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Religious People Celebrate LGBT Pride

Posted: 06/21/2012 1:20 pm

Millions of people around the world are celebrating at LGBT Pride parades this month. Lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, questioning, and straight folks are dancing on pulsating floats, riding on roaring motorcycles, sharing activist messages, and showcasing their most flamboyant finery. And many, many of these people are religious.

At the heart of most Pride parades in America, you will see religious congregations marching. Jews, Christians, Pagans, Buddhists, and others share in the spirit of the original Stonewall uprising of '69 by proclaiming that they have a right to be who they really are meant to be, which, in our case, is both LGBT and religious. Unfortunately, like many of my sisters and brothers who identify as both LGBT and religious, I find that sometimes I am asked to choose between my identities.

Sadly, many religious organizations continue to hold on to cultural prejudices and lazy scriptural reading and categorically reject the fact that people can be fully religious and LGBT. The Southern Baptist Convention (SBC) is a good and timely example. The SBC has been congratulating itself mightily this week for having elected its first African-American president. Formed in 1845 as a breakaway denomination that insisted that slavery was mandated by the Bible, it took them only about 150 years to reverse their thinking on the basic humanity of black folks.

But they were quick to restrict that dignity from being extended to LGBT people. The SBC passed a resolution that states, "It is regrettable that homosexual rights activists and those who are promoting the recognition of 'same-sex marriage' have misappropriated the rhetoric of the Civil Rights Movement." It is funny that the SBC is now so invested in the civil-rights movement, as it certainly was not supportive when it was happening in the '60s.

And while it is true that the LGBT experience is not identical to that of African Americans, it is also true that these freedom struggles are not mutually exclusive. To begin with, there are LGBT people of color, and furthermore, most of the civil-rights leaders who were actually part of the struggle have come out in support of the equality of LGBT people, including the late Coretta Scott King, Julian Bond, and John Lewis.

The idea that one freedom struggle has to exclude another is caused by either a lack of imagination or the devilish tactic of divide-and-conquer. But even if the Southern Baptist leaders are not ready to embrace LGBT rights, that doesn't mean there aren't a lot of LGBT Southern Baptists. While religious hierarchies continue to pass resolutions and white-knuckle their grip on dogmas that oppress, there are millions of religious LGBT-identified people who continue to worship, volunteer, and practice their faith in spite of it all.

In fact, the progress toward acceptance of LGBT people within religious organizations has been nothing short of miraculous. Several mainstream Christian denominations and the two largest Jewish movements have, to some degree or another, recognized LGBT people as full members of their communities. And movements within Islam, Hinduism, and many other religions are forming or well on their way. This is all within the last 40 years.

At the same time, some of the pressure that religious LGBT people feel comes from within the LGBT community itself, from people who insist that all religion is hostile to LGBT people and that by staying there we are subjecting ourselves to a kind of deluded abuse. This is a horribly patronizing view that ignores the diversity of cultures, religions, and experiences within the LGBT community.

For many of us, our religious tradition and spiritual practice are an essential part of our lives. My partner and I attend an Episcopalian church most Sundays. We spend time next to one another in silent reflection and prayer, enjoying the beautiful music and space of our small church and taking part in the powerful experience of the liturgy. In our church we find LGBT and straight people in the pews and on the altar. In the church we feel connected to the deep tradition that stretches out behind us, and to the call of God, which moves the church, and us, forward.

This Sunday I won't be at the Pride parade in New York. Instead, I will be attending the church that nurtured me when I was young in Madison, Wis. They have graciously asked me to say a few words to the congregation about my life in the 30 years since I left. I plan to tell them how grateful I am to my parents for taking me and my siblings to that mainline Presbyterian church that instilled in me a sense of responsibility to my neighbor and gave me the joy of a loving community and an abiding sense of the love of God in my life. I look forward to saying the Lord's Prayer next to the current congregation in the place that taught me how to pray.

It is the best way I know to celebrate Gay Pride Sunday.

 
 
 

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Millions of people around the world are celebrating at LGBT Pride parades this month. Lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, questioning, and straight folks are dancing on pulsating floats, riding on ro...
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04:45 PM on 06/30/2012
Leave the Church spirtually, but keep attending physically.
God may be calling you, but to give up homosexuality, and then come back to Him.
12:11 AM on 06/30/2012
The rainbow has nothing to do with inclusion or diversity. It is a "token for a covenant" that God created after the flood in Genesis.

Genesis 9:

11 And I will establish My covenant with you; neither shall all flesh be cut off any more by the waters of a flood; neither shall there any more be a flood to destroy the earth.

12 And God said, This is the token of the covenant which I make between Me and you and every living creature that is with you, for perpetual generations:

13 I do set my bow in the cloud, and it shall be for a token of a covenant between Me and the earth.

14 And it shall come to pass, when I bring a cloud over the earth, that the bow shall be seen in the cloud:

15 And I will remember My covenant, which is between Me and you and every living creature of all flesh; and the waters shall no more become a flood to destroy all flesh.

