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Are the Circumcision Opponents Anti-Semitic or Sexually Repressed?

Posted: 06/20/2011 8:58 am

The growing anti-Semitic images and caricatures associated with the attempt to ban circumcision in San Francisco are disturbing. These include the highly inflammatory "Foreskin Man" comic, depicting a superhero saving innocent boys from evil circumcisers, which the Jerusalem Post reported to have been produced by Matthew Hess, "one of the central backers of the anti-circumcision measures." Indeed, the attempt to ban circumcision in San Francisco smacks of a nefarious campaign on the part of the ban's organizers to portray circumcision as genital mutilation that gives the lie that Judaism and Jewish practice would ever harm a child. I debated Lloyd Schofield, the main man behind the ban, on CNN. I later respectfully asked him to debate me in public where we would have more time and, after he penned a friendly email which curiously implied that there is not much difference between our two positions, he suddenly declined.

But if the case against circumcision is so clear-cut, and it is a grievous assault on a harmless infant, then why decline the debate? Perhaps it is because the organizers know that in any debate their attempt to correlate the excising of the male foreskin with the removal of the female clitoris -- a point they have repeatedly made -- will be shown up to be a malicious and absurd lie. Female circumcision is all about removing a woman's ability to have pleasure during sexual relations and is a barbarous act of mutilation that has no corollary to its male counterpart. 
In my book Kosher Sex I demonstrated conclusively that Judaism celebrates the sexual, intimate, and erotic bond between husband and wife and the attempts to malign circumcision as a method of denying a man's sexual pleasure are ignorant and biased.

San Francisco is supposed to be the city of live-and-let-live even as it now betrays a curious attachment to the male foreskin, with its ludicrous attempt to punish its large Jewish community with a fine of up to $1,000 or up to one year in jail for simply honoring the oldest of all Jewish practices and rituals.

When I lived in Western Europe for 11 years it was common to hear attacks on circumcision and shechita coming together, as if there was some correlation between the humane slaughtering of an animal with the cutting of a child's foreskin. Sweden has a reputation of being a pretty laid-back nation but it stiffens in the face of circumcision. In 2001 when it enacted a draconian law requiring a medical doctor or an anesthesia nurse to accompany a registered circumciser and for an anesthetic to be applied to a baby beforehand. Swedish Jews and Muslim banded together to object and the World Jewish Congress condemned the law as "the first legal restriction on Jewish religious practice in Europe since the Nazi era."

All this, of course, belies the medical facts. Circumcision has been proven as the second most effective means -- after a condom -- to stop the transmission of HIV-AIDS, with the British Medical Journal reporting that circumcised men are 8 times less likely to contract the infection. Circumcision removes Langerhans cells in the foreskin with special receptors that may grant the virus access into the body.

Circumcision also significantly reduces the transmission of other STD's like genital herpes and syphilis and also reduces the risk of urinary-tract infection, and men who are circumcised have 100 percent immunity from contracting penile cancer.

Male circumcision is much healthier for women, significantly reducing the risk of cervical cancer by at least twenty percent according to an article in the British Medical Journal in April 2002. Cancer of the cervix in women is due to the Human Papilloma Virus which can thrive under and on the foreskin from where it can be transmitted during intercourse.

So why the effort to ban circumcision? Simple. Radical secularists for whom Judaism is a target of choice wish to portray religion as so barbarous that it excises any pleasure in sex, reducing copulation to a cold and sterile act of baby-making.

The lie that religion frowns on sexual pleasure is widespread. In fact, deeply fulfilling, ecstatic, and climactic sex is a must in Jewish law which makes it a sin for a man to have sex with his wife without pleasuring her first. Judaism insists that sex be accompanied by exhilaration and pleasure as a bonding experience that leads to emotional connection and intimacy.

Indeed, we Jews could teach even the highly sexually adventurous people of the Golden Gate City a thing or two about great sex, the proof of which is that we alone, among all the nations of the world, are still here after thousands of years, due to the fact that our circumcised ancestors were pretty good at doing it.

