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Ryan J. Bell

Ryan J. Bell

Posted: January 17, 2011 03:32 PM

2011-01-17-Abuelaish.jpgI was almost knee-to-knee with Dr. Izzeldin Abuelaish as we sat in the lobby of his hotel in downtown Los Angeles, talking about his new book, I Shall Not Hate, and the work he is doing to create a lasting peace between Palestinians and Israelis. His energy was irrepressible and contagious and the smile that permanently graces his face as he talks belies a life of suffering and heartache. In January 2009, during the three-week long war in the Gaza Strip and a mere four months after losing his wife, Nadia, to cancer, an Israeli tank fired two shells into Dr. Abuelaish's home, killing three of his daughters, Bessan, Aya and Mayar, and his niece, Noor.

His story is also one of tremendous opportunity. Born in the Jabalia refugee camp, he experienced deprivation. Yet, through sheer determination and hard work, the young Izzeldin studied medicine in Cairo and pursued further specialization in Saudi Arabia, becoming the first Palestinian doctor to receive a staff position at an Israeli hospital.

On the night I spoke to Dr. Abuelaish, we had just come from the downtown branch of the Los Angeles Public Library where Washington Post reporter, Laura Blumenfeld facilitated a discussion about his book in front of a packed auditorium, part of the ALOUD series put together by the Library Foundation of Los Angeles.

You only have to listen to him for a few minutes to understand his single-minded focus on saving lives and to see the way that the practice of medicine is a metaphor for everything he does. He remarks, with a smirk, that an Israeli and a Palestinian will share a room in the hospital when that arrangement would never have happened outside the hospital.

But perhaps what stands out most about Abuelaish is his belief in humanity's inherent goodness. He appears to have no doubts that peace will be achieved between Israelis and Palestinians. When I asked him if he ever lays down in bed at night and thinks to himself, "People will never change!" he replied without hesitation, "Ayyy, no! Never! If I believe in that -- that this patient will never be cured..." His voice trailed off. "I don't believe in that because today he is not going to be cured, but God knows what will happen tomorrow."

God is a decisive factor for Abuelaish. His Muslim faith is the source of his passion for saving lives, but his appreciation and respect for Judaism and Christianity is also remarkable. While discussing the role faith plays in his work he remarked, "Saving one life, you save the world. Killing one, you kill the world." This is a paraphrase of a statement, not from the Quran as you might expect, but from the Talmud!

"Like Martin Luther King Jr., I too have a dream," he writes. "My dream is that my children - all Palestinians and their children and our cousins, the Israelis and their children - will be safe, secure, and well fed; they will have their own citizenship and identity." This doctor wants to cure more than individual patients. He wants to cure the hatred between Palestinians and Israelis. More than this, he wants to cure poverty and injustice that is the source of that hatred.

In his book, Abuelaish fingers the real culprit.

Hate is a chronic disease, and we need to heal of ourselves of it and work toward a world in which we eradicate poverty and suffering. If a free society cannot help the many who are poor, it cannot save the few who are rich from hating one another (230).

This statement reminds me of Dr. King's famous statement:

Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. Hate multiplies hate, violence multiplies violence, and toughness multiplies toughness in a descending spiral of destruction. ... The chain reaction of evil -- hate begetting hate, wars producing more wars -- must be broken, or we shall be plunged into the dark abyss of annihilation.

In spite of the incredible pain and injustice that has been his experience for more than 50 years, he refused to give in to hate. He says, "Our enemy is our ignorance." Education is his solution. In the end, he says, we will be judged by three things:

Your money: from where did you get it and what did you do with it? Your education: what did you do with it? Did you keep it in your heart and mind or did you spread it to others? And your time: did you help others with it? Did you invest time or spend it in fun here and there? That is religion.

Many have commented that the Palestinians and Israelis need a Gandhi -- a Martin Luther King, Jr. It appears that this time has come.

For the complete interview with Dr. Abuelaish, please visit The Hillhurst Review.

 

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I was almost knee-to-knee with Dr. Izzeldin Abuelaish as we sat in the lobby of his hotel in downtown Los Angeles, talking about his new book, I Shall Not Hate, and the work he is doing t...
I was almost knee-to-knee with Dr. Izzeldin Abuelaish as we sat in the lobby of his hotel in downtown Los Angeles, talking about his new book, I Shall Not Hate, and the work he is doing t...
 
 
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MrBadger
07:34 PM on 01/21/2011
Thank you for that excellent article. We can only sustain hate for those we dehumanize. This puts a human face on the Palestinian side of the issue. Of course, there are some who much prefer that the Palestinians remain "monsters" in our thinking, not the father of 3 daughters killed by tank fire.
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Cindbird
Using my head for something other than a hat rack.
01:50 AM on 01/20/2011
This man is the voice crying out that many people have longed for. I had not heard of him before this article. I am grateful to Mr. Bell for bringing this wonderful man to us. To be the voice of love amongst hate is a calling few of us could answer. Especially for one who has lost so much. Dr. Abuelaish's words give me a glimmer of hope that my brothers and sisters in the Middle East may one day realize they ARE brothers and sisters.
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02:39 PM on 01/19/2011
peace is possible.
08:04 PM on 01/18/2011
If only there were more people in the world like this.
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MohammedAbbasi
Co-Director, Association of British Muslims
05:40 PM on 01/18/2011
Peaceful resistance is nearly always better than violent resistance - Both Palestinians and Israelis need to look beyond into the future to see how they can help their children and childrens children be at peace and live as brothers/sisters.

