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Patricia Foulkrod

Patricia Foulkrod

Posted: September 1, 2010 06:54 PM

Obama, the Truth Will Set Them Free

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President Obama mentioned a soldier from the Army's 4th Brigade, 2nd Infantry Division, who stated that he wished those who are no longer here could have seen the withdrawal.

In last week's LA Times, Ned Parker reported comments from the same Army 4th Brigade. One soldier, as they passed an Iraqi field said, "Saddam really hid those WMD well." Everyone laughed. Another said, "I have no faith in people whatsoever. Put two people in a room with a hammer and one of them will wind up dead." Parker's article is a cautionary tale that President Obama does not have the stomach to tell. He loves the troops, but like a father who can't admit that his son is in deep trouble and it may be from his parenting, neither Obama, Bush, nor the Pentagon will ever admit the deepest wound we have inflicted on our best and brightest. It is one thing to say a war is difficult and cost billions - it is not going well - it may not be won. It is quite another to admit to over 1.5 million volunteer soldiers as over 400,000 have already filed medical claims, that there was no mission, except to come home.

I directed, The Ground Truth, a 2007 documentary film regarding the physical and emotional effects our current wars are having on our soldiers. Over and over I heard the same response from soldiers in the Army, Marines, Navy, National Guard; it ceased to make sense to ask the question: What do you think is the mission in Iraq? 99% said a variation of: "to protect your buddies, get this shit over with, and go home."

The first thing I learned from interviewing a military general is that your troops must buy into a combat mission in war, if you want to be successful. I would add, if you want your soldiers to come home with less PTSD, less intrusive thoughts, less drug and alcohol addiction, less domestic and violent crimes at home, less suicides, and possibility more ability to transition back to their families, children and community. Unfortunately, time in Iraq for many will set the stage for a new war at home, and even after a mission soldier's believe in, the effects of war are often deep. However, more money, more therapists, and more citizen support for our troops cannot heal the no mission wound.

I have seen severe depression, drugs, an inability to ask for help in the VA maze that most can not navigate on a good day, and most painful, the young wives living with traumatic brain injured husbands who used to be dudes and studs and are now unable to feed themselves. And the silent question of "Why" is deafening, and not uttered because this war's pain wants relief, and it is perceived to be cruel and unpatriotic to tell a mother her son died, is permanently wounded or mentally disturbed in vain.

We need to stop telling our soldiers how brave and heroic they are - and start asking for their forgiveness for telling them they were liberating people who blew them up, forced them to impose democracy on tribal people they did not understand, and still keep asking them to protect contractors who are corporate slaves making twice their salaries. We knew down to our core there was no mission, so we acted like a country not at war. I know many soldiers helped the Iraqi people, did what they could to train their soldiers, and that some of these soldiers have spent more years with Iraqis than with their families. I also know military service is cherished by many, many soldiers despite hating the Iraq War and not having a mission.

Until we can look our soldiers in the eye and tell them what they already know better than anyone else - that there was no mission - how can we genuinely welcome them home or expect them to heal? They will be looking in that rear-view mirror for years to come whether they want to or not while we move on to Afghanistan and Pakistan. They will see in that mirror things they wish were not there that we can never see or erase. But we can at least acknowledge that they are not crazy for their frustration and anguish as they had to do their duty while trying to figure for over seven years why they went, and why they were deployed over and over again to fix the mission that could never be found.

 
 
 
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03:48 PM on 09/04/2010
The truth really does not matter. The way Obama presents it AND how much support he gets is how it will be perceived

We see it in numerous political issues where everyone understands reality and the basic facts but the right-wing doesn't care and runs on rumors and lies
07:10 AM on 09/05/2010
Rumors and lies are all they have. That and discouraging people from voting.

The rich and their conservative followers will always be a minority. The only way for a minority to win an election is to lie and cheat or discourage others from voting.
08:17 AM on 09/03/2010
Thank you for writing this- just some of the terrible things that need to be said. I use to think that if only people knew the truth they would do all that they could to bring the war to an end. Now, I too know the real truth, there is no desire in our Country for the truth about this war, for accountability or for anything other than forgetting. "page turning" - for me there is a coffin that sits on the page, for many it is the wounds of body and heart, for others it is the life that they had believed in forever off track. Our soldiers will carry scars from the lies for their lifetime, and I suspect, as you do Patricia, that no amount of eloquence makes the experience of this war ever square with justice.
Celeste Zappala
Mother of Sgt. Sherwood Baker, KIA 4/26/04 Baghdad
PA National Guard soldier killed while protecting the Iraq Survey Group as they looked for WMD
06:16 PM on 09/02/2010
Obama may just have so many balls in the air that he's taking and talking the old war playbook of justification, patriotism, etc. - instead of soberly, maturely telling us the tough truths: Iraq did not go well. Mistakes were made. We will learn from those mistakes. But, no. Same ol' happyspin and the vets and the Iraqi people especially will bear the cost.
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BlackJAC
It's better to be a black king than a white knight
12:09 PM on 09/02/2010
Every soldier in every military in every nation in every conflict throughout history has said it's about protecting your buddies than whatever got the conflict started in the first place. I even have an old 1990s sci-fi show on DVD where one colonel tells all the nuggets that the words "courage," "honor," "dedication" and "sacrifice" were used to get them to the front lines and now "life" is the only word that matters anymore.
08:15 AM on 09/02/2010
Lets face reality. If the President, his Attorney General or anyone on behalf of him were to bring charges against the last administration; you think things are wild and out of control now? And a Bush too? Where have you people been?
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tnkeating
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10:52 PM on 09/01/2010
Coming home is always the mission, don't expect healing to happen, these guys and gals have seen things that make a billy goat puke and a bunch of them have been there 6 or 7 times already. I would suggest you not tell them YOUR truth, that is if you want to keep your teeth, they know why they were there, they volunteered.
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08:20 PM on 09/01/2010
The truth about the pointlessness of this war may possibly set damaged soldiers free but I suspect it will also be a foreign policy domino-drop. Once we admit THIS war was for no good reason, it will beg the question: how many more were just as pointless? We may have to acknowledge our own complicity in a war-economy designed to enrich a tiny few. We will be forced to confront our role in the hatred that some feel for our country and its actions on their soil. We may have to accept the truth of our Actions (as opposed to the flag-waving, patriotic blurb of our "Ideas").

Too many hard questions and no easy answers. We MIGHT confront them and take constructive steps ... but that isn't where the smart money is placed.
07:03 PM on 09/01/2010
You've got Colin Powell with the Powell Doctrine, something put together from his bitter experience in Vietnam. You've got Geo Bush the commander in chief. You've got Cheney, Rumsfeld, Wolfovits, Feith, Bolton, Rice, Libby, and I should not forget Pearle. They all make the good soldier salute but they are no better than an priest who has abused a child. And what is it that we learn from all of this? Nothing. Look the other way. Don't say anything.... it might be unpatriotic or sacregligious.

You are right that it is truth that will set you free. I for one would like the truth about building #7 and we can move forward from there.