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Firing 101: Handling Messiness the Humane Way

Posted: 08/18/11 03:09 PM ET

Most organizations have many reasons for underachieving: managers can't agree on a strategy, managers can't agree on priorities or managers are unready for twists along the economic landscape. But the most glaring reason for underperformance is that most managers stink at the art of firing people.

The economic and human costs are huge. Organizations stagnate when managers are too timid to ease out employees who are underperforming -- and these employees resent the palpable sense that they're not appreciated, which leads to sniping that yanks morale down further. Worst of all, a culture of non-accountability builds. It benefits everyone if the civilized art of "employee liberation" is cultivated.

Firing will always be a sensitive matter for the recipient as well as for bystanders (which is why armadas of legal and HR representatives are involved. You should consult all of them, because I don't want to get sued for my advice not being 100 percent appropriate to your particular institution, union or mob outfit.) Still a few larger principles exist:

1. Remember that no employee needs your charity. Too often, managers suspect they're performing an act of compassion by keeping underperformers on the payroll. They should ask shareholders and other stakeholders to which they're beholden whether that charity is appropriate. They should ask high-achieving colleagues if they feel such charity to underachievers is appropriate. Just as importantly, a manager would do an underperformer a favor if she instead gave him a new lease on their career, at a place that might be a better match for their talents.

In one corporation, a senior manager had little faith in the ability of a middle-manager but was too kind (or too cowardly) to terminate him. Instead, she moved him around from one department to the next over two years, while hiring new staff to compensate for his deficiencies. He in turn, understandably, felt unappreciated. When she finally dismissed him after having had enough, he turned around and filed suit. Consider her mistakes here: She bloated the organization's headcount irresponsibly; she failed to give him the proper feedback in real time that could have allowed him to make peace with the notion that he was a bad fit at the company; and she treated him too long like a charity case, which only increased his resentment and readiness to sue.

2. Clean up your own act. Judge not lest ye be judged, Jesus said, and cast not the first stone unless you're without sin. Everyone has had an easy enough time ignoring the good Lord's advice, save when we become a manager. Then, suddenly, we become humble at all the wrong times, unable to push an incompetent employee out, since we realize that we're not perfect either, and because we worry that holding someone accountable will lead to us being held accountable. Make up your mind to hold yourself to the highest standard, then you'll be able to hold your employees to a standard that your organization should expect from them.

3. Define success clearly. Your organization won't value you for just treading water. It will value you as a manager if you raise productivity or quality in your area. If you can't define what that looks like, you shouldn't be a manager. And if you can define it, for yourself and your employees, you now have clear, guilt-free parameters for addressing underperformance.

4. A firing, ideally, shouldn't be a surprise. There may be times when a firing has to be sudden. But for the most part, human beings resent the idea of the ambush firing or layoff. In companies, the "human" in "human resources" often yields to the "law" in "lawyer." This is understandable. But in too many cases, this leads to managers only having the guts to fire an underperformer for an irrelevant technicality rather than for the actual underperformance. If a valuable employee gets caught Facebooking during regular work hours, in a violation of company policy, her violation will likely be quietly reprimanded or ignored altogether. If a ne'er-do-well does the same, he may get canned. This approach is cowardly, as it allows expedience to take the place of honest discussion about overall performance issues.

5. You can be friends after a termination. In most cases, I've had good relations and friendships with those whom I've had to move out the door, mainly because they knew it was nothing personal -- just a matter of them and our organization being better served by a change.

I used to believe that nonprofits aren't as effective at firing than corporations, because corporations are more ruthlessly interested in maximizing profits. I later found that to be untrue; a classic example was a friend's PR firm, which organized workshops instructing managers on why never to fire employees, lest the firm get dragged into court.

It's certainly the job of lawyers to minimize legal exposure, and we can all respect that. But one key job of a manager is to maximize her unit's performance, and a pure obsession with lawsuit-avoidance doesn't allow for that. But the more pressing reason for effective firing isn't a legal or business issue, but a moral one: We owe it to one another to be honest about where we need to improve... and when we might need to move on. It's the human thing.

 

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Most organizations have many reasons for underachieving: managers can't agree on a strategy, managers can't agree on priorities or managers are unready for twists along the economic landscape. But the...
Most organizations have many reasons for underachieving: managers can't agree on a strategy, managers can't agree on priorities or managers are unready for twists along the economic landscape. But the...
 
 
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PRONESE
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05:43 AM on 09/08/2011
Perhaps you should ask TechCrunch Founder Michael Arrington how messy his firing was.
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R/ PRONESE
12:48 PM on 08/29/2011
Thanks Rob, when I started a job at WB I inherited staff. I found out that one of the staff's dad was a friend with the WB Prez and was hired despite not being at all qualified for the job. It was painful! She was truly incompetent at this *production* supervising job! I tried educating her-- being very hands-on that didn't work; I tried hands-off, etc., but the lady really just was not qualified for the job.

We went to HR several times, which was always a waste of time, other than for documenting the situation.

At the end, I was so frustrated, I decided to just do her job and my job both, it would just be easier than having to clean up her messes afterwards. I asked her to grab her bag and meet me in HR, I was simply going to drop her off, she'd be their problem (charity case), but I didn't want to see her again. Well, she never made it there, she went home and filed some kind of medical claim! Once the benefits ran out, twelve weeks later, she quit.

