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Gay and Gray: What We Need to Know About Aging Gay Men

Posted: 02/17/2012 3:23 pm

In 2011 the Institute of Medicine released a historic report documenting the health disparities faced by lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) individuals. This report was call to action for researchers, practitioners, and policy makers to address the burgeoning and often underserved health needs of the LGBT population. In the United States these health disparities coincide with an epidemiological shift: the aging of the American population. Due to increases in life expectancy and aging of the "baby boomer" generation, or those born between 1946 and 1964, approximately one third of the United States population will be 55 years or older by 2014.

While no direct population figures exists, extrapolations drawn from multiple sources suggests that within the population of older Americans, approximately 1.2 to 1.4 million will be older gay men, a figure more pronounced in urban areas such as New York City, where it is estimated that approximately 5 percent of gay men are 50 or older. A significant proportion of these older gay men, both nationally and in New York City, live with HIV, and as a group this generation of gay men, to whom I have previously referred as "the AIDS generation," have all been directly impacted by the epidemic.

Despite these critical population characteristics, we poorly understand the health care needs of aging Americans, who, by all indications, will live longer and will have very different expectations regarding their care than previous generations. And while we fail to truly understand the needs of an the overall aging American populace, we have even more limited information on the health disparities experienced by aging baby boomers who are gay, and only minuscule amounts of knowledge about those who are older, gay, and HIV-positive. Without such knowledge, we are not equipped to provide effective and meaningful health care to men of my generation.

The facts speak for themselves. Older gay men are more likely than heterosexual peers to have experienced a range of negative mental and physical health conditions throughout their lifetimes. Most notable of these is the AIDS epidemic, which has unduly impacted men of my generation. To date, gay men account for nearly 50 percent of AIDS-related deaths as well as HIV infections, despite representing only 2 percent of the U.S. population. Gay men also experience heightened levels of riskier health conditions such as substance abuse and other mental health disorders as compared with their heterosexual peers. Finally, many of this generation of gay men came of age at a time when homosexuality was considered a psychiatric illness. It was not until 1973 that the American Psychiatric Association declassified homosexuality as a mental disorder.

In effect, the confluence of these factors (homosexuality as a disease, the AIDS epidemic, and the socially imposed stigma of being gay) have unduly and negatively impacted the lives of older gay men, creating emotional and psychosocial stressors that undermine the well-being of men of my generation, a reality that extends into the lives of a new generation of gay men.

While recent advances in gay civil rights are a sign of progress, the fact remains that as a group we still remain under attack -- attacks that perpetuate the stress in our lives and compromise our health. Ecological studies indicate that gay men who live and love in states where gay civil rights are more advanced experience better health outcomes. The recent passage of marriage equality in the state of New York may, over time, impart such a benefit to future generations of gay men and may counter the venom of politicians such as Rick Santorum and the rest of the Republican presidential hopefuls. But those of us of advanced age cannot undo the years of victimization and stigmatization, both subtle and not-so-subtle, that we have experienced in our families, in our communities, in our workplaces, and in our nation. Therefore, it imperative that the delivery of health care to my generation of gay men -- the AIDS generation -- focus on the totality of our existence and consider our life experiences, including how the devastation of the AIDS crisis and a lifetime of bigotry have compromised and shaped our health.

Yet we have little data on the health of older gay men, or gay men in general. Because national, population-based studies do not incorporate questions assessing sexual orientation, and because studies focused on sexual behaviors among older adults include only small numbers of gay men, we lack nationally representative data on the risks, resilience, and needs, as well as the physical, mental, and neurocognitive health, of this population. In the absence of such knowledge, the delivery of service to an aging gay population will fail to be informed by science, and moreover, policies regarding health care and federal funding will continue to neglect our needs.

It is time that we attend to the health of aging gay men, and of all gay men. To achieve this goal, first, it is imperative that we develop and enact a research agenda that delineates the health risks, resiliencies, and needs of gay men across all ages. We must scientifically understand the multiple factors that compromise or enhance our health. This knowledge is critical in helping to develop effective service delivery systems, which recognize that the health of gay men is shaped in part by pathogens, to some extent by behaviors, and also by the social and structural stressors we experience as sexual minorities.

In effect, health care for gay men must attend to both individual-level behaviors and factors that shape our well-being and to the larger contextual matters that shape our lives. While we fight for our civil rights in this nation, including, but not limited to, the recognition of our love relationships, health care providers and policy makers must be prepared work with us to ameliorate the burdens we face due to the barrage of ongoing discrimination in our lives, which ultimately undermine our health. Said differently, a holistic approach to care is needed, with recognition that there are multiple micro (person-level) and macro (structural-level) factors that undermine our health and to which we must attend.

