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How to Be the Woman EVERY Man Is Attracted to

02/18/2015 04:02 pm ET | Updated Apr 19, 2015

Men are picky when it comes to dating. If you are single and out there dating, I am sure you are very aware of just how choosy men are. Women are particular too, but somehow the men seem to be worse. Usually, men have an idea in their head of a type of gal to whom they are attracted, and either you fit the mold or you don't. However, occasionally a man will fall for a girl who is outside of his wheelhouse. Wouldn't it be great if you could be that woman who could attract ANY GUY (within reason of course)?

Here are 10 tips to get you on your way:

Be a flirtatious woman. Men love when a woman is a good flirt -- not cheesy, not sleazy, just fun. Learn how to "smeyes" -- smile with your eyes. The guys love that and will love you.

Be sexy. Men love women who are sexy and who KNOW they are sexy. The word sexy has no real definition these days -- the key ingredient is that you FEEL sexy and then he senses it and thinks you are H-O-T, hot.

Be feminine. Keep in mind that if a man wanted to be with a man, he would be. So be girly, be feminine, be a woman. What does that mean? Smell good, cook him a meal once in a while, mother him when he needs it -- find the cavewoman in you.

Be the woman all his friends are lusting after and who lights up the room with your smile. It's a fact; if all of his friends are "ooohing and ahhing" over you, he will be attracted to you all the more.

Be confident. Men love ladies who have that "je ne sais quoi," that little intangible confidence that make them untouchable, yet so desirable all at once.

Be adaptable in any situation. Men want you to fit in at a fancy party, with beer and pizza on sports night and at a boring work function. And, he wants you to do it with ease and with no complaining. If you think that men fall in love with the "hard to get" women, think again. Not in today's world. Today men really fall for easy-going gals who can go with the flow.

Be a woman who makes him feel great about himself and makes him feel needed. Men love the girls who play to their ego and make them feel like Superman. If a guy doesn't understand how he is needed in your life, he won't fall in love with you.

Be the woman who encourages a guy's night out. A woman who, not only allow a guy's night out, but also insists on it is a rockstar to any guy. The catch is that you have to really mean it. And if you do, he will be thinking about you the whole time he is out and won't even notice the other girls around him.

Be a woman with interesting things going on. Men love a woman who has her own life with fun and different things happening. No man wants a girl who is always sitting at home waiting for him or a woman who needs him to provide 100 percent of the fun.

Be intelligent, but not a know-it-all. Men like women who have it together and who won't embarrass them in a conversation; they like women who know something about a lot of different things. It doesn't have to be politics and sports, it just has to be something you are passionate about and truly understand. And they hate know-it-alls; drop that quality immediately.

Samantha Daniels is a well-known professional matchmaker and dating expert. You can follow her on Twitter @Matchmakersd. For more information, go to www.SamanthaDaniels.info.