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A Major Career Woman? Rethinking Take Our Daughters and Sons to Work Day

Posted: 04/30/2012 4:17 pm

In the 1980s, Arlie Hochschild wrote that "working woman" evokes in our collective consciousness a picture of a woman with a briefcase in one hand, and a baby in another. In my research on women living in New York City 25 years later, I found that many women still share this image. Almost half of those who grew up in working-class families felt discouraged about their own work prospects, because this woman -- likely a lawyer or doctor with good grades--was not like them, nor was she someone they could hope to become. One subject, Angela, a white working-class woman, decided she should prepare to work only occasionally, because she wasn't cut out to be "a major career woman."

This past week many companies celebrated Take Our Daughters and Sons to Work day. Started in 1993, the original goal of the day was to introduce girls to paid work, particularly in fields dominated by men. Since then, Catherine Bolzendahl and Daniel Meyers have found growing public support for women's paid workforce participation and research by Phyllis Moen and colleagues suggests that, regardless of their own workforce participation, mothers now hold different expectations about paid work for their daughters than they did for themselves.

My research finds that, on the verge of adulthood, middle-class women are much more likely to anticipate a lifetime of full-time workforce participation than are working-class women. One participant, Jodi, explained these expectations "weren't vocalized, but I was expected to go to school and do well in school. And it was just a given that I would be going to college and then to work. There was nothing more to it than that." My research suggests that middle-class families may be better positioned to help their daughters take advantage of the cultural shifts that made women's workforce participation more acceptable. When middle-class parents take their daughters to work in law firms or accounting offices or universities, their daughters can reasonably expect that they will be able to find comparable work one day.

Women who grow up in working-class households, on the other hand, are much more likely to wonder whether or not they will work for pay. Because full-time women's work is associated with the middle-class, many working-class women grow up thinking it is out of reach. Working-class women saw their own families' dismissal of women's paid work, their mother's unsatisfactory work experiences, bad school experiences, and early romances as signs that they should forgo full-time work. A guidance counselor told a working-class participant, "What do you want to be a doctor for? Ha! You're going to grow up, get married, and have kids. What do you want to be a doctor for? That's just going to hold you back."

Working-class women are now much less likely to participate in the paid workforce than are middle-class women. In fact, as women's education levels increase, so, too, does their workforce participation, as a 2008 report from the U.S. Bureau of Labor statistics report shows; 85 percent of women with postgraduate degrees work, compared to 80 percent of college graduates, 68 percent of high school graduates, and only 48 percent of women with less than a high school degree.

If we want Take Our Daughters and Sons to Work Day to benefit all of our children, additional focus must be placed on girls growing up in working-class families. These girls are the ones who might most benefit from participation in the day's events. A recent report from the Institute for Women's Policy Research suggests that education in the Science, Technology, Engineering and Math fields could provide greater economic security for low-income women. Introducing them to these fields would be an important step in the right direction. Of course, women face many obstacles to their continued paid work and expectations about workforce participation are only one of many factors that contribute to continued participation in the labor market. Working-class women would also benefit from stronger equal pay laws, like the Paycheck Fairness Act, which the New York Times editorial board has supported. Women's perceptions of the opportunities available to them strongly influence their expectations about future labor force participation. Changing their opportunities through support of this bill and through their introduction to potentially lucrative fields could benefit millions of women and their families.

Sarah Damaske is an assistant professor of Labor Studies & Employment Relations and Sociology at the Pennsylvania State University and author of For the Family? How Class and Gender Shape Women's Work (Oxford University Press).

 
 
 

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02:51 PM on 05/03/2012
Hi Sarah. I am a father and self-employed independent consultant. I have been taking my daughter who has 1 final semester left before completing her law degree, with me on my professional business appointments for several years. I wanted her to get a very clear understanding of the business world and to see that women can compete at a very high level. She got the message without me having to explain and is very confident in her abilities. I am very proud of her and hope that other young women are afforded the same opportunity with their parents. Please continue to provide this very positive re-enforcement for young women. I am sharing your message with her today. Thank you very much.

Sincerely,

Chris Smith
11:12 AM on 05/01/2012
What about working-class parents who want their children to envision themselves working in an office or a better place than themselves, not on their feet cleaning or serving on a restaurant floor? Do we take those children to work and tell them to do better than what they see? Do we send them to work with friends whose jobs we want our children to have?
09:39 AM on 05/01/2012
Re: "Working-class women would also benefit from stronger equal pay laws, like the Paycheck Fairness Act"

Here's why they would not benefit:

"Will the Ledbetter Fair Pay Act Help Women?" at http://malemattersusa.wordpress.com/2011/12/03/will-the-ledbetter-fair-pay-act-help-women/

Excerpt:

If millions of wives are able to accept NO wages, millions of other wives, whose husbands' incomes range from moderate to high, are able to:

-accept low wages
-refuse overtime and promotions
-choose jobs based on interest first, wages second — the reverse of what men tend to do
-take more unpaid days off
-avoid uncomfortable wage-bargaining (http://tinyurl.com/3a5nlay)
-work part-time instead of full-time (“According to a 2009 UK study for the Centre for Policy Studies, only 12 percent of the 4,690 women surveyed wanted to work full time”: http://bit.ly/ihc0tl See also an Australian report at http://tinyurl.com/862kzes)

All of which LOWER WOMEN'S AVERAGE AND MEDIAN PAY.

Women are able to make these choices because they are supported — or anticipate being supported — by a husband who must earn more than if he'd chosen never to marry. (Still, even many men who shun marriage, unlike their female counterparts, feel their self worth is tied to their net worth.) This is how MEN help create the wage gap: as a group they pass up jobs that interest them for ones that pay well.
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11:40 PM on 04/30/2012
I find this whole program a slap in the face of blue collar workers. Isn't it just so darnm cute when mommy the TV newscaster has her daughter with her. Well there are millions of blue collar workers whose jobs are quite incompatible with having some kid hanging around. So mostly their employers tell the don't bother or dream up some other activity. The hard fact of the matter is that this is a cutesy program, that looked down on many hardworking people and just another way to make them feel that, gee if they don't have a job where their kid can come to work they are some how failing. I say get rid of the whole nonsense, because it really is class warfare.
11:14 AM on 05/01/2012
Author is a little unclear on that... she claims that working class kids are discouraged by their parent's jobs.. but concludes that they should be *more* involved with "Take Our Daughters and Sons to Work Day".
04:36 PM on 04/30/2012
Where i used to work in NY in the '80s, a bunch of us--male and female-- brought our daughters AND SONS to work on that day, and it ended better for all the kids.