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Paul Golin

What Is the Biggest Divide in the Jewish Community?

Posted: 10/ 8/10 08:12 PM ET

A recent article by preeminent Jewish historian Dr. Jonathan Sarna demonstrates how, contrary to predictions, rifts between American Jewish denominations have failed to tear our community asunder -- even between Orthodox and the more liberal streams -- and in fact, there's considerably more unity than anyone might have imagined a decade or two ago.

Though Dr. Sarna doesn't mention it, perhaps part of the explanation for this lack of denominational strife is because all the movements are experiencing a trend toward greater Jewish ritual practice. Non-Orthodox Jews are rediscovering the mikvah (ritual bath), and Reform Judaism's growing interest in ritual practice is particularly striking considering the movement's founding rejection of such "ideas entirely foreign to our present [1880s] mental and spiritual state."

This shift toward more ritual practice, as well as the intensified search for spirituality demonstrated by the rise in independent minyanim (prayer groups), might suggest that the greatest rift in the Jewish community is between religious Jews (of all denominations) and the non-religious, or believers versus non-believers, or perhaps between the synagogue-affiliated and the unaffiliated.

But that's not it. There are countless ways to get deeply involved in Jewish life without having to engage in religious Judaism. Some of the community's finest leaders are not religious at all but express their Judaism through political, social, and/or cultural activities. You don't need to be involved religiously to be involved Jewishly.

Likewise, the biggest divide is not intermarriage, though some continue to blame the trend for creating two completely different "Jewries." Intermarriage in and of itself doesn't determine anything other than a diversification of our gene pool. Intermarried Jews and children of intermarriage have become Jewish philanthropists, presidents of their synagogues (when allowed to be), and dedicated Jewish communal professionals. A terrible disservice is done to the half-million to one million non-Jewish parents helping to raise Jewish children whenever our community commissions yet another study to demonstrate how different the intermarried are from the in-married. It's a red herring.

The biggest divide in the Jewish community is between "insider" and "outsider." And that divide is growing wider, to the point where we may see an irreparable, Arctic-ice-shelf-like drop-off in the Jewish population over the next 20 years, if we can't find a way to better bridge the gap between the inside and out.

"Insiders" can be of any denomination, post-denominational or anti-denominational; they can be in-married, intermarried or single; heterosexual or LGBT; religious, agnostic or atheist. But what they all have in common is a deep engagement with their Jewish identity, which often (though not always) manifests itself through participation in the organized Jewish community.

"Outsiders" don't. They aren't involved in synagogues, JCCs, Jewish Federations, or the new organizations of Jewish expression sprouting up, and being Jewish is tangential to their overall identity. Whether it's apathy or anger; their rejection of Judaism, or their feelings of being rejected by the Jewish community; or that they simply don't know or don't believe there's any good reason for them to dig deeper, "outsiders" have weak links to their own Jewish identities.

And in general, "insiders" are moving toward more Judaism and increased expressions of Jewish identity, while "outsiders" are growing further away from the community. The middle is dropping out. Decades ago you could do nothing Jewish but still have a very strong ethnic Jewish identity, or live in an all-Jewish neighborhood and be Jewish by default; those days are gone, and to be Jewish requires many more conscious decisions than in the past.

Of course, these labels of "insider" and "outsider" are oversimplifications, as are all labels. Many Jews move in and out of engagement with their Jewish identity over time, so that most of us know what it feels like to have been both an "insider" and an "outsider" to the Jewish community at different points in our lives, sometimes even both at the same time.

Nevertheless, considering that the Jewish community has grouped individuals into categories for generations -- for ease of comparison so that we might diagnose what is inevitably wrong with us -- I believe "insider"/"outsider" is both the most important and least examined dichotomy in the Jewish community today. And I'm alarmed, as I work with the inside of the community, how little-recognized the phenomenon is, and how few in the community realize its magnitude. Literally millions of American Jews are headed toward the exits, and we aren't putting nearly enough resources toward trying to convince them that it's worth it for them to engage or re-engage.

The challenge is that so much of the inside of our community can feel so..."insidery." To be an "insider" means, by definition, to exclude others. And yes, there are far more children of intermarriage, GLBT Jews, and multiracial Jewish families on the outside of the organized Jewish community, so any growth strategy must include providing access for specific populations. But the first step is to see our community through the eyes of our "outsiders," which is difficult and uncomfortable for our "insiders" to do. Many "insiders" I've worked with believe their community is amazingly warm and welcoming, and it is -- to them. They need to recognize why it's not to those on the outside.

