/03/2011
lol thanks for the laughs
09:01 AM on 07/29/2011
That A causes B does not prove anything about C.

(The assumption being made that prayer is efficacious in this case because supposed listener to prayer is supposed Christian deity: an assumption which is not, and cannot be proven by efficacy of said prayer.)