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We're Not 'The Entitlement Generation'

Posted: 09/12/2012 8:37 am

Last weekend, Representative Walsh said he was "offended" by me, a "life-time student," and that he wanted me to stop acting "entitled" and "get a job." He explained that it wasn't my fault because my generation has been raised this way and doesn't know how to take care of ourselves.

Over the last seven months, I hope I've made it clear that I won't let personal attacks (or lies about my professional history) stop me from fighting for the policies I believe in. But I also won't stand by when a U.S. Representative blatantly misrepresents a policy that benefits struggling women in this country, or when he disparages my generation.

I testified before members of Congress not because "I wanted the American people to pay for my contraception," but because I wanted the private insurance that women pay for themselves to cover the contraception they need. I was there to tell, not my own, but the story of a close friend who, despite paying her deductible, lost an ovary when she was unable to afford the contraception her insurance failed to cover, but that she needed to treat her polycystic ovarian syndrome.

My friend was not alone. Hart Research Associates found that 55% of young women ages 18-34 report having had difficulty affording the contraception they need to treat medical conditions or to prevent unintended pregnancies. That's no surprise when you realize that for some women contraception can cost as much as $960 per year ($1,210 with the doctor's appointment), according to the Center for American Progress.

But what if I had been there to ask that the government help fund contraception? Federal programs like Title X exist to guarantee the poorest women in our communities affordable access to birth control. Those programs are under attack in Congress and by Gov. Romney, but they're good public policy. They ensure that all American women can control the timing of when they start a family, not just more privileged women. That allows women to set the course of their lives, pursuing their educational dreams and career goals, and allowing the rest of us to benefit from all that they accomplish. Not only do those policies help us create a more equitable society, they prevent unintended pregnancies that can add to the strain on our society's safety nets.

Rep. Walsh and many conservative voices would reduce that sound public policy to evidence of my generation's "entitlement," our reliance on "government [to] take care of [us]."

But my generation doesn't deserve to be labeled 'The Entitlement Generation.' We've supported Title X and fought for the Affordable Care Act's contraception policy, not necessarily because we believe we are automatically entitled to them, but because our vision for the future doesn't leave our fellow citizens behind. We've stood against Representative Ryan's budget attacks on Pell Grants, food stamps, housing assistance and Medicaid because we believe in a future in which we come together as a society to help those who are struggling financially, not one in which we tell them that they're on their own. This isn't about not knowing how to take care of ourselves -- it's about knowing we should take care of each other.

Yet, we're not entirely altruistic either. By fighting to protect our nation's social safety net, we ensure that all members of society have a chance to contribute, producing a diversity of ideas that benefits society as a whole. We've seen that affordable access to contraception allows women to contribute their talents to our companies, and the same is true of the host of economic supports under attack. Without President Obama's investment in Pell Grants, over three million additional students (nearly ten million total) might not have been able to afford to attend college last year. The majority of Pell Grant recipients are students of color from economically depressed backgrounds, so we know exactly which perspectives and voices the rest of us would be deprived of.

So we agree that "we've got Americans who are struggling." Our question is why so many elected officials have only one answer for them: cutting their safety net while telling them to "go get a job." My generation is looking for better answers than that.

Sandra Fluke is an activist for women and women's health and a recent graduate of the Georgetown Law Center.

 

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Last weekend, Representative Walsh said he was "offended" by me, a "life-time student," and that he wanted me to stop acting "entitled" and "get a job." He explained that it wasn't my fault because my...
Last weekend, Representative Walsh said he was "offended" by me, a "life-time student," and that he wanted me to stop acting "entitled" and "get a job." He explained that it wasn't my fault because my...
 
 
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02:51 PM on 10/24/2012
I'm a man (sorry) and if I want to go to grad school I'm going to have to find a way to pay for it myself. That means budgeting not only for tuition but a host of other things. Why Sandra Fluke and many others can't budget for birth control is beyond me. Does she have a part-time job? Would it be the end of the world if she had to take a year off from school to catch up financially?
12:23 PM on 10/11/2012
Calls herself a scholar. She's a career student that never held a job in her life.
05:25 PM on 09/19/2012
She would sell her soul for a nickel of welfare. Go and earn some money as a loyer, before you advise the rest of us on how our stolen taxes should be given an 'equitable' distribution. Keep your delusional visions to yourself - until you can put your money where your mouth is!!
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Lady1genius
No se puede tapar el sol con un dedo
04:46 PM on 09/20/2012
Loyer. ROFL.
06:19 PM on 10/09/2012
Excellent!!
10:37 AM on 09/17/2012
"We don't feel entitled to contraceptives, we just feel like all women should have them, even if that means someone else has to pay for it."

