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The Frustrating, Difficult, Never-Ending Search for God

Posted: 02/23/11 09:06 PM ET

For most of us, the hunt for God never stops. We deny God, curse God and demand proofs of God's existence that we will never get. But the search continues, motivated by a sense -- often just a hunch, or the slimmest instinct -- that there is holiness in our world that only God's presence can account for. We know that what we believe about God may be wrong, but we prefer the possibility of false belief to no belief at all.

I have long struggled with how to best answer the question: "Rabbi, how do I connect with God?" The obvious place for the questioner to begin is with personal or communal prayer, but I have learned that for many such seekers, the experience of prayer is too alien to even contemplate. They are looking for other paths, and for multiple possibilities to consider. And assuming that they are willing to give me a small amount of their time, I do my best to provide them.

Begin, I suggest, with a new openness to the world around you. Reawaken your capacity for wonderment. Make room for the sense of awe that you felt as a child when you considered the beauty and the mystery of the natural world. There are divine sparks there, if you will allow yourself to experience them.

Turn next to the sacred texts of our tradition. They are important because there is an ebb and flow to our religious impulses. A hunger for the holy may overwhelm us one minute and dissipate the next. For most of us, God is not available "on demand." Texts are important because they are a record of how others before us, faced with the precisely the questions and doubts that we face, made their way to God and to faith. When we are lonely or isolated because the immediate experience of God eludes us, we can find reassurance, inspiration,and guidance in carefully studying how others navigated this course, connecting with God in ways that -- at this moment, at least -- we cannot.

Remember, too, that God is not only a noun but a verb, not only a presence but a process.
We may not know precisely what God is, but our tradition clearly tells us what God does: God heals the sick, clothes the naked, houses the homeless and pursues peace. We cannot be God; we are weak and imperfect human beings. But we can, within the limitations of the human condition, emulate God's behavior, and, in this way, bring God into our lives. Consciousness of God, of course, is hardly a requirement for ethical acts. There is, thankfully, much "do-goodism" in our society. But those who pursue justice with the express intent of testifying to God's existence are those who find the greatest satisfaction in their actions and who are least likely to fall victim to exhaustion and despair.

And finally, experiment with religious rituals, including those that you may have earlier discarded. Rituals give structure to the holy. They help us to cultivate a sense of the sacred within ourselves and in our midst. They are particularly valuable as an instrument of sacred reenactment: they are a means for us to relive the momentous encounters with God -- the Exodus from Egypt, the revelation at Sinai, the wondering in the desert -- that our ancestors experienced and that shaped our history and our religious lives. Almost always, a craving for God goes together with a craving for meaningful ritual, which binds us together and affirms our common values, shared joys and deep faith as a religious community.

All of this might be a little overwhelming, I say. But start somewhere. The search for God is frustrating and difficult, and it is never done. But with God, our lives have meaning and purpose; without God, we are reduced to being no more than a tiny speck in a vast universe.

 
For most of us, the hunt for God never stops. We deny God, curse God and demand proofs of God's existence that we will never get. But the search continues, motivated by a sense -- often just a hunch...
For most of us, the hunt for God never stops. We deny God, curse God and demand proofs of God's existence that we will never get. But the search continues, motivated by a sense -- often just a hunch...
 
 
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03:46 PM on 03/02/2011
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helioszephyr
What do you mean by "micro"?!
11:32 PM on 03/01/2011
There's a simple truth that cleared this uncertainty for me regarding this topic, and why there are many frustrated attempting to find and define "god". It pretty much explains and sums up everything to me.

Man is an insecure animal, even more insecure than what we term as "animals". What we don't know or aren't sure of, we fear, and connect the dots of the unknown in a futile attempt to quell our fears, hedge our beliefs and try to give meaning to this concept of life and afterlife. It's no more than a figment of our imagination.

Because of our ignorance of our existence, and based on religious beliefs, we've gone to war, tortured, enslaved and discriminate against others, mainly, and ironically, because of others' own different beliefs that threaten ours, and trying to impose ours on them.

For anyone to claim they "know" what this concept of "god" is, or its existence, is quite absurd... we hardly know our own planet, much less the universe and what force produced it. We can hardly wrap our brains around the concept of time, much less this concept of "god".

We'd be wiser to consider the implications of "no god", so not to assume we'll be saved from our misbehavior, than assuming there is and mistreat the planet and its inhabitants. If we assume, and believe, that all we have is this planet and each other, then we might have hope to treat each other with dignity and respect.
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Cori527
Gay democrat agnostic vegetarian!
05:09 PM on 03/01/2011
"The Frustrating, Difficult, Never-Ending Search for God"

Uh-huh. Definitely ended on my part. It's less about "why are we here" and more about "what can we do for each other".
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paleoimage
I'm happy to live in a fact based world
04:45 PM on 03/01/2011
How about "The Satisfying, Logical, and Definitive Abandonment of Myths".
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wbthacker
Can YOU pass the Turing Test?
01:57 PM on 03/01/2011
"We know that what we believe about God may be wrong, but we prefer the possibility of false belief to no belief at all."

Thanks for being so honest about that, Rabbi.

