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Brandon Davies' Suspension from BYU an Opportunity for Compassion, Growth

Posted: 03/03/11 02:24 PM ET

Brandon Davies, the starting center for the BYU Cougars basketball team, was suspended for the rest of the season for violating the school's honor code. It doesn't take a lot to violate the honor code at BYU, but that is the commitment every student makes when they decide to enroll in the university.

(The BYU honor code enumerates the requirements for every student to conduct themselves in a way that reflects the ideals and principles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.)

The university hasn't specified the cause for Davies's suspension, although a close connection to the school claims that Davies engaged in pre-marital sex with his girlfriend. While the exact infraction remains unconfirmed, one thing is for certain: He just put a serious damper on the Cougars hopes of getting a number 1 seed in the NCAA tournament and their chances of winning a national championship this year.

Although the Cougars aspirations for March Madness are going to suffer as a result of this transgression, let's not forget the positive side to this story: As collegiate athletic teams around the country are violating significant NCAA rules without punishment or penalty from their universities, except when they need to save face, it's great to see BYU restore some integrity and morality to its broken system. These types of decisions give us hope that Athletic Directors can choose right over wrong, in a field that so often chooses wrong over right. Pat Forde hit the nail on the head with his thoughts on the BYU scandal and it's a very worthwhile read.

As is the case with Mormonism, Judaism is a discipline meant to challenge us; to make us better people and, most importantly, L'davka Bo, bring us closer to God. It's not supposed to be easy. We are engaged in a life-long process of growing in our observance and faith without compromising its values. While many Jewish laws appear troublesome or simply difficult to understand and observe, it does not make it or other religions with similar restrictions, antiquated or devoid of any real meaning. Each ritual and religious tradition provides its adherents with its own unique portal to connect with God.

Davies violated the honor code. Unfortunately, his transgression doesn't only affect himself; it affects the other 11 players on his team who had high hopes of making a splash at the NCAA tournament. Sources report that he is remorseful and heartbroken. As a Mormon himself, Davies let a lot of his people down and is now facing expulsion from the University.

I hope that BYU will consider his remorse as the beginning of his repentance process, and see to it that he is given a second chance to succeed at the University. If the University does show compassion for Davies and allows him to remain a student at BYU, I am sure that he will use this event as a way to grow closer to God. It's the right decision to make, because that is what religion is all about.

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Brandon Davies, the starting center for the BYU Cougars basketball team, was suspended for the rest of the season for violating the school's honor code. It doesn't take a lot to violate the honor code...
Brandon Davies, the starting center for the BYU Cougars basketball team, was suspended for the rest of the season for violating the school's honor code. It doesn't take a lot to violate the honor code...
 
 
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02:26 PM on 03/08/2011
No matter what LDSer are posting regarding BYU, the BYU housed all their sports guys at a dorm which got dubbed the Animal Farm - and they were known to be a rowdy bunch which did not follow the honor code.

Go figure.
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Bob Kellerman
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04:05 PM on 03/08/2011
Gee, it just happened that someone discovered that a Black star player was having sex.
And, it just happened that the timing, with the team winning and needing him, would cause interest
to all followers of college ball.
And it just happened that he was not a mormon, so the opportunity to show him redemption and teach him mormon ways would reflect well on the school
Then it just happened that the story got all over the worldwide media.

And it just happened to be a featured story in the lds newsroom -- a source for media to get stories about mormon life, all pre-written for them
http://newsroom.lds.org/article/the-honor-code-and-compassion

And I left a tooth under my pillow -- it just happened to be replaced by a dollar.
12:24 PM on 03/09/2011
get your facts straight. He is a Mormon and I'm sure they would rather go far in the tournament than suspend a player. Just because BYU values integrity over athletics doesn't mean there is a conspiracy here.
03:57 PM on 03/07/2011
Whelp, that's what happens when you lack self-control and care more about yourself than your teamates.
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Counterglow
Werner Heisenberg may have been right.
03:35 PM on 03/07/2011
This is the reward for attending a university run by zealots. Nevertheless, I can't help but wonder what the recruiter that signed the poor kid up said. I have little doubt it was something leading him to believe that the whole ridiculous code of conduct was just a matter of form, and enforced only in extreme cases.

