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Praying for Doctors and Patients

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"My patients used to ask me to pray for them," an elderly doctor told me a few years ago. "Yeah, sure," he would tell them dismissively as he walked out of the room. He "pooh-poohed" their requests. Then, he developed cancer himself. "Now," he sighed, "I realize how important religion is."

His words still haunt me.

I spoke with him, and other physicians, while writing a book, When Doctors Become Patients, a few years ago. Again and again, these doctors told me how they became far more aware of the crucial role of spirituality in medicine - only when they became sick themselves.

Through my medical training, I never received a single lecture about religion.

Luckily, medical schools are beginning to include the topic in their curricula. But it remains unclear how often, or how -- what students read, are taught, or told.

Doctors should in no way force their own beliefs on their patients, or discuss the topic with those who aren't interested in doing so. But physicians do need to become more aware of the critical role it plays in most patients' lives and illness. After all, spirituality can help patients cope in many ways.

Still, for decades, American medicine has not only ignored religion, but actively opposed and denigrated it. Confusion about it still abounds.

A few years ago, I visited Epidaurus in Greece -- famous for the largest intact theater from the Ancient world - considered to have perfect acoustics. All 15,000 audience members can still hear mere whispers on the stage. Off to the side of the grand tiers of seats sat a small, rarely visited museum. Surprisingly, the museum was filled with carved inscriptions, statues, and tools - all related to medicine, surgery, and healing.

The Greeks believed that Epidaurus was the birthplace of Apollo's son, Asclepius -- the God of Medicine and Healing. The "rod of Asclepius" -- a snake entwined around a pole -- is still often used as a symbol of medicine. The theater had been built as part of a center for healing -- the most well-known hospital in the Ancient World.

For hundreds of years, patients traveled to this sanctuary of healing. Inside the compound stood an area where physicians interacted with patients, a temple, a large hall where patients slept, and the theater. Here, Greek tragedy, with emotional catharsis, and comedy were performed. Healing involved not just the body, but the mind, spirit, and soul.

This inclusiveness -- this 'holistic' approach -- seemed right in many ways.

Yet American medicine has lost much of it. Slowly, we are regaining small elements, but have a long way to go.

Why?

In the 19th Century, as science rose, with research by Louis Pasteur and others, the medical profession in the United States fought to differentiate itself from various kinds of quackery. Hence, the field emphasized its scientific basis, and actively rejected any trappings of religion.
Clearly, this science is vital, but the field, in its understandable efforts to separate itself, may have gone too far. The pendulum may need to swing back a little. Healing for serious diseases should, I think, not involve only science, or only spirituality, but rather, an integration of the two.

How these seemingly opposing approaches should be joined depends on the diagnosis, the severity of symptoms, the patient's beliefs, and the provider, but a key first step is to encourage medical students and physicians to recognize these issues more fully.

Additional medical school classes are important, and will hopefully help future doctors, but doesn't aid current providers and patients. Doctors today should recognize these issues as well. But meetings of medical professions generally include little, if anything, about spirituality. Resistance persists.

Part of the problem is that religion and spirituality largely remain taboo topics in medicine, and discussions about these areas become polarized, with extreme opinions on either side. Some supporters of spirituality in medicine insist, for instance, that having someone pray for you, even if you don't know about it, can directly alter the biological diseases processes in your body. I am dubious.

On the other hand, opponents of spirituality in medicine excoriate the possibility of "doctors ramming their own religious beliefs down patients' throats."

I think that doctors should be able gently to open the door to possible discussion with patients, if patients wish it, saying something like, "religion and spirituality are important to many patients. If you would like, we could talk about that, or I could arrange for you to talk to a clergy person." Unfortunately, evidence suggests that only 10% of patients have had a doctor ever mention spirituality or religion to them.

The situation is starting to improve slightly, but not enough. We need to pay more attention to these issues, and be more sensitive to patients' beliefs -- even if we don't share them. Supplementary lectures are important, but we don't know, for example, what they include about other religions than one's own. Doctors who are not Catholic are often unsure whether to ask a patient if he or she wants to see a priest, since they fear that the patient will interpret the question as meaning that the doctor is giving up. Unfortunately, most physicians I know and I have little understanding of Islam, and the beliefs and practices of Muslim patients who come to the large medical centers where many of us work.

