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Obama and the Bully: The Cornering of Mitt Romney

Posted: 05/15/2012 5:41 pm

Ok. Let me get this straight. Vice President Joe Biden happens to mention that he has no problem with same-sex marriage. Then President Obama says that he supports it. Then some schoolmates of Mitt Romney say he and his buddies held down a shy, quiet student they thought to be gay, and chopped off his hair.

The Republicans might want to reconsider their talking points about this "community organizer" who is in over his head. As political theater, Karl Rove could not have scripted this any better.

First, you learn all about Romney's school days -- and you realize you have some credible ammunition. But how to use it? You trot out well-known gaffe-meister Joe Biden to make the statement. If all hell breaks loose, duck and cover -- it's just Joe being Joe. If all looks clear, come out with a presidential position that dominates the news cycle. Then -- wait a couple beats -- let loose the news that Romney was a teenage gay basher -- forcing him into an "I don't remember" non-apology apology -- with a chuckle -- for "dumb things" he did in high school. He is sorry if -- always if -- anyone was offended; the implication being that being held down by a gang and attacked with scissors is more upsetting to some than others.

Adding to the no-win column is the lack of recall. Two options here: either you're lying, or a horrific act of bullying was so trivial to you that it failed to lodge in your memory.

Certainly Obama felt his support was the right thing to do but any scenario other than brilliant political positioning says that all these events happened independently and coincidentally. Really? Nobody gets this lucky.

Putting your opponent in a no-win position is time-honored politics. The Republicans backed Clinton into don't ask don't tell with a threat of an outright ban on gays in the military -- something Clinton couldn't let happen on his watch, leading to a compromise he says he regrets.

What's interesting in the latest round of using gays and lesbians like sumo wrestlers use leverage is how the nation has changed since don't ask, don't tell. Look at virtually any opinion poll, and we are a nation moving on -- leaving politicians at a loss about what to do with their voting blocks of well-organized intolerance.

The heart of the Republican dilemma is the Millennials -- roughly mid-teens to late 30s. There are 79 million of them -- making them bigger than the boomers. The boomers see them as entitled, lazy, and happy to live in mom and dad's basement. A recent Boston Consulting Group study found something very different.

In spite of being raised amid the debris of the epic failures of multiple institutions, they are a generation that believes business and government can change the world. They believe in collective action -- and as the first generation of digital natives, they have an easy command of the opportunities to share their opinions.

They are very clear on social issues. One marketing study listed ten ways the generation describes itself. Number one is "friendly." A close second, at 81 percent, is: "open minded." Other studies show they are less religiously affiliated than their parents, and they feel government is too deeply involved in morality. They believe Christianity has good values, but they see it as judgmental, hypocritical and intolerant -- particularly on gay issues.

Most telling of all, they largely see issues like gay marriage as beside the point. A Harvard Institute on Politics survey found the economy and jobs as their top concern -- at 58 percent. Nothing else got out of the single digits, and social issues barely registered.

So to a generation of current and future voters, Obama has deftly offered a choice: a respectful and inclusive voice of the future; versus a schoolyard tormenter aligned with the intolerant voices of the past.

Not bad for a community organizer.

 
 
 

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12:24 PM on 05/17/2012
The desperation of the Obama fan club is painfully obvious. This one is seriously grasping at straws.
04:15 AM on 05/17/2012
Great job being an unbiased news source with a title like this huff po
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03:25 AM on 05/17/2012
Yep, not bad for a community organizer who cut his "organizing teeth" around the likes of Bill Ayers and Bernadine Dohrn. Yep, that brilliant Hah-vud constitutional lawyer who spent those grueling academic years in a pot induced, alcoholic and cocaine haze.

The same eloquent speaker who sold his political soul to the Environmental Lobby, to the largest ENERGY FIRM in Illinois and was " lead around by the law firm that hired Dohrn, Michele Robinson and ultimately himself.