With any luck, Davies will transfer to another school and his unfortunate situation will encourage other talented scholars and athletes to avoid BYU like the plague.
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OutAtFirst
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01:06 PM on 03/07/2011
Two questions:

What sort of punishment did his girlfriend get?

Would they punish Jimmer Fredette for having sex with his boyfriend?
09:13 PM on 03/06/2011
Just shows that church dogma has no direct relationship to morality. "Transgression" to whom?
09:06 AM on 03/07/2011
The transgression was to himself. He committed to following the honor code of the university. If he's violated that commitment and code, that he made to himself. his school and his friends then appropriate retribution must be paid.

If we continue, as a society, to poo poo seemingly small infractions of commitment and ethics we will continue to sew or own seeds of destruction. Unethical people learn the behaviors as they grow and if they are never checked, we end up with the likes of Bernie Maddoff, Kenneth Lay, and our currently politicians of all sides.
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09:36 PM on 03/08/2011
"The Transgression was to himself. " If that was the real case then it would not have been the School's business. It would be between himself and God. Not the school or the church.
I agree that as a society we need to develop strong ethics. I think that ethics also include having a certain religious organization from abstaining for whipping hysteria and money to support political campaigns like Prop 8. To fees up to that that would require total and absolution honesty. Ethics for the individual seems to be different than for the organization.
08:09 PM on 03/06/2011
It is real weird that the LDS religion was founded by (Joseph Smith) who had sex with everyone he possibly could, 2 teenage girls, other men's wives and ended up with an estimated 40 to 50 wives. His behavior became justified when he came up with a vision from God to introduce poligamy to the worthy males in the chruch. Brigham Young, 2nd president of the LDS chruch had 30 some wives and was known to take wives and children from some of the men in the church if they crossed him or he found that they were unworthy. This so called Christian religion could take a lesson from Christ who once told some on to "go and sin no more." These so called religious people see nothing wrong with destroying a young man's life by making these so called transgressions open to the world news. How pround they are of their Honor Code. If they had any honor they would be concerned about forgiveness and love.
The sad thing is that people in this religion don't have the right to question anything or even think for themselves. It is a real red flag when the religion teaches that you can not even read the real history of the church only the sanitized and created version written within the fold.
Glad to no longer be a member and embarrased that I graduated from BYU
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09:16 PM on 03/06/2011
Accurate that the lds thing was founded by serial sinners, while the present members act as if the golden plates actually exist, and proclaim "you are better than everyone else, so God wants you to control their lives."
Don't feel sorry for the player -- he is going to be the star of even MORE of their publicity efforts, a shining, non-White, example of the power of redemption. Perhaps he will convert, so he can go from sinner to saint, but the fame has done him nothing but GOOD, as far as future income, fame, etc.
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Bob Kellerman
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04:21 PM on 03/06/2011
Strangely enough -- I agree that BYU has every right to enforce the mormon facade of morality and conduct -- that "imposed purity" is part of the fabric holding the mormons together.

MY quarrels ---
A --stuff like college students having sex is a "small potatoes sin" in comparison to invading the lives of millions of Californians, particularly when the methods used
TOTALLY VIOLATED GOD'S COMMANDMENT -- "Thou shalt not bear false witness"
B-- similarly, the "sham" of many of the missions. Kids out there, going where they are not wanted, further enmeshing themselves into the machine's persecution complex, at an age where they should be learning to THINK.
C-- multi-billions in rich, untaxed investments
D-- some huge, hidden figure spent on POLITICS (as in A) and PUBLICITY - trying to make a "prosperity cult" look like a church that really cares about God's will
--- although I do not deny it works for millions of the members, some of whom deceive themselves
that no wrong is done to non-mormons, and that the charitable aide is where nearly all the money goes. (the "persecution complex" thing helps them deny the church's wrongs)

NO WAY IS THE BASKETBALL PLAYER STORY NOT MANUFACTURED -- it fits all the recent history of the machine
(and they even sucker rabbis into their party line)
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05:39 PM on 03/06/2011
Although the mods took off your reply to me about the license plate post lower on the thread, it showed me in my profile... so I'll show you how I used AZreb's own "logic" against him.

