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Teaching Our Children the Ethics of Eating Meat

Posted: 04/25/2012 5:02 pm

Recently, Ariel Kaminer in her New York Times column "The Ethicist" announced a contest calling on readers to state -- in 600 words or less -- why it is ethical to eat meat. Thousands of entries were submitted, and the works of six finalists were posted online last week. Together with my wife, Ariella Reback, I wrote an essay that was one of the thousands of entries. Sadly, we didn't make the cut to the final round. Nevertheless, I thought I would post our submission here.

We read the Ethicist's challenge to defend meat consumption as an ethical act as we began preparing in earnest for our observance of Passover. During dinner with our children (ages 10, 8 and 3), we asked them, all enthusiastic carnivores, why they thought it was OK to eat meat. Their varying responses inspired us to frame this discussion in terms of the Passover Haggadah's description of the Four Children. Each child comes to the table with a different perspective, and the parents as teachers and role models must educate them about Passover's message of human dignity according to their ability and demeanor. So here's an imagined dialogue between parents and children on the ethics of eating meat:

We know of four children who interact with the world in different ways:

One who is wise; one who is contrary; one who is simple; and one who does not know how to ask a question.

What does the wise child say? "What are ethical reasons to eat meat?" To this child, teach that human beings have co-evolved with animals and that animal protein derived from sustainable agriculture can nourish us physically and make us mindful and appreciative of the natural world around us.

What does the contrary child say? "Meat tastes good. Why shouldn't I eat it?" To this child, explain that meat tastes best when it is produced with love -- for the animal, for the people who process it and for the environment in which it is produced.

What does the simple child say? "Is it OK to eat meat?" To this child, teach that eating meat should be a special occasion, like the original observance of Passover when each family raised and harvested their own lamb. Meat is not inherently bad, but eating too much without sense or regard for where it came from causes us physical and spiritual damage.

As for the child who does not know how to ask, you should prompt the child by taking a family trip to a working farm that uses sustainable practices. See how food is produced when animals are not force-fed grain, when they are not over-medicated with hormones and antibiotics and when they fertilize the soil on the farm on which they are raised to create a healthy, natural inter-dependent cycle. Educate this child and siblings that their hot dogs don't magically appear vacuum sealed in plastic in the supermarket. They come from animals that share this planet with us. Use meat consumption in your family as a teaching opportunity to foster knowledge and appreciation for our world and all its inhabitants.


As a footnote to this Passover parable, we took a trip to our local kosher butcher to buy a turkey for our seder. We have always had turkey, and our best ones were, of course, the pasture-raised turkeys that Ariella's former company produced. We couldn't imagine seder without turkey. Unfortunately, the only turkey our butcher carried was from a large industrial kosher meat producer that has been in the news a lot in recent years for its poor record of treatment of animals and its human employees. We wanted to know if the butcher carried meat from other more reputable producers. They said yes, but only chicken. We had chicken for seder.

The authors are married and live in Boynton Beach, Fla. Rabbi Bernstein is the spiritual leader of Temple Torah of Boynton Beach and is a Fellow in Greenfaith, an inter-religious environmental advocacy organization. Ms. Reback is an attorney and "slow food" entrepreneur. Previously, she owned Green Pastures Poultry, a company based in Cleveland, Ohio, that marketed locally produced, pasture-raised chicken, turkey and duck to kosher and non-kosher clientele.

 

