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Is Faith the Rejection of Reality?

Posted: 04/29/2012 9:17 am

There seems to be a belief that "faith" is the rejection of the world as it is; a retreat in to fantasy and wishful thinking. As Friedrich Nietzsche wrote, "Faith means not wanting to know what is true."

Although it has become common to think of "faith" in this way -- as the blind acceptance of unquestionable, usually religious, doctrine -- this definition stems from extremist positions, and is not what theologians typically mean by the word "faith." In his classic book, "Stages of Faith" James Fowler provides a deeper insight: "Faith is a person's or group's way of moving into life. It is our way of finding coherence in and giving meaning to the multiple forces and relationships that make up our lives."

This definition begins with the recognition that we all understand the world differently, because we all have created individual ways to comprehend and control our experiences. This process began in childhood, as we instinctively sought safety and acceptance in a complex and uncertain world, and built mental constructs of "how things are." These mental constructs vary based on the intensity of our experiences and our natural inclinations, and we may live our entire lives relying on these childhood visions, assuming that the way we see the world is objectively true, yet remain completely unaware that we have made it up. In this way we all live in "faith," because we all experience life through the filters of our own making, in which we place trust and confidence.

This does not mean that there is no objective reality, because there certainly are things to which we can find truth: There are measurable physical objects and phenomena, which are usually easy to agree on, and are the venue of science. And there are the meaning of our actions and the nature of our relationships with others, which are much more elusive and difficult to discern, and are the venue of philosophy and theology. It is this second category, though, that drives our lives and determines our level of emotional health, happiness and fulfillment.

As we discover that other people see the world in a very different way than we do, we may label these other views as wrong in some way -- naïve, cynical, selfish, foolish, irresponsible, anal, self-indulgent, weird or even evil -- without ever realizing that we probably appear these ways to others. We tend to resist examining our own deeply held positions, though, out of the fear of discovering something that we do not want to consider, that would cause us to question much on which we've based our lives. And we are afraid that these realizations will undermine our security and throw us in to chaos, depression or insanity.

So, when a truth presents itself that we do not want to acknowledge -- such as, "I've been selfish and insensitive," "I made mistakes that hurt others," "I've been angry, afraid, jealous, apathetic, manipulative, arrogant" -- we impulsively push these away. If the realizations are too painful we may even turn them around and blame others: "How dare they call me selfish after all I've done!" "No one appreciates me," or "If it weren't for [fill in the blank], I'd be happy/successful/accepted/loved." Then we dig in deeper, refusing to even consider that our worst fears about ourselves may be true.

These are the mechanisms of the ego, which fiercely seeks safety, and devises strategies to avoid looking at anything that it finds threatening. Our ego strategies keep us from seeing clearly, and leave us confused, defensive and neurotic.

The deepest spiritual practices, then, teach us to see the ego as the frightened child that it is, and to know that we are more than this. The goal is to dissolve the subjective explanations that we created so that we can experience reality as clearly as possible. This is the growth of faith, and it is the most difficult work of our lives because it requires that we muster the courage to objectively identify and gradually drop our egoic strategies, and surrender ourselves to life as it is, with the commitment to live in truth.

This is what the great 19th century Danish philosopher Søren Kierkegaard meant by "a leap to faith." This leap is a courageous move toward what is true, and begins by accepting things exactly as they are, with as little ego distortion as possible, and without the impulse to immediately condemn, reframe or ignore. The leap is also toward the trust that creation is inherently good, and that if you approach the world with the desire to know and accept what is true, that all will proceed well, even if you do not understand -- or even want -- what shows up; even if it means that you will need to re-examine some deeply held beliefs.

This acceptance of things as they are does not mean that you will not want to change for the better, or that there are no value judgments and that everything is equal. Wanting positive change and objectively accepting things exactly as you find them are not contradictory, but are two required components in meaningful growth. If you only accept what is, without a commitment to improve it, you will be complacent and will slowly decay. If you only desire to find problems, you will lose compassion and will descend in to the egoic strategy of being "wiser" or "more discerning" than others.

When you drop the ego's need to control and to be accepted (which you soon realize never worked anyways), you finally experience life as it unfolds, and discover that you do not need to figure anything out. Instead, the instructions for positive action are actually embedded in the awareness of reality itself. Then you become an active partner in growth and evolution. This is the real meaning of mature faith.

