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A Palm Sunday Meditation: Take Up My Cross?

Posted: 04/16/11 04:58 PM ET

Palm Sunday raises at least two important spiritual questions for Christians: What does it mean to be like Jesus? And what does it mean to take up our crosses, just like he did?

First, you don't need to go looking for your cross. Life gives them to you. Whether it's an illness or a tough family relationship or trouble in school or problems on the job. The real cross is the one that you don't want.

Because it's hardly a cross if you want it.

Just like it was for Jesus.

Second, we are asked by Jesus to accept our crosses.

Now, what does that mean? Well, first it means accepting that suffering is a reality in your life, and being honest about it. Perhaps more importantly, it means not passing along the bitterness that you feel. That doesn't mean that when you're with friends or family members or counselors, you can't talk about it or complain about it or even cry about it. That's both healthy and natural.

But it does mean that if you're angry about your boss or about school or about your family, you don't pass along that anger or bitterness or meanness to others. If you have a lousy boss, does that mean that you should be mean to your family? If you have a difficult family situation, does that mean that you should be angry with your coworkers? If you are having problems at school, does that mean that you should be cruel to your family?

Your cross is your cross. It shouldn't become someone else's.

Third, wait for the resurrection. Because in every cross there will be some invitation to new life, to a new way of relating to God, and often in a way that may not be immediately apparent.

In other words, where is the new life that God is holding out for you? And how will it come? Is it in forgiving someone in your family? Moving away from an unhealthy work environment? Letting go of something that prevented you from being more loving? Trusting in yourself a little more?

Surrendering yourself to the future that God has in store for you?

God's gift of resurrection is usually a complete surprise, just like it was for the Apostles. And just as the Apostles discovered on Easter Sunday, the resurrection does not come when you expect it. It sometimes takes a long time to come at all.

And when it does come, it's often not what you would expect it to look like.

Most of all, it's often hard to describe, because it's personal -- it's your resurrection.

When I was a Jesuit novice, I worked in a hospital for seriously ill people, and every Friday we had a little discussion group. One young woman, who had been in a wheelchair for many years told me something that completely surprised me. She said that she used to think of her chair as a cross -- which would have been my reaction -- but lately, she said, she thought of it as her resurrection.

She said, "My wheelchair helps me get around. Without it, I wouldn't be able to do anything. It brings me life."

Despite our crosses, or maybe because of them, these resurrections in our lives do come. You have Jesus's word on that.

James Martin, SJ, is a Jesuit priest, culture editor of America and author of 'The Jesuit Guide to (Almost) Everything and My Life with the Saints.'

 
 
 
Palm Sunday raises at least two important spiritual questions for Christians: What does it mean to be like Jesus? And what does it mean to take up our crosses, just like he did? First, you don't need...
Palm Sunday raises at least two important spiritual questions for Christians: What does it mean to be like Jesus? And what does it mean to take up our crosses, just like he did? First, you don't need...
 
 
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New Yorker
Roman Catholic, Anti-DEATH, Combat Vet, Sinner
01:49 PM on 04/19/2011
To quote " methodman ", " Suffering is a lack of sufficient symbols to turn into a real objective system of thought. " Say What ? Can anyone make any sense out of that sentence ?

so let me respond in kind. The nebulus sandbar cannot alter the non-trajectory of the reversing progectile vomit.

methodman, please go get that GED then get back to us.
New Yorker
Roman Catholic, Anti-DEATH, Combat Vet, Sinner
11:26 AM on 04/19/2011
Why suffering is great value when offerred to God as atonement for sins, is something of a mystery. The saint Padre Pio who died in 1968, and who carried in life the pain and open wounds of , " The Stigmata " in his hands his feet and his side for over 50 years, was able to see angels and emons in this world. He told us that he once asked his guardian angel why the fallen angels were so jealous of man that they rebelled against God. He said that the angel answered, " Because Man Can Suffer for God ". So while we know suffering has value to God, we do not understand the reasons. But this reply by the angel offers some very interesting ideas to contemplate. Satan (Lucifer) lost heaven and was cast down over this, and he we are told was the most magnificent and powerful of God's angels at one point. That surely seems like a lot to lose over the idea of man suffering for God.