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11:19 AM on 04/27/2012
This was obviously well thought out and an attempt by a guilty observer to absolve himself and his family of the guilt that comes with harming others for your own benefit needlessly. People who let their carnal desires overrule their minds always defend their actions in this way. I have no doubt that the author truly believes he is making the world better and teaching his children well. He is well intentioned, but at the same time continues in his delusion. You eat meat to satisfy your own tastes and hungers. Period. Eating meat kills innocent animals, whether they were "grass fed" or not. Period. Religion has been used to justify all manner of awful behavior and this is an example of that continuing. How about telling children the truth and letting them deal with their own decisions? You haven't taught them that eating meat is not ethical, so they don't know any better. You have not taught them anything but to do what mother and father do. The greatest gift you can give them is to teach them to think for themselves. Tell them the truth of meat production and let them decide. That is the only right way.
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01:54 AM on 04/27/2012
Yes, sustainable, grass-fed, ecological. How wonderful! How ethical! What could be better than letting all farm animals have some space? If each and every American cow had the necessary 10 acres, it would require ALL the land in the United States. That leaves no room for the pigs, chickens, turkeys, goats and humans who also need space to roam. Harsh reality huh? No way all of us can keep eating meat. Yet some elites like Michael Pollan perpetrate this grass-fed fantasy. "Let them eat grass-fed!" said Marie Antoinette. Let them pay $18 for an organic free-range chicken.
10:57 AM on 04/27/2012
There is something obviously wrong with causing animals to suffer and die for our eating pleasure.
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elcerritan
My bio is not micro
09:01 PM on 05/02/2012
If you actually knew the first thing about agriculture, particularly animal husbandry, available land and land use patterns, instead of just parroting nay-saying vegangelical nonsense, you'd know that it actually is perfectly possible for everybody in the US to eat sustainably and humanely produced meat and other animal products. This has nothing to do with "elites" and everything to do with agro-ecology. Members of Team Veg like to promote the idea that this is pie-in-the-sky "elitism," when in fact the Special Rapporteur to the UN Human Rights Council has shown pretty convincingly that bio-diverse agriculture, that includes the use of livestock for food, is only way to ensure food security (particularly in the developing world) in the coming decades. Veganism, or even vegetarianim, aren't even on the radar screen as solutions to the problem of future food security.
02:57 PM on 04/26/2012
Great article!
12:26 PM on 04/26/2012
Yes, what a wonderful idea. Let's teach our kids that it's okay to kill animals for nutrients that can be found in plant-based foods. Let's teach them that it is acceptable to take life from a living sentient being who feels pain and suffers just as they do. What a wonderful way to build a new generation of compassionate individuals. Let's also continue to green wash our children with fallacies like "sustainable meat". If we grass fed enough cows to feed all 6 billion people on this planet there would be no greenery left, so not only would all of the cows die of starvation, all of the people would too. No amount of word twisting and mental gymnastics can negate the truth, eating animals is an unethical assertion of human entitlement that destroys the planet, makes a violent society and kills innocent beings for things we don't need. Maybe we shouldn't be taking ethics advice from a person who believes in supernatural invisible deities as a way to justify his behavior instead of looking at the hard facts in front of him.

The Huffington Post has been publishing some very iffy articles recently, and this is one of the iffyest.
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plantbasedpunk
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11:54 AM on 04/26/2012
More than 99% of the animal products in this country come from animals on factory farms. Are you suggesting that you and your children only eat animal products that came from this small, less than 1%? When you go out to eat, do you eat vegetarian? Because the vast majority of restaurants are supplied by factory farms.

And why show them a small, allegedly "sustainable" farm? That's NOT where their food is coming from. Again, less than 1%. This is just burying the truth which is that we exploit, mutilate, confine, torture and brutally slaughter 10 billion animals each year in this country for no other reason than that we like the way it tastes.

This irks me, too: "...explain that meat tastes best when it is produced with love -- for the animal". Produced with love? Does tearing a baby cow from it's mothers side to be locked in a veal crate sound like "love"? Does grinding up male chicks because they don't lay eggs sound like "love"? Does cutting of a cow's testicles without anesthesia sound like "love"? Beating a terrified cow with an electric prod up a ramp to stand in a pool of blood and have it's skull crushed by a captive bolt-gun sound like "love"? Because even these things are pretty much standard practice even for small non-industrialized farms.
07:32 PM on 04/26/2012
The ONLY way for you to have very little impact is to grow all of your own food. This would likely mean you have to quit your job (it's time consuming) and move (takes a lot of space and if you don't want to use any animal inputs, or hopefully, not chemicals, you will need even more space and all kinds of knowledge).

If you don't grow your own food, whether you eat industrially produced or organic ag products, your impact on animals is enormous. They die slow, painful, miserable deaths (deaths that make the worst of slaughterhouses look humane) from machinery, poisons, traps. Think about the millions of squirrels that want to eat those organic apples, nuts, berries, etc, the bunnies that want those carrots, kale, lettuce. Farms kill these animals, they don't just ask them nicely to leave. There is no way around it, if you eat and you aren't growing it yourself with no poisons, traps, machinery, then you have blood all over you.

Might want to check out the articles my friend sabelmouse posted below, they are really eye opening if your mind is open, as well.
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plantbasedpunk
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11:21 AM on 04/27/2012
I accept that I will always have an "impact" on animals. Fact is, it takes much more harvested grain and much more land to raise meat than it does to eat the crops directly.

Also, a large portion of deforested land is used for pasture if not for grain to be fed to livestock.

The only way to make the least impact (while remaining practical) is to eliminate or at the very least minimize the amount of animal products in your diet. Nobody is expecting you do live out in the woods picking berries and digging up roots.
11:51 AM on 04/26/2012
Animals don't want your appreciation, they want your knives off their necks so they can live for themselves, instead of for another...which is called slavery

nice facade, using children to make it all sound innocent and harmless...seen a factory farm lately? And, kosher slaughterhouses are worse..all meat is violent because you're taking some thing that some one doesn't want to give, their life
11:30 AM on 04/26/2012
It is not hard to see why you didn't get picked. There was not a single argument about ethics in those lines.
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09:58 AM on 04/26/2012
How many living things were killed (and not even eaten) to clear the ground to build the plant to create the electricity to power up the computer he used to type his screed on?
At some point that kind of silly introspection just becomes a justification for "drawing your line in the sand" conveniently just in front of where you're now standing.
"An environmentalist is someone who built his house in the woods before you tried to."
10:25 AM on 04/26/2012
I am not sure I have ever read anything less screedlike than the posting above. Whether it is the best defense of eating meat with consideration for where it was produced is another question. But it is funny to see such a gentle argument dismissed as a screed.
11:46 AM on 04/26/2012
ridiculous...every line is arbitrary...every line a human construct, some of us just try to draw it where it causes the least pain to others, it's hardly "silly introspection" to think about the pain you cause others, and yes, there are many things to address, but, start somewhere...

