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Rev. Debra Haffner

Rev. Debra Haffner

Posted: March 29, 2010 03:32 PM

The latest revelations about sexual abuse against children by Roman Catholic priests are nothing short of revolting. The story of Father Lawrence Murphy, who abused more than 200 deaf boys in Milwaukee over decades, despite the boys' speaking out and calling for help, should outrage us all. The new revelations from Germany and other European countries add to the understanding that the prevalence of pedophile priests are, in the words of my colleague, Dan Maguire, "a global Catholic Church pandemic."

"It went up to the Pope," a formerly Roman Catholic friend said to me yesterday, with tears in her eyes. "How is it possible that people knew and didn't stop it?" Unfortunately, the answer is that the Catholic hierarchy did know, and chose to transfer the priests rather than address the crimes they were committing against children.

Yes, crimes. In the secular world, the offending priests and their superiors would be held criminally accountable for their behavior. It is not enough for the Pope to apologize, as he did to victims last week. It is unconscionable when Catholic apologists try to explain away the church's inaction as a relic of another time, when people didn't talk as much about sexual abuse. We are talking now - and learning, to our dismay, how widespread sexual abuse in faith communities really is.

A national research study from Baylor University last year revealed that three percent of adult women, across a range of Christian and Jewish traditions, were involved in instances of clergy sexual misconduct. Most of this occurs between adults; sexual abuse of children and youth by Roman Catholic clergy is of a different magnitude altogether. Still, we must not deceive ourselves that other houses of worship are safe havens from abuse and harassment - or that clergy are prepared to address sexuality issues in a healthy and responsible way. Indeed, many religious leaders are complicit in the silence that has shrouded sexuality concerns in congregations for decades.

Last month, the Religious Institute published a report - Sexuality and Religion 2020: Goals for the Next Decade - that envisions a future when all faith communities will be "sexually healthy, just and prophetic." In practical terms, this would require:

  • Sermons and sexuality education that will break the silence around sexuality and help to mitigate the stigma and shame that too often attend sexuality issues among people of faith.

  • New requirements that seminarians (or those studying to be clergy) examine and reflect on their sexual histories, understand the dynamics of sexual attraction, commit to clear boundaries regarding intimate connections with those they serve, and complete training in pastoral care for sexuality-related issues.

  • Established polices for safe congregations, including screening of staff and volunteers, background checks for those who work with children and youth, annual trainings on sexual and physical abuse, prevention education for parents and youth, referral agreements with local assault programs, and clearly stated grievance procedures. Every congregation should have a clear, well-publicized policy that sexual contact by clergy, pastoral care providers, religious educators and youth leaders with any congregant, of any age, is not only inappropriate but also actionable.

The Pope now has an urgent responsibility -- and an extraordinary opportunity. He must not only move beyond apologies to action, but could also use his influence to urge all religious institutions to address sexuality in healthier, more open and responsible ways.

Pope Benedict, the world is watching and waiting.

 

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The latest revelations about sexual abuse against children by Roman Catholic priests are nothing short of revolting. The story of Father Lawrence Murphy, who abused more than 200 deaf boys in Milwauke...
The latest revelations about sexual abuse against children by Roman Catholic priests are nothing short of revolting. The story of Father Lawrence Murphy, who abused more than 200 deaf boys in Milwauke...
 
 
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didereaux
The Flying Spaghetti Monster is my Lord & Saviour!
11:32 AM on 03/30/2010
"Render unto Caesar!' That may be the biblical quote that begins the downhill slide of the Catholic Church. The problem isn't the fact that there are perverts, or sexual predators homo and hetero alike, amongst the priesthood: it is that the 'institution' protects them. That some have been brought to justice(too few) and the 'institution' has assumed the responsibility and the debt resulting from Caesars' courts is proof enough of the responsible party.

The parents cannot avoid punishment for harboring a murderous child, nor can a Church protect pedophiles, sexual or physical abusers, and avoid the penalties. Now you come to the crux of what is going to happen in Caesars' court in the future: the members are going to be held responsible as well. Is it not true that a person who defends and protects and continues support of a pedophile is complicit in any future acts of the perverted? Were not the followers of Charles Manson as guilty as he? Are the followers of bin Laden not as guilty as he, are the Imams of Islam not responsible for inciting their followers? Are not the people who send money to the Imams just as guilty? The members, the tithers are the enablers of the evil...yet they deny culpability.