Such a multifactorial understanding of the HIV epidemic is evident in the enlightened AIDS policy developed by the Obama administration. Unfortunately, we waited 30 yeas for this national AIDS policy! We should not have to wait another 30 years to fully understand and address the multiple health needs of gay men.

 
 
 
 
 
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02:48 PM on 02/21/2012
As a member growing Gay/Gray part of society, this obtain my curiosity how we play are part in society. 1.Do we let the new generation take over the fight, or 2.do we we keep on fighting for are civil rights until we are equal with are heterosexual peers; or 3.do we just lay back and see just what happens? I feel we should still do the 2nd. choice, yet we must remind the younger generation how it was in are days when we were young.
03:44 PM on 02/20/2012
With the first big group of openly gay men hitting their 50s we will need to confront the issue of aging as a whole.
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SouthJerseySteve
Progressive isn't a dirty word.
12:04 AM on 02/20/2012
Mental health is a BIG issue for some of us LGBT over 50 -- we grew up being told that we are "evil sinners" and sometimes from family members; we don't get rid of the scars so easily. I survived suicide attempts and provide support for local youth via "It gets better project" but there are days when I can get past the hate from the right wing without crying again.
10:54 PM on 02/19/2012
i agree with all of this ambitious program. the one thing not discussed is the most imporant. who is the "we" the writer is talking about. who's going to take charge of something like this? it doesnt really fall under the aegis of any of our so-called national organizations. so who's going to step forward and take the first step. a number of years ago i implored dr fauci at nih to study the health of aging hiv people, because we're getting older and many of these same problems are involved. he said he would. he hasn't. where do we go from here, good doctor halkitis??? larry kramer
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12:16 AM on 02/19/2012
One thing I've learned is that wearing anything above a 4 inch heel can be almost fatal.
08:45 PM on 02/18/2012
It is a mystery to me as to why many of my post in the Gay voices never make it to publication. I actually had a post not show up for 10 days. None of my post have violated the forum rules. I responded here hours ago and my response has not been published.

My post earlier mentioned that how much money you have is the main factor that will determine the quality of your care. Your care will not depend on the kindness in other's hearts but by how much you have in the bank. Being Gay will have some effect but many of my piers have had a life playing dodge ball with compromising situations and going along to get along can keep you out of harms way to some degree. Your DNA family will linger on the side lines pondering how much of a stake they have in your care based on how much they stand to gain financially. It is just one of those realities.
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E de Mas
The Pink Agendist
05:44 PM on 02/18/2012
And health is only one of the issues. I remember when I was 22 a gay friend of mine in his thirties told me gay years were like dog years and I should find a partner before I was 25 because after 30 you walk into a club and no one even turns their head to look. I'll be 34 in a month and I've got to say he was right.
03:03 PM on 02/19/2012
of course you mean, that no one YOUNGER than you will turn their head and look. Certainly men your own age and a few years older will look at you.
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SouthJerseySteve
Progressive isn't a dirty word.
12:07 AM on 02/20/2012
Smoking, drinking and other self-destructing habits are rampart in the elderly LGBT community. I stopped going to the bars because of the smoking (I am asthmatic and can't breath second hand smoke). Luckily, I'm happily partnered and don't need the bars anymore.
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DevonTexas
Eternal Optimism
05:32 PM on 02/18/2012
"...the fact remains that as a group we still remain under attack..."

as recent as in the last week when the Tennessee legislature took up the "Don't Say Gay" bill and the author went on the airwaves to expound, unintentionally, on his ignorance of gay people and AIDS. You would have thought it was 1980 again. deja vu except for the added, African men aren't "normal men". I guess he's trying to "update" this stupidity to the new millennium.
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SouthJerseySteve
Progressive isn't a dirty word.
12:13 AM on 02/20/2012
a president santorum would make it more like 1880 again...
04:31 PM on 02/18/2012
My partner of 41 years and I talk about the realities that are on the horizon. One point in life is that the more money you have at any age the more protection you have. Money gives you options. However having more money than you need can create a whole different set of circumstance. It does get disturbing realizing the reality that not having money puts you at the whim of our shared Culture. We are isolated but have been for most of our adult lives. We keep ourselves open to new experiences but realized that we are elders. We have done the "want a friend, be a friend" thing to no avail. We realize how on our own we are in the future and hope we remain lucid as long as we can.
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Qjersey
02:37 PM on 02/18/2012
"a figure more pronounced in urban areas such as New York City, where it is estimated that approximately 5 percent of gay men are 50 or older. "