We shall see.
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Tykete
Theres only you and me and we just disagree
12:00 PM on 05/17/2012
Arclight, well done......F&F
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02:13 AM on 05/18/2012
^5
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Pastori Balele
Graduate degree
01:22 AM on 05/17/2012
Romney is a bully and and liar. I don’t know why Republicans are stuck with this man. I would rather pick Newt Gingrich or Perry over Romney. This guy almost killed a gay suspect. Romney initially faked he did not remember the incident. That’s lying. I can remember my bad behavior even now when I was 8 years old. But Romney lied he had forgotten. I am saying Romney is a human being and therefore the bullying occasion was fresh in his brain when asked about it. Romney is therefore a liar.
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Tykete
Theres only you and me and we just disagree
12:03 PM on 05/17/2012
What are you talking about "almost killed a gay suspect" where do you possibly glean that from or did you just make it up. Laubers family has come out against this story. How do you feel about Obamas younger days? Have you read his books? If you prefer Obama perhaps you should educate yourself on his past, what you can find of it.
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DianaLynn1967
It's a great life if you don't weaken!
11:58 AM on 06/07/2012
Even if he was telling the truth, that is just as scary. Were there so many incidents like this that he can't differentiate one from the other?
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ProfessorBucket
Just act natural and keep moving
11:51 PM on 05/16/2012
The artifice and stagecraft that ushered in Reagan and two Bushes so long ago has devolved into a parody of itself through Mitt Romney. The original script, so carefully crafted to disguise the true intent, is now on stage like an Elvis impersonator with none of the page-turning impetus that drew attention in an earlier century. The act is spent, its attractiveness now gone like decaying fruit fallen on the ground which cannot be resurrected by the diminishing numbers of reverberant, hateful voices.
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calmly2
Words matter.
12:21 AM on 05/19/2012
Nice post, and I love your micro-bio. F/F
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Iamrebelriser
iamrebelriser
11:37 PM on 05/16/2012
Once a bully, always a bull, just progressing to bigger & worse bullying. Evidence tells us it wasn't just a pattern of a teenager, since Romney continued his mean kind of tricks while in college. Romneys gullible supporters need to consider his continued dirty tricks. He directed a blind professer toward a closed door and then laughed at him when he walked into it. That is MEAN. I suppose wealthy Romney thought the professer was beneath his living standards. Please do not vote criminal bully Romney into the Oval Office, because we deserve better.
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Scott Leland
10:21 AM on 05/18/2012
RebelRiser: The bullys in high school grow-up to be aggressive managers at many companies;

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/social/Scott_Leland/mitt-romney-bullying-human-rights_b_1514273_154394952.html
11:37 PM on 05/16/2012
From Dexler, "Adding to the no-win column is the lack of recall. Two options here: either you're lying, or a horrific act of bullying was so trivial to you that it failed to lodge in your memory." The third option is that he doesn't remember it because it didn't happen. I once attended a friend's 40th high school reunion. In talking with one of her classmates, according to my friend one of the athletes and leaders of the class, he remembered vividly playing on the basketball team with me and remembered a game in which I made an important play. Only problem was that I didn't go to that school and played my basketball three years earlier and two states away.
08:13 AM on 05/17/2012
So the under your 3rd scenario the 5 witnesses/participants are all lying while Mitt is telling the truth?
10:12 AM on 05/17/2012
Where in Drexler's carefully nuanced inuendo does it state that these are "witness/particpants?" She refers to 'schoolmates who say,' not to either particpants or witnesses. Those who say may be repeating rumor or confounding incidents to create a new "reality." Rashamon
ael443
Fairness: treat capital gains like earned income
01:02 PM on 05/17/2012
Then why did Mitt not just say that it didn't happen?
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eddy joe
welcome to the machine
11:11 PM on 05/16/2012
32 states are against homosexual marriage. A majority. http://www.cnn.com/2012/05/15/opinion/brown-same-sex-marriage/index.html
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Schalaine
We are women. We vote.
06:31 PM on 05/18/2012
Just proves you should not put rights for a minority to a vote by the majority. I thought we were all created equal. I guess that does not apply to the gay community...
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fredrdr
Let us dare to read, think, speak and write.
10:34 AM on 05/26/2012
Go back to the founding of the Republic and Baptists were no given protection as a religion. Rights should never be put to a vote. A few years ago, a large percentage of the participants felt that there should be no freedom of the press.
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DSherline
Idiocracy is already happening
10:45 PM on 05/16/2012
"So to a generation of current and future voters, Obama has deftly offered a choice: a respectful and inclusive voice of the future; versus a schoolyard tormenter aligned with the intolerant voices of the past."
Unfair comparison. It would only be a fair comparison if you were comparing the behaviour of both of them in high school. Not someone's behaviour 46 years ago compaired to someone elses behaviour today.
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Iamrebelriser
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11:39 PM on 05/16/2012
I believe Pres. Obama's behaviori if anything similar or worse than Romney's would have been found and magnified by Republicans and their lying shock jocks. So don't get your hopes up.
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hrpmap
Retired man still active..
01:03 AM on 05/17/2012
Read page 61 of "Dreams from my Father.
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fredrdr
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10:35 AM on 05/26/2012
The best idicator of future behavour is past behavour. Dr. Phil.
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Randy Johns
09:26 PM on 05/16/2012
Down with bullies... if folks can't play nice in the park they need to be expelled from it.
08:08 PM on 05/16/2012
Mitt could have easily headed this off at the pass by acknowledging it and apologizing. If he had done that it would be a non issue.
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Tykete
Theres only you and me and we just disagree
12:09 PM on 05/17/2012
Perhaps it's not true.
12:16 PM on 05/17/2012
Oh, I think it is. I'm no Barnaby Jones, but when the accused says "I don't remember" while other witnesses and even participants say, "Yeah, that's what happened" then I tend to think it did happen.
08:05 PM on 05/16/2012
But lil Mitt is so cute!