Catholics must ask themselves this, "Are you willing to be thought an accomplice to pedophilia? To sexual predation? To physical and emotional abuse? Are you willing to face Caesar and put your home, and families security on the line?
12:31 AM on 03/30/2010
I'd like to know what The Religious Institute recommends the Pope do in 2010!
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Don Parker
10:56 PM on 03/29/2010
Close down the Catholic Church, like we would any other institution with such a criminal record. Despite some good deeds, the church is largely an organized crime ring and has been for centuries.

End the subsidies and tax exemptions that have supported child rape. Liquidate the assets and use the money to set up secular programs to help those in need. Many of those who work in Catholic Charities have learned to provide services under 501 (c) 3's. Rehire them for the new agencies.

Prosecute everyone who committed or covered up the felonies. Including in other religious bodies that weren't quite as organized in perpetuating the criminality but allowed it to go on. And hire a gazillion psychologists and teachers to heal the terrible wounds and unteach all the crap the church has taught through the ages.

Most of the popes, bishops, and priests have been perverting the teachings of Jesus for nearly 2,000 years and using their heresies for their own personal power. Most of the other religions, Christian and otherwise, have done much the same; they just didn't have the organizational skills of the Catholic empire builders.
12:14 AM on 03/30/2010
But ... but ... but where would the billions of dollars from President Obama's Faith Based Initiative program go?
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Don Parker
02:03 AM on 03/31/2010
Obama should have closed down Bush's faith-based offices in the White House and numerous departments and agencies. At least he did reform the standards to fit the Constitution a little better.

And actually the Catholics were one group that had always used separate 501 (c) 3 organizations to provide social services, long before Bush. Catholic Charities has done a lot of good through the years. The real problem under Bush was all the conservative religious groups who got the go-ahead to violate church-state separation and hiring discrimination laws, and to teach abstinence only programs and other programs with religious underpinnings.

But all these programs should be operated by government agencies, not religious organizations, even with the separate 501 (c) 3 designations.
06:36 PM on 03/29/2010
The Pope has already nailed his colours to the mast - even though it has been admitted by Cardinal Christoph Schoenborn that efforts by the then Cardinal Joseph Ratzinger to investigate in 1995 a case of a pedophile priest it was blocked by then Pope John Paul II (under whose Papacy most of the cases of abuse happened) and still John Paul II is being fast-tracked to sainthood. This says it all!
03:23 PM on 03/30/2010
No reference at all by HP to Sinead O'Connerc commentary in the WA PO. Roundly trashed by all media when she tried to draw attention to the abuses in Ireland 20 years ago turns out she was correct and her actions justified.
06:11 PM on 03/29/2010
Law enforcement will move when, and if, the Pope gives them his permission...and that is something we just have to deal with. We can call for prosecution all we want, but they act exactly as they would if he was signing their paychecks
12:19 AM on 03/30/2010
So you say the church will not cooperate with law enforcement unless the Pope tells them to. Couldn't individual states send in to the temples the National Guard go bring out records and evidence? The President could Nationalize the Guard and do the same on the federal level?
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Elijah A Alexander Jr
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06:00 PM on 03/29/2010
It is up to the Pope to end pedophile among priests in the Catholic Church, but in the United States the Constitution allows the nation to end it within its boundaries. The key phrase allowing it is "prohibiting the free exercise thereof." Priests of the Catholic Church exercises celibacy, child molestation is not being celibate according to its bylaws, therefore, is outside of the church's practice.