Moreover, medicine needs not only to increase students' knowledge, but alter deep attitudes and biases. We need to think about how we treat patients, besides frequently simply prescribing drugs. Here, too, complementary and alternative approaches are making some in roads in areas where they may be helpful. But more work is needed.

Alas, in the increasingly fractured health care system, patients and their families may at times also have to take the initiative themselves, and ask to speak to clergy -- or help educate and sensitize a doctor on their own.

"Doc, will you pray for me?" patients ask each day.

The time has come to pray for the doctors, too.

 
 
 
"My patients used to ask me to pray for them," an elderly doctor told me a few years ago. "Yeah, sure," he would tell them dismissively as he walked out of the room. He "pooh-poohed" their requests. ...
"My patients used to ask me to pray for them," an elderly doctor told me a few years ago. "Yeah, sure," he would tell them dismissively as he walked out of the room. He "pooh-poohed" their requests. ...
 
 
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OliverTwist
Contrarian advocate for truth and justice
10:34 AM on 03/26/2010
"I think that doctors should be able gently to open the door to possible discussion with patients, if patients wish it, saying something like, "religion and spirituality are important to many patients. If you would like, we could talk about that, or I could arrange for you to talk to a clergy person." Unfortunately, evidence suggests that only 10% of patients have had a doctor ever mention spirituality or religion to them."

How amazingly presumptuous!
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MizLiz
Yellow Dog Democrat
10:24 AM on 03/25/2010
My husband had cataract surgery this summer, and the surgeon asked him (an atheist) if he'd mind if the doc said a prayer. Hubby was a little flummoxed by that, but said "well, why not? who knows?"
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OliverTwist
Contrarian advocate for truth and justice
10:46 AM on 03/26/2010
I would have said, "You shouldn't do that. It's a kind of blasphemy."

Or I would have let him do it if it makes him feel better.

It depends on the attitudes and capabilities of the person.

Nobody wants to offend their doctor just before they are going to operate on you.

Nobody wants to discuss ideas with people who they judge are unable to process or possibly even hostile those ideas.
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halis
10:52 AM on 03/24/2010
This statement highlights the problem with your reasoning...

"We need to pay more attention to these issues, and be more sensitive to patients' beliefs -- even if we don't share them. "

Share them or not, you're practicing medicine. Beliefs are antithetical to facts, and you must deal with facts. Anything less violates your oath to Do no harm.
12:26 PM on 03/25/2010
So, you believe human beings are infallible?

If not, you'll admit that all "facts" come from human beings. Human beings who err and are deceived. Human beings who have personal motives which influence choices and outcomes.
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OliverTwist
Contrarian advocate for truth and justice
10:36 AM on 03/26/2010
To deliberately mischaracterize what another person says is profoundly deceitful. You should stop that.
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08:49 PM on 03/23/2010
Prayer is a form of pain management. Based on the comments that I have read - I am disappointed that so many HuffPost readers criticize prayer - but I'm sure - would support legalized access to medical marijuana.

Good Article, Doc. Thanks.
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halis
10:53 AM on 03/24/2010
As is meditation (religious or not), or a placebo.
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10:03 PM on 03/24/2010
Correct.
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OliverTwist
Contrarian advocate for truth and justice
10:40 AM on 03/26/2010
Some religious people consider some kinds of prayer to be corrupt attempts to negotiate with God - for special favors or some kind of quid pro quo.

There are lots of different views on such matters.
09:34 AM on 03/23/2010
I'd rather my doctor spend his time reading and studying than praying to a non-existent being.
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GDWhiteman
Christian mystic iconoclast
05:58 PM on 03/22/2010
Nothing disillusions people about God faster than God not behaving like they expect or desire that God to. Some would say that's evidence that people create their own God(s) and dispose of them as desired. Others might say that we ought to shut up and pay attention instead of trying to tell God how to please us or get sucked into religious gymnastics to try to please God.
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Debbie338
What we manifest is before us
12:11 PM on 03/21/2010
Is this guy really a doctor? If he were, he would know that every single study that tried to find a link between "intercessory prayer" and healing has found absolutely nothing.