i don't like the rabbi's article, but for a different reason than you...he doesn't go far enough, just questioning how animals are treated does them no good, they don't want our questions, and respect, and gratitude...they want the knives off their throats
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09:49 AM on 04/26/2012
Did you ask your children why the state of Israel treats Palestinians with less respect than the meat they're already eating?
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grappler1987
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10:46 AM on 04/26/2012
Edward is American. What are you really trying to say?
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11:47 AM on 04/26/2012
I'm really trying to say that it's foolish to use one's religion to debate whether or not to enjoy that piece of meat already on your plate when your same religion--as do all religions--find it perfectly acceptable to kill non-believers in the name of some mythical book of superstitions.
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plantbasedpunk
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11:59 AM on 04/26/2012
Not relevant to the conversation. Not to mention rude and disrespectful.
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02:48 PM on 04/27/2012
{{{clutching pearls}}}
charlie5150
evolution happens for some
08:55 AM on 04/26/2012
Wow, many words to evade simple evolution. A combination of fire building and animal consumption is why we are typing now. Protein builds brain cells, therefore we exist as the dominate species. A protein enhanced brain is then able to create fantastic stories such as gods, OCD behaviour, religions and reasons to reject the very source of the human races rise to power. It is OCD absurdity.
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plantbasedpunk
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11:42 AM on 04/26/2012
Protein is not only found in animal products, you know. Also, just because we evolved eating meat doesn't mean it should continue. We also evolved waging war, taking slaves, pillaging, raping and killing. Should these continue as well?
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01:41 AM on 04/26/2012
As young as four, I had difficulty eating meat. I got into alot of trouble very young at a big family dinner, served with fried chicken. I refused to eat the chicken because when I looked at it, I could see veins. I associated veins with humans.

First, the vegetarian diet is the most healthful for humans. Whole grains, veggies and fruits are the most nutritional foods for man. Why consume the bodies of others when our most healthful foods are not the bodies of species, very close to humans. When we consume the bodies of animals, we also consume the planetary toxins that are stored in animals' fat cells. Another dumb decision.

Indeed, reports exist, that claim the vegetarian diet is the "fountain of youth". Now, who wouldn't want that?
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09:50 AM on 04/26/2012
Reports exist that make claims for any box o' beliefs you wanna put out there.
Thanks for playing.
08:41 PM on 04/25/2012
I really loved your thoughtful response to the question posed. I am not Jewish, but I'm totally borrowing the "four children" for discussion with my kiddos. Thanks for sharing!
08:16 PM on 04/25/2012
teaching kids that killing other beings who appreciate life when it is unnecessary is a very immoral thing to do. children as young as five recognize that it is wrong to harm another being, especially when you don't need to, so teaching them the opposite means causing moral schizophrenia in their minds and moral relativism in their future actions. like for example...your moral relativism: protecting one life, and not the other... sad...
sad for you, sad for your children, especially sad for thousands of animals you are all planing to kill :(
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sabelmouse
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07:24 AM on 04/26/2012
they'd probably also realize that it's wrong to poison animals that compete for our food or damage their habitat, destroying them or making them homeless to grow our crops.
and leaving babies to starve after we kill their mothers.
http://theconversation.edu.au/ordering-the-vegetarian-meal-theres-more-animal-blood-on-your-hands-4659
http://www.permaculture.co.uk/articles/meat-eating-vs-vegetarian-or-vegan-diets
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MagicManDoneIt
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07:57 PM on 04/25/2012
It's not ethical to eat meat, but it's not unethical either. Ethical concerns come from the mistreatment of animals and the resource intensive measures that produce meat, which are issues in and of themselves. Eating meat itself is not an ethical concern, but the processes that provide that meat in a modern context often are ethical concerns.
11:53 AM on 04/26/2012
Why are you defining what's ethical?
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MagicManDoneIt
When facts are lacking. Just say...
06:24 PM on 04/26/2012
Ethics has not been determined beyond doubt, so these are my opinions. The point of commenting is to share one's view. You can agree or disagree, and I'm happy to respond. If you vague question is implying that I don't have the right to make any such claims, please enlighten me as to who can and by what right.