In nature there is a prohibition against having sex with underage off springs. No life type began to mate until puberty, adulthood according to nature, and is done for reproduction only. Therefore, if those priests were to break their celibacy, it's would have to be with a ovulating girl in order to be in accord with the divine order established in nature.
07:16 PM on 03/29/2010
It is not up to the pope to end these atrocities against children. In most of the industrialized world Civil law trumps his canon law dealing with such monsters. The problem lies in the political will of our elected officials to enforce child abuse laws against not only the offending priests, but the bishops who knowingly provided them with new feeding grounds, rather than turning then over to the authorities, each time they became aware of their crimes. Another perplexing problem are archaic statute of limitation laws that have allowed so many of those priestly sex monsters and their handler,s the bishops (and indeed the pope himself) to escape the clutches of the law here and other parts of the worlds as well. Make no mistake, sexual abuse of a child is the same as murder and there should no limitation on prosecution of the offenders and those who aid and abet them.
It is equally important to not to forget that survivors of clerical abuse suffer life long trauma from their abuse and the church must be held financially responsible for their care.
Further, I fail to understand the need to invoke the law of nature when the issue is about grown men raping and sodomiziing young boys and girls under the guise of representing GOD.
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hollybork
09:21 PM on 03/29/2010
Yes, yes, yes. Fanned.

Sexual abuse of children is akin to murder. Sexual abuse of hundreds and thousands of children is akin to mass murder. Over the millennium, as the childhood victims perpetuate the abuse and become abusers, the perversion, pain and self hatred spreads and grows geometrically to the point where we are talking about a holocaust. You totally get it.

Since victims are hyper sexualized and half or more of them become pederasts, what is the affect when one Priest abuses 200 blind children? This one rapist Priest in Milwaukee over four generations leaves the moral wreckage of over 38,400 sexually molested children.
12:24 AM on 03/30/2010
"The problem lies in the political will of our elected officials to enforce child abuse laws against not only the offending priests, but the bishops who knowingly provided them with new feeding grounds, rather than turning then over to the authorities, each time they became aware of their crimes"

Name me one, just one, elected official who has the political will to enforce child abuse laws.
Cantinflas
My micro-bio is not empty.
05:57 PM on 03/29/2010
IMO, the Ropman Chuch didn't take action because admitting the existence of the problem would mean admitting that their selection process was flawed and not actually under the guidance and control of the Holy Spirit. They would have to admit that they were just another flawed human institution , rather than the all-knowing supreme agent of God on Earth.
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gerald4
licensed mechanical and electrical engineer
05:51 PM on 03/29/2010
Why doesn't the Catholic Church treat these priests like they treated Joan of Arch. These pedophiole priests are all probably totally guilty, and she was (probably) totally innocent.

Most all of those others that the Catholic Church tortured into confessing, and then burned alive at the stake were (probably) totally innocent of the accusations.

This could be a deterrent to any other priests that might be contemplating similar pedophile activities.

The executions could take place in St. Peters Square, with tickets to the event sold to benefit the victims.
07:33 PM on 03/29/2010
Interesting that you raise the matter of burning at the stake. Today that along with the cutting out of tongues by Catholic inquisitors has simply moved to deeming these types of people (abuse victims) as insane via 'good' catholics in our police and health services - that is one more place in society where the real pox is found today - that is where the coverup is continued and maintained
03:28 AM on 04/02/2010
"The executions could take place in St. Peters Square, with tickets to the event sold to benefit the victims."

Most amusing. Thinking about it makes me feel just a little bit better.

But I hope you are only joking and that we can all learn from their mistakes and not be stupid enough to repeat them.

I would prefer those monsters to be treated with the human dignity they have always denied me and continue to deny me, and not be burned alive at the stake, tempting as the image is.
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Magick1
Dark fire shall not avail you. You shall not pass
05:44 PM on 03/29/2010
"Last month, the Religious Institute published a report - Sexuality and Religion 2020: Goals for the Next Decade - that envisions a future when all faith communities will be "sexually healthy, just and prophetic." In practical terms, this would require"

I've yet to hear a psychologist say celibacy is sexually healthy.
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Magick1
Dark fire shall not avail you. You shall not pass
05:35 PM on 03/29/2010
Haffner seems confused. There are currently no exemptions for priests or those in a position of authority in any religion. Secular law applies to all individuals on an equal basis. The question should be why are secular authorities not acting to prosecute. The church has had hundreds of years to reform and has failed at it.