AZreb: "Drive across the boder from UT to NV and see the number of vehicles in the parking lots of the casinos with UT license plates - see the number of those "worthy" Mormons who are drinking, gambling and ogling the waitresses in the skimpy outfits. But they are "worthy" members and able to walk into the Temples, run the wards, tell others what to do or not do."

Clause A: "See the number of vehicles"
Clause B: "See the number of those 'worthy' Mormons"
Conclusion: The number of vehicles = the number of "worthy" Mormons.
As AZreb didn't specify that not all the vehicles are "worthy" Mormons, I can only gather that's what he meant.

Now, I know there are Mormons not living the standards they agreed to, and others that are lying about that, but I will echo what I and many others have said before: "The members aren't perfect, whereas the church (and its teachings) are perfect."

As for your final statement, I know I'm not better than human, but I try to be better than a "natural man."
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Bob Kellerman
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07:41 PM on 03/06/2011
NO CHURCH IS PERFECT

NONE OF ITS TEACHINGS IS PERFECT, as they have passed through the hands of men

GOD IS PERFECT -- our interpretations of God are where we go wrong
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04:06 PM on 03/06/2011
He broke a rule, admitted to it, lets move on. The rule itself, should stay as it is!!! because if you know that a school has strict rules and you are a rule breaker....., you need to pick another school. I don't blame the school more then I blame the media for making this bigger then it really is.This and Charlie Sheen, the two biggest stories of the week , what a shame, People dying in the Middle East, oil rising, food prices rising...............:(
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Bob Kellerman
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05:30 PM on 03/06/2011
You are right about the excess attention paid to this when people are dying and starving, but
these guys are more interested in "good publicity" and "keeping the flock in line" than in actual good works.
The player gets to be a poster boy for mormon redemption and the religion gets millions of dollars worth of publicity -- I seriously doubt that the entire situation "happened", rather than being manufactured for publicity, and the press merely ran the story which was called to their attention.
02:29 PM on 03/08/2011
Post Mormon has a survey on regarding the number of members who do not follow the moral code. There per cent age is more than likely accurate.
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11:55 AM on 03/06/2011
This was the best thing to happen to this kid, now he can move away from the cult, live as a human bieng. No college instills such primative laws on thier students. Why? Its called what happens in the bedroom is nobody's business. SEX is not a dirty word. That this kid chose to have sex was his choice, as he has legal and civil rights. This is why I oppose organized religon, fundy groups. They refuse to accept this is the year 2011, and people have rights. What is next, stoning? Let the guy go to another campus and see what BYU lost. Its thier loss, and everyone else's gain.
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03:38 PM on 03/06/2011
Then he should not have attended BYU... He KNEW what the code was and violated it. If you wish to open a private school and institute your own restrictions, feel free. It was a willful violation whether you agree with them or not.
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03:49 PM on 03/06/2011
But here's where you are wrong, (even though you probably won't agree):
You see the church's standards as a limitation... "They refuse to accept this is the year 2011, and people have rights"
In reality, I have more freedom and less heartache thanks to living the church's standards. I don't have to worry about children I'm not prepared to father, STD's, addictions, etc thanks to living the church's standards. I have more freedom to pay for a new car, whereas if I didn't follow the church's standards, I might have some addiction taking up all my money. I might have all the expenses of children when I am not ready yet.
Here's my final point, in response to this.. "No college instills such primative laws on thier students."
Maybe most don't, but if a student doesn't want to agree and be held to those standards, they don't have to attend. No one is forcing them.
04:47 PM on 03/06/2011
How many gay Mormons are stuck in loveless horrible marriages because of the church's standards?
02:31 PM on 03/08/2011
It is regarding the hypocrite nature of Mormonism -- it is very hypocritical
11:39 AM on 03/06/2011
Just wondering...the other person that said activity happened with, was she ahhhhhhhhhhhh white?
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Bob Kellerman
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07:44 PM on 03/06/2011
Of course, no black bball player ever goes for the white stuff, and lets a sister stay home.

