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Why Young People Are Becoming Secular

Posted: 06/19/2012 3:26 pm

Christianity is not going anywhere in the near future. It is intimately tied to the history and government of America. Even today, a prayer opens every congressional session. Messages invoking God still grace almost every single legal tender in the United States. "In God We Trust" remains the official U.S. national motto.

As far as I am aware, there is no leftist agenda that plans to kill Christianity. Even if there were, there is no way that they could possibly succeed.

However that doesn't mean there isn't a threat to Christianity. Newspapers and op-ed writers have noted that more and more members of the younger generations are turning away from Christianity. As a college student, I can tell you that from personal experience, this is true. The statistics are correct. Fewer college students are going to church, and more are moving towards secularization.

This trend, however, is not the result of leftist agenda. It's the result of the conservative agenda.

I go to church whenever I can. I believe that Christian institutions have the ability to do great good in the world. However, it's becoming harder and harder to watch the news and stand behind what I believe in at the same time.

I don't ascribe to many of mainstream Christianity's doctrines and beliefs, such as taking the Bible at its word or believing that Christianity is the only true religion. But even without imposing my own beliefs on the argument, Christianity is not going to disappear just because of modernization or science. Scientists who defend evolution do not invalidate the religion. Christianity is much more than the three passages that start Genesis. Just as Christianity didn't disappear when the world abandoned the idea that the sun revolved around the earth, neither is it in crisis just because evolution is real.

Similarly, homosexuality is not hedonism. It never was and it never will be. It is a biological characteristic, just like having black hair, and we need to accept it. Historical evidence suggests that homosexuality existed and was even quite prominent at the time when Jesus of Nazareth was alive. Plato and Socrates both debated and wrote treatise concerning the virtues of homosexuality openly in the 4th century Before Christ.

I don't like to use the Bible to argue my points, because I think the Bible is flawed. But even in the Bible, Jesus of Nazareth never fully addressed homosexuality. People were homosexual and it didn't make them any less human in the eyes of Jesus of Nazareth. Just as marriage between two people with black hair is legal, so should that between two people who love each other, regardless of their respective genders.

Yet what should have been common sense, and a natural transition towards modernization, has become a farce played out on national television. Sometimes I wonder if some of the things I read or see are actually true or just one big joke.

The Church of England earlier last week denounced gay marriage. North Carolina in May passed its first state constitutional amendment, just to ban civil unions, and other states have or are doing the same. South Korea just passed a bill to pull material about evolution out of high school textbooks, just as Tennessee passed a law to allow teachers to teach alternative and often nonscientific theories. People still believe that the theory of evolution is not real (it's as real as the theory of gravity).

And then there are the "Stand Up For Religious Freedom Rallies" emerging all over the country. Religious freedom is not being attacked. If anyone's freedom is being oppressed, it's that of anyone who is not Christian.

If Christianity is a victim, it's a victim from its supposed savior, conservatism. Not everyone who is Christian denounces evolution and equal rights, but to the world, it certainly looks that way.

Young people are turning away from Christianity not because the left is out to get the right, but because of the right's lack of willingness to compromise and listen to the other side.

I make it a rule to try to see both sides of the story before forming my judgment, and I keep on trying to make excuses for the religious right. But my excuses are running out. And soon, so will people who believe in Christianity.

 
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Christianity is not going anywhere in the near future. It is intimately tied to the history and government of America. Even today, a prayer opens every congressional session. Messages invoking God sti...
Christianity is not going anywhere in the near future. It is intimately tied to the history and government of America. Even today, a prayer opens every congressional session. Messages invoking God sti...
 
