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As A Sikh-American I Refuse To Live In Fear And Negativity

Posted: 08/05/2012 7:23 pm

As a Sikh-American, I am absolutely heart-broken.

As soon as news broke about the massacre in Wisconsin, my parents called me to make sure I was safe. Our conversation was eerily similar to the moments immediately after 9/11.

After making sure I was safe, they asked me to be careful walking around the streets of New York City. They pointed out that: "You never know what someone might do."

While I accepted their advice, their words crushed me.

As a Sikh, I believe that people are inherently good. Our faith instills a sense of perpetual optimism, and our traditions teach us to always make the best of a tough situation.

Fear and negativity are foreign to our vocabulary. Sikhs are not a God-fearing people; we are God-loving.

The commitment to love and optimism shapes the way that Sikhs interact with their societies, and I'm concerned that becoming cynical and negative might lead us down a slippery slope.

So I am making a conscious decision. I am refusing to accept that human beings are malicious and hateful, and I am rejecting the notion that we need to live in fear.

This is not the first time Sikhs have been attacked, nor is it the first time that America has been targeted.

We will never forget the violence of Columbine, 9/11, and the Oklahoma City Bombing, and our wounds are still healing from the shooting in Aurora this past month. We will never forget the hate-crime murder of Balbir Singh Sodhi, the bullying of a young boy whose turban was set on fire, and the hate-inspired vandalism of a Sikh religious center in Michigan.

Both Sikhs and Americans have overcome every challenge they have faced, and I have no doubt that we will emerge prosperous again.

Considering the various challenges our communities have overcome, as well as my own experiences of growing up in Texas, I have no reason to believe that Sikh and American identities are mutually exclusive.

We share basic principles and values including a commitment to freedom, equality, and justice. Like countless other minority communities, Sikhs have fought through various forms of discrimination, have achieved success in different industries, and have become productive contributors to American society. The Sikh experience in the U.S. is quintessentially American, and as a society we have grown together. We each have our own experiences, yet we all share a similar story of struggle, sacrifice, and success.

The massacre in Wisconsin is an important part of this collective story.

We don't have enough information at this point to determine whether this act of domestic terrorism was inspired by hate. Although it will be important to understand what motivated the violence, this should not color the inspiration behind our own reactions. We should draw from our American and Sikh traditions by continuing to respond with love and compassion. Let us stand up together and turn the tragedy in Wisconsin into a turning point for our nation.

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As a Sikh-American, I am absolutely heart-broken. As soon as news broke about the massacre in Wisconsin, my parents called me to make sure I was safe. Our conversation was eerily similar to the mo...
As a Sikh-American, I am absolutely heart-broken. As soon as news broke about the massacre in Wisconsin, my parents called me to make sure I was safe. Our conversation was eerily similar to the mo...
 
 
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methodman
10:37 AM on 08/09/2012
Religion is about working more with locks that make some one dead then Dreadlocks that are a braid of checks and balances. Lock N Load religion sucks. We need to drop all the sanitized pretend fairytale and articulate the gear and spirograph and spectrogrpah visions and the nomenclature involved. See none of this art is inspired from religion. That is why I left it. It has nothing to offer; but separation and a myopic vision. But you can start by dealing with existing academic discussions. But academics is a dirty word to the religious.
02:51 AM on 08/09/2012
I was brought up respecting Sikhs as there was a Temple not too far from where I was born and my parents made sure of it. I am possibly over half-way throughg my life and every contact, direct and indirect, I have had with Sikhs confirms those teachings. I would choose a Sikh neighbour over many of my fellow Christians. Their actions and behaviour bring respect upon their religion and the diaspora. Compare these fine people with the Westboro evil-clowns, who shame the face of Christ and bing calumny down upon Christianity every time they open their depraved mouths..

Mr Singh, you decision explained by you in this article is exactly the courageous and wise act that I would expect from Sikhs based upon my upbringing and personal experience.

