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This Year, One Extra Mother's Day Gift

Posted: 05/07/10 08:39 PM ET

Postpartum depression is a national problem that needs a national response. The Melanie Blocker Stokes MOTHERS Act is the beginning of a long overdue national effort to combat this debilitating condition on multiple fronts -- with education, support services, and research -- so that affected new mothers can feel supported and safe rather than scared and alone. This Mother's Day we have cause to celebrate because the MOTHERS Act is now the law of the land.

Melanie Blocker Stokes was a healthy young mother who did not seem to know how to respond when her dream of motherhood became a reality. By the time her daughter, Sommer, was only 8 months old, Melanie's depression had become severe. She stopped eating and drinking and could no longer swallow. She became paranoid and looked for ways to end her life. She was hospitalized three times in seven weeks, was treated for depression and anxiety, but in the end she took her own life as a result of postpartum psychosis.

The MOTHERS Act we both have fought for -- along with Congressman Bobby Rush -- is named for her. It was passed into law and signed by the President as part of health insurance reform. It will begin to build the type of support structure that can be vital to the 10 to 20 percent of all new mothers who suffer from postpartum depression. It will focus national attention on the condition and help those affected by it feel safe, help them get through it, and help researchers get to the bottom of it.

With a National Public Awareness Campaign, the MOTHERS Act will shine a needed light on the seriousness and potentially devastating consequences of postpartum depression, so that new mothers, their families and the general public will better understand this condition and let them know that help is available.

Some people still think postpartum depression is just the "baby blues." This law will help dispel that notion and raise awareness among all of us. It will help educate new moms, their families, and every American about the torment of postpartum depression and how it can alter a woman's life and affect the lives of those who love her.

We both know there is still a lot to learn about why women get postpartum depression and how best to help them with treatment. This law is a beginning. It will open avenues of new research into the causes, diagnosis, and treatments of postpartum depression that affects as many as 800,000 new mothers in the United States each year.

We also know the importance of providing sufficient support in local communities so that new mothers suffering from this condition will have a place to go to find the help they need. The MOTHERS Act encourages the creation of local programs to give grants to community organizations, hospitals, and local governments to put in place effective support services. Hopefully, over time, we will see such support services spring up in every city and community across America because postpartum depression has no boundaries.

The bottom line for us is that, finally, this law makes postpartum depression a national issue. That's a victory for all women and, at this time of year, an added gift for Mother's Day. We believe we are now on a path toward better understanding postpartum depression, and we believe that a national effort to identify the best ways to promote the most effective screening and diagnostic techniques will make a difference to women and their families.

We are also pleased that, with the passage of health insurance reform this year, all new insurance plans will be required to cover comprehensive women's preventive care and screenings. That is now the law of the land and a major victory for women across this nation.

The overwhelming sadness, the unbearable thoughts, the emotional nightmare of postpartum depression is a horror that can cause extraordinary suffering. Anyone who has endured the emotional pain knows that this law is not only badly needed, but it is the right thing to do. We as a community -- each of us working together for the betterment of all of us -- have an obligation to all new mothers who need our help. We have an obligation to raise awareness, establish support services and do the research necessary to provide a ray of sunshine to those affected by postpartum depression.

That is what the Melanie Blocker Stokes MOTHERS Act is all about. It was enacted for Melanie and for the many women, one of whom has co-authored this article, who have experienced postpartum depression. We believe that a new national focus on this condition will, in the coming years, bring hope to millions of new mothers.

 

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MARYHOBE
Member of the tribe of man
10:55 AM on 05/11/2010
We are so close to finding a solution to this nightmare and I read the Senators words with renewed optimism. Research on the causes of this affliction would have repercussions on all our lives, and the substantial benefits to new mothers would extend to a whole range of medical issues including aging and children's development. It is in all our interest to favor research and treatment and would be a nice Mothers' Day present next year (we are that close).
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SpoooonBK
08:54 AM on 05/10/2010
Sen. Menendez your vote against the Kaufman-Brown amendment shows your true color: GREEN.