 
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Marc1940
02:54 AM on 06/26/2012
Christian religion will simply fade away as the younger see it for what it is, a fairy tale concept that defies all logic.
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Razpooten
Nil homini certum est
08:56 PM on 06/21/2012
I have always believed that the educated cannot believe in superstitions.
07:43 PM on 06/21/2012
People believe in all types of things that cannot be proved. Many things can be observed, but it doesn't mean that the underlying belief in what caused what is being observed is correct. People of faith can be of faith if they choose to do so. You can choose not to believe. You stay in your lane and I'll stay in mine. You don't ridicule for someone's belief in the Big Bang and they won't ridicule for believing in Christ. Live and let live, sheesh.
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Razpooten
Nil homini certum est
08:57 PM on 06/21/2012
That is essentially the golden rule. Confucious postulated it about 500 years before Christ; the christians still can't quite get it right.
secondsoprano
It'll be alright in the end.
12:19 AM on 06/22/2012
Why should faith get a free pass? If people choose to believe something ridiculous, why can't they be ridiculed? If I said "I believe there are fairies at the bottom of the garden", would you have to respect that? It's not as if you can prove there aren't.

And what if I believe something which is harmful to others, such as "I believe black people are mentally inferior". Surely you wouldn't respect that, just because I "believe" it?

The "belief" of some christians that my life is sinful, perverted and evil causes direct harm to me and my children. Why should I be silent?
10:18 AM on 06/24/2012
I understand what you mean. I can respect that fact that you believe in garden fairies if it's not a threat to me or mine. However, I can't respect any idea or belief structure that will cause harm to me, or others. For this, there should be no silence.
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rolandch
Think before you do.
03:44 PM on 06/21/2012
Well considering all the hate that comes from the right wing, I am not surprised that young people are turned off by it, including myself. Young people are more open-minded because of the internet and being around more people of color and gay people. We find out that gay people are just normal people who just wants to live their lives in peace, and when the right wing attacks them for who they are, it brings me further and further to the left. Quite frankly, I hope the right wing continues to secure their demise in the future by losing the young people vote as we get older.
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03:23 PM on 06/21/2012
Hard to be "righteous" while supposed leaders are touching on little boys and showing up to church in alligator loafers and rolling up in a 60k+ Lexus. I can go on and on..

What's the point of school if they are just going to remove the facts and replace them with crap? Denial of evolution? Is there not enough bones, fossils, etc. to support that theory? Also, shouldn't we all have access to the "best" schools then. Santa Fe Christian: Kindergarten $11.976; HS $16,176; $1000's in additional mandatory fees. And no they're not kidding at all. I guess you have to be wealthy to enjoy the full benefits of being a Christian. You must donate a smidgen more if you want full membership in that Country club, I mean Christian club, I mean Christian school. http://www.sfcs.net/admissions/Pages/tuition_and_fees.aspx.

Christianity is just not in touch with ordinary sensible people (Neither is Mitt Romney, since we're on the topic). I don't believe that it has Ever has been in touch considering the fact that it was used to oppress women and blacks for 100's years, as still is to this day. (Recent article/church website below)

Donate at your own risk. One can only blame themselves when they're broke, hungry, and sick while the privileged are eating bread and drinking wine on your dime.

Apparently women dont have souls to these folks: (http://www.landoverbaptist.org/news0500/femsoul.html)
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nilsjames
Abide
02:56 PM on 06/21/2012
It's simple, young people are better at recognizing and avoiding hypocrisy.
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nilsjames
Abide
02:55 PM on 06/21/2012
She makes a good point and I wish those who share her perspective were able to overcome the shouting and screaming by the conservative extremists but that seems unlikely at best. For me it just reinforces the idea that religion is a waste of time. It would nice to be able to see the religious and the secular have mutual respect for each other but to do that, the religious need to reign in their crazy fringe.
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godlessliberal0
blasphemy is a victimless crime...
02:18 PM on 06/21/2012
While I agree with the sentiment Ms. Dai expresses, I see in her piece the same argument I hear from all too many Christians. If she wants to assert that fundamentalists are practicing a form of Christianity that is somehow "wrong," she has to explain by what authority she does so. This country is full of all kinds of Christians who love to point at others and say "well, they're not TRUE Christians." The Bible is so littered with contradicting statements and laws that it can be used to justify anything from slavery to altruism, genocide to charity. This is why us nonbelievers always accuse Christians of "cherry-picking." You literally have to cherry-pick to be a Christian because it is absolutely impossible to follow ALL of the Bible.
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juicybrisket
true emancipation is a fantasy...
02:05 PM on 06/21/2012
because religion is ridiculous.