Had Messrs. Schofield and Hess canvassed Jewish husbands and wives before they got the attempted circumcision ban on the ballot, they would have discovered that we Jews are doing just fine in the sexual department and could really do without their bothersome assault on our ancient rituals and the privacy of our sexual connection. Circumcised Jewish men are great lovers and I would strongly advise Schofield and Hess to keep their nose in their own business and maybe even read my other two books The Kosher Sutra and Kosher Adultery to receive some great Jewish advice for take-me-to-the-moon-and-back sex which might rescue them from their own repression that necessitates their peering into other people's bedrooms.


Shmuley Boteach, "America's Rabbi," is the international best-selling author of 25 books which have been translated into 17 languages and is currently working on "The Sexually Extinguished Wife." Follow him Twitter @RabbiShmuley.

 
 
 

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dontomas
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12:47 PM on 07/28/2011
Just a question. Do hospitals obtain a consent for birth circumcision? If they do then the problem is solved and the issue becomes a decision and not a matter of law. I think for generations the circumcision procedure in the US was routine unless a parent directly advised the Dr that it not be done. Europe is the opposite, no circumcision unless the parent asked for it..
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Aryeh Melaris
Put our government back on its leash!
03:18 PM on 07/27/2011
So would anyone object to a mother to have her unborn son circumcised?
acorus
don't be naive
02:43 AM on 07/27/2011
citing studies purporting to prove circumcision is healthier than the natural state are rife with numerous technical difficulties. there is in fact no reliable medical literature extant which proves anything of the sort. the practice of circumcision. africa had been confined to female circumcision for thousands of years, and now it has been foisted on males by the w.h.o., a sketchy authority at best. hence, this is a politically contaminated subject, even here in america where brutality is legal as long as it's 'religious practice'. well now, brutality cannot be rationalized via religion, it's still brutality no matter how you look at it. claiming that your sect accepts no compromise in sexual satisfaction, and still condoning circumcision is a blatant oxymoron. what would you know about complete male sexual pleasure if you and all yr cronies are circumcised? how would you have any information which is accurate concerning cut vs. uncut? it's all speculation on your part. placing a newborn's penis upon a diminutive guillotine, and chopping off millions of neural receptors in the name of dogma doesn't seem like a particularly intelligent decision you are making for yr son without his consent. i had a european doctor whom delivered me in nyc, and when it came to making the decision, he gave my mother an emphatic thumbs down, and explained that this practice was borrowed from jewish tradition, but was irratonally adopted by many physicians during the 20th century, where we as a culture erred...
05:39 PM on 07/12/2011
I think that the answer is "sexually repressed." Some of us anyway. All forcible genital cutting is fundamentally about sexual repression. Many of the opponents of genital cutting are themselves intact and oppose the practice altruistically on the basis of human rights, religious freedom for the child and equal protection under the law. Others, have a more personal stake as survivors of genital mutilation, who wish to see an end of this practice for the next generation.

In any case, whether it's altruism or breaking the cycle of violence, the principle motivation is opposition to any form of sexual repression due to human rights and Constitutional objections - rather than antisemitism. Antisemitism is a red herring in this debate. It's not about the parents - it's about the baby boys.
09:31 AM on 07/12/2011
Rabbi Boteach:

It may have been the case in ancient Judea that parents owned their chlldren, however, in 21st century America, that is not the case.Children (even tiny babies) are separate people from their parents. Children have rights of their own and are entitled to special protection during their minority. A child can decide for himself if he wants a circumcision when he is of age.

The Free Exercise Clause of the First Amendment to the United States Constitution does not allow one to harm another in the practice of one's religions. That is black-letter law.

Circumcision is a harmful operation from which Jewish and gentile boys sometimes die. There is good reason for a temporary-halt to circumcision until a boy grows up.
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Aryeh Melaris
Put our government back on its leash!
05:35 PM on 07/26/2011
All this, of course, belies the medical facts. Circumcision has been proven as the second most effective means -- after a condom -- to stop the transmission of HIV-AIDS, with the British Medical Journal reporting that circumcised men are 8 times less likely to contract the infection. Circumcision removes Langerhans cells in the foreskin with special receptors that may grant the virus access into the body.