If you read the lives of the saints, and the apostles you discover that they each sufferred, and many seemed to seek out suffering, once they understood its value to God, and themselves. So in the end, we should probably not be so quick to allow ourselves to suffer a little.
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methodman
02:47 AM on 04/19/2011
I respectfully disagree suffering is a lack of sufficient symbols to turn into a a real objective system of thought. I realize and I am an ex christian evangelical for this reason. They HATE INTELLECTUAL STRUCTURE WITH A PASSION. Right Brain spacing and Language nervous control are spiritually discussable. Religion uses imbecilic TIRED WORN OUT REPETITIVE TALK TO GOD LIKE A TWO YEAR OLD PRAYER AND EVERYTHING TAKES CARE OF ITSELF. POLITENESS. THE CROSS IS FOR POLITE PEOPLE JESUS DID IT SO I DON'T HAVE TO DEAL WITH IT. CHRISTIANITY IS INTELLIGENTLY AND INTELLECTUALLY BANKRUPT. I HAVE NO PROBLEM EX-COMMUNICATING MY SELF FROM JESUS. The cross comes from THE BAPTIST PLANTATION MASTERS WHO DESIRE TO UNDO ALL THE CHILD LABOR LAWS AND ARE POLITE AND MEAN AND POLITE NO HONESTY OR FACTS ARE ALLOWED THAT IS THE DOMAIN OF SATAN.
08:55 AM on 04/19/2011
Someday you will come out of your cave ( Aristotle's cave ) and see the light.
New Yorker
Roman Catholic, Anti-DEATH, Combat Vet, Sinner
10:59 AM on 04/19/2011
Sorry, I never read posts of people who communicate so poorly they imagine capitalizing everything makes their words less stupid.
02:21 PM on 04/18/2011
As was the case with Jesus, all human beings have a cross to bear. Of course, none of the crosses of human beings can be compared with Jesus' cross, because of the severity of His suffering and death as a result of His crucifixion.

On the other hand, human beings will be resurrected from their crosses -- as Jesus was on the third day after His crucifixion -- because of Christ's love for us, and His assistance in resolving our hardships.
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eileenflemingWAWA
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10:10 AM on 04/18/2011
When Jesus said "Pick up your cross and follow me" everyone then understood he was issuing a POLITICAL statement, for the main roads in Jerusalem were lined with crucified agitators, rebels, dissidents and any others who disturbed the status quo of the Roman Occupying Forces.

Jesus was also never a Christian, that term was even coined until the days of Paul, about 3 decades after Jesus walked the earth a man. Jesus was a social justice, radical revolutionary Palestinian devout Jewish road warrior who rose up and challenged the job security of the Temple authorities by teaching the people they did NOT need to pay the priests for ritual baths or sacrificing livestock to be OK with God; for God already LOVED them just as they were:

Sinners, poor, diseased, outcasts, widows, orphans, refugees and prisoners all living under Roman Military Occupation.

What got Jesus crucified was disturbing the status quo of the Roman Occupying Forces of his time, by teaching the subversive concept that Caesar only had power because God allowed it and that God preferred the humble sinner, the poor, diseased, outcasts, widows, orphans, refugees and prisoners all living under Roman Occupation above the elite and arrogant.

In the afternoon of the eighth day of my second Reality Tour through the West Bank, I was one of sixty international ecumenical Christians introduced to Sabeel’s Contemporary Way of Cross...