The Jewish community is blessed with so-called "mega-donors" who are trying to make sweeping changes to demographic trends through programs of culture and education, like free Israel trips for Jewish youth. And I am encouraged by the growing recognition that any appeal to those on the outside should not be based on the traditional Jewish tactics of fear or guilt. This is about sharing the hope and meaning that those of us on the inside have experienced, and that we know our community can provide.

However, new programs should be honest about their goals. Are they genuinely trying to engage "outsiders" in Jewish life, or are they creating new forms of Jewish expression for those already on the inside? Both goals are meritorious, but only one will address the future growth of the Jewish community. If we genuinely want to reach the "outsiders," our programs of welcoming and engagement need to be greatly amplified and directed at all Americans, because that's where the Jews are now. This is not an either-or proposition; we can continue to delight in the new forms of Jewish expression our young insiders are creating for themselves, but let's also bring Judaism into the marketplace of ideas so that we can engage many more of those currently on the outside of our community.

 
 
 

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A recent article by preeminent Jewish historian Dr. Jonathan Sarna demonstrates how, contrary to predictions, rifts between American Jewish denominations have failed to tear our community asunder -- e...
A recent article by preeminent Jewish historian Dr. Jonathan Sarna demonstrates how, contrary to predictions, rifts between American Jewish denominations have failed to tear our community asunder -- e...
 
 
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11:58 AM on 10/15/2010
When you find someone who is just as lost as you are a bonding takes place that units the two of you and yet you are just as lost as before and nothing has really changed
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Jeffin90019
Your religion is your lifestyle choice. Not mine.
07:50 PM on 10/11/2010
I gave up organized religion completely the day I realized that organized religion is really about political domination by spiritual enslavement. Since belief in god and belief in Santa are about the same, I decided to become a Santaist. I believe in rewarding the good and punishing the bad but always trying to bring joy and happiness to the world. If only organized religion believed in that instead of all that 'mean god' nonsense meant to scare the ignorant.
New Yorker
Roman Catholic, Anti-DEATH, Combat Vet, Sinner
08:29 PM on 10/11/2010
If you are so happy with your decision, why are you here telling us what doesn't concern us ? Incidentally religion is the search for God's truth. They are not all worth doing, as you yourself are proof. The scientologist, Jehovah's Witnesses, Jim Jones Followers, and other religio-fads attest. The Roman Catholic Church has been around for over 2000 years and was founded by Christ on Saint Peter. Human enterprises seldon survive that long, so bet that God has a purpose in it. And it dmits its roots lie in the Jewish Torah, that predates the birth of Christ. Since time itself is measured from before BC or AD after the life of Christ, you might just wanna give Christianity the benefit of the doubt. Either that or the Catholics have the best Publicity people of all time.
05:05 PM on 10/14/2010
"Either that or the Catholics have the best Publicity people of all time."

