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Atheists Get Into the Holiday Spirit

Posted: 11/23/11 07:35 AM ET

The holidays are a traditional time to spread a message of good cheer by reuniting with family and friends. To many atheist and agnostic humanists, this time of year transcends religion and deities, which is why it is enjoyed not just by the most faithful, but by all who appreciate goodwill and community.

It's in this context of kindness that we endeavor to put aside disagreements we may have had with family and friends in order to celebrate our limited time together. Of course, slights don't go away forever, but at the end of the day our differences are less important than our common human bond. Fortunately most of us do our best during the holidays to emphasize that shared experience.

But unfortunately, these empathetic feelings are not always front and center during the rest of the calendar year. In towns all across America, individuals are called out by their very neighbors for their lack of belief, and are excluded from their community because of their nontheism. Stories of discrimination against atheists are increasingly commonplace in the media, as atheists are frequently and wrongly charged with being amoral troublemakers who seek to destroy the foundations of America.

This type of prejudice runs counter to the generosity that is supposed to be the hallmark of the holidays. That's why the American Humanist Association recently announced the launch of a holiday advertisement campaign aimed to raise awareness of discrimination against nonbelievers in America. The campaign consists of billboards and full-page newspaper ads that contain the message, "Bias Against Atheists is Naughty, Not Nice," and features Santa Claus making up his "naughty" list. The ads are placed in cities across the United States where atheists have experienced discrimination due to their lack of belief in a traditional god.

Some will probably be offended by this ad campaign and misread it as an attack on religion instead of a friendly defense of mutual respect. The point of this campaign isn't to offend, but to remind those guilty of discrimination that hatred and prejudice are never justified, even when someone disagrees with beliefs sincerely held.

Rather than part of a mythical "war on Christmas" annually touted by the conservative Christians, this campaign intends to extend the compassion and unity that characterizes the holiday season to the rest of the year. Imagine if we were all able to treat our neighbors with the same kind of patience and love that we show once a year. It shouldn't matter who you are and what you believe; what is important is that our shared humanity allows for us to relate to each other even if we come from different backgrounds.

When intolerance rules the day we are divided by our differences instead of uniting in the strength of our diversity. Atheists and agnostics, evangelicals and religious progressives should take advantage of this annual opportunity to be welcoming to all, whether or not they agree or disagree with us on every issue. So enjoy this holiday season and be merry. But when the guests leave and we begin the new year, be sure to keep up the holiday spirit by placing humanity over sect or creed. Goodwill is just as important year-round as it is between Thanksgiving and New Year's Day.

 

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Dan Jighter
04:16 PM on 11/26/2011
But I don't want the sort of bland tolerance that commonly comes from liberals where we put up with someone for a mere taboo. I don't want that for atheists, I don't want that for everyone. Look at black people how everyone knows that racism is "naughty" and yet racism is still very real and there are still serious racial disparities. And how because of the taboo against racism we can't even have a mature conversation about the continuing racial problems in the US. Or with gay people how many now understand homophobia to be "naughty" and yet will ban same-sex marriage over "love the sinner, hate the sin". Promotion of tolerance and of bigotry being "naughty" does is get people to still act bigoted but hide their bigotry as something less overtly sinister. I don't want that for anyone, certainly not for atheists. We already have that with some liberal theists (read the HP Rabbis like Rabbi Lurie for instance) who know intolerance of atheism is "naughty" and yet continually hate on atheism and attack the straw men versions of atheism.

We all deserve an honest conversation about what people think about other people. We deserve to try to minimize/end discrimination. We deserve people choose to be truly tolerant rather choose to not appear as naughty.
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Dan Jighter
04:15 PM on 11/26/2011
I read ILoveTheUSofA's comment below and I first I thought "he just doesn't get it". But I have to agree with ILoveTheUSofA. To say it in my own words:

I do NOT want tolerance for atheists.

I simply want to end bigotry, the sort of intolerance based on outright falsehoods, against atheists. Most atheists are good, moral people by most standards: they don't murder or steal, they help old ladies, etc. Atheists don't have tails or eat babies. That sort of intolerance I want gone.

I also want a healthy respect for atheists. An understanding of what our views and arguments actually are, not the straw men versions of how they supposedly are, where people even if they disagree with atheism or find atheism horrible at least understand and respect the intellectual basis for the atheist view and can have an intelligent conversation about atheism. Sadly what many understand of atheism is a straw man version of "atheism". And this sometimes is a form of fanatical dogma or bigotry.
04:21 AM on 11/25/2011
The problem with holidays is not religion for atheists. It is a problem of recognition and a wish to be associated with the goodwill which is apparent to them. Atheists know that they are not devoid of feelings an emotions that they wish to share with others during the holidays.

However, for those, who believe in a religion, to share these emotions with an unbeliever during the holidays places them in a peculiar position mixed with rejection and reluctance. Especially, those who hold the holidays in reverence to its true meanings.

In other words, most believers feel that in essence they are still being mocked, ridiculed, and chastised, by their atheists friends or relatives. It is not an emotion which is readily available to an atheist due to the simple fact that they don't believe in anything.

Although, the atheist may share equal values and morals with their religious friends with the exception of belief...it is that one requirement which is lacking that puts them on unequal grounds.

However, believers should recognize that when an atheist wants to join in their fellowship that it is an opportunity to demonstrate to the atheist that something is lacking in their life without witnessing to him.