http://boingboing.net/2012/05/16/tom-the-dancing-bug-what-misc.html
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fredrdr
Let us dare to read, think, speak and write.
10:36 AM on 05/26/2012
What? he looks like a refugee from the old TV series :V". Ever look at his eyes? Seem dead.
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moonglowsun
Humanitarian
06:45 PM on 05/16/2012
As a mother and grandmother of a few that fall into this group, I'm proud to see they are rightly placing the weight of importance where it needs and ought to be. Out of personal lives and into putting our country back on the right track. Focusing on how to put people back to work; how to give everyone a fair shake at success; and helping to leave no man, woman or child behind.
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Iamrebelriser
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11:41 PM on 05/16/2012
Our actions all of our lives are a glimpse of how we would handle ourselves when in charge of responsibilities.
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darquelourd
You Get What You Play For
05:42 PM on 05/16/2012
The entire Conservative "Revolution" has reached its most telling and human moment: a bullying jerk versus a calm thinking person. Add to that the Bullying Jerk is a Rich Privileged White Person and the Calm Thinker is a Mixed Race Community Organizer.

In a way, this will be one of the best Personality/Behavior contests ever.
03:54 PM on 05/16/2012
This article makes me happy because it acknowledges the subtlety, the long game, of the Obama camp. It's not cynical, just playing to win. My trust in this president grows all of the time, including faith that on the things he gets the most flack on he is positioning us for a massive surprise i.e. Guantanamo and Afghanistan and financial reform. Re-elect him and this becomes the historic presidency of the 21st century, only to be eclipsed by the first female president who will come from the Millennial generation. I can't wait! As long as we can recover from the narcissists view of history that tells us it's always getting worse (because I'm not going to be in it soon) and regain our uniquely American sense of optimism this will be America's best century.
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Harbinger08
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08:27 PM on 05/16/2012
I agree, long game indeed. And to all those who criticize the president and his team for not pushing more fiercely to get more progress against the Republicans I point out that they expended as much political capital as they could and still remained with a slim advantage over the GOP nominee. The more time goes by the more it looks like they have a really good handle on it. By contrast Romney looks like a bumbler in every way.
10:33 PM on 05/16/2012
As one of those who's been less than happy with Obama's pace of progress, I still think it's important to show Obama, and average Republicans, that plenty of Americans strongly disagree with the direction this country is headed, and realize that change at some later date is too late on many issues. The fact is, I still think Obama isn't much different than moderate Republicans of a few decades ago.