16 And the bow shall be in the cloud; and I will look upon it, that I may remember the everlasting covenant between God and every living creature of all flesh that is upon the earth.

It is a symbol of God's covenant between man and every living creature but is being used by sinners as a symbol for a sinful lifestyle.
03:12 PM on 06/30/2012
We have no evidence that the flood ever happened apart from an account in a book that is full of outrageous happenings that don't seem to occur anymore; God used to talk to people why doesn't he just shout over the clouds and tell the gay people to stop it. Therefore, since science has proven how rainbows are actually made, I am going to support the use of the rainbow by LGBT people and call BS on the "token for a covenant".
FYI. People still die in floods every year. Does that mean God didn't keep his promise?
07:18 PM on 06/30/2012
larrybe -

There is physical evidence in addition to the account in the Bible. If you are willing to review the evidence, see the following article:

(http://www.wnd.com/2012/06/does-science-prove-noahs-flood/?cat_orig=faith)

Mid-oceanic ridges are supported by the Biblical accout of Genesis 7:11 which says that on the day the flood began, there was a “breaking up” of the fountains The waters that had been held back burst forth with catastrophic consequences.

God does keep His promises and the promise was specific "and the waters shall no more become a flood to destroy ALL flesh." If we, as a society, decide to build houses on known flood plains, earthquake faults and else, does it become God's fault when the physical barriers we built fail? Man's problems were not and are not caused by God. They are caused by mankind.

God attempted to stop Cain from killing Abel in Genesis 4:6-8

"And the LORD said unto Cain, Why art thou wroth? and why is thy countenance fallen? If thou doest well, shalt thou not be accepted? and if thou doest not well, sin lieth at the door. And unto thee shall be his desire, and thou shalt rule over him. And Cain talked with Abel his brother: and it came to pass, when they were in the field, that Cain rose up against Abel his brother, and slew him."
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oshma
My opinions are my own--blame me and not any organ
05:32 PM on 06/26/2012
The Episcopal bishop who will lead the Diocese of New York spent Sunday on a float in NY's Pride March, and then led an evening worship service for LGBT Episcopalians and their friends. http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=4158596441256&set=o.23308541688&type=1&theater
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VinZenTexaN
Without God, life is everything.
10:20 AM on 06/26/2012
To summarize, this people believe in an omnipotent and omniscient god that lacks the intelligence and/or ability to design humans in such a way that would make gender and sexuality a non-issue among humans

"Remember, Jesus would rather constantly shame gays than let orphans have a family."

I just talked to god and he says he’s a gay pro-abortion Atheist! Now, prove that statement false
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Billy Fritts
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03:20 PM on 06/26/2012
Hey -VinZenTexaN--This is your ole friend Billy--How you doing pal--I want to say this be cause i worry about you--I would really be scared if i blasphemed God to his face like you just did--Im praying for you--I really would love to hear that you had accepted the Lord Jesus Christ as your saviour--We love you pal--
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StevenM
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03:21 PM on 06/27/2012
Re: "I just talked to god and he says he’s a gay pro-abortion Atheist!"

He?
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VinZenTexaN
Without God, life is everything.
09:54 AM on 06/28/2012
Now, prove that statement false”
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Charlotte Bonnie
Agnostic. Turkish-American. Classical liberal. Gay
08:17 AM on 06/26/2012
So many liberals equate all Christians to Republicans. Just like not all muslims are the same not all Christians are the same. There are many liberal Christians or moderate ones. A lot of LGBT people call themselves Christians especially the ones in the South so let's not paint everybody with a broad brush. Tolerant Christians are more than welcome.
08:46 AM on 06/26/2012
There are indeed plenty of moderate "Christians" who absolutely are fine with gay rights. Unfortunately in a manner of speaking, the moderates give cover to the ones who take their Biblical morality more seriously. Many of us identify the problem being what is written clearly in the bible, and the fact that a fear of an invisible vengeful deity along with a healthy dose of brainwashing is what is driving these hopelessly ignorant attitudes. However, moderate Christians would argue the problem isn't with the Bible, and is instead with "the interpretation". That the blatant homophobia simply needs to be "put in context" and rationalised away. Or that the old testament should essentially be ignored and we should just cherry pick the nice bits.

These confuses and fudges the whole situation and in the mess, the basic point about human rights and equality can often get buried under a tiresome and pointless exchanging of scriptural references.
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06:54 AM on 06/26/2012
Here’s a few goodies from the Book about how we should be treated —

1. Therefore let us stop passing judgment on one another. Instead, make up your mind not to put any stumbling block or obstacle in your brother’s way.

2. Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God.

3. Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.

4. Finally, all of you, live in harmony with one another; be sympathetic, love as brothers, be compassionate and humble.

There are no ifs, ands, or buts here. None....
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iLdoRight
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07:11 AM on 06/26/2012
Why did you avoid the one's that say you CANNOT have an inheritance in the Kingdom if you are a homosexual ? If the sign says, "NO SHIRT - NO SHOES - NO SERVICE", is one "Judging" if they tell you what the sign says ?
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weirdremaynard
I am the girl anachronism.
10:02 AM on 06/26/2012
You'll never understand, clearly.
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10:34 AM on 06/26/2012
"...CANNOT have an inheritance in the Kingdom if you are a homosexual ..."

