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Who Protects And Serves When The Elderly Are Fleeced?

Posted: 01/29/2012 5:30 pm

Nine months ago, before my mother passed away, before this horror show (my awareness of my parents' money being stolen right out from under everyone's noses) began, if anyone had suggested to me just how easy it is to steal from the elderly and just how often it happens -- AND how unattainable justice is after the fact -- I think I might have gasped incredulously but privately I'd probably have reassured myself with something like, "It's a terrible crime, of course, but it could not possibly happen with that kind of frequency. Surely, in this great country of ours, such horrendous and flagrant violations of the law could not possibly go unpunished!"

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And guess what? I'd have been dead wrong. This is not Law and Order, and it will not get neatly wrapped up at the end of sixty minutes. In fact, hard a pill as it is for me to swallow, I now know it will never get wrapped up, neatly or otherwise. Hence the birth of my upcoming film, Last Will and Embezzlement -- a feature-length documentary which delves deeply into the topic of elder exploitation. I had to do something ...

What most Americans are unaware of (and that included me, I assure you!) are the "threshold policies" throughout the US. Simplistically put, because resources are stretched so thin these days, and because all prosecutions have an expense associated with them, each state establishes its own "off the books" policy regarding "dollar amount thresholds" -- the actual financial value assigned to a particular embezzlement case (money stolen vs. what the state might be able to realize at the end of a successful prosecution) -- below which a case simply is not in their interest to pursue. In other words, if they don't think it's worth it, the authorities will simply refuse to do anything about it. Of course, they will never state it that way, but that's what happens.

The effect of these thresholds, outside of saving the state loads of money, is that the lion's share of perpetrators will never be prosecuted -- and they know it. And the effect of that is that it actually encourages repeat offenses, because it creates safety zones in which these perpetrators may operate with impunity.

Implausible as all this may sound, it is more often the rule than the exception. And if you think for one moment that this social problem is not something that effects you, think again. Baby Boomers control 80% of the world's personal finances and we are turning 65 at a rate of 61,000 per day across the globe (in modernized countries, that is).

Our world is facing the largest transfer of wealth from one generation to the next in history, putting into harm's way more than 500 million Baby Boomers as we march headlong into old age ourselves -- not to mention our adult children and our already-aged parents. And all I can say is every man, woman and child had better wake up and they'd better do it soon.

Pamela S. K. Glasner is a published author and a filmmaker. More information about Last Will and Embezzlement and Ms. Glasner can be found at www.lastwillandembezzlement.com, http://tinyurl.com/6tmtfmp, and http://tinyurl.com/2cn8bpo

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05:48 PM on 02/24/2012
Among the worst perpetrators are familky members, becauise they know the inside-out of an elders
assets. Take my son for instrance..He stole my valuable inheritance (my financial security in my old age -I am now 85) right out from my recorded judgment, thjat all assets are under my sole ownership.
He and his attorney went to Probate court, and by Affidavit only, had a Trustee appointed over my inheritance, with no access during my lifetime, to secure his inheritance. I have been fighting for my righjtful asset for the past 10 year, And when I finally went public with such tyranny, I was sued for $55,000.00 defamation. He won again... Makes one wonder, where the judicuary has its advantage
from such disrespect for the Law and the State's Constitution. EB
06:55 PM on 02/04/2012
It's much easier to "steal" with a pen than a gun.

Unlawful and abusive guardianships are harming families and pauperizing vulnerable, disabled, and elderly people all over this country.

Guardianship law is designed to "guard", "conserve", and "protect" incompetent people and the public. Over the years, the laws have been misused, misapplied, or manipulated to unjustly enrich court-appointed fiduciaries at the expense of and to the detriment of the very people the courts have assigned them to protect.

Who pays the price? Every taxpayer picks up the Medicaid tab when wards are pauperized into indigence under the guise of "protection."