Circumcision also significantly reduces the transmission of other STD's like genital herpes and syphilis and also reduces the risk of urinary-tract infection, and men who are circumcised have 100 percent immunity from contracting penile cancer.

Male circumcision is much healthier for women, significantly reducing the risk of cervical cancer by at least twenty percent according to an article in the British Medical Journal in April 2002. Cancer of the cervix in women is due to the Human Papilloma Virus which can thrive under and on the foreskin from where it can be transmitted during intercourse.
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Aryeh Melaris
Put our government back on its leash!
05:36 PM on 07/26/2011
Let's stop dangerous immunizations as well, they also lead to complications. People should have a right to choose that as well.
07:32 AM on 06/23/2011
It is Ridiculous what American Women believe as GOOD Sex and maybe that's why their American Men come to Scandinavia to beg for some Good Time with us.But it is SAD for me to find out they are missing and cut off the Most Fun Part of their Bodies and their Penises will never be the same Good as the Men we have Home. http://bit.ly/lRhiHc
09:36 PM on 07/27/2011
Scandinavian men are cool looking...
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Aryeh Melaris
Put our government back on its leash!
12:09 PM on 07/28/2011
Adam Sandler is circumcised, and not Scandinavian.
09:08 PM on 06/22/2011
I suspect that many of the posters on this thread who state that the person's whose body this affects should have the choice about circumcision and the choice should not be made by the parent also support the position that an unborn child has no say in whether or not it is terminated.

I could care less whether someone has their son circumcised or not. It's not my business and it's not Schofield's or anyone else's business either.
10:00 PM on 06/22/2011
We don't make the correlation because it is a false one. In one instance, the fetus is still a part of the mother's body. In the other, it is a child with his own body.
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syntax facit saltum
We do not live in a 2 story universe
02:35 AM on 06/23/2011
I once heard a woman speak who had survived an abortion (as a fetus). She considers herself a survivor of attempted murder. How could someone who is part of someone else's body have feelings like that?
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syntax facit saltum
We do not live in a 2 story universe
03:19 AM on 06/23/2011
re: the abortion (I see your reply to me), I think it is actually called "a failed abortion." An abortion is attempted but the baby is born alive. If the baby dies afterward due to lack of care, the hospital staff can be charged with murder. If an aborted baby is born alive and then dies, it must be issued a birth and death certificate.
09:02 PM on 06/22/2011
Rabbi, I enjoy your posts and often agree with your point of view, but not in this case. Like others who have posted here, I agree that the decision to circumcise or not to circumcise should be left to the child at an age when he is competent to decide for himself. That position is NOT anti-circumcision. It IS an affirmation of the right of every person to decide what shall and shall not be done to his body. I've very often wished I'd been granted that right.
05:45 PM on 06/26/2011
I'd guess that more than 99% of Jewish men would be upset if their parents were not allowed to legally have them circumcized at 8 days old. The circumcisions would still happen, but in hiding, like they were performed in Aushwitz.
I believe that if a boy is not circumcised, he'd not be able to be bar-mitzvahed at 13.
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Johnny Bomers
10:33 PM on 06/26/2011
There are scholars who claim that there is no mention in the Torah about the need to circumcise.
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Aryeh Melaris
Put our government back on its leash!
12:10 PM on 07/28/2011
Congress shall make no law respecting an establishm­ent of religion, or prohibitin­g the free exercise thereof.or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press.

Keep posting, and make your decisions for your own children, with your own inalienable rights as a parent. You cannot ever infringe on our right to freely exercise our religion.
09:34 PM on 07/28/2011
When the free exercise of anyone's religious tradition infringes on tthe basic rights of another human being, in this case a helpless baby, can you honestly claim that your right to your tradition is more important than the child's human rights? That idea FRIGHTENS me. Remember, a circumcision DOES mutilate a human body and it CANNOT be undone, should the child one day decide to renounce the religious tradition of his birth. People still do have the right to change religions or abandon religion altogether, last I checked.
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Tykster
I'm beyond belief...
01:11 PM on 06/22/2011
And the winner of today's false dichotomy headline is.....