Entitlement Generation, meet Ironic Generation.
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Lady1genius
No se puede tapar el sol con un dedo
04:48 PM on 09/20/2012
Women who purchase insurance are paying for their own. You aren't paying for them. As for your "stolen tax money" or little thereof, paying for contraceptives for women on welfare is cheaper than paying for unwanted children.
03:17 AM on 09/22/2012
abstinence is free for everyone.
03:26 AM on 09/22/2012
we all ARE entitled to contraceptives. it's called not having sex with every person you meet in a bar. totally safe. totally free. totally non-negotiable. i'm a conservative and i don't have sex because i'm not married. why can't liberals shut their legs?
04:26 AM on 10/09/2012
Replace the word "contraception" with "life saving medicine" and then you may be able to gain some level of understanding about what Ms. Fluke is actually talking about.

Although, I seriously have my doubts...
06:32 AM on 10/29/2012
Yes, that's what this is all about - liberals who simply 'can't shut their legs'. Urgh.
A lot of women actually use contraceptives for reasons OTHER than avoiding pregnancy, e.g. - to control certain hormonal disorders and so on.
A lot of women using the pill ARE actually in committed relationships. Just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you want a kid then and there. If someone uses contraceptives and isn't in a committed relationship, why is that your business anyway? Isn't that better than unwanted pregnancies, stds, etc.
BTW, read some statistics on teen pregnancy and STDs in places where there is abstinence only education and get back to me, lol. People (yes, even conservatives!) will never stop having sex just because people like you want to get on your high horse.
11:56 PM on 09/16/2012
Call it whatever you want or try anyway to justify it in your mind but this so called "national safety net" is financially impossible to sustain and thinking that taxing so called "rich" more and more is going to keep it solvent is naive. No plan from either party can keep this "safety net" from collapsing. Its like the old saying, "The road to hell is always paved with good intentions".
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martingibsonusa
Tax cuts for the rich is a Welfare handout.
07:48 PM on 09/17/2012
flat tax.
01:53 AM on 09/18/2012
A flat tax could work but you would have to repeal the 16th amendment first or you would have the federal government collecting both the flat tax from everyone while still hitting roughly half the income earners with the federal income tax. Then there is political problem with trying to implement a flat tax. The 50 percent of the people in this country who support taxing the so called "rich" more will not go along with the idea that everybody rich, poor, or middle class paying the same exact federal income tax rate. They will stand by there ideology that those who make more should pay more, never mind the fact that roughly 50 percent of income earners don't even pay an federal income tax.
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AnalyzeThisToo
At the fork in the road...veer left!
11:53 PM on 09/16/2012
Thank you Ms. Fluke for your courage to stand against forces that want to tear apart everything we have all worked so hard to establish. This is supposed to be a Democracy yet the Republican Congress members are set on destroying America, manipulating people to turn against each other as the Republicans in the House and Senate hold all of us hostage.

There is a reason our Founding Fathers chose to keep our government out of the hands of the church. They knew that the church always becomes a dictatorship in any country it has been able to control.

The Republican politicians have chosen to follow the dictates of their churches rather than the dictates of America's citizens. The Republicans and their church alliances are day by day taking away our freedom and our rights while subjecting us to their basest moral values.

Republicans are so full of hatred; they show themselves to be no different than the rapacious religions of Europe's past. Republicans want to force 2000 years of Christian cruelty on us and take away our freedom and equality.

In all if my years I have never witnessed a more hateful group of people, saying they are working for the good of the people while doing everything in their power to hurt everyone.

