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Pray for the Unemployed

Posted: 07/25/11 05:19 PM ET

If you want to know what people really care about and where they're really hurting, look to their prayers.

I wouldn't normally have privy to that information but through my involvement in a website called OurPrayer.org I see the requests for prayer on the site, people asking for prayers from people like me, from anybody. And what do they want? Jobs, jobs, jobs.

"Please pray that the Lord will guide my steps into the right job. I need enough to pay my bills..." "Please say a prayer so I can find a job. I don't have any source of income..." "I have a brother who needs a job really bad..." "I have been without fulltime employment for almost three years. I am working two part-time jobs but making way too little to support my family..."

That's just from scrolling down a few pages and doesn't include the people who don't want to share their requests publicly but still ask for prayers. We have over two thousand volunteers around the country who pray for every request and it can be heartbreaking work. You can feel the pain that's out there. I'm extremely grateful to have a job, but I've been out of work before and it can be humiliating, depressing, agonizing, soul-destroying.

Every job search has its technical side. The phone calls, the emails, crafting a résumé, networking, contacting people who just might give you a lead to the person who could possibly have a job. But I believe every job search is also holy.

"The place God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and the world's deep hunger meet," wrote Frederick Buechner. That takes more than just pounding pavement. It's the work of prayer and reflection, writing down where your thoughts take you then putting shoe leather to your prayers. Hasn't every job you've found felt like a Godsend? Then for God's sake, don't do it alone.

In the past year as I've found more and more friends and acquaintances out of work, I've tried to make myself available for those conversations that job seekers depend on. Rarely have I had something tangible to offer, but that's not the whole point. If I can do something to help them make their way in this snarly process, something to ease that loneliness of feeling outside the work world, then I feel fortunate. Responding to the tentative email from an out-of-work "friend of a friend" is a sort of entertaining angels unaware.

As a country we all seem to pray for the big disasters splashed in the news: the devastating tornado, the city wiped out by a tsunami, the school paralyzed by a crazed gunman. And then we move on. I confess I too get weary of the unemployment statistics. They just seem like numbers. I'm ready to move on. Until I read some of those prayer requests.

I've made it a point to put some job seekers on my prayer list and keep them there. In this market it takes a long while to find a job and it's easy enough to get discouraged. But to pray is to be persistent. If you are in that job-hunting slough of despond, I welcome you to log on to OurPrayer.org and let your need be known. It's a free service. (I find it appalling that some prayer sites charge for prayer.) Ask for as much prayer as you need as often as you want. Anything that can give you energy and hope on a day-to-day basis. May your prayers take you where you deserve to be.

 
 
 

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David Weidner
I love dog avatars.
04:05 PM on 07/27/2011
Praying: How to pretend you are actually doing something to help, while accomplishing absolutely nothing.
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GhostOfFDR
You're on the slippery slope to socialism
01:13 PM on 07/27/2011
A call to your Congressman is worth a billion prayers, and a letter is worth a trillion.

That said, in this climate, your Congressman is operating entirely on ideology, often religious. So a call to your Congressman is nearly worthless, but still worth a billion times more than a prayer.

Frankly, there's not much that can be done for the unemployed now. Either Congress will reach a debt limit "deal" which will be really bad for the unemployed. Or Congress will not reach a deal, which will be disastrous for the unemployed.

So pray, or don't pray. Prayers have no effect.
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way2sunny
09:36 AM on 07/27/2011
It makes sense. People who feel powerless often turn to religion because it makes them feel better, like they're doing something to improve their situation. God is always popular with the disenfranchised. Hence the prevalence of the religious in prisons, third world countries and the least well-positioned in this country. Churches would have no business left without them.
06:12 PM on 07/26/2011
Help me God! I've tried nothing, now I'm all out of ideas!
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Misterioso Adversario
THE THIRST MUTILATOR!
03:31 PM on 07/26/2011
Prayer; it's literally the least you can do.
12:37 PM on 07/26/2011
This is the 21st Century! So the more your pray the better chances you will have at finding a job? No wonder the United States is in this predicament.
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ProofRequired
Taking back the human race, one believer at a time
10:49 AM on 07/26/2011
The people looking for jobs are largely unlucky, and like any of us, probably could have done more in the past to be more invaluable to their employer or to get the necessary training/education for more stable jobs. They could have been taking real steps to improve their job security instead of wasting their time praying in the first place.

