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How to Make Every Life Situation Into a Positive One

Posted: 05/31/11 05:23 PM ET

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"The Laughing Buddha"

In every image that I have ever seen, the Buddha is smiling. Not just ha ha, but grinning from ear to ear. Well, these images are not just in American gardening shops. (You can also get them through Amazon!) The Buddha is smiling wherever you go. He is in fact laughing. He knows something that we don't.

Recently I took a trip to Beijing, China. There I had the pleasure of spending time with a Tibetan monk named Erdijanza. He told me about his daily rituals:

• He begins each day preparing food for the Buddha.
• He continues with a meditation in which his thoughts focus on this laughing Buddha.
• Throughout the day, he uses a strand of 108 beads to prompt meditations, again on this laughing Buddha, who is called the Budai (Chinese) or Hotei (Japanese). He is not the founding (or Gautama) Buddha, but the one who is to come.

So finally, I had to ask him about the smiling Buddha. He told me that the Chinese do not focus on his laughing smile or fat belly, but on the calico bag he is carrying. It never empties. This bag carries:

• rice plants, for future food
• candy for children, for current joy
• food, to feed those that are hungry
• the woes of the world

He does that for me. Many believe that rubbing his belly brings happiness. I picture his face with his ears covered. "Lol ... It's none of my business what you think of me," he says to me.
The monk went on to describe how this image has helped people in utter poverty (for example, in Malaysia and Thailand) to feel their poverty in contrast to this Buddha. He also pointed out that the Buddha can inspire new eyes, new ways of seeing. What are the elements of joy right now in my situation?

I felt a chill. Here is The Point of Power in this ancient religion or philosophy. Right now is the point of power because it is the only moment in which I can see or act upon possibilities. Think about the last time you were upset. What was upsetting you? Really? Was there something standing in front of you piercing an arrow into your eye? Probably not. So then who was really causing you the pain that you were feeling?

It was you. Right? And who is you? We are taught by the world that we are what we do, what we own, what we look like. Yes? Well, is that true to you? If so, stop reading.

The monk went on: "Everything I experience today, the Buddha wants me to experience. Do I feel discomfort? Let me feel it fully. Right now. Do I feel embarrassed or lost or angry? The Buddha wants me to experience these feelings as they arise."

Now, I embraced the chill because here was my entire chapter on contrast in a nutshell. This monk was the total opposite of me, and yet we spent the day as though we had been friends forever. Talk about differences.

The reason we enjoy this time? "We experience what is missing in us through another." In the present moment, I or you or a listener can experience contrast. Let's say the present moment has both real poverty and wealth depicted in a Buddha. Perhaps this person is like the peasants in Thailand the monk described. This person would experience real lack and real abundance. This is contrast and it leads to desire: "I want more abundance and less poverty." So I will give to receive. I will listen in order to communicate. I will stand still in order to advance. I will give in order to receive.

Thank you for reading.
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10:30 PM on 07/27/2011
Some very good, in-depth comments here! Another fantastic article by Peter - look forward to his next one.
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Mari Harmon
Your Kung-Fu Is Weak And Obsolete!
04:50 AM on 06/06/2011
Budhai stands next to my laptop. I imagine in that bag is a copy of Han Shan's poetry as well.
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12:36 PM on 06/05/2011
"In the present moment, I or you or a listener can experience contrast."

the greatest of contrasts are the contrasts of awareness and unawareness.

awareness and unawareness are the stuff of life. a synonym for unawareness is ignorance.

without ignorance there is no contrast just stillness ok emptiness.

see I just solved the origin of suffering and ignorance in one simple comment. :-)

ok the buddha discovered the origin of suffering but failed to see the necessity of unawareness for the source of all that is; to not just be emptiness but also dynamic.
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03:26 PM on 06/05/2011
The yin and yang of life is awareness and unawareness. Without the interaction of awareness and unawareness there is no us, just Isness and you can call Isness anything you want. When we move from a flow of thoughts, which is consciousness i.e. subjective and objective, we are in the realm of pure awareness, which is subjective, i.e. the “I am” awareness that emptiness the Buddhists teach as nirvana.

The greater the awareness of reality the higher the realm or dimension the soul resides in. The souls journey is like a law of progress to greater and greater awareness with some stop offs, which appear to the unaware as a decline of awareness along the path. The souls journey is not a performance curve but a spiral climb to greater awareness.
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Mari Harmon
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07:08 AM on 06/06/2011
A well written comment, but slightly incorrect :)
"The buddha discovered the origin of suffering but failed to see the necessity of unawarenes­s for the source of all that is; to not just be emptiness but also dynamic."
The unawareness is not in contrast to awareness. Emptiness is not separate from dynamism. The unawareness would be the No-Mind, a mind empty of preconceptions, which is in fact True Awareness. The emptiness is emptiness of all things of a wholly individual self, one which on its' own exists. From that emptiness one can truly SEE the dynamism of the whole universe, everything everyone everywhere all blending into, becoming into, arising with, dissolving with, re-arising with. All movement, all change, all together. So therefore, no contrast, and since they are both within you at all times, no awareness and no unawareness. No stillness and no movement. Your last sentence, "to not just be emptiness but also dynamic" is the behavior of Bodhisattvas, the enlightened. That you found this truth means that you are moving toward that.
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Peter Baksa
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03:04 AM on 06/09/2011
Very nice Mari ! Thank you for your commentary - nail on the head. Warmly, Peter
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Peter Baksa
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08:04 AM on 06/01/2011
Thank you for your comment. Lemons are already lemonade - there is no "doing" nec. if you hear the message of the laughing Buddha. You should have stopped reading where I told you to....lol Our lives are not what we do. Not an easy concept to accept or apply for us westernized humans.
09:54 PM on 05/31/2011
Hotai is a excelent God/buddha! I have Him on my home altar, I don;'t exactly agree with what the article said, but I will go along with some of it. The 'lemons/ lemonaide ' saying comes to mind.
: if life gives you lemons' the saying goes , " Make lemonaide!)