I mean how would you explain your sell out to the banking industry to the thousands of out of work mothers in your state?
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beingthebest
try as I might, I'm only human
04:29 PM on 05/09/2010
My mother had 5 children over a 7 year period back in the 50's. After each child she got worse and worse, until the last, when she was barely living in reality. The paranoia was ever present. We all grew up in this scary world where everyone was out to get us. My father abandoned us quickly as he would never be caught dead taking his wife for help, but certainly wasn't going to stick around to put up with it. None of us knew what was wrong, although we all KNEW something was. We just thought she was crazy. Some of my brothers to this day hate her for her "craziness" even though they know better, and she is gone from us now.

When I had my child, it wasn't so bad, but it was bad. I have managed to plow through it and now have a wonderful 25 year old. The years I wasted not being treated.

God bless all of you who shine a light on this subject and help those who CAN NOT help themselves
10:55 PM on 05/08/2010
Thank you Mrs. Shields and Sen. Menendez,


Signed,

Big Pharma


http://www.ssristories.com/index.php
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beingthebest
try as I might, I'm only human
04:33 PM on 05/09/2010
Still not as many as those who these drugs have helped live productive lives. This is an illness. For now, we treat it best we can.
07:40 PM on 05/09/2010
There are better ways to deal with postpartum than being put on powerful and dangerous drugs. Re-read the article. It speaks of this poor woman who was getting plenty of "help" and was seeing the experts on at least 3 seperate occassions. So since we know she was on psychiatric drugs and we know psychiatric drugs increase the likelihood of suicide, ask yourself was it the drugs that pushed her over the edge? From looking at the subject for over 15 years I honestly believe that it was the drugs and not postpartum that caused her to end her life. Look at the site I posted to and you'll read stories of little children who commit suicide on these drugs. This never happened in the past but it does today with Big Pharma behind the wheel.

I am all for people getting help and encourage people to seek it but be weary of who you get help from. My concern is that new mothers end up on dangerous drugs that can harm them or others. We see mothers harming their children all the time and more often than not that mother was on a psychiatric drug that made her psychotic. Also, it's not just women who go through postpartum. Men do too. So do these men also have chemical imbalances that need Big Pharma drugs to get it corrected? Think about this.
07:32 PM on 05/08/2010
No silly, everyone knows a sheep isn't demonic a goat is. Q.E.D. kids. A sense of humor is a must.
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05:53 PM on 05/08/2010
Hey thanks Bob. Now go support the Fed audit and take Frank with you
03:26 PM on 05/08/2010
All PPD advocates and many, many survivors are thrilled about the passage of this legislation that will make a HUGE difference for new moms who will at some point--with an occurrence rate of 1 out of 8 (or 15%) of all new moms--suffer from postpartum depression. This is so long overdue, and it it weren't for Senator Menendez' persistence in supporting this legislation all these years, this wouldn't be possible....at least not for a very, very long time. I wish this had passed before my own scary experience with PPD. Perhaps I wouldn't have suffered the way I did. Only those who have suffered from PPD firsthand and/or those who have seen others they love suffer from PPD can truly appreciate why this is considered such a crucial development on the part of mothers. With a national awareness campaign, hopefully there will be much less suffering, less incorrect diagnoses, less brushing off by doctors (and other well-meaning, but ignorant individuals) that "Oh, this is just the blues...all mothers experience some amount of emotional ups & downs after childbirth, anxiety and sleep deprivation." From the bottom of my heart, thank you, Senator Menendez! This is truly a wonderful Mother's Day gift!
Best,
Ivy Shih Leung
http://ivysppdblog.wordpress.com
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truthglow
03:48 PM on 05/08/2010
Thank Brooke Shields, but Senator Menendez really had nothing to do with this legislation, apart from voting for it. Actually, the idea really stemmed from NJ State Senator Richard Codey, whose wife sufferred from this dreaded affliction. Codey, who served as Acting Governor for a time, was instrumental in many innovations in NJ's mental health laws. Menendez, who is in big trouble in NJ, is merely looking for someting positive to hang his hat on, while continuing to vote with the banks and against the people on issues that really count. Don't be fooled.
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05:54 PM on 05/08/2010
Just for the record, Codey rocked
01:50 PM on 05/09/2010
Senator Menendez didn't just start supporting this recently to "save" himself. He has been championing this for many years, since the first time he and Richard Durbin (D-NJ) announced their support of the Melanie Blocker Stokes MOTHERS Act. If it weren’t for his unwavering commitment (and hard work on the part of many individuals), this legislation would never have come this far.
02:54 PM on 05/08/2010
In support of Mothers everywhere............Sen. Menendez has voted against breaking up the Mega-banks that threw 30 million Americans out of work and destroyed half the mortgages in the country.