One of the things that is effecting peace in Israel/Palestine is the Increased Southern Baptist /Rapturist movement trying to bring about violence and the rapture and we need to deal with those kind of fanatics collectively as Christians /Muslims/Jews
08:06 PM on 01/18/2011
I think after all these decades it's reasonable for Palestinians to lose faith in peaceful resistance. This man can meet the mark but most can't. The Israelis equate peaceful resistance with meekness and take advantage of it.
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AxisV
How do we sleep while our beds are burning?
04:50 PM on 01/18/2011
This man has every reason in the world to hate, and yet he doesn't. Amazing.
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MilesToGo
01:56 PM on 01/18/2011
Dr. Izzeldin Abuelaish possesses great virtue, wisdom & talent. There actually are many Israelis and Palestinians like him who have lost loved ones to the conflict yet who work for peace and reconciliation. Specifically, for anyone interested, check out The Parents Circle--Families Forum for some further inspiring stories: www.theparentscircle.org
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Ryan J. Bell
02:25 PM on 01/18/2011
I am familiar with The Parents Circle--Families Forum and had the honor to meet Robi Damelin and Ali Abu Awwad when they were in Los Angeles a couple of years ago. Their story of what these bereaved parents are doing, both Israeli and Palestinian, is so inspiring. I believe this is where the future lies.
12:55 PM on 01/18/2011
Please see (and distribute) these videos, recorded January 14th, 2011 in Mountain View, CA. Izzeldin Abuelaish has given me permission to make this public. Thank you for your excellent article.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EH4GtQacaKs

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eg-JFU8DIZY

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5dSqKTfgzAc
11:35 AM on 01/18/2011
Israeli tanks killed three of his daughters, and he is able to preach love and tolerance. I'm speechless.
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Weirdwriter
02:27 PM on 01/18/2011
But your voice is still heard. ;>)

Fanned 'n' fav'd.
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eileenflemingWAWA
http://www.wearewideawake.org/
09:58 AM on 01/18/2011
There are currently over 7,383 Palestinian MLK's and Gandhi's in Israeli prisons
http://ifamericansknew.org/

Most all are behind bars because they resisted the Military Occupation and ROUTE of The Wall, which is "Financed with U.S. aid at a cost of $1.5 million per mile, the Israeli wall prevents residents from receiving health care and emergency medical services. In other areas, the barrier separates farmers from their olive groves which have been their families' sole livelihood for generations." [Washington Report on Middle East Affairs, Page 43, Jan/Feb. 2007]

Eileen Fleming, A Citizen of Conscience for House of Representatives who has been to Palestine 7 times since 2005.
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FearlessLeader
I never lie. And I'm always right.
11:40 AM on 01/18/2011
"There are currently over 7,383 Palestinia­n MLK's and Gandhi's in Israeli prisons"

You suggest that these people are pacifists? If they are, the Israeli army must have gone out of its way to arrest only the very most non-violent people in Palestinian society.

Note this link: http://pewglobal.org/2010/12/02/muslims-around-the-world-divided-on-hamas-and-hezbollah/#prc-jump


The pew poll says that 84% of people in Eqypt and 86% of people in Jordan, support the death penalty for people who leave Islam. I think you would be hard pressed to find much support for pacifism in Palestine at all. I would find it much easier to believe that there is not a single Palestinian who supports pacifism in all of Israeli prisons.
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MilesToGo
09:13 PM on 01/18/2011
While there is an element of truth to your remarks here, very many Palestinians are being unjustly imprisoned in Israeli jails. A genuin e proclivity towards pacifism has little to do with Arab street opinion for any Muslims who would convert from Islam. While there is a connection of sorts, the two subjects have little relationship.
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Sam Bark
It's a MAD world after all...
02:51 AM on 01/18/2011
We need more people like him on all sides. great article
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gibranII
seeking peace through equality
04:46 PM on 01/21/2011
Sam there are many like him..and God Bless him and his Israeli counterparts..
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afrodesia
10:59 PM on 01/17/2011
That was an inspiring article. Thank you for my introduction to this faith filled and insightful man. G-d bless and keep him in his endeavors to bring about peace and understanding between 'cousins'.
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Trollstein
Once you go Schwartz, you never go back baby
06:57 PM on 01/17/2011
Same dream I have . . . .
Then again, I also dream about Angelina Jolie and Brooke Shields.
hfpf
Wake up World.
03:05 AM on 01/18/2011
Seriously immature!
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Trollstein
Once you go Schwartz, you never go back baby
12:34 PM on 01/18/2011
The illustration may be unrefined. But my point was cogent. Dreaming is not the same as doing.
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nkurland
I'm going to leave this planet alive
04:38 PM on 01/17/2011
This guy is amazing. Check out his interviews on therealnewsnetwork: http://therealnews.com/t2/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=317&Itemid=317&jumival=izzeldin+abuelaish&search=search
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afrodesia
11:01 PM on 01/17/2011
F & F for offering more insights to this truly remarkable man. It's HP members like you that help keep the information wheel going and growing. Thanks!