tax the churches!
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ga4ry
Born atheist
01:46 PM on 06/21/2012
Account for every dollar, shilling, euro and drachma collected by churches
Then account for every dollar, shilling, euro and drachma expended in the name of charity by those same noble institutions and I will bet you that the collected amount towers above the charity.
Young people see this and add it to the superstition, ignorance, mythology and fear mongering that is religion and from this they turn
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godlessliberal0
blasphemy is a victimless crime...
02:04 PM on 06/21/2012
If only we could take such an account. I have tried to look into that very fact but there is a massive lack of information. I'd be willing to make the same bet though. F&F
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03:33 PM on 06/21/2012
Do they even get taxed? As shady as they are, I wouldn't be surprised if some money laundering, Embezzlement, and who knows what else is going on behind closed doors. Emphasis on Embezzlement.
12:52 PM on 06/21/2012
Excellent blog - I have to expand with a little of my own observation:

When faced with irrationality, the rational mind wants to understand it - so the supposed source of the behavior is re-examined. With religion, texts (Bible, Q'uran, etc) are reviewed with Reason allowed to take a seat next to Faith in healthy internal debate.

For many, a reasoned examination of religious texts must include the history of "how" the books were created, and the sociology of the times when the books were created or changed. The conclusion is not automatically atheism, but the only reasonable conclusion is this: If there is a God, or some inclusive intelligence that embodies All, then it would operate consistently with respect for all Life, and not by the determination of rules of any tribe of Man.

Once you get to that point, religious texts become books of philosophy and mythology that are as relevant or irrelevant as the reader wishes to take them, and spiritual focus is properly restored to Intent - the only energy we can rely upon to measure the direction of Choice. For the truly inquisitive soul who appreciates the grandness of life, participation in a faith community is better likely to continue when the focus is on Intent, not opinion or doctrine.

Religion will ultimately open itself up as it is reduced to its proper role. Wealthy religious institutions should be taxed like a business on everything except their charity work, but that's another story!
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El Magnifico
12:49 PM on 06/21/2012
"I believe that Christian institutions have the ability to do great good in the world."

Tell you what, I'll be thrilled if you guys simply start paying taxes, stop molesting children, and get your noses out of the bedrooms of complete strangers. Ok?
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TheEvilAtheist
I love satan, drugs, and homosexuals
02:25 PM on 06/21/2012
Ha! Fantastic.
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helenwheels74
check your sugar-coat at the door
03:59 PM on 06/21/2012
oh, they 'have the ability' alright, they just choose not to exercise it.
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Alex Goncharenko
Insert a witty quote...
12:45 PM on 06/21/2012
"Moreover when ye fast, be not, as the hypocrites, of a sad countenance: for they disfigure their faces, that they may appear unto men to fast. Verily I say unto you, They have their reward.
But thou, when thou fastest, anoint thine head, and wash thy face; that thou appear not unto men to fast, but unto thy Father which is in secret: and thy Father, which seeth in secret, shall reward thee openly."

Matthew 6:16-18

Man, do I ever wish that at least HALF of those preachy "christians" actually READ the book that they so violently thump around.
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umbriago
The Tooth Shall Set My Fee
11:43 AM on 06/21/2012
Isn't it possible that young people simply have better things to do? (I include being glued to their earbuds, or planted in front of a computer all day long, or sleeping late as "better things to do.")
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Blaze Burton
Who are you to judge the way i live? I know im not
12:00 PM on 06/21/2012
yes, all the things you mentioned are prefferable and as productive as going to church and pretending you care what the guy in the black shirt says sbout 2000 year old mythology
10:49 AM on 06/21/2012
Good article, you are absolutely correct. It isn't the left attacking christians religious freedoms, they on the conservative right are sabotaging it all on their own.