It requires tremendous strength to look objectively at what is, and commit to growth, especially when it's about you. But this is the absolutely necessary first step in the development of faith. If you discover that you must change, though, it is crucial to avoid beating yourself up for what you've done or who you've been. Self-abuse is an indulgence that shuts down the process, and keeps you chained to stagnation and delusion. Instead, simply acknowledge the reality of the situation, determine how to fix the damage and avoid the same mistake in the future, and then forgive yourself in love. This will then help you to forgive others, which is a profound act of mature faith.

The realization that deepening faith leads to a stronger connection to reality and to positive action is a common theme in many religious traditions. From a Judeo/Christian perspective this is demonstrated in the story of Moses and the burning bush. Although the surface of this story is well known, a careful reading of the narrative reveals another level. It is only after Moses stops and looks clearly at this little bush as it really is, that he sees that it -- like everything in creation -- burns with the life force of creation, but is not consumed. Then his own life's purpose is revealed, as all the defenses that he created to avoid seeing the real horrors of the world that he ran away from evaporate. Moses responds with the simple words that announce a willingness to be available to whatever arises: "Here I am."

This is the highest level of faith, as you surrender yourself to life as it appears, with the confidence in the inherent goodness of creation and in your own powers to act effectively, the knowledge that your life has a positive purpose, and the assurance that you are eternally cared for and loved. This is an exciting way to live, because every moment is unexpected and filled with possibilities.

 
 
 
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09:19 AM on 05/11/2012
Evolutionists have faith that someday science will find the missing pieces they need to complete their "theory". Until such time they will continue to gloss over the fact that it is incomplete.
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Elijah A Alexander Jr
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08:52 PM on 05/05/2012
There's faith and there's blind believing. Biblically, faith finds evidence and substance supporting the unseen requiring being spiritually born to achieve since the "Born Again" dialog indicates comprehending earth's plane is impossible without being spiritually born. That means physical science nor religious mysticism alone reveals understanding earth requiring them to need rebirthing before finding truth.

My new conception was seeing me reap something sown which sent me back to religion for gestating. Once reborn, no longer belonging to a church, I saw my life experiences objectively, like reviewing a movie unemotionally for comprehension, teaching the lessons of my experiences & eliminating ego's rejecting of them. Thus, existence doesn't reveal itself to man until we've incarnated every possible experience of every man.

New Birth is like the tad pole's metamorphosis, it doesn't realize it will become a frog until it's tail began to shorten and legs began to grow. During the transition it's wondering what's happens until it find itself not breathing water but air and hops out of the pond. I didn't realize I was spiritually conceived until years after being an adolescent and saw the birthing process through 20/20 hindsight, thus, didn't obtain faith until being reborn.
sjaent2001
Change gets Challenged, changer gets Cross/poison
07:44 PM on 05/05/2012
"""""Moses responds with the simple words that announce a willingness to be available to whatever arises: "Here I am." This is the highest level of faith, as you surrender yourself to life as it appears, with the confidence in the inherent goodness of creation and in your own powers to act effectively, the knowledge that your life has a positive purpose, and the assurance that you are eternally cared for and loved. This is an exciting way to live, because every moment is unexpected and filled with possibilities."""""""---------------------------
""" Submission"" is the name of the mission of human life. Whoever submits and says Here I am to his Creator, gets the boost of faith and get the salvation. Moses followed the examples of his predecessors and also left message those who followed him. The article has good contents---- we have to find a way, in these days of total disbelief and complete submission to our own selfs and those who try to dominate our will and lives. We have to be courageous to stand up and revive that will to submit to the Creator for the benefit of all of US.
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Elijah A Alexander Jr
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06:46 PM on 05/05/2012
There's faith and there's blind believing. Biblically, faith finds evidence and substance to support the unseen requiring being spiritually born to achieve since the "Born Again" dialog indicates comprehending earth's plane is impossible without being spiritually born. That means physical science nor religious mysticism alone reveals understanding earth requiring both groups to need new birthing before finding the truth.

My new conception was seeing me reap something sown which sent me back to religion for gestating. Once reborn, no longer belonging to a church, I saw my life experiences objectively, like reviewing a movie unemotionally for comprehension, teaching the lessons of my experiences & eliminating ego's rejecting of them. Thus, existence doesn't reveal itself to man until we've incarnated every possible experience of every man.