Cognizant Impiety hit it right. There has never, ever in history been an amputee that has had a limb regrow, in spite of the prayers of untold numbers of people. Does God hate amputees, or is it simply that God has nothing to do with healing at all?
11:59 AM on 03/21/2010
God is the immature man's Santa Claus.
07:50 PM on 03/20/2010
Nothing fails like prayer.
04:03 PM on 03/20/2010
As someone who is about to graduate from medical school in 2 months, I can say that cultural sensitivity is becoming a more prominent feature of medical education. I think that the negativity directed towards this article stems from its focus upon religion specifically instead of the larger context of culture. I am about as atheist as they come, and yet I realize that in becoming a doctor, my job is to meet my patients where they are. Religion is one facet of culture, and just as no physician would refuse to enlist the help of an interpreter in the treatment of a non-English speaking patient, nor should he refuse to incorporate chaplain services. Some people truly need religion to cope with even everyday life, let alone serious illness, and these patients certainly deserve a physician who will try to incorporate this into the treatment plan. The most important thing to keep in mind is autonomy. Inviting to patient to express whether or not spirituality is important to them, and subsequently guide how much it will play in future interactions is a vital part of patient centered care.
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GDWhiteman
Christian mystic iconoclast
06:28 PM on 03/22/2010
Hear, hear. Being a pragmatist at heart. When something we can't explain appears to work, I don't really care if it's placebo effect or God. The patient's state of mind appears to have an effect on healing. How "God" may or may not interact there, isn't up to me to decide.
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halis
10:57 AM on 03/24/2010
That's not what he said, he didn't say anything about effectiveness, he said to respect their culture, ie, respect the patient, not let anything get in the way of the actual treatment. In a nutshell, let them have the toy at the bottom of the cereal box, as long as they still eat the cereal...
12:56 AM on 03/20/2010
sir
may I refer you to the templeton prayer study released in 2006.
07:47 PM on 03/19/2010
Hey, I pray for my projects to work, but I spend my time doing whatever it takes to MAKE the project work.

You would barely notice my praying, if at all.
04:17 PM on 03/19/2010
I don't know about you, but the idea of being on the operating table and seeing the doctor and assistants praying over me before the anesthesia kicks in and he/she starts cutting into me fills me with unimaginable amounts of anxiety and horror.
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GDWhiteman
Christian mystic iconoclast
06:30 PM on 03/22/2010
Think of it as a meditative process by which they prepare themselves to be totally focused on your healing. Worrying about what other people believe is a thankless and tension creating task.
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halis
10:59 AM on 03/24/2010
I would think of it as a tendency to NOT cover all the bases as they go about their tasks, I want their skills, if they have to ask someone upstairs to help them, then they aren't the DR. I need.
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Diagoras
02:38 PM on 03/19/2010
I don't think the idea is to present religious services as a secondary medical service but simply to help (some) people feel better about their situation while they are getting real medical treatment. I'm an atheist myself, and I don't think I would be offended by a doctor telling me that if I need it, there are religious services available at the hospital or whatever. There's a way that it could be done that would not make atheist patients, or atheist doctors for that matter, uncomfortable. You could even just leave a brochure in the room titled, "For those wanting religious or spiritual services during a medical crisis" - and have it detail what the hospital has to offer. They should do the same thing with psychological services, since some nonreligious people might prefer that instead.

I also wonder if hospitals did this if fewer people would be attracted to those faith-healing cults that end up killing their kids because they won't take them to a doctor.

I don't see anything wrong with doctors and hospitals addressing the emotional needs of patients who are undergoing stressful procedures or who have just been diagnosed with serious illnesses. Some people under stress go to counselors, some go to church. Simply letting patients know what's available doesn't have to be a big deal.
06:57 PM on 03/19/2010
You don't need the doctor to tell you about religious services at the hospital. They tell you about them at admitting, and you are asked if you would like a chaplain made available to you or your clergyman notified of your hospitalization. You are also allowed to check "no religion".

There is also a brochure in each room listing services, including religious services. It is listed right there with patient ombudsman. It is not big deal. Take advantage of the religious offerings or not, your choice--and offered twice in case you missed it upon admission.

I would prefer that the doctor and I remain ignorant of each other's religious beliefs or lack thereof and he/she just concentrate on the medical and surgical aspects of my hospitalization.
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04:38 AM on 03/19/2010
If God listened to the prayers of men, all men would quickly have perished: for they are forever praying for evil against one another. -Epicurus
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Roses
In a gentle way, you can shake the world.
02:28 PM on 03/19/2010
Your point?

Read this
http://www.epicurus.net/en/menoeceus.html