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01/02/2013 01:40 pm ET Updated Mar 04, 2013

Go Out and See: My New Year's Resolution

I am not a big believer in New Year's Resolutions. They usually feel like a tokenistic, gratuitous act, to be flicked off like a dry scab a few weeks into the New Year. Yet sometimes it is the smallest shift of focus which can open the door to enormous change. Inspired by the first parsha of the new year, Shemot, I aspire this year to give a new twist to the most mundane of acts: seeing.

A strange midrash describes our ancestor Primordial Adam as having the ability to see "from one end of the world to the other." This might be classic rabbinic hyperbole, but compared with, say, 1813, we in our generation have again reached the ability to "see from one end of the world to the other" =- from the comfort of our mobile device. This information revolution has raised awareness to many ills, and spawned revolutions where before ignorance and oppression reigned. At the same time, it has created a "compassion fatigue" where headlines come and go and we become increasingly cynical and unsympathetic. Faced with the ability to hear endless points of view on any issue we are increasingly putting on the horse blinders of parochial media outlets, creating homogeneous virtual villages of our own ideasas our fatigued eyes close to all things that don't already fit our view.

With the ability to see everything, a new "ethic of seeing" is required, for what and how we see is the key to all moral behavior.

The opening of the Book of Exodus makes a similar point. In the portion that will be read by Jewish communities the world over on the first Shabbat of 2013, Parshat Shemot describes how the distorted sight of Pharoah turns the Children of Israel in Egypt from upright citizens to dangerous others; then to invisible slaves; to the objects of genocide; and finally to candidates for annihilation.

Or so it would have happened if not for the moral courage of a handful of women, who are described again and again as simply seeing.

The term "to see" appears 22 times in the first three chapters of Exodus, essentially every third verse. When Pharaoh orders two midwives to kill any Israelite baby boy they see, they instead "see God" and refuse to kill. In a description evocative of God's seeing in Genesis Chapter 1, a young mother "sees that her child is good" and places him in an ark. Consequently, Pharaoh's daughter "saw the little ark among the reeds ... opened it and saw him, the child!" It is this seeing which is immortalized in Moses' name: "She
named him Moshe, He-Who-Pulls-Out; saying: "For out of the water I-pulled-him
(meshitihu)." Ethical seeing is the pre-requisite to any act of moral salvation.

True to both his biological and adopted mothers, Moses is a person dedicated to ethical seeing. Upon entering adulthood, Moses has the entire world open to him. Yet his first act is described
as follows: "He went out to his brothers -- to see in their burdens." Rashi points out that this is not a simple act of sightseeing, rather:

"He directed his eyes and his heart to share their distress."

וירא בסבלותם נתן עיניו ולבו להיות מיצר עליהם

Rashi astutely points out that the heart follows the eyes. To truly "see" is an act of the heart, not just the eyes; it is an act of deep compassion. What are the ethics of sight according to Exodus Chapter 1-3? Inspired by young Moses, one must "see in their burdens" -- to see with heart as well as with eyes, in a directed manner, fighting off compasion fatigue.

Moreover, it is about "going out" -- going beyond our regular circles of information to gain new (in)sight.

How does this translate into action for 2013? For our information addled generation, we must be purposeful about where we direct our sight. Since the primary way we "see" today is by consuming written and visual media, we must curate out information guided by moral vision. We must "go out" of our usual information silos, reading opinions and reports we disagree with, consuming media in a purposeful way and from a myriad of perspectives, overcoming our compassion fatigue. In the last confrontation between Israel and the Hamas, I attempted to consume media with purpose: reading and watching an increased amount of TV from "my brothers" in Israel, but also "going out" and reading about the plight of Palestinians and seeking out the perspective of Al Jazeera. I read the analysts who preached to my comfort zone (Haaretz?), as well as the pundits whom I vehemently disagree with (Arutz Sheva? When I disagree with them they are always pundits...). "Going out" does not mean not taking sides -- I know who "my brothers" are -- yet I feel there is an ethical imperative to constantly widen my lens of sight, in all directions.

Beyond virtual consumption of media, "going out and seeing" is to be done in person and in our local communities. I salute those who simply drove out to Newtown, the Rockaways or Beer Sheva, to see first-hand and "share their distress," not to mention lending a hand. Yet seeing ethically also begins right in our backyard, seeking out those who are invisible to us. There are few experiences more degrading than feeling that one is not seen. Like Pharaoh's daughter, we must seek those hidden by the reeds whom we have trained our eyes not to see, and refresh our seeing of them. We must "go out ... and see."

We might not be able to right all the wrongs of the world in 2013, but seeing them is the first and crucial step toward a better year for all. I hope to still be seeing in this new light in February, continuing to explore and refine what "ethical seeing" means in the 21st century. If you see me around, please nudge me to keep it up.

Happy 2013,
Mishael