INACCURATE
The link leads to a table indicating that 5.8% of ALL men 45-64 are gay identified. So the author is wrong on TWO points.
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AVoiceInThe Darkness
Darkness is your candle - Rumi
02:21 PM on 02/18/2012
I'm reminded of other situations in this country where the needs of a large group of individuals are not met until half or more of them have died. Restitution for Japanese in WW II internment camps, for one. Sufferers from exposure to Agent Orange, for another. And there are more. It's like a bad habit that our government cannot break.
01:20 PM on 02/18/2012
Why is everything about boys on this planet and not womyn?? What about aging, graying lesbians?? My mom is going to be 71 real soon and she is an aging, graying lesbian (I'm not!!)
01:30 PM on 02/18/2012
There is an entire page dedicated to lesbian issues. In the Gay Voices section, simply look all the way at the top of the page and click the link that says LESBIAN and it will take you to a dedicated page. This article was in the Gay Voices Section which apples to the entire community.
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JPJABBER
'twas brillig and the slithey tode...
02:17 PM on 02/18/2012
Actually, we need to be addressing the whole spectrum of AGING people (of all stripes) in this country. These younger gee-my-paretns-have-ruined-my-future-becasue-of social-security-and medicare-WAAAAHHHH folks need to get a grip. SOMEDAY they'll be in "our" shoes and it ain't gonna be pretty.....
01:07 PM on 02/18/2012
What do you need to know about being gay and gray? We're bitter, that's what.
02:27 PM on 02/18/2012
That causes health problems (for ALL people) in and of itself . . . try to work on that. (I'm not trying to be judgmental or pushy, just helpful . . . I hope you take it that way).
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DevonTexas
Eternal Optimism
05:38 PM on 02/18/2012
why bitter? What's to be bitter about? you're gay and you're gray. those are facts. Bitterness shouldn't come from things over which you have no control. If the bitterness comes from decisions you've made, then so be it. But I find that having no regrets is a more pleasant state of being. I know this won't take away the pain, but dealing with the pain is better than grasping onto bitterness. I wish you peace and comfort and hope you find it.
08:57 PM on 02/18/2012
Maybe I am just one of these naive creatures but being at Peace has been a life goal. Despite what hostility I have encountered in life, I strive to not give my advisories the Power they are looking for. Bitterness is like a stew that needs constant stirring yet never reaches the point of being palitable.
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invirginia
A higher double-standard.
12:25 PM on 02/18/2012
Only the American Family Association and similar anti-gay organizations estimate that gay men are 2% of the population. It is generally accepted that gay men make up 4-6% of the U.S. population.
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outloud
Illegitimi non carborundum
02:20 PM on 02/18/2012
I think that each and every one told the truth to themselves and others, the percentage would be a lot higher.....in my experience.
02:29 PM on 02/18/2012
It most definitely is . . . the studies on this subject, in general, vastly understate statistics related thereto (a fact they readily admit, usually.)
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DevonTexas
Eternal Optimism
05:40 PM on 02/18/2012
good point. Maybe those percentages are for those at the extreme of sexual behavior on a continuum of straight to gay but there are a lot of points in between! LOL Simple math would put 50 percent on each side where bisexual is the middle. But that's very simple math! LOL
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Vintage59
Reading is still the warp drive of IT
02:30 PM on 02/18/2012
There is no generally accepted figure. The figure cited is smack dab in the mid-range of those most commonly bandied about.
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invirginia
A higher double-standard.
03:09 PM on 02/18/2012
The figure I cited is smack-dab in the mid-range. Some sources say it is as high as 10%.
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antaeus
Marriage Equality Is Here
12:06 PM on 02/18/2012
Gay and gray, and aging with HIV, are not identical categories. Your piece is good, but why does this site have problems with misleading headlines?
01:05 PM on 02/18/2012
Misleading picture with the headline as well. Does that picture of a couple walking hand in hand look "gray" in any way?
01:42 PM on 02/18/2012
The person on the right side of the screen does look like he has gray in his stubble, but how can one tell when their heads are not showwing? Can YOU tell gay and gray without seeing their hair? ALSO, "Gray" is being used not as an actual descriptor, but as a metaphor for AGEING. I didn't realize that everone on this site was so "literal" that they couldn't understand that....
01:39 PM on 02/18/2012
Answer to your primary question is in the article.

"A significant proportion of these older gay men, both nationally and in New York City, live with HIV, and as a group this generation of gay men, to whom I have previously referred as "the AIDS generation," have all been directly impacted by the epidemic".

The current group of "Aging" gay men were directly impacted by the AIDS Epidemic. I am one of them. Not only did I lose most of my social circle over the past 20 years, but I have AIDS as well. The generation that came out in the 60's through the 80's were disproportionaly affected by the AIDS Epidemic, wiping out over half of our community if not more. These factors play into what types of support systems we may still have left and what our future options might be.

Being Gay AND Gray are not identical catagories, but contain an extreme overlap that later generations do not share. The CURRENT gay and gray community does have a majority of individuals dealing with HIV.