Look at the Black LDS website, photo of chocolate man with beige wife -- the Civil Rights Movement
has a bit more work to do, in my pale opinion.
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AZreb
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10:37 AM on 03/06/2011
For Pete's sake - having lived in UT for 18 years, the hypocrisy of the members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints (LDS - Mormons) is unbelievable. I don't know whether the church members take lessons from politicians or vice versa.

Drive across the boder from UT to NV and see the number of vehicles in the parking lots of the casinos with UT license plates - see the number of those "worthy" Mormons who are drinking, gambling and ogling the waitresses in the skimpy outfits. But they are "worthy" members and able to walk into the Temples, run the wards, tell others what to do or not do.

"Do as I say and not as I do" - great motto for the LDS adults.
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03:42 PM on 03/06/2011
So obviously, (using your logic) every person with a UT license plate is Mormon.........
...I think you'd be surprised. I'd take it from your comment that you are not LDS, but you live in UT... Does that mean you are a "worthy Mormon ... drinking, gambling and ogling the waitresses"? You must have a UT license plate, ergo, you are a Mormon.
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03:54 PM on 03/06/2011
/\/\/\/\/\/\Sarcasm/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\
My point is that assuming every UT car at some Nevada casino is an LDS member is absurd. Obviously, there are some, and that is their choice, but the church does not have hypocrisy. Again, yes there are members who are hypocritical in their self-righteous judgement, but again that is their choice. Those members are pretty few and far between as well, so lumping all members in that category is another false assumption you made.
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AZreb
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08:29 PM on 03/06/2011
Lived in UT foar 18 years - thank goodness I finally got out of a religion-run state. And how many of the "worthy" Mormons did I recognize in Mesquite at the Oasis? A lot! I worked in quite a few different companies in St. George, UT, so knew and recognized more than a fair share of the Mormons I met at those companies.

When I worked at a dealership-run collision repair shop, one of the car salesmen called and wanted a repair done immediately. When I told him the shop was full and no way was it going to get done that day, he said "I'm and ex-bishop and I want it done now!" He didn't get it done and funnily enough, he was one I recognized in the casino and he wasn't just watching the slot machines make noises or drinking sodas!!!

I have friends in UT that are LDS, but they actually LIVE their religion - and while I think it is a cult rather than a religion, I do admire them for living according to the rules.
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10:33 AM on 03/05/2011
On the other hand...
BYU was NOT going to win a National Champsionship, and it was cute for a while but everyone knows that a middle ACC or Big East team was going to drag them. They very likely would NOT have made it to the second round of the tournament unless all games were played in Utah or Idaho. I think BYU knew this.

The history of their sports program spells GARGAMEL: picking on the smallest victim gives them heart to kill.

BYU's only National Championship (football) was a farce, but they learned a lot from it: beating up on weaklings makes you seem like a powerhouse. While other schools this era (Boise State, TCU, Marquette, Cincinatti, etc.) are trying to get more competition by joining tougher conferences, BYU is running to a smaller conference (where they will be larger than the next three schools COMBINED). GARGAMEL!
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11:35 PM on 03/05/2011
Since no one asked, let me explain why BYU was NOT going to win a National Championship in basketball this season anyway:
Their record is inflated by playing in a weak conference. Their most impressive wins of the year were
1) against Arizona at a "neutral" location (Salt Lake City);
2) at San Diego State (the only other team in their conference worth a dam this season, and also with an inflated record); and
3) a double-overtime win against South Florida at a neutral location (Texas). South Florida is sub-500 and one of the worst teams in the Big East.

San Diego State (unfairly ranked top 5 in the country) has two "quality" wins: at Gonzaga and at California (neither of which are that great).