http://wearewideawake.org/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=2042&Itemid=245
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Ricardo Valentin
Old belief+new evidence=new belief
10:34 PM on 04/17/2011
I live in an area where many people seem to embody the christians ideals. Most seem to carry their "crosses" with resignation and even good humor. And yet they are divided into a multitude of sects, all of which look down on anyone not adhering to their own slightly different flavor of christianity. Perhaps recognizing that people can be good even if they don't worship Yggdrasil would be even a more important first step that accepting a "cross".
New Yorker
Roman Catholic, Anti-DEATH, Combat Vet, Sinner
09:11 AM on 04/18/2011
The word of God Himself supercedes your worldly ideas. The Cross must be borne and the ability to bear it comes from God through prayer, fasting, and charity in the grces bestowed on all who seek god in truth and repentance. There is no flavor of the month in the words of Christ, there is one church, one vine and to bear good fruit each of us must be attached to it our we left to shrivel and become worthless and end up being thrown on the fire. St. Peter was the first 'Bishop of Rome', and satan has attacked the Catholic Church ever since because satan is God's enemy.
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Ricardo Valentin
Old belief+new evidence=new belief
05:12 PM on 04/18/2011
What an excellent example of the things I heard in the churches! The problem is they are ALL convinced they are attached to the one and only rightful vine, everyone else is the hell bound. By the way, the word of god seems to have more interpretations than Baskin Robbins has flavors.
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BlackYowe
I am a classical- liberal woman and a Jeweler.
09:53 PM on 04/17/2011
I slept and dreamed that life was joy,
I awoke and saw that life was duty,
I acted, and behold duty was joy.
--Rabindranath Tagore,
New Yorker
Roman Catholic, Anti-DEATH, Combat Vet, Sinner
09:24 PM on 04/17/2011
Sacrifice is obligatory on each of us that we may offer the sacrifice up to God in order to avoid committing sin. Our eternal salvation depends upon it, as Jesus Christ tells us in the Gospel, " If any man would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it; and whoever loses his life for my sake, he will save it. For what does it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loses or forfeits himself. " From what Our lord says here we each must be prepared to die rather than commit a grave sin which might cause us to lose eternal life. Now the same is even more true if obeying God's law demands of us sacrifices (carrying our daily cross) of something less valuable than our own lives.

In other words, anyone who wishes to satisfy their disordered appetites, live a sinful life, traed that wide easy path to sin, without making amends, or repenting, will lose eternal life.

Jesus says " He who does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me." (Mt 10, 38)
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08:12 PM on 04/17/2011
Let's be clear here about personal "crosses".

For example, since the future of our nation is important to me, my cross is religious extremists who feel the need to impose their beliefs on the rest of the nation. These extremists pretend they have some God-given right to rule our nation. Of course, our Constitution assures the exact opposite.

I confess. I have trouble bearing that cross. The only way I can, is to oppose all attempts to impose religious rule in America. Is that a problem?
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BlackYowe
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09:45 PM on 04/17/2011
I see things just as you do and am a Christian. I will help you with your cross and take it for my own.
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myth buster
07:57 PM on 04/17/2011
Today I stood in Church for the Gospel reading of the Passion of the Lord, the Passion of the Lord is unlike any other Gospel reading in the entire cycle. All other Gospel readings consist of the priest reading the Gospel to the Congregation, but the Passion of the Lord reading is a makeshift Passion play, in which the Congregation plays the part of the crowds and scoffers. Hearing the words of the unbelievers cursing and mocking Jesus proceed from my own lips brought me to tears, but the reading proceeds like this for a reason- because it was our sins, including our hardness of heart, that crucified Jesus. It's noteworthy that the crowd lines consist of both Jews and Romans, reminding us that Jew and Gentile alike are in need of atonement. Jews cannot boast in the Law, because the Law proves them to be sinners. Neither can Gentiles curse the Jews, for we too are guilty of crucifying Christ.
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ManuOB1
A voice crying in the wilderness
01:10 PM on 04/18/2011
Also, don't forget "Salvation is of the Jews." (John 4:22)
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gal416
is a Bible verse † † †
05:54 PM on 04/17/2011
Good article. In the Bible, Jesus tells a "rich young ruler" to " sell whatsoever thou hast, and give to the poor" and " take up the cross, and follow me." The Bible says the young man "went away grieved: for he had great possessions." I like the contrast to another rich man in the Bible named Zacchaeus who got his wealth by cheating people and collecting taxes for Rome. Zacchaeus realized that his faith in Jesus was more important than his wealth. "And Zacchaeus stood, and said unto the Lord; Behold, Lord, the half of my goods I give to the poor; and if I have taken any thing from any man by false accusation, I restore him fourfold" (Luke 19:18). So it isn't impossible for a rich man to be saved, it's just that, at times, riches get in the way.
09:33 AM on 04/18/2011
Jesus also said: "Do not think that I have come to send peace, but a sword. For I have come to set a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law; and a man's foes will be those of his own household. He who loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; and he who loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me" (Matt. 10:34-37, Revised Standard Edition). Clearly he had a conflicting moral code.
01:56 PM on 04/18/2011
Not at all. Jesus emphasized that nothing, even loved ones, should deter one from focusing on the Lord.
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Hoe Toe
" If there was no God, there would be no athiests.
11:44 AM on 05/12/2011
The poster before and after your comment understand what is being said. You would do well to listen.
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logicanada
Blogger, radio co-host, writer, editor, voice-over
03:37 PM on 04/17/2011
Pick a God. Any God.