Roll drum....

"Are the Circumcision Opponents Anti-Semitic or Sexually Repressed?"
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D-Barger
...and then I said and then...
09:29 AM on 06/22/2011
Circumcision is man's way of saying, "You messed up, god. Let me fix this."

It would be funnier if there really were a god.
05:39 PM on 06/22/2011
Exactly,I was born seriously tongue tied, it's pulled my palate, adjusted my teeth, and could have been fixed early by just removing a small fold of skin under my tongue.

But removing a small fold of skin for a minor possible medical benefit is awful, horrible, and tragic. It'd be like poking holes in your ears for decorations or something... nobody would ever mar god's perfection is such a way.

Wait... I may be missing something. Why is the male foreskin so precious it (and only it) gets treated this way while other removals or adjustments of non-essential folds of skin are not attacked? Is it just because it's on my Penis? I mean sure I think my penis is pretty cool, but I don't believe it's somehow magical or special that I need to treat it with different medical consideration than my mouth or any other body part.
09:33 PM on 06/22/2011
Foreskin is not a birth defect. It has the function of protecting the head of the penis and keeping it moist (as it should be). It prevents the head of your penis from getting dry and leathery which results in loss of sensation. By itself it's very erogenous tissue. The feeling of that foreskin moving during sex, is something that circumcised people will never experience. It also helps keep the natural lubrication of both the man and the woman from drying, which makes sex more pleasurable for both partners. There is no need to pay for lubrication... at least not for vaginal sex.... Should I continue?
05:47 PM on 06/26/2011
Keep saying that and your soul will be rewarded the afterlife.
BahtHarim
בת ההרים
09:19 AM on 06/22/2011
Well said, Rabbi! You forgot to add that in Jewish law, a woman may sue her husband for divorce if he refuses to have sex with her, either at all, or often enough.
09:35 PM on 06/22/2011
Just curious... can the man sue the woman for the same reason? You could get many converts that way.
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Hugh7
04:29 AM on 06/22/2011
"it now betrays a curious attachment to the male foreskin"

Curious? The attachment of the foreskin is perfectly natural. It's the wish to detach it from someone else that is curious, not to say bizarre.
12:43 AM on 06/22/2011
Do you ever notice that the one question that none of the opponents of the ban ever seem to be able to answer directly is why it shouldn't be left up to the child to make the decision later in life? They either ignore it completely or hand-waive it with talk about it should be the parents' choice.

Not once do they ever say why it shouldn't be the child's. Not "it should be theirs" but why it shouldn't be his. Not once.

Of course, we all know the reason why that is. The answer to that question would reflect poorly on them; not just as parents but as human beings.

The answer is "Because he might say 'no'."

It has to be done before they can object. Has to be. Given the option, I wouldn't have done it. I doubt a lot of people currently circumcised would. Some still would, but either they have to have it done or they have other reasons.

The practice would come close to dying out in a single generation. And when you've invested that much in it it makes complete sense why they defend it. If it's wrong, if it's hurtful, if it's unnecessary, and defending it keeps them from having to re-evaluate themselves, of course they'll do it. And everyone who says otherwise must hate them, right? Real reasons need evaluation and that could shatter the illusion.
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Gonzo36
Pro-awesome!
10:12 AM on 06/22/2011
I take it you havent bothered to read through the myriad of posts that explain the reasons for why it should be the parents choice, but let me reiterate here:

1) Parents make choices for their children every day, if not every minute. This is just one of the MANY decisions to make.
2) Circumcision has been shown to benefit those under the age of 18 with certain issues such as UTIs and posthitis. As the mother of two boys, I can assure you it is hard enough to get them to brush their teeth and lift the lid of the toilet seat, let alone remind them to wash their unit every night.
3) The procedure is much easier on an infant, there is little to no pain because the area is quite small and not nearly as vasculated as it is at age 18. In addition, at 18 men have a longer recovery time, must deal with erections, and it is much more expensive.
4) For those who choose to circumcise for religious reasons, such as Jews, the law is to have it done at 8 days after being born.