"We may not know precisely what God is, but our tradition clearly tells us what God does: God heals the sick, clothes the naked, houses the homeless and pursues peace. "

He does? So all those government aid programs really ARE boondoggles? Or did you mean that God takes credit when *people* do all those things?

"But with God, our lives have meaning and purpose; without God, we are reduced to being no more than a tiny speck in a vast universe."

So it's all about your ego. You're unhappy with your status in the material universe. so you decide to believe in a god who says he made it all for you. I have some bad news: introducing God into the picture makes you even *less* of a tiny speck, since he's obviously more awesome than the universe that dwarfs you. And at least the universe doesn't require you to grovel.

Conversely, since I don't believe in gods, I know that humans may be the most intelligent and creative form of life in the universe. It's highly unlikely -- but possible -- that we are the "crown jewel" of existence, and so far we know of none better.

And if it's meaning you want, how about this: you're free to pick your own meaning.
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Forester
Overeducated woods worker.
04:23 PM on 03/01/2011
Having just finished re-reading the OT most of which constitutes the Torah, I must say He was doing a whole lot of punishing and k illing for the cause of monotheism. Or did I misinterpret that?
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Cori527
Gay democrat agnostic vegetarian!
05:11 PM on 03/01/2011
Well spoken wbthacker.
02:32 AM on 03/01/2011
If you want to spend what time you have on a frustrating, difficult search for God, purpose and meaning, go right ahead. That's what free will is all about. I, on the other hand, am more than satisfied to be a tiny speck in the vast universe, surrounded by my tiny specks of family, friends and pets. And as for that vast universe, it's only vast and overwhelming if you let it be. I don't need to wonder what else is out there because what I have in front of me is more than worth it.
06:23 PM on 02/28/2011
"Begin, I suggest, with a new openness to the world around you. Reawaken your capacity for wonderment. Make room for the sense of awe that you felt as a child when you considered the beauty and the mystery of the natural world. There are divine sparks there, if you will allow yourself to experience them."
People often feel that atheists must be depressed sort of individuals who have no meaning in their lives. I would suggest that the above paragraph, minus the "divine" aspect, beautifully expresses why an atheist can live such a happy, inspired life. We're talking about the awesomeness of the natural world, why is there a need to insert divinity into it? I stand completely in wonder of the universe and it's complexity. I can say, as an atheist, that the lack of a supreme being does not diminish the ability to enjoy it. Forget the made up stories, enjoy nature for what it is...exquisitely natural.
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wbthacker
Can YOU pass the Turing Test?
02:13 PM on 03/01/2011
I have a theory on that. I think when you or I see something really remarkable in nature, we feel awe, but we don't pretend that feeling is anything more than our own emotional response. Likewise when we study something until it "clicks" and makes sense, we don't attribute that sensation to a higher power who's telling us we got it right, we know it's a figment of our minds.

Theists seem to react differently to these experiences and ascribe the feelings to something outside them. Some congregations actively train people to react this way, but I think it comes naturally to some people. When they make a 4 the hard way (rolling double 2s) playing craps it's not just a favorable random outcome, it's an event of cosmic significance. If they get a raise at work, God did that for them, personally.

So I think they honestly don't realize that atheists are just as excited and pleased by these events, because we don't go over the top when we talk about them. "My father is recovering nicely from his surgery" sounds bored compared to, "God has blessed my father with a miraculous recovery."
05:57 PM on 02/28/2011
But with God, our lives have meaning and purpose; without God, we are reduced to being no more than a tiny speck in a vast universe.
I have never heard it summed up so succinctly as the last sentence of the article. Religion is Man's refusal to accept reality. Every single social ill, all suffering stems from the human delusional need to feel special, to refuse to accept one's place in the Universe. It's beyond sad. It's pathetic, especially when one realizes that the Universe contains far more mysteries then the human mind can possibly imagine. We are nothing. We are not special in any way. We are no different then any other form of life on this rock that revolves around an average star in an average galaxy.The Christian religion even enforces this idea with commands for humility, something that seems to run counter to the current Cult of Child Worship. All suffering is in fact self inflicted from this delusion of human specialness. To accept, truly accept one's place in the Universe is liberating. If you seriously want to know why your life sucks all you need do is look in a mirror. Acceptance of one's place in the Universe is the only cure.
04:39 PM on 02/28/2011
It will always be frustrating and difficult to find an entity that doesn't exist.
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03:49 PM on 02/28/2011
First, no human truly searches for GOD. GOD, though, has searched for those who truly want to know HIM. GOD, is, and always will be, the instigator to reach out to humanity. And, humanity can only come to the knowledge of GOD, on GODs terms.

Those terms are revealed through each page of GODs revelation of Himself, in the book known as the BIBLE.