Now put it back in the deck . . .
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BlackYowe
I am a classical- liberal woman and a Jeweler.
09:46 PM on 04/17/2011
Clang clang clang----SNORE
03:33 PM on 04/17/2011
Palm sunday meditation sums up what is missing in the Church founded upon th eRock meditation means contemplation , in this context , but meditation does not mean contemplation

meditation , the practice of going deep within to the origin of all , the transcendent field of immortality and unbounded creative intelligence , meditation practice which removes stress any stress , even the cross [ used as a symbol of stress or burden ] and prevents unjust crosses placed on humans is transcendental meditation (TM) tm.org

Transcendental meditation (TM), the way to contact the within in Christ's imperative ' seek ye FIRST the kingdom of heaven......within YOU !!! ' , is also the best prevention of sickness

jesuits in particular should be able to cure their addiction to suffering ; religion is absolutely not ever about suffering but freedom from suffering

what the mundane world is about is not what religion is about; since the Church has been preaching suffering , it has been a failure and worse than useless

Christ entered Jerusalem during passover ; a time of passion in Judah about liberation from Rome ; knowingly or unknowingly he challenged Rome and Pharisees who were entrusted by Rome with maintaining order ; a big crowd was not wanted at passover time; when does any government like a big big crowd at a non-establishment event ?
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logicanada
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03:06 PM on 04/17/2011
Why do Christians use this cumbersome symbol of ancient torture to idolize their beliefs? The are numerous other torture devices which are a lot more portable . . . like the Cat’s Paw (or Spanish Tickler), the knee splitter, or the ever popular and pocket size crocodile shears. All could be miniaturized to necklace size and plated in gold, silver or platinum.
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logicanada
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myth buster
07:42 PM on 04/17/2011
Because it was by being hung on a tree that the Lord accepted God's curse in our stead.
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CarmenCameron
Prepping 4 US version of French Revolution
05:19 AM on 04/18/2011
"God's curse"? Gosh! I thought Jesus taught that God was love. And all-forgiving. Like in the Parable of the Prodigal Son, which tells us that all any of His children need do is turn back to Him and He comes running to give us our inheritance. No sacrifice. No grovelling. No "curse".

The crucifixion didn't save us (tens of thousands of innocents were crucified by the Romans) but the resurrection proved what happens when we trust in only God's love, no matter what - just as Jesus did - and eternal life is ours.
New Yorker
Roman Catholic, Anti-DEATH, Combat Vet, Sinner
02:17 PM on 04/17/2011
God is found by we who seek Him, and ask in penitent humble prayer for our Creator to help us. God is quick to forgive, generous to even sinners, and slow to anger. The atheist is like the man born blind who is firmly convinced that light does not exist. He has never seen it, can't touch it, and has no experience of it, so he Assumes everyone who tells him how wonderful Light Is, has been making it up, and lying to him. I can understand such unfortunate blindness, but still know it is completely wrong and lacking in truth. This is why the atheist can't fathom the existence and goodness of God. They remain blind.
02:28 PM on 04/17/2011
With a little more experience you may meet some interesting people who disagree with you and help you think these opinions through with a bit more wisdom and understanding. Perhaps this is one meaning of the message of JC?
New Yorker
Roman Catholic, Anti-DEATH, Combat Vet, Sinner
03:50 PM on 04/17/2011
I will pray that God cure you of your blindness. It would be helpful if you joined me in doing that. You are in need of a miraculous cure, based on what you post.
ThinkCreeps
Seriously, it's time.
07:21 PM on 04/17/2011
The good old `cats can smell color' argument.