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Randi Reitan

Randi Reitan

Posted: July 29, 2010 11:37 AM

Mom's One Person Protest of Target

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Two days ago I shopped at Target for the last time. All the items I bought, I returned in protest of Target's $150,000 support of Tom Emmer, the anti-gay Republican candidate for governor in Minnesota. As a mom, I had to do this one person protest. My youngest son is gay, and I love him more than anything I could ever buy at Target. Video of my final shopping trip to Target was posted on YouTube and you can watch it here:

When I first learned that Target had donated $150,000 to support Tom Emmer, I was shocked. Anger quickly followed and I knew I had to speak out. Thankfully, there are many others who are speaking out with me. News of Target's support of Emmer has gripped the progressive community across the nation.

I had felt good about shopping at Target before this news. Target always had a strong presence at PRIDE and a 100% rating with the Human Rights Campaign. It is important to me to support businesses that affirm their gay employees.

I called Target headquarters to ask them how they could give Emmer $150,000 when they have prided themselves as a company that embraces diversity. I told them they can't say they support the gay community in their workplace and then financially back a candidate who will do all he can to deny their gay employees their civil rights.

Minnesota is at a unique time right now. We are in the midst of our primary. On August 12th, we will pick the Democrat candidate for governor. There are three good people in that race and each one of them strongly supports marriage equality. We have marriage equality within our reach if anyone of them wins in November.

On the other side, the Republicans have already united behind Tom Emmer. He is known for his anti-gay stands as a state legislator. He has consistently supported a constitutional marriage amendment that defines marriage as one man, one woman. He has also supported the Christian rock group, You Can Run But You Can Not Hide, that shares anti-gay messages on the radio. Emmer as governor would be a nightmare for anyone who longs to see the day of equality.

Target CEO, Gregg Steinhafel, personally supports Minnesota candidates like Michele Bachmann. That does not surprise me and I realize that is his personal money. However, when Target as a corporation writes the check, that crosses the line. Then money spent at Target is quite literally money being spent to elect Tom Emmer as Minnesota's next governor. For LGBT people and those who love them, this is not acceptable. We must speak up and we must boycott, or Target's $150,000 will just be the tip of the iceberg since corporations are now free to give political donations.

I encourage you, please speak out with me. Call Target headquarters and ask to speak to their executives or stop by your local Target and talk with the store manager in person. Let them know you can't shop at a store that financially supports anti-gay candidates. The gay community and its allies must draw a line in the sand here or equality remains just a dream.

 
 
 
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01:23 AM on 08/01/2010
If anything - this reaction will show Target taht dispite their history of support for gay causes, and other isssues common to the left, the left will turn on them at the slightest provocation. THis should be a wake up call to the higher ups at places like Target, that the left is no friend to anyone.
08:38 PM on 07/31/2010
Randi has too much time on her hands. Instead of striking out negatively at a huge corporation that could care less about her business, she should expend effort and time in doing something positive on behalf of the gay community, such as advocating for equal rights for gays at the Minnesota legislature.
10:19 PM on 07/31/2010
Well judithod....i think we've just seen the real nature of people like Randi....they get pissed off and lash out, easy enough to do...but, where are they when its time to do something constructive?
06:18 PM on 07/31/2010
Today was the first time I've shopped at Target in months....and i went there soley because today was supposed to be a day of protest against Target. I normally avoid Target because of their normal leftist tomfoolery.
Just remember the louder you complain about imagined discrimination, the more people you alienate. Including people like me who normally support treating gays fairly
11:18 PM on 08/10/2010
agreed !
12:29 AM on 08/11/2010
Also I would like to add; where do you think the C.E.O.'s personal money comes from? What is the difference really? Just because Target, the corporation, made a donation does not mean that
Target as a whole, all employees agreed to make this donation.
03:42 PM on 07/31/2010
So, what, you expected Target and all other entities to favor exclusively the same single-issue that you do? You're willing to overlook whatever other benefit Target may have provided to the Gay community due to one donation to a non-Gay person?

I hope that Target decides that, if the Gay community is willing to abandon them, they abandon the Gay community.

Single-issue politics is a dead bang loser every time it is tried; abortion, anti-abortion, pro-tax, anti-tax, whatever. Just keep that single-issue focus and watch your cause be ignored on a regular basis.
04:28 PM on 08/01/2010
Single issue politics is the centerpiece of the Republican strategy. Anti-abortion, anti-tax, evangelical, NRA, anti-gay... It is precisely why Bush's popularity was so poor. They got the votes of all these different groups that vote on a single issue above all others but often don't agree with one another.
01:40 PM on 07/31/2010
This attack on Target is unwarranted and unwise, and risks trivializing LBGT issues. Emmer is no more anti-gay than Bill Clinton, Barack Obama and a host of other Democratic politicians.

