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Obama's Gay Marriage Endorsement a Step in Evolution of American Identity

Posted: 05/10/2012 11:17 am

Perhaps inevitably, President Barack Obama's long-overdue declaration of support for gay marriage is mostly being parsed for signs of what it means for his personal political fortunes and the course of the 2012 campaign. We are a nation addicted to politics. Seemingly everything that happens -- a change in the unemployment rate, the killing of Osama bin-Laden, rumblings of war with Iran -- gets processed through the lens of who won the week in Washington and how the news will play in the discrete worlds of red and blue.

But sometimes the thing is the thing, as is the case with this particular thing.

The president's words of support for the still-controversial notion that men and women in committed same-sex relationships ought to be accorded the same respect and civil rights as everyone else provokes all sorts of questions, some reasonable and some beside the point. How will it affect voters in swing states? Was this another case of Obama's pragmatic calculation, or a real evolution of values? How will African-American voters -- too often reduced to cartoonish one-issue robots, and homophobic ones at that -- react to the news? What happens now in the states, the jurisdictions that predominantly determine the course of liberty for gay Americans?

We can hash all this out, and we ought to, at least on the substantive questions of legality. Obama's words have the force of symbolism alone. They do not change the law or remove the discrimination still confronted by gay people throughout much of life, and most pointedly on the matter of marriage. It is worth pressing the White House for follow-through: Will the president deliver an executive order to require companies receiving federal contracts not to discriminate on the basis of sexual orientation, as some have urged he should? These are important subjects, and worthy questions.

But years from now, when historians look back at the long arc of American history, they will see in the president's announcement a significant moment. As they trace the social change that -- let us hope -- eventually came to render diversity in sexual orientation as an accepted part of what defines American society, they will absorb Obama's words as a turning point.

The fact that those words came late, after the vice president's and the secretary of education's, and the fact that gay rights advocates were deeply disappointed with this president in the run-up will be mere footnotes. The short-term political context -- concern about the youth vote, balanced against the backlash from socially conservative voters in swing states -- will fade into memory, and then disappear.

This is not to lionize Obama for an act of political courage (though it was that) or to let him off the hook for the ham-handed timing and the obvious political pragmatism that weighed in his deliberations (fair hits). This is to say that the full significance of Obama's words are, in the end, not about Obama or his presidency or the election that consumes an inordinate share of intellectual bandwidth. They are about what sort of country this is, and what sort of country it can yet be, even as we suffer the frustrations and depredations of a messy, maddening style of democracy. This is a case in which the political leadership finally caught up with the country.

The real meaning of Obama's announcement is found not in the evolution of this one man's thinking, but in the evolution of the American character -- which has now taken a significant step forward.

 
 
 

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MHT73
words matter
11:02 PM on 05/13/2012
As we watch, we're seeing the arc of history bend toward justice.
10:37 PM on 05/13/2012
Years from now when when historians look back at the long arc of American history, they will see in the president's announcement a significant moment. It will be the moment America financially crashed from the weight of the "too big to fails" and Americans were once again distracted from the pending loss of everything they believed in. Legalizing gay marraige rights is a crucial and critical moment which I support whole heartedly. But in the grand scheme of things, there will BE NO AMERICA as a home for these rights unless power is grabbed back from the Banksters...Habeus Corpus seems gone; laws going back to the Magna Carta are thrown out the window for "security". The deep abyss between the "left" and "right" have blinded them to the dangers that are common ground to all. A very sad epitah to a Nation that led the world on every front.....
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10:18 PM on 05/13/2012
Open Gay in miliatry now!!!!!!
09:35 PM on 05/13/2012
This is another step in the decline of the U.S.
09:04 PM on 05/13/2012
We need to have the DNC move the convention out of North Carolina. Please sign my whitehouse.gov petition at http://wh.gov/mMo to help make this happen!
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Hoodooman
Non-Aggression Principle
08:28 PM on 05/13/2012
Taking "marriage" out of the public's eye completely would be a step away from others having a say in an individual's right to live as they please.
08:21 PM on 05/13/2012
There is nothing "historic" about changing the definition of "marriage" to appease a few.....
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rextrek
50yr old, Moderate-liberal in S.NJ/Phila
08:24 PM on 05/13/2012
there are 10's of 1000's of gay cpls..MARRIED NOW in the USA ...you must be so scared....
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10:19 PM on 05/13/2012
2% actually that want to foist their disgusting behavior on the rest of us. disbelieve. ever been in a g bar?
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07:17 PM on 05/13/2012
Good God! Someone has to say it... Because NO ONE has...So I will --