CS Lewis's Deep Courtesy of Heaven shines upon you and your fellow Sikhs, bringing glory and admiration to you.
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methodman
07:58 PM on 08/08/2012
II think you are being less thean forth coming to claim your lanugage does not have fear or negativity. Fear is not a topic to avoid discussing and the unempathetic people who vote in certain patterns and are flabbergasted when people refuse to sanitize their conversation towards the religious need to do the opposite. You need to share how your language conveys fear. It is not evil, it is not harmful no fear is a very sterile life and many people go insane without fear. Again I don't practice religion.
But it would be a good conversation for all of us to bring across our native language fear or words that could spark fear and we might be able to position a difference of insights that help catch a soul from falling into a deep abyss and stop the collective hating I do it too against the myopic religious but I have no choice except to stand my ground by dictionary and with pencil and book.
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ruths
04:14 PM on 08/08/2012
Our survival on this planet will depend on our ability to begin to see all as members of our family. Having bigger guns, or more money, or more property, or stating louder how we are correct and you are not will not help.
None of them have helped.
Now we must learn to see all as members of one family on one planet. Thank you
12:07 PM on 08/08/2012
People should be made more aware of different religious faiths around us. That will happen once members of their religious faith take on a visible role in politics, sports, popular culture. Then the general population will read about them in newspaper, watch them on TV and their misconceptions about other faiths will go away.
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Willow712
democratic socialst
11:30 PM on 08/07/2012
I live in a small town (5000 people) in Iowa. I was in the grocery store yesterday and at the end of an aisle, getting ready to turn and go into the next aisle. A man jumped out and scared the bejesus out of me! I am sure I got quite pale. My first thought? Columbine, Wisconsin, Aurora. He, of course, apologized profusely, he thought when he saw the cart coming around that it was his wife's cart. He was so embarassed. Once I got over that first thought of fear, it was funny. Because he was so embarassed. On the next aisle, I could hear him telling his wife. And when she walked past me, she smiled and said, "We don't let him out much anymore." LOL. going out of the store, he was continuing to apologize and explain his behavior. I told him to not worry about it. that it was actually quite funny. Driving home, I was amazed at how a split second of thought about killers with rifles comes into your head. I think it will take a long time to get past all of this.
07:12 AM on 08/09/2012
" I think it will take a long time to get past all of this. "

I completely agree.
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TankGirlz
Lyrical Combat
06:22 PM on 08/07/2012
I am with you.
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Filthy
05:52 PM on 08/07/2012
You refuse to live in fear and negativity - so you're moving to Canada?
01:18 PM on 08/07/2012
Ignorance leads to fear and fear leads to violence.
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Core-Sample
Not on the rug, man....
01:04 PM on 08/07/2012
Sat Siri Akaal brotha!
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tobeyjames7
Conservative American Indian Vet
12:49 PM on 08/07/2012
Hey Sikhs, you guys are massacred by the thousands in your own country. Change them, before you start criticizing our Country.
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Texas13
01:47 PM on 08/07/2012
WOW! Such love and compassion....
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Djay0252
America needs to Bless God
02:09 PM on 08/07/2012
This man lives in America.....let's work together to end this hate!
11:18 AM on 08/07/2012
Thank you for your heart-felt writing.

We are all in this together in our time here on earth. We all must work to improve tolerance and respect for others.
10:11 AM on 08/07/2012
Whether we have a "brotherly love" or a "dog eat dog" type mentality, wrong is wrong, no matter the race of the person it pose or attacks. Life is important, no matter who u may serve or not, I'm sure we all can agree that it shouldn't be taken for granted or abused. My prayers go out to Wisconsin, Aurora and any where in this world were people are losing their lives so tragically. I personally believe agape love is key for all.
10:07 AM on 08/07/2012
Great article - thanks so much for writing it...
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Brendan Lyle
08:44 AM on 08/07/2012
Simran - Growing up in Australia I had lot a lot of Indian friends, many of them from the Sikh community. I don't think I've met a more peace-loving, friendly, fun and understanding group of people in all my life.

My sympathies go out to you and to your community for this atrocious event. This is just one crazy moron, and should not be taken in any way as the feelings of the larger community.