My suggestion for better success is stop wasting your time with nonsense, stop giving your money to religious institutions that repay you with nothing real, stop spending your time talking to an invisible man, and start living as if this is the only life that matters (because it is!).
09:35 AM on 07/26/2011
If everything we do in life is supposed to be for Him, including work, then make your job searching your "job". I do have some advice for people looking for work. I was unemployed for a period of time and went from interview to interview and applying and tons of place. The result? No job. I do go to church on Sundays and I remember clearly that on one Sunday, which I still happened to be unemployed, I brought to church in my pocket a dollar and some change. I was actually debating whether to use that money for church or a shake from McDonalds. Anyways, God saw my faithfulness because I gave all I had. That week, I was offered 3 job positions, one which I currently work at now. Not only that, but my salary is more than I've ever made in any job in my 10 years of working. Not to mention, he also blessed me with a great woman. He blessed me tremendously and why? Because He saw that I gave what I had from my heart. This reminds me of the story in the Bible of the poor widow that gave Jesus what she had. It can be found in Mark 12:41-44. God bless you all!
01:05 AM on 07/26/2011
I think it is great that prayerful folks have a place where they can seek out the prayers of others. Prayers for jobs, prayers for whatever is most needed.

But I'd feel better about this if Hamlin acknowledged that the surest answer to those prayers lies NOT in petitions to the Creator, but in earth-bound, specific changes to our national economic policies.

We had years of policies that created great wealth for the Already Wealthy, but which did little to spread the wealth or to create jobs that ensured prosperity. Then we wrecked even that kind of stagnant economy.

Now we have prayerful GOP leadership in Washington that threatens to devastate the economy even further if they don't get their way, if their policies that are so UN-friendly toward job creation aren't implemented.

I'd never tell anyone not to pray, but prayer can be the very thing the powerful offer to the needy to distract them from the real solution at hand. Gov. Perry in Texas wants to distract the masses with his calls to prayer, when simple economic justice and better governance would do much more.
09:43 AM on 07/26/2011
I could not have replied to this any better.

By the way people live their lives show that they don't want God in it and yet when the trials and tribulations set in they turn to God. A bit hypocritical if you ask me. Anyway, who am I to say whose prayer God will listen to, but even if someone got a job was it God who gave it to him? . And if God did give it to him, why him and no other. I would say it is more likely that the effort that man put into finding a job got him that job or he was just in the right place at the right time.
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11:01 PM on 07/25/2011
Hopefully, this economic kerfuffle has and will continue to bring people together, realizing that putting faith in some outside authority (which includes things like 'government') is just that, a belief and is not absolutely true. People in neighbourhoods should be getting together and finding out aboot each other and finding out what each person can do, is good at, is not good at, so they'll be able to help each other, instead of still living in the world that has been pre-made for Americans, that of 'pull yourself up by your bootstraps' and 'if you work hard enough, you'll do well'. That is a Belief System as well.
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BurtonDesque
Fear a Blank Planet
09:50 PM on 07/25/2011
Nothing fails like prayer.
09:24 PM on 07/25/2011
Praying is seeking to communicate with supernatural beings, whose existence is not supported by any objective evidence whatsoever, so it's no surprise that prayers almost never work -- at least there's no evidence I know of that they work. Consider this: In any other context except religion, anyone who advised people to seek favors from supernatural beings very likely would be transported to the nearest mental health facility. Praying is just one of the odd, primitive behaviors that persist because religion enjoys a ridiculous amount of government protection in our society. If people really want to accomplish something, they should be advised to take action, whether it's individually or collectively. It's especially cruel and deplorable to teach children to indulge in prayers that certainly won't protect them from life's dangers and might well lead to disappointments that will affect them psychologically later on.
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11:02 PM on 07/25/2011
"Those who take it literally, deserve it."

--a Discordian Pope
09:48 AM on 07/26/2011
here here