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Respecting Women

Posted: 03/18/11 03:29 PM ET

During the recent debate over women's health, 240 members of Congress, mostly men, voted for denying affordable health care to women. At the head of the pack was a Congressman from New Jersey, Chris Smith. He has been fighting against women for over three decades.

This outrageous attack on women's health and reproductive rights provoked another member of Congress, Jackie Speier of California, to reveal that she had undergone an abortion. "I lost a baby," Speier began softly, admonishing Republicans for graphically describing the procedure she had endured. "But for you to stand on this floor and to suggest, as you have, that somehow this is a procedure that is either welcomed or done cavalierly or done without any thought is preposterous."

The legislation points at Planned Parenthood, the punching bag for anyone who opposes women's health. Planned Parenthood is the one agency that provides local services to over five million women. The money coming to support these services cannot be used for abortions. It pays for things like mammograms, pap smears and birth control.

Serving as a Peace Corps nursing instructor in Northeast Brazil, I recall sitting in the health clinic examining babies. A woman shuffled in who was bent and drawn, and I thought in my naïveté that this was a seventy-year-old woman bringing her grandbaby in for health care. Women never came in for health care themselves; they only came to the clinic when the babies were sick.

As I interviewed her and examined the baby, I discovered that this was her baby. She was thirty-five years old. She told me that in her reproductive life she had already had twenty-one pregnancies.

That was a moment in which my life shifted. And I became deeply committed to women's reproductive rights. Sitting in that health post or going door-to-door talking to women, I came in contact with the stark reality that many women have no say-so in when and how they get pregnant.

All these years later, we know that education and access to birth control make a tremendous difference for women, their health and the health of their families. Two things have not changed: Planned Parenthood and its presence in the community; and Rep. Chris Smith and his opposition to women.

I have testified in committees before him at various times in my life. He has not become the least bit enlightened. Now he has been joined by enough members to make his dream come true.

You want to make abortion rare? Then let's make sure women are educated and have the ability and means to become pregnant only when they and their mates want a child that they are committed too for the rest of their lives. Let's listen to their stories of what they need to be healthy and strong.

Even the new president of Focus on the Family has recently indicated an interest in joining abortion rights advocates to make abortion less common.

But this legislation and debate isn't really about Planned Parenthood. It isn't really about abortion. It isn't about even birth control. It has always been about controlling women. It has always been about questioning our ability to be moral beings.

I think we need to have more women in Congress like Rep. Jackie Speier. And less members like Chris Smith. Then maybe women will get more respect. Meanwhile I will stand with Planned Parenthood.

 

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Tom Langley
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02:30 PM on 03/25/2011
Here is the dichotomy in the conservative position that has never washed for me. How can you be FOR the rights of unwanted children to be born, but AGAINST their access to helth care that will keep them alive once they are born? how can that be a defensible position in a couuntry supposedly built on well reasoned and insightful governance by the rule of law. Those positions are diametriclaly opposed to one antother, yet frequently fall from the same lips, separated only by a comma's pause. How can you propose to criminalize the mothers behavior to not bring a new life into the world, (before it has started in any realistic or difinitive way), but celebrate the withholding of medical care to keep the life viable once it arrives? How can those be ideas that coexist in the same reasonable human. They're quite simply not compatible. So what inference can a reasonable person draw here? That the constituency supporting each idea continues to purchase lip time from the political proponents of those ideas and whichever constituency runs out of money will suddenly find itself on the wrong side of the argument. So by defunding the sane and well reasoned pracitioners who are tyring to prevent the catastrophe of a mother ever needing to decide such a matter, (abortion or slow, miserable, observed, death by lack of health care), places them squarely in the out of money camp, Big money - big voice:No money - no voice, so says your
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Tom Langley
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02:17 PM on 03/25/2011
Truth to Power. Spot on!
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05:48 PM on 03/23/2011
At the risk of showing my age: Right on!
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Nancy Cronk
Founder, Progressive Outreach Colorado
03:19 AM on 03/23/2011
Beautifully written, Pat. You hit the problem right on the nose.
11:59 AM on 03/20/2011
Planned Parenthood
With apologies to Joyce Kilmer, author of Trees

I thought that I would never see
A program sacred as P.P.

A program that Barack will back
Against the GOP attack.

A program Biden will defend
Against the budget cutting trend.

A program for which Nancy fights
Beneath the flag of women's rights.

A program for which Harry Reid
Would shutter government indeed.

When deficits begin to squeeze
We see their true priorities.

While other programs come and go
This sacred cow must stay just so.

thebardofmurdock.blogspot.com
05:57 PM on 03/18/2011
Pat, your story of the 35 year old woman is very sad indeed. But surely there are better ways of protecting young women from this fate than to offer contraception and serial abortion and send them back into the same abusive situation which gave rise to 21 pregnancies.

One obvious first step is to ensure that 12 year old girls in extreme poverty are not sold off to older men into a lifetime of sexual slavery.

Girls should be protected not just from early marriage but also from premature sexual initiation.

Adolescent girls are particularly vulnerable to serious sexually transmitted diseases because their reproductive tracts are still maturing and tears in the tissue allow easy access to infection.

A disturbing report on adolescent sexuality by the UN Population Division reveals that sexual intercourse for adolescent girls under 15 years of age usually occurs under pressure; and that the risk for girls of contracting HIV is 500 to 600 per cent higher than for boys.

If we want real respect for women, it has to start earlier with better protection for girls at risk of being initiated into lifelong sexual abuse.

Promoting contraception and abortion in situations of extreme social injustice and exploitation is just a sop to the collective conscience of public policy-makers blind to the real plight of these poor children who remain trapped in their tragic circumstances, deprived of a truly human relationship where love is a protective not a destructive experience.
04:06 PM on 03/18/2011
and so will i. great message.
03:32 PM on 03/18/2011
Thank you Pat
It it wasn't for your winters, I'd wish I lived in Colorado so I could vote for you!