New Birth is like the tad pole's metamorphosis, it doesn't realize it will become a frog until it's tail began to shorten and legs began to grow. During the transition it's wondering what's happens until it find itself not breathing water but air and hops out of the pond. I didn't realize I was spiritually conceived until years after being an adolescent and saw the birthing process through 20/20 hindsight.
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Allan Richter
01:37 PM on 05/05/2012
"Faith is a person's or group's way of moving into life. … finding coherence …and … meaning to…forces and relationships that make up our lives."

(We) all understand the world differently, (with different)… ways to comprehend and control our experiences. …(W)e may live our entire lives …assuming that the way we see the world is objectively true, yet remain completely unaware that we have made it up. In this way we all live in "faith," because we all experience life through the filters of our own making, in which we place trust and confidence. …This does not mean that there is no objective reality…” (Lurie}.

This echo’s Kabbalah to some extent. Plurality (creation) is, from the perspective of God, (singular unity), epistemological. Since all that exists is God, if we had complete knowledge we would merge back into God. In this sense our entire reality, including scientific knowledge of material phenomena is “myth”. We exit only because the divine light is “filtered”.

The Kabbalist looks into their inner being to find the divine paradigm. It is not literal, is expressed with rich imagery and allows one to find meaning in the forces and relationships that make up our individual and covenantal (Israel's) life. It allows divine experience beyond the borders of cognitive thought.

From human perspective material reality is real - use science to understand it.
11:28 PM on 05/05/2012
Allan, I just want to ask you a question.

In the Old Testament, what is meant when the Almighty classifies something as an "abomination"?
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F-BVFF
01:42 PM on 05/17/2012
Can you give an example of a quote you're looking to understand better?
04:38 AM on 05/06/2012
Faith is handled by an entirely different area of the brain. It's science.
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05:59 AM on 05/01/2012
I think that it depends on how one defines "faith". If one is pushing a strict dogmatic approach to faith, then logical thinking is going to raise questions concerning the inconsistencies inherent in a dogmatic approach to defining reality.

http://www.scientificamerican.com/article.cfm?id=losing-your-religion-analytic-thinking-can-undermine-belief&WT.mc_id=SA_CAT_SP_20120430
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01:41 AM on 05/01/2012
This is some serious relativism, pretending to be otherwise.
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Jelle NL
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12:11 AM on 05/01/2012
We can not expect that a cockroach will ever understand the Theory of Relativity. So there is no reason to expect that we ourselves will one day comprehend the whole Universe. --- Reality might well be more than our universe.
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06:01 AM on 05/01/2012
We may, someday, comprehend the universe in a way that enables us to interact with it in ways that we cannot even imagine in today's world.
09:50 PM on 04/30/2012
“The Matrix” did a better job revealing that most of us lead lives of quiet desperation, never really examining life, our place in it and our need to challenge our childish, pre-conscience notions to achieve a higher, more satisfying maturity. What initially appeared to be a religious over-toned article ended up blurring “faith” between organized religion and and the growth of non-religious faith systems that believers and non-believers have in common. The writer refers to the “ego” as the frightened child that it is, and to know that we are more than this. Christianity in particular demands that its adherents remain children: “Verily I say unto you, whosoever shall not receive the kingdom of God as a little child shall in no wise enter therein.” [Luke 18:17] Given a rabbi looks primarily to the Old Testament, religious “faith” requires that everything in that Old Testament is to be believed without question. Otherwise, heaven will be denied. Wow, there’s no better way to frighten your children into faith right from the start and keep them that way!! I now believe, based on the “faith” journey and growth I have realized, that there’s more insight from the following author than from this article: “The Old Testament is responsible for more atheism, agnosticism, disbelief— call it what you will—than any book ever written.” —A. A. MILNE (1882-1956), creator of Winnie the Pooh. So much for religious-based “faith” as a vehicle for the ego’s growth.
12:16 PM on 05/01/2012
I love A.A. Milne, thanks for that quote.
06:57 PM on 05/01/2012
Thank you for letting me know...it's always hard to know what resonates for folks without feedback. Enjoy!
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Claude Hosch
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09:17 PM on 04/30/2012
Personally, I think the "blind faith" concept arises from congregations too lazy to study the Bible for them selves, accept what they hear and pass it on. Eph.5:15 implies we should behave circumspectly; far from blind faith. Rom.1:20 tells us the things that are seen (reality) helps us understand the unseen. Christians are to rely on reality, but, one has to study that too.
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wbthacker
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06:05 PM on 04/30/2012
"The deepest spiritual practices, then, teach us to see the ego as the frightened child that it is, and to know that we are more than this. The goal is to dissolve the subjective explanations that we created so that we can experience reality as clearly as possible. This is the growth of faith"

This is nonsense.