Roman emperors can pull off some serious PR.
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Jeffin90019
Your religion is your lifestyle choice. Not mine.
03:05 AM on 10/17/2010
I wondered how long it would take a faithful follower of a religion to suggest that my life was less worthy because I don't believe the Judeo- Christian mythology. I believe in being a force of good. You believe in judgment, complete with precedents and footnotes and historical references. Because surely what you believe is right, and what I believe is wrong. THIS is what organized religion does to people: It pits them against each other.
01:07 AM on 10/17/2010
Is there a sanity clause associated with Santaism?
New Yorker
Roman Catholic, Anti-DEATH, Combat Vet, Sinner
11:50 AM on 10/11/2010
Jesus and the first Christians were all Jews. That is the biggest 'Rift' in the community of Jews. I explained why and that explanation hasn't passed sensorship yet. Here's hoping it will.
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GraphicMatt
Somebody make me a sandwich!
03:02 PM on 10/11/2010
Except they weren't all Jews.....St. Longinus was a Roman soldier, not a Jew.....I am sure the list goes on and on.....
04:18 PM on 10/11/2010
I think the point new yorker was trying to make, albeit poorly, is that most people think Christians have always been Christians when in fact early Christianity was reformed Judaism, the same way, for example, Protestantism or Calvinism is reformed Catholicism.
New Yorker
Roman Catholic, Anti-DEATH, Combat Vet, Sinner
07:33 PM on 10/11/2010
Jesus scandalized the Jewish traditions when he told parables of the Samaritans doing good godly deeds, because the Jews viewed the Samaritans as 'dogs', and probably not unlike how the Rightwingers feel toward Illegal Mexican immigrants of today. But the 12 Apostles, the first Bishops of the Church were all Jews, and it was to the Jews that Christ came before all others. Only later did Jesus make it clear that he was coming to offer salvation to all of mankind, but First and Foremost to his people, the Jews. Even his own followers were shaken by his death on the cross, and only after the Resurrection did they begin to understand. Jesus was here on earth to conquer death, and save sinners, but to the Jews he came first. The Jews remain our elder brothers, and that will never change.
New Yorker
Roman Catholic, Anti-DEATH, Combat Vet, Sinner
11:36 AM on 10/11/2010
Most who hear the Adam & Eve account in the scriptures miss the point entirely. We hear that all the time on these forums of the blind. The sin was not simply eating a piece of fruit. It was the Creature Created, Offending the Infinite God who created it. Best understood perhaps by saying I can spit in your face, and not go to jail for that offense. But if i spit in the face of a police officer or judge, I'm going to pay a price. That is because while my status as a person stays the same in each case, the Offense I commit is far graver when it is the more important person I offend.
God was insulted by man, that made the offense an "Infinite" offense. Death came to mankind as a consequence of that great insult against God, as God had forewarned Adam & Eve (mankind). Man then had to 'reverse' that insult by atoning for it. That is impossible because man is Not Infinite. The offense required an Infinite Man to atone for that Infinite offense. Since God alone is Infinite, the man had to also be God. Only when a man who was also God atoned for that insult could Death be overcome, and man's relationship with God restored to the one we were intended by God to have with him.
Jesus was the scripture promised messiah,born of the house of David in Bethlehem, "Lamb of God" whose blood saved the world.
New Yorker
Roman Catholic, Anti-DEATH, Combat Vet, Sinner
07:25 PM on 10/11/2010
This was the beginning of the Rift between Jews and the Christians. We Christians await the Messiah just as the Jews. The difference is we already know his name, and that when he arrives this time, everybody will know. The blood of the passover lamb and the command of God to Abraham to kill his only beloved son, have far more profound meaning when compared to the reality of Jesus, God's only Beloved and Begotten son, who we now recognize as the "Lamb of God" who defeats death for us all.
12:59 AM on 10/17/2010
You're missing the pettiness that it takes for a god to respond in that way. It would not be the response of an infinitely good, wise, and loving god to respond to an offense in that manner. Especially not for a god trying to teach us to turn the other cheek, and to offer love as a response to an offense. No, it is as you say, the image of a human police officer, judge, or king, blown up to huge proportion... which is to say that it is a fable created by a petty human mind. Now consider the solution: human sacrifice. The demand for atonement by human sacrifice, in this case the sacrifice of Jesus, is a primitive demand of an archaic people's conception of god. It is not a tale suitable for modern thinkers.
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Mij13
They only call it class war when we fight back.
06:59 AM on 10/11/2010
Anti-gay anti-women bigotry among Orthodox, (Hasidic) Jews.
gclafontaine
Sand is a small price to pay for sandlessness.
01:34 AM on 10/11/2010
Why can't you just let people live how they want and stop worrying about Jews who aren't Jewish enough?
01:40 AM on 10/11/2010
"Why can't you just let people live how they want and stop worrying..."

That would be a psychological question and very like impossible. People worry about what they worry about, probably a function of the mirror neurons (empathy).
01:47 AM on 10/11/2010
The point of the article isn't to tell people how to live. It's to heal rifts, some quite hurtful for some people, within a community.
06:47 PM on 10/10/2010
Too many of the frum believe they are smarter than everyone else...
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podcaststeve
Professional podcaster. Really.
12:48 PM on 10/10/2010
This commentary is spot-on. When prospective new members of a Jewish community center visit the facility they are often greeted by row upon row of parking spaces in the front, usually empty, but flagged "This space reserved for Auction Winner (name)." That sends the newcomer a powerful message about what matters to the community. It's pay to play, not let us be welcoming to everyone.