-- "The thing that every single person DEBATING what President Obama (did!), not what he (SAID), is that all he SAID was:

"I am speaking for my own PERSONAL feelings, thoughts, and "evolution" when I say that I have now come to a point in MY life where I can NOW -- without questioning my Christian FAITH -- now come out PUBLICLY and say what's in my heart..." (paraphrasing)

-- "And, that is I (not my President-persona), but I can endorse the rights of homosexuals to marry, under the law!" ---- That is ALL I heard him say!

AS President he did NOT say he was endorsing or adopting Gay-Marriage as a Federal Public Policy initiative! THAT would be worth all the "debate" and "opposition". Romney promises to "change the U.S. Constitution" against Gay marriage --now THERE'S your debate!

If the late Senator Bird can "EVOLVE" from being a self-proclaimed member of the K-K-K ...to ending his life as a strong proponent for Black civil rights and a friend of Ted Kennedy? The FIRST Black President can surely evolve on Gay marriage without being torn apart!
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Kurt Reply
06:41 PM on 05/13/2012
The only reason marriage is kept between only two people is because their are only two sexes, and one of each is required to mate. Remove the restriction requiring one of each, and you must also remove the restriction on only 2 per marriage. After all, why shouldn't two bisexual women marry each other plus two guys so they can both love whom they want and make it a double trifecta?
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bobt755907
05:05 PM on 05/13/2012
Obama's Gay Marriage Endorsement a Step in Devolution of American Identity.
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AdamWest1313
Hardcore Agnostic
06:49 PM on 05/13/2012
Why is embracing personal liberty and freedom is devolution? Do you consider the ability for force your moral code down other people's throats to be "evolution"?
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roads
Strange days have found us....
07:10 PM on 05/13/2012
Gays are living together now, raising families, working, paying taxes, serving in the armed forces, etc.

And exactly how has to changed your life? It hasn't. Your worries about American Identity (whatever that is) are baseless.
04:43 PM on 05/13/2012
Ok. I asked this question last year and got some interesting answers so I'll ask it again. If Obama's presidency were to end now what will the history books 50 years from now remember him the most for ? :

1) First black / biracial president
2) Saving the american auto industry
3) Health care reform ( assuming Supreme Court ok's it )
4) Killing Bin Laden and many of his other top Al Queda members
5) Advancing Gay rights
10:11 PM on 05/13/2012
History would write that Obama's ideological perspectives began the United States decay of its World standing to the wills of the outside world and also caused a steady irreversible distruction of the the countries economy.
11:19 PM on 05/13/2012
Nope. That honor goes to Ronald Reagan with GW Bush coming in a close second.
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eddy joe
welcome to the machine
04:14 PM on 05/13/2012
International Standard Version (©2008)
He answered them, "Haven't you read that the one who made them at the beginning 'made them male and female'
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Chlorogoth
05:18 PM on 05/13/2012
What?
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AdamWest1313
Hardcore Agnostic
05:57 PM on 05/13/2012
Man wrote the bible.

God made homosexuality.

Why you are unable to realize that relatively simple fact is beyond me.
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Kurt Reply
06:37 PM on 05/13/2012
Yes, God made homosexuals and heterosexuals. But He also made sure that only sex between one man and woman could make both.
03:28 PM on 05/13/2012
This president is a fraud! He doesn't believe that homosexuality is normal but he's willing to accept it as long as he gets some votes out of it. If he were made to make out with another man he would throw up his last meal. Then you would see how he really feels. He has no soul.