I get that this is a sentitive issue for many on this board. So my solution is to be like La Leche and spend your time and money for education, not legislation. Circumcision is falling in the United States, so why let those that have strong opinions, usually for religious reasons continue to make that choice for themselves.
12:36 PM on 06/22/2011
(1) Parents make choices for their children's welfare, not to remove a part of their children's bodies for nothing better than supposedly religious reasons. By your logic it would be just fine for parents to chop parts of their childrens ears off or disfigure them in other ways too since parents can apparently decide to do what they like with their children, right?

(2) Circumcision has virtually no health benefits on those under 18 (and dubious at best benefits for those older than that). Statistics have shown that in order to prevent a SINGLE uti infection, over 400 circumcisions would have to be performed. Urinary tract infections are highly treatable with modern antibiotics, on the other hand there are many demonstrable dangers from circumcision, not to mention the great reduction in sexual pleasure. For this reason no health body in ANY country recommends that doctors routinely circumcise children, while the health services of many countries such as Holland recommend that doctors stronly discourage parents from having their children circumcised.

(3) The only reason the procedure is 'easier' on an infant is because the child cannot express either its wish to not have the procedure performed or the degree of pain it causes. This is one of the main reasons I and many others consider circumcision child abuse.
07:55 PM on 06/22/2011
I've read the posts. You clearly haven't read mine. Once again, you failed to answer the central question.

I want to know why the child can't make the decision. Answer that question or don't respond to my posts.
09:38 PM on 06/21/2011
Where is the San Francisco law against piercing a baby girl's ears?
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Hugh7
10:49 PM on 06/21/2011
I don't know, but you can be damned sure it's illegal to pierce a baby's genitals, boy or girl.
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syntax facit saltum
We do not live in a 2 story universe
12:52 AM on 06/22/2011
Piercing of any kind are legal in California as long as parents give their permission and it is performed in the presence of a parent or guardian. Ear piercing doesn't even require permission.
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DakkonA
www.DisentangledReality.com
11:01 PM on 06/21/2011
Piercing ears has no functional impact on human biology whatsoever, so it would be next on the list. It probably shouldn't be allowed.
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syntax facit saltum
We do not live in a 2 story universe
01:00 AM on 06/22/2011
Control, much?
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Gonzo36
Pro-awesome!
06:01 PM on 06/21/2011
I was asked if I had ever witnessed a circumcision. The answer is yes, I have witnessed dozens, including two of my own sons. They were done surrounded by family and friends, the baby was held by a family member, as everyone looked on with joy. The process was over very quickly. One son cried, one son didnt. Frankly, there were more tears from me then the baby! LOL! Afterwards the babies usually fall asleep and everyone has huge meal. As for taking care of the penis, it is pretty much the same procedure as taking care of the bellybutton with the cord still on it. No pain, no problems.

Maybe that is why I find this whole bru-ha-ha so strange- because I have seen with my own eyes how simple and quick the whole thing is. So my question to those of you who really believe it is butchering is this: have you ever been to a bris? If not, I really think you should go to one or maybe even check them out on YouTube. And then compare the ceremony to getting your children vaccinated because the babies seem to cry much more from getting a vaccination then for the bris. I doubt it will change your mind on the subject, but at least you can say your opinion comes from personal experience, not just from what you read online.
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DakkonA
www.DisentangledReality.com
07:11 PM on 06/21/2011
To be honest, I never thought the crying/pain bit was what mattered. Because if you think that it has great benefits, any pain would be worth it.
08:09 PM on 06/21/2011
Have you witnessed any complaints from anyone who was circumcised as an infant once they became aware of the significance?
I certainly have.
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Gonzo36
Pro-awesome!
08:42 PM on 06/21/2011
Personally, I have not. However my dad wasnt circumcised as a child and had to be circumcised later in life due to medical problems (and yes, he knew about soap and water). I also know a few men who have converted to Judaism and had to be circumcised. They said the sex was pretty much the same.
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cylixdemas
09:30 PM on 06/21/2011
Not