Sometimes you can’t fire someone because HR takes on a charity case, not the manager!
12:34 PM on 08/19/2011
Not too bad, Mr. Asghar. I can't disagree with your points, but my larger concern is around how businesses and managers perceive and decide that laying someone off or firing them is necessary.

I know from personal experience the pain and utter devastation that being let go from a company can cause. I've lost my home, my family, and most of my belongings, and I can't pay next month's rent. I can't support my kids, and they're about to go back to school. My self-confidence has been battered so much that it's incredibly hard to get out there and "sell myself."

Firing someone or laying them off should ***absolutely*** be a last resort, when *no* other alternatives exist. I think the yardstick companies use when measuring that necessity is broken. Seriously, if the company's survival or safety isn't at stake, saving the pain of dismissing someone is worth more than losing some productivity, money, performance points, etc. Work with them. Train them. Develop them so their performance improves. Do anything possible before showing them the door. Or to put it another way, we should treat employees as we would like to be treated. If we wouldn't want someone to inflict the pain of job loss on ourselves, we shouldn't do it to others. This is a HUGE blind spot in our consciousness and our humanity right now.
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Rob Asghar
12:48 PM on 08/19/2011
BP1, I'm sorry to hear about your situation, and I hope and pray you hang in there. I do agree with you, it should be a last resort, not a quick resort. It should be after lots and lots of discussion about what success looks like. And in the case of layoffs that are necessitated by a bad economy, it does seem that most organizations could do more to help downsized employees transition to something new.
09:16 PM on 08/22/2011
BP1 - You are right that all effort needs to be made to train, retrain, and support an employee who is not performing. You are also correct that most managers do not know how to do this, or simply do not have the energy to even try. I have seen this over and over again.

Having said this, if I have, as a manager, provided training, goals, support, retraining, conversation and feedback, and the employee is not a good skill or cultural fit, it is best for the employee and employer that the employee be fired or laid off to find a better fit.

It may sound cold and inhuman, but it is not a company's responsibility to make sure that all of their employees have permanent, full-time employment regardless of how they perform. This is the not the business structure in America. I had being fired and I hate firing my own employees, especially when I know the potential pain and struggle they will suffer. However, as an agent of the company, paid to do a job, it is inevitable that I will eventually have to fire someone at sometime.

I also, as a conscious manager, make every attempt to support great performers, support their growth and development as employees and human beings. I want my employees to succeed!
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Amber Berglund
Got Mashed Potato, ain't got no T-Bone
12:06 PM on 08/19/2011
If an employee has been properly vetted and then informed of expectations, and given the tools to perform their job...if that employee isn't performiing the way management likes, could it not be a systemic issue?
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Rob Asghar
12:46 PM on 08/19/2011
Amber, it could totally be that. But even if it's a systemic issue, it's still not a good fit. To use a relationship analogy again, Person A may say to Person B, "don't break up with me, you need to sort out your intimacy issues." Even if that's fully true, Person A should realize that it's not their job to force Person B to grow up. This is where Person A becomes deluded about the charity they can perform for Person B if only Person B signs up to handle their systemic issues.

Of course, the senior leadership of an organization ultimately needs to be brutally honest with itself about whether there is a systemic issue, and then needs to decide whether and how to handle it.
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Amber Berglund
Got Mashed Potato, ain't got no T-Bone
01:33 PM on 08/19/2011
Your relationship analogy needs some modifications. Based on your comment, it assumes that Person A and Person B are equals. In today's corporate environment, the relationship between the employer and the employee is more along the lines of a polygamist oligarchy with many powerless concubines at the mercy of their masters. If Henry the VIII's decision to chop off his wifes' heads because they couldn't produce a male heir was some form of compassion, then your whole article makes sense.
03:38 PM on 08/18/2011
I once had a CEO that expressed that sometimes the most compassionate thing we can do is help someone move on or out of job that is not a good fit or in which they are not meeting expectations. Is it truly compassionate to allow someone to "suffer" in a position that is not a match for skills and competencies? Thoughts?
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Amber Berglund
Got Mashed Potato, ain't got no T-Bone
12:24 PM on 08/19/2011
Oh please. A lot of it is office politics. The corporate mentality is never rational or forgiving. There is no compassion when the bottom line is a stake.
The fact that "the forty hour work week" is now considered "part-time" by corporate management shows that quality of life comes second to profits. Are they not a "fit" because they want to see their children?
The fact that salaried employees are forced to work 70 or 80 hours, is proof that the corporate machine will continue to exploit workers. Combining two jobs into one, forcing one person to work twice as hard for the pay of one job, is similar to slavery, and just increases the overall unemployment rate, and is really bad for morale, and the mental-health of the general population. It's also bad for children, who never see their parents and who are being raised by non-family caregivers, in some mass "day care" situation that workers can afford.
Firing that person, in order to find someone desperate enough to work as a slave to corporate interests, for twice the work and half the pay, is what is fundamentally wrong with corporate culture. This is why the people need Unions to fight for workers rights.
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Rob Asghar
12:41 PM on 08/19/2011
lboesen, I do think it can be compassionate. It's at least honest. Amber B seems to be skeptical about the compassion side. But if it's a bad fit, it's a bad fit. It's like relationships. We may find it deathly agonizing to be rejected by someone, but the truth is that we later realize it wasn't a healthy, mutually beneficial arrangement. It's our pride that keeps us from seeing that.