"The Pope now has an urgent responsibility -- and an extraordinary opportunity. He must not only move beyond apologies to action, but could also use his influence to urge all religious institutions to address sexuality in healthier, more open and responsible ways."

No Reverend, if the Pope is complicit in a cover up and adding those who committed such crimes, his urgen responsibility is to go to jail.
07:18 PM on 03/29/2010
So now that there is a target and apparently all hinges upon the pope admitting his complicity (good luck on that for the moment).

So the whole problem is now laid at the feet of the hierarchy of the church when little is being spoken of in regards the effects this prolonged coverup has had on society through the years of influence of the church upon society and our political systems.

Yes I agree the hierarchy should go as their actions are nothing less than psychopathic and inhumane, however what will replace them - the next layer of psychopaths?

The real horrors that victims encounter can be found in everyday life where 'good' Christians and 'good' Catholics infest not only political positions but also health, education and more and it is their daily 'work' which is a major cause of suicide and discrimination against those who do not think as they do or believe as they do.
03:37 AM on 04/02/2010
I couldn't agree more!
07:19 PM on 03/29/2010
Survivors of clergy or sexual abuse when assessed by 'Christian/Catholic' psychiatrists/psychologists are often deemed to have mental illnesses or are simply insane due to their insistence in regards the abuses carried out against them (perhaps these recent revaluations may cause a re-think in those areas, however our investigations and experience have shown no indications of a change in this culture at this point in time). When looked into further it is found that these determinations are not based on sound psychiatry or psychological principals they are based on the beliefs (or delusions) of the psychiatrist or psychologist.

When an agnostic clergy abuse survivor is assessed by 'Christian/Catholic' psychiatrists/psychologists are almost exclusively deemed to have mental illnesses and are deemed insane by these practitioners. Is this as a result of the corrupted thinking of the examiner or is it as a result of an individual not thinking/believing in the same mythical gods or supreme beings as their assessors?
05:23 PM on 03/29/2010
I think it unfair to characterize last week's statement as an apology. It was a half-hearted, muttered "oops" followed by loudly blaming everybody else.
05:18 PM on 03/29/2010
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05:11 PM on 03/29/2010
It is arrogant to try to convince others that they are saved. This is intruding on God's territory.
Yet many seem to think it their calling to assure impenitent sinners and carnal professors that their sins are absolved based on whispers and chants. Priests would better serve the Lord if they would challenge people to question their salvation rather than giving assurance of salvation.
Although few others are getting saved and not many show true evidence of being filled with the Holy Spirit, we are experiencing many signs, miracles and wonders and the righteous are encouraged.
Fact: Without true repentance there is only eternal damnation and torment in the lake of fire.
God is love
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saami
Cranky old lady
05:23 PM on 03/29/2010
I honestly do not care what your religion says. It is against the law in the US, Ireland, Germany, Italy and other civilized countries to sexually or otherwise abuse children. These laws don't say it's OK if you are a priest to break the law. They need to be tried in a legal court and if convicted punished by law. Religion has nothing to do with it. It is the law.
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Magick1
Dark fire shall not avail you. You shall not pass
05:37 PM on 03/29/2010
Love burns.
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cavegal
The Revolution Will Not Be Privatized
05:11 PM on 03/29/2010
The Vatican is a recognized sovereign state. The U.S. should rescind the Vatican ambassador's recognized diplomatic credentials until this matter has been satisfactorily resolved with the victims. Other employees of the State knew of the crimes and did not report them despite their duty to protect children. There is not only the crimes against the victims to be considered, but the well orchestrated efforts to ignore the problem by moving the priest to different parishes. That is just plain criminal behavior to knowingly further endanger even more children.
05:02 PM on 03/29/2010
No, it's NOT up to the Pope to stop it. It's up to Law Enforcement to stop it - and to stop HIM.
07:41 PM on 03/29/2010
So right - this church (and a few others) have systematically breached the ideal of separation of church and state on a regular and consistent basis. Religions are free to operate in a country provided they are in compliance with the law. I wonder if anyone is considering those aspects - see http://www.molestedcatholics.com/separation to see where you think the responsibility lays