Faith is intrinsically egotistical, because faith stems from within a person's mind. Trusting your faith is an act of ego, in which you say "Though I've no proof, I trust that my idea is the correct one."

The idea that the subjective experience of "faith" can "dissolve subjective explanations" is laughable.

Faith allows you to experience reality as clearly as possible? Baloney. Faith tells you to rely on the most warped view of reality you can find -- your own. Science, not faith, forces you to see things more clearly by stripping away all your assumptions.

"The realization that deepening faith leads to a stronger connection to reality and to positive action is a common theme in many religious traditions. From a Judeo/Christian perspective this is demonstrated in the story of Moses and the burning bush. "

You use a myth to illustrate how faith leads us to reality? I rest my case.
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06:02 AM on 05/01/2012
To "experience reality as clearly as possible" should be the goal of both religion and science. Anything else is just pushing dogma.
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ManhattanMC
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04:50 PM on 05/01/2012
Then religion fails.
12:18 PM on 05/01/2012
There were more holes in this argument than I could even count. Thank your for succinctly illuminating a few of the more important ones.
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wbthacker
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05:56 PM on 04/30/2012
"There are measurable physical objects and phenomena, which are usually easy to agree on, and are the venue of science. And there are the meaning of our actions and the nature of our relationships with others, which are much more elusive and difficult to discern, and are the venue of philosophy and theology."

Thus, Rabbi Lurie proves that if you assume faith is the only way to answer some questions, it follows that faith is the best way to answer some questions. Q.E.D.v Faith is valid if you have faith that it is.

Rabbi, I don't accept your assumption. I ask you to prove that "the meanings of our actions and the nature of our relationships with others" are things science can't address and theology can. Prove that faith is superior in this realm. I can cite ample evidence to the contrary.

This is why I'm among those who think that faith *is* largely a rejection of reality. Reality doesn't give us any any evidence that points to gods, so why build vast theories of human psychology on that assumption? I think that people choose to believe faith is a way to determine truth because they like its answers better than science's; it's too painful to accept reality so they choose faith instead.
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bermudababy
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05:32 PM on 04/30/2012
Faith is a living thing. It has to be nurtured and fed. It needs to exercise. It plays well with those of it's own kind. It loves to share though. Faith can get down, it can feel deflated at times. Faith is manifest through it's works. Faith can be rewarded and rewarding. Faith is a connection.

I see Faith as a life line to reality.
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Tony Pepperoni
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05:22 PM on 04/30/2012
They need a religious version of Webster's Dictionary. In this version every word will have 20 definitions, each one contradicting the previous.

Faith (in the religious sense) has 2 levels as I see it.

The first is the faith that god exists since there is no evidence to prove this. This is the level I respect as an Atheist because it is debatable and I am merely skeptical (agnostic).

The second is faith that religious texts are actual communications from god and that religious leaders can decode this information. This level of faith I have no time for.
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Patrick Flannery
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05:08 PM on 04/30/2012
A completely dishonest use of tortured logic, false premises and arbitrary definitions to arrive at an absurd conclusion.

Faith has a dictionary definition in English that will not go away no matter how much religious apologists wish it would. It involves holding certain beliefs without question. It does not refer to having the inner strength to face facts directly. The word for that is "honesty" or "integrity." It does not refer to holding an accurate understanding of objective reality. The word for that is "knowledge." It does not refer to having the clarity to see past one's own biases. The word for that is "objectivity" or maybe "self-awareness."

The effort here is to put forth a different definition for a common word with a well-understood meaning in hopes that believers will be able to feel better about using the word. But it fails. Much of the article does not even address the question of why faith should be redefined, but instead attempts to rehabilitate the word with a long paen to its many supposed benefits. But these are beside the point. Faith remains what it is: cleaving to certain beliefs without regard for evidence.

As for the question in the headline, faith may or may not be a rejection of reality. But if it does hit on an accurate representation of reality, it is only a happy accident.