"I do not support gay marriage. Marriage has religious and social connotations, and I consider marriage to be between a man and a woman."

Barack Obama, 5/6/2009
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lightcsm
03:50 PM on 05/13/2012
In my opinion, this was a very genuine shift in his personal opinion. Studies show that people who personally know gays and lesbians are much more likely to accept them and support same-sex marriage. Obama himself said that his shift in opinion happened after years of getting to know gay people.
04:48 PM on 05/13/2012
I'm sorry, but I don't buy it. First of all his comment is only three years old. In the last three years I don't believe he's had the time to socialize to the point to where it  could have genuinely had a change in his ideals. Secondly, knowing and understanding homosexuals doesn't mean we have to pretend that that their lifestyles are normal or healthy. I have a cousin who's gay. I love and respect him , but I will never pretend that his lifestyle is normal or the same as that of a heterosexual couple. It is not! Something has gone wrong. We all know that a rectum is not another word for a vagina. Why is there such a need to pretend? Is truth and common sense truly secondary in this liberal society?
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aspertame2
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03:55 PM on 05/13/2012
Dear Mr. President: Please go on national TV and cheat on your wife by making public, passionate love to a man, because that is the only way some nimrods are actually going to believe that your position on gay marriage *has* evolved.
11:01 AM on 05/14/2012
Funny, you didn't negate any thing I said.
01:55 PM on 05/13/2012
The big winners in all of this, of course, are the divorce attorneys ... a whole new area of business.

I'm looking forward to "Gay Divorce Court". Should be dicey ...
11:51 AM on 05/13/2012
Obama's decision, which on rational grounds is wrong, acts as a declaration of himself as the "Imperial Moralist" of the highly-secularized segment of our society. His "blessing" of same-sex marriage isn't of the same intent as St. Paul's consideration that marriage was the best course to take for those Christians that would find chastity difficult while awaiting Christ's return (let alone the difficulty of abstinence for a lifetime!) And, however revolutionary (the correct term) it felt to him, the result is still marriage as a thoroughly poisoned institution, injected with a rupturing, almost whimsical securlar moralism that outright opposes some of marriages few remaining Judeo-Christian bases. What will be next on the block? Hard to tell, just as it could not be known how the miraculous (or was it evolutionary?) conversion of Constantine would affect the subsequent engagement and marriage of church and state. Of course, in this fabrication of an increasingly rational, belief-less yet law-drenched society, Obama should have supported the ABOLISHMENT OF MARRIAGE as a governmental interest, and let the states, in time, (as they will), follow suit by replacing licenses with some byzantine economic/guardian/custodial/corporate, divisible trust between two consenting adults, applicable to their issuance or adoptees until whatever age children become adults then. And lets look forward to how remarkably quick the EVOLUTION will be of homosexuals as a monogamized creature, surpassing even the point men and women took thousands of years to reach, perfect, and destroy.
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Jonathan Munoz
2 things you can't argue with: crazy and stupid
02:05 PM on 05/13/2012
Wow I love this, are you by any chance going to write sequels to this fiction novel? I see another Dystopian novel best seller here :D LOL

Obama is on the right side, and we do not live in a secular society, we live in society with multiple religions and people without religion that we need to respect. Keep church teaching in the church.
03:32 PM on 05/13/2012
Thank you!  And never mind what you just read, I've EVOLVED my thinking on same-sex marriage LOL - see:  http://www.huffingtonpost.com/social/dolfninnyc/tv-soundoff-sunday-talkin_n_1512639_154267991.html 
 
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janthewordnerd
04:59 PM on 05/13/2012
One thing I love in all of this is the blatant hideous, malicious judgmentalistic hypocrisy and evil coming from Christians.