I respectfully urge you to reconsider.
06:19 PM on 07/31/2010
GOod luck with that....the LGBT comunity is not reasonable. Any disagreement, however trivial, is considered buy them to be antigay. You're going to have to live with being treated like a bigot because of your disagreement. I suggest YOU reconsider your support for them
02:29 PM on 07/30/2010
I wanted to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your repeated effort to bring full equality to the LGBT community.

Thank you for caring and for no doubt giving mothers everywhere the strength to stand up and protect their children from anything less than Full Equality under the law! To say enough, in my child(ren) are entitled to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness; and none of are worthy of standing in judgment of them!

"If you have a mom who has made you laugh, wiped your tears, hugged you tight, watched you succeed, saw you fail, cheered you on and kept you strong. Moms are a promise from God that you will always have a friend forever! ♥"
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02:10 PM on 07/30/2010
So your having a hissy fit of the fact that Target and Best Buy were exercising their first amendment rights to support who ever they want. I think your deluding yourselves if your boycotting Target and best buy for having an opinion that is different than yours. I see this why you Gays have a problem with Freedom of Speech and First Amendment Rights.
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08:41 AM on 07/31/2010
Really? So the woman, who is the mother of a gay man and not a Gay, as you say, but thanks for at least capitalizing it, exercises her first amendment rights and publicly states that she will boycott Target, and WE have a problem with it?
06:21 PM on 07/31/2010
You see, thats the issue....to the LGBT community, disagreement (with them anyway) amounts to hate speech, and is regarded as something to be criminalized, never mind their hate speech against Christians and others
09:53 PM on 08/02/2010
This is not true in the slightest, and I'm not even sure where you would draw that conclusion. This isn't about "disagreement." It's not about left vs. right, Democrats vs. Republicans, or any of the stuff that people have been using to try to divide this country. This is a matter of promoting hate. How would you feel if Target and Best Buy had donated to a candidate with ties to a group advocating violence against and death to Christians? Heck I'm atheist and it would upset me greatly that a corporation that I (used to) buy from on a regular basis would use the profits that they got from me to support that kind of a message. If that were the case, if it were Christians in the place of gays, I would have still boycotted them. People are people and should be treated as such.

Open your eyes. Stop pandering to politics, when this isn't a political issue. It's a civil rights issue. You can't say you support equality and then give money to a group that is rabidly against it.

Target and Best Buy had every right to donate money to MN Forward. We also have every right to stop purchasing from the store because of their hypocritical actions.
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12:46 PM on 07/30/2010
Thank you Randi! We are right there with you! Target's shady donation is a slap in the face to the LGBT community they have pretended to care about!
07:30 PM on 07/29/2010
"democratic candidate..." not "democrat candidate."
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04:41 PM on 07/29/2010
Randi, I'm so proud to have you and your son Jake as "Friends" on Facebook. Thank you for all that you do for our community and for what is right. Again I ask, won't you please consider running for political office? How MN would be so much better if you were in Bachmann's place....
03:44 PM on 07/29/2010
I feel physically ill that some of my money,  by way of Target's corporate donation, has gone to support Emmer and his hateful beliefs. Thank you for the video!
06:22 PM on 07/31/2010
I think this video shows where the REAL hate is....among the LGBT community who have such little toleration for differing views..
08:46 PM on 08/02/2010
You Can Run But You Can't Hide advocates violence against and death to homosexual people. That's not "differing views"--that's outright hate. There IS a difference.
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02:46 PM on 07/29/2010
You ROCK, Randi! Thank you for taking a stand. You are a great mother.
01:48 PM on 07/29/2010
Thank you so much, Randi. Your bravery and seeing how your deliberate, well articulated action came from a loving heart helped me decide to join the boycott. I too have loved Target, esp knowing that they support so many good causes. BUT - playing both sides of the street is not acceptable. Not when it comes to hateful politicians. Had they donated to a general GOP fund, that would be different. But this was a big check to Emmer. I am gay, as are one of my brothers, a cousin and a niece. You would think I would have jumped on the band wagon more readily. BUT - my issue was that Pres. Obama is also against gay marriage. Do we start boycotting all Democratic candidates and those that fund them too? Yet Obama, like Target, has pushed for inclusivity, and supported other gay issues. It is a conundrum. But the link between Emmer and the hate speech of that "rock" group is just too much to swallow. Obama doesn't tolerate hate speech. And now that Target sees that is what they are in effect doing, they will have to take a stand. Thank you again, Randi.
03:06 PM on 07/29/2010
Second that. Target is now off my list of stops.
12:48 PM on 07/29/2010
THANK YOU Randi for taking the lead and showing us all just how to be sure your voice is heard. There are hundreds, thousands of us out here cheering for every step you take - and thanks to you, many of us will take steps of our own to let Target know this is UNACCEPTABLE.
11:54 AM on 07/29/2010
*Hugs Randi*