Entrenched leaderships at these organizations don't want to hear about anything that doesn't involve lavish galas and celebrity appearances. Meanwhile, the communal professionals in the organization have to serve increasing community needs for mental health and domestic violence services, or food pantry services for the jobless, and daycare/preschool services for working parents, with less and less resources, because funding these things is not as sexy as having a "Major Givers" ball.
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me again
I'm not wrong....
12:36 PM on 10/10/2010
As far as reformed Jews attempt at furthe ritualization, there are conservative temples for that....Reformed Jewry should remain as is.
06:04 PM on 10/10/2010
The term is actually Reform, never reformed. It's Reform Judaism, Reform Jews.

As for the increase in "ritualization," the fundamentals of Reform Judaism remain intact: choice to engage, not freedom from engagement. There are plenty of communities that preserve as more classical Reform approach. Conservative Judaism has more to do with the philosophy of Jewish law. Many Conservative-affiliating Jews get by with little to no "ritual."
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darkmark
religion, the veil of evil.
12:21 PM on 10/10/2010
i'm voting for the outsiders. the more the better.
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MARYHOBE
Member of the tribe of man
10:54 AM on 10/10/2010
Why oh why would you want to? Secularism is an active and dynamic voice in Jewish culture. It is not new and maybe at this time, not predominant, but still a voice to be reckoned with. After the 2nd War they were the loudest voice for Jews, and Zionism was a secular movement, so in view of this past; why would you wish to change it? If it is only to add their voice to the whole of the Jewish cultural experience, then fine, but if it is to bring them into the religious experience then... maybe not!
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Gonzo36
Pro-awesome!
10:50 AM on 10/10/2010
"And I'm alarmed, as I work with the inside of the community, how little-recognized the phenomenon is, and how few in the community realize its magnitude"

Um, there are PLENTY of Jews who realize one of the most important things is to bring unaffiliated Jews into the fold, namely CHABAD. Their outreach is amazing and the members of their community work tirelessly to bring yiddishkeit to all Jews.
02:38 PM on 10/11/2010
Gonzo--Chabad's outreach efforts, however well intentioned, have little relevancy to me (a very secular Jew). Chabad's efforts will not unify Jewish people because they do they are only relevant to an extremely miniscule subset of us secular types who may want to become religious again.
10:02 AM on 10/10/2010
The biggest divide as far as I am concerned: Israel. Hands down.
10:35 AM on 10/10/2010
Exactly.
06:15 PM on 10/10/2010
I'd have to disagree. Liberal or conservative, young or old, the security of a Jewish state is paramount. Speaking as a proudly liberal twenty-something who's spent much time in Austin, TX, NYC, and New England, I'd have to say that Israel does much to unite the American Jewish community.
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01:48 PM on 10/10/2010
Hardly...you sound like someone who doesn't know much about the Jewish community...if anything Israel is what unites most jews more than doctrine.
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http://www.wearewideawake.org/
09:22 AM on 10/10/2010
The greatest rift is between Zionist's and Jews seeking Justice.

Justice requires equal human rights, liberty and self-determination for all people. Justice requires honoring International Law and the Declaration of Human Rights.

"From Moses to Jeremiah and Isaiah, the Prophets taught...that the Jewish claim on the land of Israel was totally contingent on the moral and spiritual life of the Jews who lived there, and that the land would, as the Torah tells us, 'vomit you out' if people did not live according to the highest moral vision of Torah. Over and over again, the Torah repeated its most frequently stated mitzvah [command]:

"When you enter your land, do not oppress the stranger; the other, the one who is an outsider of your society, the powerless one and then not only 'you shall love your neighbor as yourself' but also 'you shall love the other.'"

http://www.wearewideawake.org/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=631&Itemid=176

"What does God require? He has told you o'man! Be just, be merciful, and walk humbly with your Lord." -Micah 6:8
09:41 AM on 10/11/2010
So says a poster whose "anti-Zionism" often borders on bigotry


Why not leave discussions about Jewish spiritual practice to Jews?
09:16 AM on 10/10/2010
The greatest rift is still the mechitzah.
06:08 PM on 10/10/2010
I'd like to think so as well. From this, so much else proceeds. Do they recognize our women rabbis as rabbis? Do they recognize their conversions? It's the treatment of more than half of world-wide Jewry that bothers me the most. And too few among the Orthodox show signs of increasing inclusion.