I, personally, like atheists because they are a new, empty sheepskin waiting to be filled with new wine. And, the best thing is...they are like people who claim they can't be hypnotized.

The most susceptible atheist will be the one who attacks this post first.
09:08 PM on 11/25/2011
Susceptible to what? Wanting to hang out with your kind on the holidays? I avoid religion like the plague that it is every day of the year (except to bash it). You say we are on unequal ground and you are correct. I am on much higher ground than you and your ilk. I have evolved beyond your need to believe in fairy tales that explain the unexplainable and I will teach my children the truth: nobody knows what happens when you die. The only other thing I can agree with is that I want to be filled with wine. Dionysis sp? turns water to wine and it's myth. Jeebus does it and it's real? Are you kidding me? You might have thought your last sentence was a clever way to shield yourself from response. Here, I'll try it: If you respond to my post in a negative way you are a d00-d00 head. That's mature.
03:26 AM on 11/26/2011
tadpole112202,

You just got hypnotized! Too funny. C'mon, you've got to be smarter than that. My last sentence was to draw you in...not prevent you from responding. All the other atheists who feel secure didn't even want to reply.
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Wittgenstein
Progressive Secular Humanist
06:50 PM on 12/07/2011
Pompous and patronizing, a typical, if insincere response. There is nothing lacking in the atheist, and no demonstration or witnessing is necessary, such behavior is almost always meant to influence not the unbeliever, but those believers showing signs of escaping the intellectual chains and bondage required by religious belief..

Besides, most atheists demonstrate a compassionate concern for those suffering the self-deception and delusion religious belief requires.

Happy Holidays!
09:03 AM on 11/24/2011
There is a war, one atheists did not start. But one atheists should not shy away from. Holidays are not a monopoly. The war started by Christians to monopolize how a holiday should be celebrated, is the war we are fighting. There is more than one holiday this time of year and more than one religion in this country. There is no war on civil rights. There is a war against the idea that Christianity owns this time of year as if it should be the only belief in this country.
08:51 PM on 11/25/2011
Christian stole their holidays from pagans anyways.
01:31 PM on 11/23/2011
There should be no war against any religious or non-religious belief in this country. People forget freedom of religion also includes not believing in any religion.
09:16 AM on 11/24/2011
No? So a religion that teaches women they are mere baby factories and should submit to men, is ok? Many in LDS teaches this, many in the Amish teach this, and many Muslims teach this. Now, while there should be no law stopping these practices, there also should be no law preventing others from criticising such backwards thinking. I'm glad women have rights, and I do not value any Christian, Muslim or Jew that treats women as property.

Freedom of religion is a given, but no one has the right to be free from criticism. I can think of nothing more deserving of condemnation than a belief that subjects women to second class status.
01:14 PM on 11/25/2011
I never said you could not criticize the religion. I was saying that attacking religions is wrong or anyone who does not believe in religion. Being atheist now, I am attacked pretty consistently and put down a lot because of my non-belief. I was raised LD$ and left the faith a few years back. The two major factors that pushed me was the sexism and racism within the church. I don't think it is right, but it is their beliefs. I belief that most, if not all, religions are harmful, but they have their rights to practice as they see fit as long as they are not doing things that break the law.
10:34 AM on 11/23/2011
Limited time together is right. In the end, there will be a time of seperation. Sad. http://atheistlegitimacy.blogspot.com/
03:02 PM on 11/23/2011
it's sad that you're completely off topic and that you still use the same old thoroughly debunked arguments to support your position.
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ILoveTheUSofA
BREAKING NEWS: There is no God.
09:35 AM on 11/23/2011
"Bias Against Atheists is Naughty, Not Nice"

- I might agree with the sentiment, but this message is just so foolish, it leaves me speechless.

A proper message should have focused on the fact that atheism results from Reason - not on the idea that opponents of atheism are merely "naughty."

To use the word "naughty" to describe the treatment of atheists by True Believers of various religions, past and present, trivializes and misrepresents what has actually occurred - and still occurs. If the group wants to confront this issue, great - but then don't try to make a Santa Claus joke and use the word "naughty."

We atheists are supposed to be the ones who "tell it like it is" - not ones who pretend that the only problem with religion is a bit of "naughty bias."

Judaism, Christianity, Islam, and Hinduism are all based on "holy" scriptures which are false, unreasonable, and inhumane in many ways. These scriptures do not merely encourage and condone "naughtiness." They encourage and cause great cruelty. The more closely a True Believer adheres to his "holy scripture," the more cruel he must be. We who oppose these ancient systems should expect something more and better than a Santa Claus joke.
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Katherine Schock
Over the hill,liberal,organic gardener
04:55 PM on 11/23/2011
Fanned for expressing my views better than I could have myself! As Thanksgiving rolls around yet again, I often wonder why we only set aside one day a year for being thankful! I'm thankful every day to have another day to spread kindness and understanding to the whole planet full of wonderment! I always look forward to New Year's Day, because it gives us all a brand new expanse of time to try to make our world a better place for all! Peace!
09:29 AM on 11/24/2011
That is the same attitude. Holidays, at least in the west are excuses for businesses to get you to consume stuff, most of the time you don't need. Pluss it causes needless angst when parents or family members expect perfection or feel like they let others down

What matters is not the day, or the holiday. What matters is that you spend time with family and friends, no matter what day it is. You don't need a specific day to spend time with family or a specific day to do nice things for others.
09:13 PM on 11/23/2011
F & F---well said, sir or madam!