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08:37 PM on 01/31/2012
I had an elderly friend who kept buying from sweepstakes, was promised she was a winner. The scam went so far as to ask her to plan a party, on such and such day, the check would arrive. Have all your friends there, we will deliver the check at a specific time. She planned the party, guests came, and .....no check. She bought hundreds of dollars of merchandise she couldn't afford, and this scam left her an embarrassed and broken woman. Nothing was ever done to the purpetrators.
06:46 PM on 01/31/2012
I wish this article had more information. That said, the elderly are often targeted for scammers, and must be always aware of these.

Fake house repair contractors are especially common in my area.
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10:44 PM on 01/31/2012
Sweepstakes are another.
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James Ortegard
06:25 PM on 01/31/2012
It's such a drag getting older!
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Leon Engelun
04:54 PM on 01/31/2012
I don't have anything to steal, unless someone wants the two dogs I have. I decided to spend everything so no one would be bugging me for anything when I got old. So far it has worked. The phone hasn't rang in over a week and I haven't had a visitor in over 2 months.
03:31 PM on 01/31/2012
I hAVE BEEN A CAREGIVER FOR THE ELDERLY AND PART OF MY JOB WAS TO SHOP FOR MY CLIENT. I SET UP AN ARRANGEMENT WITH THE CHILDREN, THEY GAVE ME CASH AND I TURNED IN ALL RECIEPTS WEEKLY. I ASKED THE CHILDREN TO HAVE ALL HOUSEHOLD BILLS GO DIRECTLY TO THE BANK FOR PAYMENT. WHEN TO CLIENT PASSED AWAY ALL RECIEPTS AND CASH WERE RETURNED TO THE CHILDREN THE SAME DAY. THESE ARRANGEMENTS MADE MY CLIENTS LIFE SAFE AND GAVE HIM TIME TO FIGURE OUT WHERE WE WOULD GO FOR THE DAY, HIS NEXT ROUTE TO CHASE ME WITH THE MOWER.
GOODDOC1
"civil war" is an oxymoron
08:18 PM on 01/31/2012
It sounds like you were a good caregiver. I wish more people could follow your example. (I love the picture of your puppy dog!)
03:09 PM on 01/31/2012
All the decent paying jobs have left the country that means less are paying into SS THAT is 1 reason SS is going broke....+ the politicians stealing from it ...they got the key to the lockbox...take some time to. Ck & see just how much they have pilfered from Social Security....
GOODDOC1
"civil war" is an oxymoron
08:19 PM on 01/31/2012
And this has what to do with the article? Please read it. Just because it's about the elderly doesn't mean this is an appropriate place for your rant.
03:07 PM on 01/31/2012
i have been doing estate-sales for many years nj,ny now tx what i have seen first hand&been told by the families who hired me.was shocking&sad,the attorney's (not all of them) delegate to others so they all get a piece of the pie.when i intervened a called them they threadent me! so what i do now is tell them what they can do to protect themselves.i call it legal stealing.one of my clients was charged $40.000 for just a signature.the will was ironclad.i really wish they would pass a law about this so this wont go on any longer
GOODDOC1
"civil war" is an oxymoron
08:25 PM on 01/31/2012
Is there a State Ombudsman's office where you live? They helped a friend when that kind of thing was going on with her mother (except it was her sister who was trying to steal the money). If you have 211 in your area, maybe they could give you the number, as well as other resources. Or maybe you could get the number from your local Senior Center, or the Socisl Services Dept. at your local hospital. Good luck!
02:44 PM on 01/31/2012
My dad passed away in 1999, my mom is still going strong, I owe them every bit of who I am today.
And my mom knows that when the time comes that she can no longer take care of herself she can count on me. That is the least I can do for two wonderful parents. Love you mom & dad.
04:39 PM on 01/31/2012
You are sweet.
06:17 PM on 01/31/2012
God bless you, Dusty! You have renewed my belief that there are indeed still some very wonderful people in this world. If I had wrtitten the book entitled, the "Five People You Meet in Heaven", I would have included you in that number. I have no doubt that that your Mom is a great lady blessed with a caring child who will be her greatest legacy.
02:32 PM on 01/31/2012