So, BYU's big win was against Arizona (a legitimate team, number one in the Pac-10), but it was basically a home game, and for whatever reason BYU has Arizona's number.

Mark my words, BYU is getting waxed in the tournament. When they bounce, they'll be the biggest upset going home; and that's no disrespect to Jimmer.
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04:30 AM on 03/06/2011
You are wrong, but it's a reasonably fair point. The reality is that their football team (as well as those at Utah) have often been downgraded in the ratings because of their schedule and the fact they play in the west. But most coaches will tell you they are traditionally one of the top teams in the country because so many of their players are two years older having done missionary work. Not a real compliment to the school or their religious mission, but they are not a school that anyone ever takes lightly. As for the hoops team, you should include last year's record with this one and if you do that, you see that they do have a reasonable resume. Fredette may not be a great NBA player, but he is clearly better than JJ Redick because he can put it on the floor and his supporting cast isn't bad. It's a very even year, so luck of the draw will have a lot to do with it, but don't count out the Coug's. This is a much better team than the Danny Ainge, Steve Craig team back in the 80's.
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Richie MuadDib
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10:26 AM on 03/05/2011
I'm not into Mormon-bashing. I know, LDS has a more recent bigotry than most any other religion, but I think religion is largely genetic (you inherit it from your parents). So, when we attack religions, it usually translates to an attack on someone's parents (and they defend it with the same vigor and rationality).

That being said, this was a very wise move by BYU. The LDS church has a history of making very practical choices, and BYU is a quinessential example of this pragmatism. That being said, their postive press is well-earned on this story: many other schools (Ohio State, Connecticut, etc.) would not dream of taking such a stance (even though it would come with this enormous public support).
01:09 PM on 03/05/2011
Yes, you are talking about the University which is church owned and during the Salt Lake City Olympic Scandal the Mormon Church gave out free scholarships out to BYU to members of the International Olympic Board as bribes.

This young man is being scapegoated to get 'good press' and give Romney a boost
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Bob Kellerman
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04:36 PM on 03/05/2011
"positive press is well earned" -- sorry, naive

The positive press was well generated, worldwide, by the efficient mormon publicity machine.

I think they observed that he was having sex and fabricated a huge public way for them to show they are about forgiveness, and that they actually stopped excluding Blacks, which many think they still do.
01:21 PM on 03/06/2011
I did some research, it looks like someone associated with a Provo, Utah newspaper was going to break the story, and the young man said yes.

As far as I can tell, he is NOT Mormon and only went to BYU to play basketball.

If repentance is needed try LDS Church authority who have cover up child sexual abuse for decades, and decades and hand out scholarship to BYU as bribes.

Was his 'girlfriend' white and Mormon?
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09:37 AM on 03/05/2011
Brandon did not go there for religion! Nor did the school recruit him on religious grounds. He is there to play basketball. BYU which do you want? Don't continue to be hypocrites about the issue?
09:12 AM on 03/07/2011
It's irrelevant why he went to the school. The fact is he did and he agreed to the rules. It's not like they decided to create the rule last week just to punish him.

I see other posts talking about the Mormans and those that violate their faith and they are hypocrites. While true, it too, is irrelevant to Brandon and his situation.
11:04 AM on 03/07/2011
Brandon Davies is LDS and grew up in Provo and went to Provo HS. He was recruited by other state schools in the west to play ball.
08:28 AM on 03/05/2011
So its fair to punish a kid with being kicked off the team and potentially expelled from school all for a document that he signed as a prepubescent teen. Free the kid and let him transfer.
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Bob Kellerman
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04:38 PM on 03/05/2011
If he was 15, he was immature, but "prebubescent" is over at 11 nowadays, particularly in some cultures.
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12:00 PM on 03/06/2011
number one if he was a minor, the document signed does not apply. Unless he was an adult at the time he agreed to this, the school, church are violating a very fundmental law. Minors who sign contracts are not held to them, they can be made null and void without retribution. This allows him to be a free agent and can go as and where he pleases.