I'm sure all the Mom's and Grandmothers living on $700 bucks a month in S.S. benefits...thank you from the bottom of their hearts, for your "support".
ThatsTheTheWayItIs
religion, ideology, partisanship are delusional
11:23 AM on 05/08/2010
I "experienced" postpartum like I did childbirth: vicariously, through my wife, lot safer that way.
That was frightening enough. Damn, mothers are brave.

I can't agree more, postpartum depression is a serious and under-recognized problem.
09:52 AM on 05/08/2010
Good piece and I think it is good legislation. Pay for it with money from a tax on transactions from the "Banksters". I agree with the comments regarding Menendez and banking reform. Dude you are in trouble this coming election.

Screw Tom Cruise and the L Ron Hubbardites.
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truthglow
12:28 PM on 05/08/2010
FANNED!
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Buck Rogers
02:52 AM on 05/08/2010
One Saturday morning, many years ago, I woke up to see my ex-wife on her hands and knees in labor. I called the midwife, who quickly came over and decided that no one was going anywhere that morning. Three hours later, I was holding a 4 lb baby born a month early.

I have said, "Thank you Jesus" at least 150,000 times in my life because I don't have a monthly period, let alone bear children. I, as a man, truly cannot fathom what women go through producing our children. Anything I can do to support, please let me know.

I long for the day in this country when we spend as much on healthcare as we do warfare. If that day comes, we will all live to 100 and look like Brook.
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truthglow
02:25 AM on 05/08/2010
Senator Menendez: Unfortunately, you happen to be my senator, and I know you are running for office next year. You are in some difficulty already, with the NJ Tea Baggers attempting to "Recall" you from office. As a progressive, I am against that, but I am curious why you are showing your face on a subject that is not your forte. Just yesterday, you voted against the "To Big To Fail" bank bill, and Dylan Ratigan called you and your colleague, Senator Lautenberg, "Banksters." I agree. I am furious with you both. You have presided over some of the most corrupt years of our government, both with Bush and now with Obama. How dare you trivialize this space discussing womens' issues that you know or care nothing about? You should be ridding this country of fraud and domestic spying, and the two ungodly wars that are bankrupting this country. I will do everything within my power to replace you with someone who really cares about the State of New Jersey and the people of the USA, just as soon as I can, because you are nothing but an opportunist!!!
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raoulhubris
Subvert the dominant paradigm!
09:31 PM on 05/07/2010
If Sen. Menendez truly cared about mothers, he'd offer them a deal similar to the one he just gave the banking and financial industry.
01:43 AM on 05/08/2010
I second that sentiment.
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truthglow
03:50 PM on 05/08/2010
I couldn't agree more.
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Paros
08:53 PM on 05/07/2010
Thank you both for taking this public stand on an issue that effects the lives of many. I applaud you both.
08:19 PM on 05/07/2010
Dear Sen Menendez, I appreciate your activism on this issue because I know how hard it is to fix something which people cannot see or put a bandaide on. I applaud you and Ms Shields efforts in bringing this problem to the open.

Also, Sen Menendez, if you have time, please explain your vote on the Kaufman-Brown SAFE amendment.