When you see things that are not right...like when a parent has a stroke & can't talk too well or comuicate & when 1 child who is the excutor is stealing her $$$ selling her car..etc....you don't want to interfere...what can be done ???
05:04 PM on 01/31/2012
Consult with an elder law attorney.
05:31 PM on 01/31/2012
Yo have every right to interfere. If this person is your friend (or realtive) you must speak for her. Speak to the other children or a sister or brother of the parent.
02:21 PM on 01/31/2012
Yeah....I have a relative, that was put in charge of an uncle with dementia and other problems. My uncle was not able to care for himself, in any way shape or form. After he passed and reading his will and other papers, it was clear that the relative taking care of him, had him sign away all of his money to her and her husband, who is a half brother of hers. The guy was incapable of making a decision at the time he signed off, yet they had his signature notarized and the monies put into their accounts. The amount of monies was in the $750,000 range. First thing they did, was by land in Key West, Marathon, Florida area and are living happily ever after. Now they are zeroing on my mother......it is not going to end well. The law wouldn't do anything about them, lawyers said that what they did, was as illegal as all get out, but wanted 50,000 to start to go after them....and then they wanted a percentage of money recovered.
GOODDOC1
"civil war" is an oxymoron
08:28 PM on 01/31/2012
Call Adult Protective Services and ask if they can help. Or maybe you could find a lawyer who would take the case on consignment.
02:17 PM on 01/31/2012
Kids owe their parents a lot...look after them , or you'll be sorry when their gone......
12:58 PM on 01/31/2012
Sad when adult kids steal/demand money from elderly parents.Adults need to learn to say NO,and control where their money goes regardless of who is taking it.
02:19 PM on 01/31/2012
This article never mentioned it was the children. How did you come to that conclusion?
06:14 PM on 01/31/2012
Lots of times,the elderly are afraid to fight back.
12:50 PM on 01/31/2012
Being a boomer, I have taken many precautions. My phone is set NOT to ring EVER unless someone on my contact list calls..all family & friends. Everyone knows to call me if they are coming to see me....if I don't get a call, I do not answer the door...no matter who is there. When I am out, I do not carry a purse..No checks & no cash in my home nor my purse. I only use paypal to shop online. When a person gets too elderly to maintain their financial safety, someone else needs to take responsiblity for their money. That is what my family has done since my great grandparents and not one elder has lost a penny to scammers.
03:44 PM on 01/31/2012
Beware!!!! Often it is family that steals it all. POA's are not monitered. They are a license to steal.
My parents accounts were drained, their house mortgaged. $98 left to their name!
State atty won't prosecute...because it was a POA. We are in a law suit against the bank that allowed over 70 checks to be cashed(each over $4500, some for $25,000.) that were written to the attorney in fact(man with POA) personally. Nearly a million dollars has vanished into thin air.
Elder crimes are usually not committed by strangers, but most often by family or dear friends.
God will have to be the just judge because we can't even get the sherriffs office to consider this theft a crime.
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10:15 PM on 01/31/2012
I know of a case where a nephew was given a POA by the nursing home who only cared about getting paid, so naturally they expediated and accomodated matters. While auntie was in the nursing home suffering from dementia, the nephew sold everything she had, cleaned out the bank accounts and paid hardly any of her bills.

When various relations contacted this nephew inquiring about wether there was a will, since auntie had no immediate family, only cousins, the nephew told the relatives that there was no will and further, that anything she had went to the nursing home.

None of this was true. The nephew had destroyed the will. This was 15 years ago. He got away with theft and financial expolitation of an elderly person but since no relative pursued legal action, nothing happened.

This aunt was not of sound mind when she executed this POA. I am sure this happens all the time and a lot of people get in on the action because they're getting paid.
He made out like a bandit