Every Republican politician should be brought up on charges of sedition, sabotage and treason.
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mangoaddict
11:22 PM on 09/16/2012
Let's hope that Joe Walsh and people like him in office get voted out.
10:59 PM on 09/16/2012
Perhaps we should focus on tax supported birth control for boys and men
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Lady1genius
No se puede tapar el sol con un dedo
04:54 PM on 09/20/2012
Actually we should, and any man can go to Planned Parenthood or his local health department and walk out with a handfull of condoms. They're working on a revolutionary breakthrough in India that I hope comes to the USA very quickly, and it's for men. It's 100% effective, 100% reversable, and effective for up to ten years. After all, a woman can only carry one pregnancy at a time. Men can impregnate thousands of women in the same time period.
06:35 PM on 10/09/2012
There were trials on men for this, and it was found extremely harmful. But many women were killed in trials, and they just keep on experimenting selling this line of crap and dangerous medicine to "forward thinking women"> If you ask me, it's freaking genocide to women everywhere and you need to stop listening to this utter garbage you're being fed by liberals!
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Hazegrae
My isms: optim, femin, athe, altru.
10:22 PM on 09/16/2012
Every time I hear something from this young woman, I am even more impressed by her courage and ability to articulate clear common sense.
06:35 PM on 10/09/2012
Oh God
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Hazegrae
My isms: optim, femin, athe, altru.
08:44 PM on 10/09/2012
Not impressed by the idea of a sky fairy.
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10:11 PM on 09/16/2012
"My friend was not alone. Hart Research Associates found that 55% of young women ages 18-34 report having had difficulty affording the contraception they need to treat medical conditions or to prevent unintended pregnancies. That's no surprise when you realize that for some women contraception can cost as much as $960 per year ($1,210 with the doctor's appointment), according to the Center for American Progress." Guess that Planned Parenthood money is going to waste. So who is lying Sandra? You or Planned Parenthood? http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/birth-control/birth-control-pill-4228.htm
09:56 PM on 09/16/2012
What is Ms. Fluke's authority to speak for her generation? Isn't that usually a popularly selected status, by like, writing a well-loved book or other form of art? In any case, while we've had many generations now that could be labeled with an entitlement mindset, in the last year or so members of Ms. Fluke's generation have alarmed me with two unhealthy conversational practices that are unique in my experience to their age. The first is an articulate professional manner in their speech that is pleasant at first but over time has become creepy in its uniformity of content and perspective. I rarely run into "characters" in this generation, and that saddens me. The other practice is a frequent, if not common reliance on deceit to remove themselves from formerly innocuous situations, accompanied by a complete disregard as to whether the lie is unmasked or the consequences to the deceived at a later time.
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AnalyzeThisToo
At the fork in the road...veer left!
11:55 PM on 09/16/2012
Miss Fluke is not a Republican.

You are describing the actions of all Republican politicians.

Science proved correct again!
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pokerstarz
Do not allow the eye to fool the mind
02:41 AM on 09/17/2012
fortunately for you, you are allowed to blame anything and everything on the republicans and you don't have to provide any source or proof. people like you need someone to speak up for them because you are incapable of providing your own thoughts.
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09:56 PM on 09/16/2012
gosh its cheaper ship brake rotors to Ohio from China than pay everything it costs to make them here. what did you taxpayer leaches expect?
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Loren Johnson
I have a vewy gweat fwiend in Wome
09:48 PM on 09/16/2012
It's a shame that the men making comments here have zero comprehension about what has transpired. All the see or hear us that someone wants something paid for by someone else. Their brains are locked - fixated - on paying for nothing for "somebody else". No understanding. No comprehension. No empathy. It's all about either religion or money to them and NOTHING else. Shameful.
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AnalyzeThisToo
At the fork in the road...veer left!
11:57 PM on 09/16/2012
Religion: a group of closeminded, hateful, thoughtless people who do everything in their power to offend God and Jesus.
10:39 AM on 09/17/2012
We don't owe you birth control.
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yintwin
09:39 PM on 09/16/2012
Very impressive article, and something I am so happy to hear. In fact, it is the younger generation that needs to step up because they inherit the next phase. Why are we continuing to attempt to muddle forward on a broken system whose only role is to keep the 'old minded' within their comfort zone? I fully agree that the next phase we need is a society based on reciprocal concern. The crises are egging us to do this, but we keep trying to find ways to stop us connecting and caring. Check out the following www.mutualresponsibility.org. Also, take a look at this 9min clip - aptly called 'Life Inc'..http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOBWhVe68os&feature=youtu.be
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gsmp
What the ????
09:12 PM on 09/16/2012
Thanks for a very well stated article. Unfortunately, seems many posters have no more interest than is.sa's 'committee' did in truth. Looking forward to seeing more of you on the national stage. Nice speech at the DNC.