Because it doesn't say that. If it does, throw it out and get a proper translation.
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iLdoRight
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06:19 AM on 06/26/2012
People who worship and serve the Devil are also considered "religious" and what percentage who call themselves Christians fall into the John 8:44 or Matthew 7:22,23 condemnations ?
04:43 AM on 06/26/2012
True Christians don't hate homosexuals. They don't hate anybody. Homosexuals should be welcomed in church. They should be embraced and loved by everyone who claim to love and follow Jesus Christ.
08:38 AM on 06/26/2012
What is a True Christian?
02:52 AM on 06/26/2012
Great article about Homosexuals being Christian. I really doubt it will change any Christian Hater of Homosexuals mind, as they are dead set on the fact that Homosexuals are among them, per their Satan.
I think the stand and be counted as American Citizens with the same birth rights or naturalized rights as any other American is the route to go.
I wish someone could help me to understand why people who believe in the Trinity have the right to dictate what is lawful and what is not, they can even get their Gods laws right. Don't commit adultery, don't kill, obey thy father and mother, just to name a few. I do believe we have the Freedom of Religion in this country. Now with that said. I do not understand why I have to abide by someones religious beliefs, in the way of laws, that satisfy their religious convictions YET hinder in my life, liberty and pursuit of happiness.
I was born in America, raised in America, I work and pay my share of taxes in America still I have to fight for my Equal Rights to Civil Rights in America.
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allwarisbad
12:22 AM on 07/21/2012
" ... YET hinder in my life, liberty and pursuit of happiness ... "
Guys in jail might say the same thing ...:)
02:27 AM on 06/26/2012
Here is my idea.
What if I tell you, I am not a Christian and I promise to never follow your laws rights and rituals. I promise to always practice my faith and will never insult your holy institutions by bringing my homosexuality within their walls. Now can I have my equal rights as an American Citizen and marry who I choose. Oh and I promise my partner and our children will never come within shouting distance of your institutions either. Okay so can I go get my marriage license now and legalize my 13 yr relationship with my loved one?
10:08 PM on 06/26/2012
I am a Christian and I accept you for who you are. I stand next to you in your fight because I was taught to show love to all. I am sorry that some people feel the need to use the Bible as a weapon. You are not an insult to my institution. I wish I could say this to everyone feeling as frustrated as you are right now. In the meantime, I'll just tell you, and hope it spreads...
12:07 AM on 06/27/2012
Thank you for that. I know that these so called Christians who Hate me for what they believe me to be, is not the same God fearing Christian as you are. I meant no disrespect to you or your faith. I was just making a point as I hope you understood.
Boomerwoman
Momma said there'd be days like this
12:12 AM on 06/25/2012
The Southern Baptists and many evangelicals are all about hate: cuz that's what Jesus would do.

Very sad that some christians reject christ.
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zippythedude
If life gives you melons, you might be dyslexic.
10:55 PM on 06/24/2012
Jesus had two dads, and he turned out ok.
12:00 PM on 06/27/2012
LOL. Best post so far. Have a great day.
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allwarisbad
12:24 AM on 07/21/2012
Joke in a sick society :)
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WESmith
Energy Conservation can save you M-O-N-E-Y!!!!!!!!
09:57 PM on 06/24/2012
An alcoholic is religious. A workaholic is religious. A person that says everyday, "I'm not religious" is religious. Atheists, Agnostics, Jews, Christians, Pagans, Buddhists, and others aren't necessarily religious. Democrats and Republicans are more likely to be religious, especially this election year.
Jews, Christians, Pagans, Buddhists, and others don't necessarily belong to a defined religion.
12:12 AM on 06/25/2012
???
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WESmith
Energy Conservation can save you M-O-N-E-Y!!!!!!!!
08:38 AM on 06/25/2012
Religion and religious are not the same word.They just look similar.  Many times they aren't even related, except in the bait and switch world of the politician.
09:51 PM on 06/24/2012
Gays belonging to a church that allows them to marry, but are in a State that does not accept gay marriage, should bring a law suit claiming that the state is violating their religious freedom. If the Catholic Bishop can make a big thing about “religious freedom” why not Gay?
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allwarisbad
12:27 AM on 07/21/2012
" ... to a church that allows them to marry ..."
Which church does that, I would like to know, please.
09:45 PM on 06/24/2012
Where is the power hose and disinfectant when you need it. Religion???????please. Deception, deception, deception. There is deliverance of the individual but the lifestyle is blasphemous. That is the truth. In God I trust
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TXanimal
Somewhere between Occam's Razor & Murphy's Law
03:13 PM on 06/28/2012
Um, our "lifestyles" are no different than yours. Really.
05:33 PM on 07/01/2012
It is.  Totally from mine, that much I know.  In God I trust.