Argue this in ignorance, and you will never come to know creations GOD. Truly search the pages of Scripture, and GOD will make real to you what is so hard to believe with your natural understanding.
08:24 PM on 02/28/2011
I've read that book many times William, and the more I read, the more I wonder why anyone would want to "know" the God described therein; a God who is cruel, unjust, vindictive and petty; who commands that parents stone their unruly children, and husbands to stone their brides if they don't bleed on their wedding night; that commands genocide; who seems to have an extrordinary need to be "worshipped" and adored, as if he created the humans for no reason except to have someone to stroke his giant ego, who will torture people for ever and ever, not because they are evil, but because they don't believe what's written in a book that testifies to a six day creation, talking snakes, talking donkeys, the dead coming out of their graves and wondering around town: search for that God if you want, but as for me, I'll take a pass.
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Michael Surratt
04:11 AM on 03/01/2011
CAPITALIZE all you WILL you will never find something that doesn't exist.
01:21 PM on 02/28/2011
to believe you have to give up your ability to reason:

"Reason is the greatest enemy that faith has; it never comes to the aid of
spiritual things, but -- more frequently than not -- struggles against the
divine Word, treating with contempt all that emanates from God."
father of modern Protestant christianity, Martin Luther
01:53 PM on 02/28/2011
“All matter originates and exists only by virtue of a force...we must assume behind this force the existence of a conscious and intelligent Mind. This Mind is the matrix of all matter.”

Legendary scientist Max Planck
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Forester
Overeducated woods worker.
02:36 PM on 03/01/2011
well there's your proof right there!
02:04 PM on 02/28/2011
You presume that Science is never unreasonable, which is provably false.

Consider this: many philosophers and numerous spiritual traditions speak of a difference between the World as it is and the World that we perceive. The concepts of Tao, Brahman, and Buddha attest to this fact. This notion was formalized in contemporary thought when Kant wrote of the noumenal and phenomenal Worlds.

For thousands of years the institution of science laughed at these ideas.

Until the age of Quantum Mechanics when they were proven true.
12:48 PM on 02/28/2011
The term 'God', IMO, is a matter of semantics.

Science has proven, irrefutably, that our perception of reality is not objectively true. Even seemingly fundamental aspects of existence like matter, time, and space, are projections of the conscious mind, and consist of nothing more than an infinite wave collapsed into countless billions of what we perceive as atoms and particles. Everything that is is a perturbation of the Quantum Field.

Science is largely the study of the material World. But there is compelling evidence for the existence of truths that transcend material classification. If you accept this as true, and I believe that it is increasingly silly not to, then you have to concede the possibility that Mind existed before matter.

Whether or not you want to call that 'God' is up to you.
01:17 PM on 02/28/2011
"Science has proven, irrefutabl­y, that our perception of reality is not objectivel­y true."

nonsense
01:52 PM on 02/28/2011
In other words: you have no idea what you are talking about.

The subjectivity of reality has withstood every single mathematical and experimental hurdle thrown at it. This subjectivity is described by concepts like the measurement problem, superposition, supersymmetry, duality, non locality, etc...

Science has proven that our perception of reality is not objectively true. The fact that you refuse to accept it means nothing.
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helioszephyr
What do you mean by "micro"?!
09:57 PM on 03/01/2011
"Science is largely the study of the material World"
semantics, and a subjective comment.

"concede the possibility that Mind existed before matter."
or that matter doesn't exist (yet?) and your current conscious thoughts are pre-dating matter.
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jdl51
08:08 AM on 02/28/2011
God in his various forms and his various messages throughout the various God based religions of the world are nothing but figments of the imaginations of the people who think they know him. Otherwise there would be one universal consistent belief in THE God, not a mumble jumble of beliefs and beliefs within beliefs. All are man made to suit the particular man or culture that made them up. If God truly wanted us to believe one specific set of guidelines he would have given them to all of us at the same time. When you lift the veil of blind faith, you will see again.
02:47 PM on 02/28/2011
Different people can look at the same Rorschach test and see totally different things. That doesn't mean that Rorschach tests don't exist.

“All matter originates and exists only by virtue of a force...we must assume behind this force the existence of a conscious and intelligen­t Mind. This Mind is the matrix of all matter.”

Max Planck
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ArtJunky
Belief is mandatory
12:36 AM on 03/01/2011
Here's one for you. Where does Science end and magic begin? If what you claim is true then there MUST be a line somewhere in the sky. If you care to look, it's 'second star to the right, and straight on till morning.'

I also hear hear real answers are very so STOP LOOKING for answers.
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helioszephyr
What do you mean by "micro"?!
10:32 PM on 03/01/2011
" That doesn't mean that Rorschach tests don't exist."
the point not being whether it exists, but whether it "works" or is true, as is the reason everything/anything exists, indisputably, as in the case of any of the gods believers purport.
05:44 AM on 02/28/2011
No need to seek God. Seek life.
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Daleri Rileda
Jungle Jargon
12:36 AM on 02/28/2011
Balaam had more visits from God than most religious people today.

God was angry with him for his sin for even trying to curse Israel for hire but he did admit his sin and his blindness.

Cain killed his brother but he talked to God as well.

It is not even a question of, "If there is a God...". It is, "What does God require of us?"

God requires us to speak His true word at all times.
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Forester
Overeducated woods worker.
05:00 PM on 03/01/2011
Those are just stories bro - always reciting the stories like they are facts.

What do you hope to achieve with that kind of monologue? Its like we are overhearing you talking to yourself as you walk down the sidewalk - utterly pointless.